{"id":8018,"date":"2020-04-06T13:51:31","date_gmt":"2020-04-06T13:51:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=8018"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:10:40","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:10:40","slug":"la-chica-del-lado-feo-ve-bien-a-los-demas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/la-chica-del-lado-feo-ve-bien-a-los-demas\/","title":{"rendered":"El lado feo de ser una chica que s\u00f3lo ve lo bueno en los dem\u00e1s"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Cuando eres una buena persona, tiendes a proyectar tu \"bondad\" en los dem\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p>Tienes esta tendencia innata a observar a las personas como mucho mejores de lo que son y tiendes a olvidar las cosas malas que te han pasado.<\/p>\n<p>Tiendes a perdonar a quienes te hicieron mal y a dar nuevas oportunidades sin cesar. Sigues escribiendo nuevos libros con los mismos personajes de antes.<\/p>\n<p>Por la persona que eres, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/blog\/tech-support\/201403\/the-trouble-trust\" rel=\"noopener\">sigues confiando en la gente<\/a>Y t\u00fa sigues am\u00e1ndoles y les sigues dando todas las llaves para que abran las puertas que llevan a tu coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>You often forget to take care of yourself because you\u2019re too busy taking care of everyone else.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Nunca aprender\u00e1s, \u00bfverdad? Nunca dejar\u00e1s de llevar tu coraz\u00f3n en la manga, \u00bfverdad?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You stay even when people show you their ugly sides. When you see the ugly parts of someone you don\u2019t run away.<\/p>\n<p>You decide to love them even more for showing you that they\u2019re only human and you keep thinking your love will make their bad sides a bit less bad. You stay even when things get rough.<\/p>\n<p>You stay even when the other person doesn\u2019t deserve you because you\u2019re a believer. And you can\u2019t stop believing that each tomorrow will be better than ever today.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re a good person, but the ugly side of being a good girl is a little fact you keep forgetting and that\u2019s that you live in a cruel world.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82554\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/pretty-woman-in-deep-thoughts.jpg\" alt=\"mujer bonita en pensamientos profundos\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/pretty-woman-in-deep-thoughts.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/pretty-woman-in-deep-thoughts-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/pretty-woman-in-deep-thoughts-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You live in a world and in an age filled with toxic people, filled with narcissists and self-centered people who\u2019re just waiting for someone like you to drink from their cup.<\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/brianna-wiest\/2014\/10\/16-things-we-expect-of-others-but-rarely-consider-changing-ourselves\/\" rel=\"noopener\">Esperas que los dem\u00e1s te apoyen<\/a> cuando los necesitas s\u00f3lo porque siempre estuviste ah\u00ed para ellos. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>You expect others not to betray you, just because you\u2019d never betray them. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>You\u2019re like that little Little Red Riding Hood, who expected a wolf not to eat her just because she doesn\u2019t eat wolves.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>What happened the last time you got broken? Actually, don\u2019t tell me, I know exactly what happened.<\/p>\n<p>Por una vez en tu vida, necesitabas a alguien en quien apoyarte. Necesitabas a alguien que te cogiera de la mano y te dijera que todo iba a ir bien.<\/p>\n<p>You needed them to hug all the bad from you, just like you\u2019d do if they needed you. But, \u2018surprisingly\u2019, nobody was there.<\/p>\n<p>Te dejaron solo para que lidiaras con tus problemas. Se alejaron porque lo que tuvieran entre manos era m\u00e1s importante que estar ah\u00ed para la persona que siempre hab\u00eda estado ah\u00ed para ellos.<\/p>\n<p>And your naive little heart never saw that coming. You thought you could count on them, didn\u2019t you? Unfortunately, that didn\u2019t turn out as planned.<\/p>\n<p>Seeing those who should\u2019ve been there walking away from you broke you. It left you empty-handed and speechless.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82556\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/sad-woman-sitting-in-chair.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste sentada en una silla\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/sad-woman-sitting-in-chair.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/sad-woman-sitting-in-chair-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/sad-woman-sitting-in-chair-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Te dejaba pregunt\u00e1ndote qu\u00e9 hab\u00edas hecho mal y qu\u00e9 les pasaba a ellos tambi\u00e9n.<\/p>\n<p>You know they should\u2019ve been there for you, you know they should\u2019ve asked how you were, but nothing like that ever came from them.<\/p>\n<p>Y acabaste destrozado por otras personas, por tus propias creencias y por no ver cumplidas tus expectativas.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/5-tips-heal-broken-heart\/\">Te rompieron<\/a> by not getting in return the love and care you\u2019d been giving so selflessly to others.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00e9 exactamente c\u00f3mo se sinti\u00f3. Fue un dolor inconmensurable. Te dol\u00eda hasta los huesos, llorabas un poco y no dejabas de cuestion\u00e1rtelo todo.<\/p>\n<p>You tried to turn the other cheek, you tried to be rude, you tried to push them away, out of your life, you tried to be mad, but it didn\u2019t last.<\/p>\n<p>Te enfadaste durante un d\u00eda. Les odiaste durante un segundo y luego intentaste explicar su comportamiento.<\/p>\n<p>Les hiciste v\u00edctimas de unas circunstancias desconocidas cuando t\u00fa eras la \u00fanica v\u00edctima all\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, decidiste que ellos necesitaban tu amor y tu bondad m\u00e1s que t\u00fa el suyo. Y entonces les perdonaste.<\/p>\n<p>Lo peor es que olvidar\u00e1s cualquier cosa mala que te hayan hecho. Lo olvidar\u00e1s enseguida.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82558\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/pretty-woman-sitting-by-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"bonita mujer sentada junto a la ventana\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/pretty-woman-sitting-by-the-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/pretty-woman-sitting-by-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/pretty-woman-sitting-by-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>And you\u2019ll allow those who hurt you, those who broke you, to get back in your life again.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You\u2019re just not the kind of person who uses others. You\u2019re the one who keeps giving herself, keeps firing love like fireworks, even though she\u2019s broken on the inside. You just don\u2019t have a mean bone in your body.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Cada vez que esa d\u00e9bil voz en el fondo de tu mente intenta recordarte cu\u00e1nto te han herido los dem\u00e1s, te la sacudes de encima y sonr\u00edes como si nunca hubiera pasado nada.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3lo tu sonrisa es menos sonrisa de lo que era antes. Solo en tu sonrisa y en tus ojos puedes ocultar lo que te hicieron.<\/p>\n<p>Pero sacudes la cabeza ante la m\u00e1s m\u00ednima aparici\u00f3n de malos recuerdos y sonr\u00edes.<\/p>\n<p>You put your heart on your sleeve again and you go out loving people regardless of if they\u2019re gonna love you back or not.<\/p>\n<p>Das segundas, terceras, quintas oportunidades y bajas la guardia, esperando que esta vez sea diferente.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You keep repeating the same mistakes day after day. But you couldn&#8217;t do it any other way because that&#8217;s just who you are. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>You&#8217;ll keep giving the best of you and they&#8217;ll keep using it and your smile will be more and more broken each time, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theodysseyonline.com\/never-stop-smiling\" rel=\"noopener\">but you&#8217;ll never stop smiling.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You will never learn the science behind being mean because you&#8217;re just not that kind of person.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82552\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/The-Ugly-Side-Of-Being-A-Girl-Who-Sees-Only-Good-In-Others-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"El lado feo de ser una chica que s\u00f3lo ve lo bueno en los dem\u00e1s\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/The-Ugly-Side-Of-Being-A-Girl-Who-Sees-Only-Good-In-Others-pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/The-Ugly-Side-Of-Being-A-Girl-Who-Sees-Only-Good-In-Others-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/The-Ugly-Side-Of-Being-A-Girl-Who-Sees-Only-Good-In-Others-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When you\u2019re a good person you tend to project your \u2018goodness\u2019 on others. You have this inborn tendency to observe people as way better than they are and you tend to forget bad things that happened to you. You tend to forgive those who did you wrong and you tend to give new chances endlessly&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":82560,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8018","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/The-Ugly-Side-Of-Being-A-Girl-Who-Sees-Only-Good-In-Others.jpg",800,529,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. 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