{"id":79546,"date":"2020-06-10T13:40:34","date_gmt":"2020-06-10T13:40:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=79546"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:27:34","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:27:34","slug":"no-puedes-perder-a-un-buen-hombre","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-puedes-perder-a-un-buen-hombre\/","title":{"rendered":"No puedes perder a un buen hombre, s\u00f3lo puedes perder a un hombre que no era bueno para ti"},"content":{"rendered":"

Nuestro coraz\u00f3n puede enga\u00f1arnos haci\u00e9ndonos creer que deber\u00edamos ser felices s\u00f3lo porque estamos con alguien a quien queremos.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s true that love is the most important thing in life and that is the reason why it should be treated respectfully. And in this case \u2013 it wasn\u2019t.<\/span><\/p>\n

El amor es mucho m\u00e1s que el ocasional <\/b>Te quiero <\/i><\/b>dicho por costumbre y las noches en silencio que pasamos juntos mientras nos sentimos solos.<\/b><\/p>\n

It\u2019s so much more than distracting yourself with another movie you didn\u2019t really want to watch or calling your friends over to feel like something is happening.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfY las peleas constantes por cosas insignificantes? \u00bfDesde cu\u00e1ndo eres tan mezquino?<\/span><\/p>\n

You can say to yourself whatever you want but the truth is \u2013 he wasn\u2019t the one for you. Something was missing.<\/span><\/p>\n

If he was the one, you wouldn\u2019t have felt alone and misunderstood while he was right next to you. You wouldn\u2019t have felt like you needed to do something extra special to get his attention.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

After some time, you\u2019ll realize you were addicted to the feeling of closeness but not the love itself.<\/span><\/p>\n

That\u2019s what happens: people get addicted to feelings, to spending time with someone, to the way they make them feel\u2026 They get addicted to fantasies about what could have been when the reality is so very different.<\/span><\/p>\n

You were in love, but your intuition told you something else. It just wasn\u2019t \u2018it\u2019.<\/b><\/p>\n

You had no goal; you weren\u2019t working towards anything. There was no capacity for the love you want and need.<\/span><\/p>\n

A love that\u2019s not indifferent but loud and proud.<\/span><\/p>\n

You have every right to have the love you want \u2013 it\u2019s not just a fantasy. You can have the love that will make you happy.<\/span><\/p>\n

Un amor que te hace sentir agradecido todos los d\u00edas de tu vida.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pero antes de todo eso, para estar contento con uno mismo hay que aceptarse.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tienes que empezar a practicar la autoaceptaci\u00f3n radical. T\u00fa te pones el list\u00f3n.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

It\u2019s about what you want and what\u2019s good for you.<\/span><\/p>\n

The man for you is out there \u2013 but first, you need to be good to yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n

Cuando te sientas bien contigo misma, el hombre que entre en tu vida acentuar\u00e1 tu brillo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Remember: relationships are important, but you shouldn\u2019t live for another person \u2013 you should live for yourself. Men add to your life, but they don\u2019t make your life.<\/b><\/p>\n

You should never put your worth in someone else\u2019s hands. Only you can decide your worth and others can realize it or miss out on it \u2013 that\u2019s not your problem.<\/span><\/p>\n

Deep down in your heart you know you\u2019re deserving of true love and you know it exists. You know yourself and what you\u2019re capable of.<\/span><\/p>\n

You know that there\u2019s someone who will prove that love can be shared and that two people can respect each other without being dependent.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Encontrar\u00e1s a alguien que te har\u00e1 sonre\u00edr cuando menos te lo esperes, alguien que te comprender\u00e1 sin palabras y te har\u00e1 sentir siempre seguro.<\/span><\/p>\n

A man who will accept you as you are without question \u2013 because you\u2019ll have nothing to hide.<\/span><\/p>\n

Vulnerability is the way to experience love but only when you\u2019re in a healthy relationship with yourself.<\/b><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be afraid to be honest with yourself, and don\u2019t step back to make someone else comfortable.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be like me and learn this the hard way. Don\u2019t stay with someone you consider a good man just because <\/span>everything\u2019s okay<\/span><\/i>. \u00bfY qu\u00e9 si es un <\/span>buen hombre<\/span><\/i>?<\/span><\/p>\n

That still doesn\u2019t mean he\u2019s good for you.<\/span><\/p>\n

You know what you need and don\u2019t wait for it to come to you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Lo mejor que puedes hacer es estar siempre de tu lado.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"No<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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