{"id":79672,"date":"2020-06-11T07:55:28","date_gmt":"2020-06-11T07:55:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=79672"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:19:12","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:19:12","slug":"antes-de-ti-mi-mayor-miedo-era-estar-solo-despues-de-ti-es-asentarme","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/antes-de-ti-mi-mayor-miedo-era-estar-solo-despues-de-ti-es-asentarme\/","title":{"rendered":"Antes de ti, mi mayor miedo era estar solo; despu\u00e9s de ti, mi mayor miedo es conformarme"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Antes de conocerte, pensaba que estar soltera era lo peor que le pod\u00eda pasar a una chica. Cre\u00eda que estar sola significaba sentirse sola.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3lo despu\u00e9s de sentirme m\u00e1s sola contigo de lo que me he sentido nunca en mi vida me di cuenta del error que hab\u00eda cometido.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Being with the wrong person, a person who doesn\u2019t know how to love you and whom you can\u2019t love the best possible way makes you the loneliest girl in the universe.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Despertaste algo dentro de m\u00ed que ni siquiera sab\u00eda que exist\u00eda. Pens\u00e9 que podr\u00eda amar a cualquiera que decidiera hacerme suya.<\/p>\n<p>Me has hecho darme cuenta de que el amor no tiene nada que ver con elegir o ser elegido. Al menos no al principio.<\/p>\n<p>True love chooses the person for you. You can\u2019t make any estimates and there\u2019s no time to think too hard about how that person fits into your life.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3lo necesitas estar con ellos, pase lo que pase. Quiero ese tipo de amor.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-79680\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-in-black-knit-cap-and-black-jacket.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con gorro de punto negro y chaqueta negra de pie en un lugar p\u00fablico con luces a lo largo de las calles\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-in-black-knit-cap-and-black-jacket.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-in-black-knit-cap-and-black-jacket-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-in-black-knit-cap-and-black-jacket-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>More than anything, more than being single, I\u2019m afraid of settling for anything less.<\/p>\n<p>Durante un tiempo pens\u00e9 que t\u00fa y yo llegar\u00edamos a querernos como es debido. En lugar de esto, las cosas se complicaron.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca tuve la oportunidad de amarte de la mejor manera posible, ya que nunca despertaste eso en m\u00ed y nunca lo mereciste.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Seeing that you couldn\u2019t care less about losing me made me drown. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>I wasn\u2019t devastated because I loved you THAT MUCH, I was devastated because I realized how much precious time I had spent trying to make things work with you.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>I started resenting myself for allowing this to happen, for allowing myself to go through so many months with someone who absolutely didn\u2019t deserve my love, even when what I\u2019d been giving him was only half of my love.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>The only thought that came to my mind was that right in those moments, I was wasting on trying to write a \u2018takes your breath away\u2019 kind of romantic story with you. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-79676\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/shallow-focus-photo-of-woman.jpg\" alt=\"foto poco enfocada de una mujer con un tubo de pie en un campo abierto\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>The one who\u2019s supposed to be the main character in that story would pass me by.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Desde el principio de nuestra relaci\u00f3n, sent\u00ed que algo no funcionaba. Nunca me sent\u00ed completamente realizada, independientemente de c\u00f3mo funcionaran las cosas entre nosotros.<\/p>\n<p><strong>No hab\u00eda chispa, no hab\u00eda conexi\u00f3n, no hab\u00eda intimidad emocional cruda y honesta.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Miraba a otras parejas que parec\u00edan no tener preocupaciones en este mundo excepto el uno por el otro y su amor, y les envidiaba por haber encontrado eso.<\/p>\n<p>Pens\u00e9 en irme muchas veces, pero siempre me quedaba porque ten\u00eda miedo de estar sola.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Ahora s\u00e9 que estar soltero es mejor que estar en la relaci\u00f3n equivocada en cualquier momento. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>It\u2019s so much better to live on your own and hope for true love to find you than to settle and know right there and then you\u2019re never getting anything more than what you settled for.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-79677\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-walking-in-the-rice-.jpg\" alt=\"mujer caminando por un arrozal durante el d\u00eda\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m now absolutely certain that there\u2019s no happiness in trying to make things work with the one who will never be able to see your worth, to value your efforts, to love you the way you need to be loved.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t need anyone who cares more about correcting my flaws than loving my qualities. I want the one who will not only appreciate my virtues but adore my imperfections as well.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Encontrar la felicidad siendo honesto conmigo mismo es mi nueva prioridad.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Everyone is seeking that \u2018once in a lifetime\u2019 kind of love. I honestly believe anyone can find it if they give themselves a chance by not settling for a mediocre \u2018many in a lifetime\u2019 relationship.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I want the one my heart will want so desperately that it won\u2019t be able to beat without him. I won\u2019t ever again choose the one who knows nothing about me, who doesn\u2019t see me.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Quiero un hombre cuya alma sea un reflejo perfecto de la m\u00eda. Quiero un hombre que me aprecie y luche por m\u00ed, con cada fibra de su ser.<\/p>\n<p><em>Until I find that kind of man, or until he finds me, I\u2019ll stay single, because that\u2019s so much better than settling.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-79682\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Before-You-My-Biggest-Fear-Was-Being-Alone-After-You-My-Biggest-Fear-Is-Settling-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Antes de ti, mi mayor miedo era estar solo; despu\u00e9s de ti, mi mayor miedo es conformarme\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Before-You-My-Biggest-Fear-Was-Being-Alone-After-You-My-Biggest-Fear-Is-Settling-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Before-You-My-Biggest-Fear-Was-Being-Alone-After-You-My-Biggest-Fear-Is-Settling-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Before-You-My-Biggest-Fear-Was-Being-Alone-After-You-My-Biggest-Fear-Is-Settling-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Before-You-My-Biggest-Fear-Was-Being-Alone-After-You-My-Biggest-Fear-Is-Settling-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Before I met you, I thought that being single was the worst possible thing that could happen to a girl. I believed that being alone meant being lonely. Only after feeling lonelier with you than I have felt ever in my life did I realize what a mistake that was on my end. Being with&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-79672","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":false,"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. 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