{"id":79919,"date":"2020-06-10T13:42:09","date_gmt":"2020-06-10T13:42:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=79919"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:27:11","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:27:11","slug":"fue-el-error-de-mi-vida","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/fue-el-error-de-mi-vida\/","title":{"rendered":"Fue El Error De Mi Vida Pero Los Errores Son Lecciones, No P\u00e9rdidas"},"content":{"rendered":"

Todo el mundo tiene un momento en su vida que desear\u00eda que no hubiera ocurrido. En mi caso, ese fue mi tiempo con \u00e9l.<\/span><\/p>\n

De una relaci\u00f3n aparentemente normal, acab\u00e9 en una pesadilla. Rompi\u00f3 completamente mi confianza, abus\u00f3 mentalmente de m\u00ed y fingi\u00f3 que nunca hab\u00eda ocurrido.<\/span><\/p>\n

Lo peor fue que casi dej\u00e9 de creer en las buenas personas y en m\u00ed misma. Me destrozaba el hecho de que alguien pudiera decir que te quer\u00eda solo para traicionarte al d\u00eda siguiente.<\/b><\/p>\n

I wasn\u2019t ready for his mind games; I didn\u2019t even recognize when he was doing them.<\/span><\/p>\n

Emocionalmente, me hizo retroceder tanto que necesit\u00e9 empezar todo de nuevo.<\/b><\/p>\n

Ahora pienso que fue algo bueno. <\/span>\u00bfPor qu\u00e9? <\/span><\/i>Porque por fin aprend\u00ed a quererme de verdad. Para superar el dolor, tuve que ser muy sincera conmigo misma y preguntarme qu\u00e9 estaba haciendo mal.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Lo \u00fanico que hice mal fue dejar que otros decidieran lo que era bueno para m\u00ed y que ellos decidieran mi val\u00eda. Eso fue lo m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil de aceptar y cambiar.<\/b><\/p>\n

Sometimes, I get the feeling that many people don\u2019t know how hard it is to mentally pull yourself out of a dark place, let alone do it every day while doing everything else besides that.<\/span><\/p>\n

Hay que tener valor para defenderse, sobre todo cuando alguien te hace luz de gas y te hace cuestionar tu realidad y tus sentimientos.<\/span><\/p>\n

I had enough of that. I\u2019d rather make a mistake than trust someone else to know what I feel, want and need better than me.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s true that my story is filled with terrible choices and things I wish I hadn\u2019t done but it\u2019s also full of transformation, getting up and being at peace with myself after that.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Creo sinceramente que un error es una lecci\u00f3n m\u00e1s que una p\u00e9rdida.<\/span><\/p>\n

Loss is something you can\u2019t get back; the lesson is a wake-up call; the lesson is improvement.<\/b><\/p>\n

It makes you change your life and become better and stronger. Sometimes, I think that tough days maybe didn\u2019t <\/span>escriba a<\/span><\/i> m\u00e1s fuerte, sino que me mostr\u00f3 lo fuerte que soy.<\/span><\/p>\n

En cualquier caso, algo que yo ve\u00eda como un error se ha convertido, con el tiempo, en mucho m\u00e1s que eso.<\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019ve learned that making mistakes indeed makes me imperfect but imperfect doesn\u2019t mean less than.<\/span><\/p>\n

Puedo ser un trabajo en curso y seguir queri\u00e9ndome y respet\u00e1ndome.<\/b><\/p>\n

Life will often knock you down, you will see things you don\u2019t want to see, you will feel rejected and ask yourself, \u201cWhat\u2019s the point of it all?\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Still, you\u2019ll get back up on your feet and move on. That\u2019s the point\u2014to always get up, learn, improve and go forward.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t give up on love because of one person. Hold tightly to love because you deserve it.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mereces que te quieran tal como eres y que te aprecien por todo lo que te hace ser como eres. <\/b>usted<\/i><\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let the things that happen to you decide who you are. You have the power to decide what to do with yourself, your feelings and your life. Just believe in yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n

Remember that being happy isn\u2019t a destination or the point where you will have it all\u2014it\u2019s being thankful for what you have now and making the best of it.<\/b><\/p>\n

With the right kind of mindset, which is inspiring and productive, you\u2019ll allow the right kind of man into your life.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Un hombre que te respete y acepte todo de ti, que entienda tu coraz\u00f3n y disfrute de tu mente. Alguien que vea m\u00e1s all\u00e1 de las cosas superficiales de la vida y est\u00e9 listo para una relaci\u00f3n significativa.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s the same with the people you surround yourself with.<\/span><\/p>\n

Date lo mejor que puedas porque te lo mereces. Aprende de los errores, pero no te arrepientas de nada. Lamentarse es un sentimiento in\u00fatil y asfixiante que s\u00f3lo hace las cosas m\u00e1s dif\u00edciles.<\/span><\/p>\n

En lugar de eso, re\u00fane todo lo que has aprendido y hazte una promesa:<\/span><\/p>\n

I will never stop striving for a better me and a better life. I know that life is imperfect but it\u2019s still beautiful and magical.<\/b><\/p>\n

Merezco vivir una vida plena y feliz a pesar de las dificultades por las que he pasado.<\/b><\/p>\n

I am not my struggle, I\u2019m a strong person who keeps moving forward despite the obstacles.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Fue<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Everyone has that one time in their life they wish hadn\u2019t happened. In my case, that was my time with him. From a seemingly normal relationship, I ended up in a nightmare. He completely broke my trust, mentally abused me and pretended like it never happened. The worst thing was I almost stopped believing in…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":79925,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-79919","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/He-Was-The-Mistake-Of-My-Life-But-Mistakes-Are-Lessons-Not-Losses.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","parent":38,"count":146,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29617,"category_count":146,"category_description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","cat_name":"heartbreak","category_nicename":"heartbreak","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/79919","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=79919"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/79919\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/79925"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=79919"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=79919"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=79919"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}