{"id":8025,"date":"2020-04-28T14:07:18","date_gmt":"2020-04-28T14:07:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=8025"},"modified":"2022-02-24T10:48:36","modified_gmt":"2022-02-24T10:48:36","slug":"es-un-narcisista-serio-disfrazado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/es-un-narcisista-serio-disfrazado\/","title":{"rendered":"Si tu chico hace estas 10 cosas es un narcisista disfrazado"},"content":{"rendered":"

Todo empieza como un cuento de hadas. Te conoces, te enamoras. Te sientes la chica m\u00e1s afortunada del mundo. \u00c9l te da toda la atenci\u00f3n que puede.<\/p>\n

Te llena de regalos, te lleva a cenar, te trae flores, he\u2019s the real Prince Charming<\/a>.<\/p>\n

\u00bfQui\u00e9n rechazar\u00eda una atenci\u00f3n as\u00ed? Nadie y t\u00fa tampoco.<\/p>\n

Quer\u00edas creer en el amor verdadero y \u00e9l se present\u00f3 como el que hab\u00edas estado esperando toda tu vida.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Todo esto sucedi\u00f3 muy r\u00e1pido. Quer\u00eda pasar a la siguiente fase de vuestra relaci\u00f3n y te oblig\u00f3 a venir.<\/p>\n

Te ceg\u00f3 con todo el amor y la atenci\u00f3n y pensaste que eso era todo, el verdadero negocio. Pensaste que por fin hab\u00edas encontrado a alguien con quien pasar el resto de tu vida.<\/p>\n

Ver\u00e1s, as\u00ed es como funciona su juego. As\u00ed es como te atraen a su trampa.<\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

In reality, when you take away all the gifts and trips you got, you\u2019re left with nothing but a narcissistic leech who sucked you dry.<\/p>\n

Cuando empezaron a aparecer las primeras se\u00f1ales de alarma, decidiste ignorarlas.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

You couldn\u2019t admit to yourself that you had fallen for such absurd lies and empty gestures. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Us\u00f3 todo lo que ten\u00eda para cegarte.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

As\u00ed que confiaste en sus est\u00fapidas excusas. Decidiste creerle porque, una vez m\u00e1s, era muy convincente. Sus excusas ten\u00edan sentido en ese momento.<\/p>\n

Todo volvi\u00f3 a ser como antes. Durante alg\u00fan tiempo, te trat\u00f3 como a una reina, s\u00f3lo para poder confirmar que segu\u00edas confiando en \u00e9l, y as\u00ed poder seguir jugando a su jueguecito enfermizo.<\/p>\n

Esto puede durar a\u00f1os. Depende de lo fuerte y decidida que seas. Depende de si le tienes miedo o no.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

It depends on if you\u2019ve lost the will to fight along with your self-esteem and respect.<\/p>\n

Vivir en estas condiciones es algo que nadie deber\u00eda experimentar jam\u00e1s. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Living under the merciless fist of a narcissist can consume you and destroy you completely, but breaking free from one can give you a second chance to love someone else and receive a love you\u2019ve always deserved.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Sea muy prudente if you think you\u2019re dating a narcissist<\/a> y presta atenci\u00f3n a estas se\u00f1ales de alarma:<\/p>\n

1. Nunca se disculpan<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

They never apologize because they are sure they didn\u2019t do anything wrong. They lack awareness of other people\u2019s feelings.<\/p>\n

For example, if they show up late, leaving you to wait for them without even saying they are going to be late, they won\u2019t apologize because they consider they are the most important thing in the world and if you have to wait for them, you do.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not their problem.<\/p>\n

Esto puede presentarse de muchas formas diferentes en tu relaci\u00f3n, desde cosas triviales como llegar tarde hasta cosas mucho m\u00e1s serias.<\/p>\n

Por tanto, consid\u00e9relo una seria se\u00f1al de alarma y reaccione a tiempo.<\/p>\n

2. Est\u00e1n obsesionados con la perfecci\u00f3n<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

They like to be the reflection of the world they see – a perfect world. Since you are in a relationship with them, they look at you as a reflection of themselves.<\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t be surprised if un narcisista intenta cambiarte<\/a> de alguna manera, como tu comportamiento o tu aspecto.<\/p>\n

Incluso intentar\u00e1n controlar tu forma de pensar y de ver el mundo.<\/p>\n

They will try to impose on you their own \u2018right\u2019 perception. They will try to make you strive for something they imposed as perfect.<\/p>\n

Your voice will be gradually lost, along with your identity. You\u2019re going to become something he wants you to be and not something you dream of being.<\/p>\n

3. Son muy carism\u00e1ticos<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

As\u00ed es como te atrapan. Pueden ser muy magn\u00e9ticos. Tienen una fuerte energ\u00eda que te consume. Su energ\u00eda y su vivacidad te ciegan.<\/p>\n

Acabas viendo s\u00f3lo lo que ellos quieren que veas. Todo esto ocurre al principio.<\/p>\n

Qu\u00e9 es lo que realmente quieren est\u00e1 acaparando toda la atenci\u00f3n <\/a>y ponerse en el centro de atenci\u00f3n, que viene despu\u00e9s.<\/p>\n

4. Hacen que todo gire en torno a ellos<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

No importa en qu\u00e9 direcci\u00f3n vaya la conversaci\u00f3n, siempre encontrar\u00e1n la manera de dirigirla hacia la suya.<\/p>\n

Saben exactamente c\u00f3mo colocarse en el centro de la atenci\u00f3n que tanto les gusta.<\/p>\n

De este modo, buscan la validaci\u00f3n de los dem\u00e1s y exigen halagos en secreto.<\/p>\n

Incluso te pondr\u00e1n en situaci\u00f3n de hacerles un cumplido sin que te des cuenta.<\/p>\n

5. Est\u00e1s hecho a su medida<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

This is the only goal of your relationship. This is the only thing they want from you – to humor their wishes and needs.<\/p>\n

They will never do the same for you and, for example, put your needs before their own. They don\u2019t even notice when something is wrong because they simply don\u2019t care.<\/p>\n

The only time that you think they might give a rat\u2019s ass about you is when they fake interest because they probably need something from you.<\/p>\n

6. You can\u2019t depend on them<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

If something bad happens to you or you get yourself into a situation and you need someone to get you out, they won\u2019t be there to offer you help or to answer your cry for help.<\/p>\n

They probably have something better to occupy themselves with – themselves.<\/p>\n

If you know in the bottom of your heart that the person you are with won\u2019t come to help you when you need them to, or you hesitate to ask because you already know the answer will be no, think again about your relationship and trust if there\u2019s even one at all.<\/p>\n

7. Son maestros manipuladores<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Si<\/p>\n

Te manipular\u00e1n<\/a> into thinking you\u2019re the one to blame for everything bad that happens.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s impossible that they did something wrong because they are perfect and you are the one who needs improvement.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, esto tiene que ver con su miedo al abandono. Si te hacen creer que tienes la culpa de todo, eso les har\u00e1 impecables.<\/p>\n

And if it makes them flawless, you won\u2019t leave them.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s their logic. And even if los dejas<\/a>Te destrozar\u00e1n y te presentar\u00e1n de forma negativa para parecer inocentes.<\/p>\n

8. Carecen de empat\u00eda<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Any thoughts or feelings that are not directly connected to them don\u2019t interest them.<\/p>\n

So, if you\u2019re hurting, crying in your bedroom for whatever reason – from the smallest to the biggest reason – they won\u2019t feel it.<\/p>\n

They may fake interest and approach you but they will get bored soon and walk away because it\u2019s not affecting or connected to them in any way.<\/p>\n

9. They can\u2019t stand criticism<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"bussines<\/p>\n

It\u2019s because they think they are perfect. They can\u2019t stand criticism even if it\u2019s positive criticism, something you\u2019ve said to help them be better.<\/p>\n

They will attack you with all they\u2019ve got because they will feel attacked.<\/p>\n

Either they will criticize you to pay you back and it\u2019s going to be a mean criticism, or they will lose it and go in a whole different direction, opening a set of whole different problems the two of you might have swept under the rug.<\/p>\n

Lo har\u00e1n s\u00f3lo para vengarse de ti.<\/p>\n

10. Env\u00edan constantemente se\u00f1ales contradictorias<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Hacen planes contigo y hablan de vuestro futuro juntos, pero nunca pasa nada.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s all empty words, which they forget as soon as they let them out.<\/p>\n

Un d\u00eda te har\u00e1n sentir especial, y al siguiente, desaparecer\u00e1n, poni\u00e9ndote el \u00faltimo en su lista de prioridades.<\/p>\n

This puts you on an emotional rollercoaster. Maybe you can take it now, but you sure won\u2019t be able to for much longer.<\/p>\n

\"Si<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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