{"id":8000,"date":"2020-07-06T09:23:38","date_gmt":"2020-07-06T09:23:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=8000"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:12:50","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:12:50","slug":"chica-que-vale-la-pena-no-esperar-a-nadie","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/chica-que-vale-la-pena-no-esperar-a-nadie\/","title":{"rendered":"La chica que vale la pena tener no espera a nadie"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cWhy don’t you tell me that ‘if the girl had been worth having she’d have waited for you’? No, sir, the girl really worth having won’t wait for anybody.\u201d  <\/i>F. Scott Fitzgerald<\/b><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Siempre pens\u00e9 que esperar a alguien era la prueba definitiva del amor. Pero, cuando tu amor consiste solo en esperar, sabes que no vas por buen camino.<\/p>\n

Parece que todo lo que haces es esperar. Esperas a que cambie de opini\u00f3n. Esperas a que se haga hombre. Esperas a que entre en raz\u00f3n. Esperas a que se d\u00e9 cuenta de lo mucho que le quieres.<\/p>\n

Esperas a que se d\u00e9 cuenta de que tambi\u00e9n te quiere, de que tiene miedo. Esperas a que llegue el momento. Esperas un milagro. Esperas y te cansas de esperar.  <\/p>\n

Lo \u00fanico que se gana con esperar pacientemente es tiempo perdido. <\/b>Pueden pasar meses o incluso a\u00f1os hasta que te das cuenta de que est\u00e1s esperando a alguien que nunca llegar\u00e1.<\/p>\n

Somebody who really doesn’t want to catch up.<\/p>\n

Hay personas que te hacen esperar y otras a las que eliges esperar.<\/b><\/p>\n

Los que te hacen esperar no suelen ser m\u00e1s que manipuladores egoc\u00e9ntricos que est\u00e1n explorando sus opciones mientras te mantienen cerca.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Te dan lo justo para que aguantes, un mensaje o una llamada de vez en cuando, pero nunca demasiado para que sientas que est\u00e1n ah\u00ed de verdad.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que te acostumbras y te conformas con las migajas de atenci\u00f3n que te sirven.<\/p>\n

Then, there are those you choose to wait for. They hurt the most because by waiting for them, you are deliberately hurting yourself. It’s completely your choice to be patient and hopeful.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n:<\/strong> Deja de Esperarle: Si \u00c9l Quisiera Estar Contigo, Estar\u00eda Contigo<\/a><\/p>\n

Si se fue, est\u00e1s esperando a que vuelva. Esperas que cambie de opini\u00f3n y se d\u00e9 cuenta de que siempre estuvo destinado a estar contigo.<\/p>\n

Or maybe he was never with you but you are hoping that someday he might notice you. You are putting those people on a pedestal for no reason, and they don\u2019t even know they are there.<\/p>\n

Puede que ni siquiera est\u00e9 seguro de lo que est\u00e1 esperando. Tienes miedo de que nunca llegue, pero no est\u00e1s dispuesto a renunciar a esa sensaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

The only truth here is that if he was truly worthy, he wouldn\u2019t keep you waiting. He wouldn\u2019t let you wonder about his feelings\u2014he would show them openly.<\/p>\n

\"hermosa<\/p>\n

You wouldn\u2019t have to ask for his attention\u2014he would give it freely.<\/p>\n

Esperar a alguien significa no dar una oportunidad a otra persona. A alguien que te dar\u00eda todo lo que quieres de inmediato.<\/p>\n

In the end, it\u2019s all about you. You have to love and respect yourself enough and not wait for anything or anybody.<\/p>\n

Tienes que ser t\u00fa la que prefiera estar sola a pasar su tiempo esperando a alguien que quiz\u00e1 nunca llegue.<\/a><\/p>\n

You are the only one who can control your life. Everything is about your choices. You chose to wait. You chose to delude yourself that something is there when it really isn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

En el fondo, sabes que no merece la pena esperar y que es muy poco probable que las cosas cambien.<\/p>\n

Tambi\u00e9n puedes elegir dejarlo todo en cualquier momento. As\u00ed que, elige no esperar. Sigue adelante.<\/p>\n

Love doesn\u2019t keep you waiting. If it\u2019s real, you will both be on the same page at exactly the same time. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

 Love rushes in like a tornado and sweeps you off your feet\u2014 it doesn\u2019t ask you to stand still and wait.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"La<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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