{"id":80364,"date":"2020-06-11T08:21:22","date_gmt":"2020-06-11T08:21:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=80364"},"modified":"2022-07-31T22:49:09","modified_gmt":"2022-07-31T22:49:09","slug":"juegos-mentales-de-las-mujeres-con-los-hombres","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/juegos-mentales-de-las-mujeres-con-los-hombres\/","title":{"rendered":"Los 24 juegos mentales m\u00e1s comunes de las mujeres con los hombres"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Aunque suelen negarse a admitirlo, lo cierto es que las mujeres juegan. De hecho, en la mayor\u00eda de los casos, lo hacen con m\u00e1s frecuencia que los hombres.<\/p>\n<p>This doesn&#8217;t mean that all women are manipulative. In fact, most mind games women play on men are actually directed towards making you chase them even harder or making you commit.<\/p>\n<p>However, despite their intentions, if you don&#8217;t know much about these <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/fake-love\/toxic-relationship\/3-juegos-mentales-que-practican-todas-las-personas-toxicas\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">juegos mentales<\/a>, you can easily be tricked into doing something you don&#8217;t want.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s why we&#8217;ve decided to let you know about the most common mind games women play on men.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><em><strong>&#8211; <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/que-significa-el-contacto-visual-prolongado-de-un-hombre-a-una-mujer\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Jugar duro para conseguirlo<\/a><\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m sure you&#8217;ve heard about hard to get games. This is a set of tactics many women use when they want you to try a little bit harder to make them yours.<\/p>\n<h2>1. \u201cI won\u2019t look at you\u201d<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80404\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-staring-at-a-woman.jpg\" alt=\"hombre mirando a una mujer a distancia con traje de oficina\" width=\"800\" height=\"538\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-staring-at-a-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-staring-at-a-woman-300x202.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-staring-at-a-woman-768x516.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-staring-at-a-woman-760x510.jpg 760w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The hard to get mind games women play on men usually start even before you actually get in touch with a certain girl. It all begins with the \u201cI won\u2019t look at you\u201d stage of your flirting.<\/p>\n<p>When you meet a woman you still don\u2019t know, the first contact you have is usually through the eyes.<\/p>\n<p>Intenta hacer <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/que-significa-el-contacto-visual-prolongado-de-un-hombre-a-una-mujer\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">contacto visual prolongado<\/a> y haz lo que puedas para averiguar si le gustas o no bas\u00e1ndote en su aspecto.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, esto es mucho m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil de lo que parece. De hecho, la mayor\u00eda de las chicas utilizar\u00e1n este contacto visual para jugar contigo.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe she\u2019ll look at you at first but as soon as she sees you staring at her, she\u2019ll probably look away.<\/p>\n<p>Naturally, at this point you don\u2019t know what to think: does she like you or did you just misinterpret her initial look?<\/p>\n<p>Well, in this scenario, there is a possibility of the girl being shy. Maybe she is too embarrassed to look at you directly or is afraid that she\u2019ll blush once you figure out that she is indeed flirting with you.<\/p>\n<p>Por otro lado, existe una posibilidad a\u00fan mayor de que esta chica te est\u00e9 tomando el pelo.<\/p>\n<p>She simply doesn\u2019t want to be perceived as too available and she sees herself as a female character who is always being chased by men.<\/p>\n<h2>2. \u201cI won\u2019t respond to your texts\u201d<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80405\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-riding-a-bike.jpg\" alt=\"mujer montando en bicicleta mientras sostiene un smartphone en medio de la carretera con muchos \u00e1rboles\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-riding-a-bike.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-riding-a-bike-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-riding-a-bike-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m sure there isn\u2019t a guy out there who hasn\u2019t struggled with a thing called delayed responses while hitting on a girl \u2013 or even when they have already started dating.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, most women act like they have this timer installed in their brains. According to them, there is a specific time frame in which they\u2019re allowed to respond to a guy\u2019s text \u2013 even if they like him.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not unusual for a girl to turn off her mobile phone and only get back to you hours later.<\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019re texting a woman who behaves like this, it\u2019s normal to wonder if she is interested or not.<\/p>\n<p>Is she just being polite when she answers your texts every now and then or she is interested but doesn\u2019t want you to see how crazy she is for you?<\/p>\n<p>Well, that is exactly what this woman wants you to think. She doesn\u2019t want you to be certain of her intentions and she wants you to spend some time trying to figure her out.<\/p>\n<h2>3. \u201cI won\u2019t accept your date invitations\u201d<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80406\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-looking-at-a-man-1.jpg\" alt=\"mujer mirando a un hombre cara a cara al aire libre\" width=\"800\" height=\"511\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-looking-at-a-man-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-looking-at-a-man-1-300x192.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-looking-at-a-man-1-768x491.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This might be a new one for you: most girls won\u2019t accept your date invitation the first time you ask them out. As a man, this probably makes no sense but it is actually very common female behavior.<\/p>\n<p>After all, if you like someone, you are more than happy to go out with them. However, many girls\u2019 brains don\u2019t function like that.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, for them it\u2019s important to act like they\u2019re hard to get. So, many girls will turn you down the first time you ask them out on a date just to see if you really want to see them.<\/p>\n<p>Son <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/9-senales-de-que-te-esta-poniendo-a-prueba-para-decidir-si-eres-material-para-novio\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">pruebas<\/a> you to see whether you\u2019ll give up on the first obstacle or you\u2019ll be more persistent or ask them out again.<\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, this is where you\u2019ll have to be extra wise and see the subtle differences between a girl who is turning you down because she really doesn\u2019t want to go out on a date with you, and a girl who is sending you a hint to ask her again.<\/p>\n<p>Dif\u00edcil, lo s\u00e9.<\/p>\n<p>Pay attention to her answer. Is she saying \u201cno\u201d without much explanation and without leaving the possibility of seeing you some other time?<\/p>\n<p>En ese caso, siento dec\u00edrtelo, pero probablemente no est\u00e9 interesada y ser\u00eda mejor que no fuerces m\u00e1s las cosas.<\/p>\n<p>En cambio, si te propone dejarlo para otro d\u00eda o te dice que le gustar\u00eda salir contigo cuando te conozca mejor, seguro que tienes una oportunidad con ella.<\/p>\n<h2>4. \u201cI\u2019m not so interested\u201d<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80407\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-pushing-a-man.jpg\" alt=\"mujer empujando a un hombre al aire libre con traje de invierno\" width=\"800\" height=\"538\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-pushing-a-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-pushing-a-man-300x202.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-pushing-a-man-768x516.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-pushing-a-man-760x510.jpg 760w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s be straight about one thing: a girl can be head over heels for you but she\u2019ll rarely show it to you directly.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, most women think that it\u2019s a guy\u2019s job to chase them and this is exactly what they\u2019re trying to accomplish by pretending to be not so interested.<\/p>\n<p>After all, they&#8217;ve seen it in movies and read about it in books. All female characters are chased by these strong men while they have second thoughts about their relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, don\u2019t expect some big love declarations from a woman in the initial stage of dating.<\/p>\n<p>Many girls think that saying simple things such as \u201cI like you\u201d or \u201cI\u2019m interested in you\u201d are out of hand and will make them look desperate.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, they\u2019ll usually try and find a balance between showing you that they\u2019re interested but not too interested.<\/p>\n<h2>5. El juego de la espera<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80408\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-on-ipad.jpg\" alt=\"hombre en ipad sentado dentro de la habitaci\u00f3n cerca de las ventanas\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-on-ipad.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-on-ipad-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-on-ipad-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When a girl is playing hard to get, she\u2019ll make you wait. First of all, she\u2019ll make you wait on her text responses and on her calling you back.<\/p>\n<p>After that, once you finally arrange a date, she\u2019ll probably be late. This waiting game is another way of her testing you: will you walk away or will you wait for her to show up?<\/p>\n<p>Adem\u00e1s, la mayor\u00eda de las chicas te har\u00e1n esperar para cualquier tipo de afecto o contacto f\u00edsico.<\/p>\n<p>A woman who plays games won\u2019t kiss you right away and any bedroom activity will be postponed, even though she probably wants the same things as you.<\/p>\n<p>Por supuesto, cuando se trata de este tipo de espera, lo \u00faltimo que debes hacer es sobrepasar sus l\u00edmites.<\/p>\n<p>Show her that you find her attractive and that you\u2019re dying to kiss or hug her but respect her personal boundaries unless you want to be perceived as a creep.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><strong><em>&#8211; Passive aggressive games<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Women are generally not abusers. They&#8217;re rarely aggressive or violent.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, su poder reside en su capacidad para ser <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/signos-relacion-pasiva-agresiva\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">pasivo agresivo<\/a>. Es una pr\u00e1ctica que les ayuda a evitar la confrontaci\u00f3n directa.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s the habit of indirectly expressing their thoughts, feelings, and desires.<\/p>\n<h2>6. \u201cI\u2019m not angry\u201d<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80410\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-kissing-the-woman-in-bed.jpg\" alt=\"hombre besando a la mujer en la cama mientras la mujer est\u00e1 ocupada en su smartphone\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-kissing-the-woman-in-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-kissing-the-woman-in-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-kissing-the-woman-in-bed-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Unlike men, in most cases, a girl won\u2019t tell you that she\u2019s angry or upset about something you did.<\/p>\n<p>De hecho, aunque le preguntes sin rodeos si todo va bien, es poco probable que sea sincera y probablemente te mienta diciendo que todo est\u00e1 en perfecto orden, lo cual dista mucho de la verdad.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00ed, ser\u00eda mucho m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil si te dijera de qu\u00e9 se trata para que pudierais hablarlo con madurez y, finalmente, encontrar una soluci\u00f3n a vuestro problema.<\/p>\n<p>However, women want their men to be mind readers. This girl will expect you to magically know what\u2019s wrong without her having to tell you \u2013 and then make things right using that same magic.<\/p>\n<p>Basically, she wants you to be aware of your mistakes on your own without her having to explain herself. I know that this is extremely difficult to understand for guys but sadly, that\u2019s how the other sex works.<\/p>\n<h2>7. &#8220;You can do whatever you want\u201d<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80412\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-explaining-to-a-man.jpg\" alt=\"mujer explicando a un hombre al aire libre en pleno d\u00eda\" width=\"800\" height=\"511\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-explaining-to-a-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-explaining-to-a-man-300x192.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-explaining-to-a-man-768x491.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Cuando una chica te diga que hagas lo que quieras, NO HAGAS LO QUE QUIERAS bajo ning\u00fan concepto.<\/p>\n<p>Trust me \u2013 this is one of the biggest and most common traps women will try to use.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll probably find yourself in this situation when you\u2019re asking her for a rain-check for your date so you can go out with your guy friends, or when you\u2019re wondering if she\u2019ll be bothered by you having coffee with your ex girlfriend.<\/p>\n<p>Your girl will never say \u201cno\u201d to these requests. She doesn\u2019t want to appear to be a naggy, jealous wife who controls every move you make.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, she\u2019ll probably tell you to make a decision on your own and to do as you please. However, this is not an authorization on her part.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, it is nothing but a test that many guys fail. You think that she is perfectly okay with you doing what you want and you continue with your plans, assuming that she doesn\u2019t mind.<\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, at the first occasion, she\u2019ll rub this in your face. You\u2019ll see that she wasn\u2019t happy with your choice and she\u2019ll make sure you realize it one way or another.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong: I\u2019m not saying that you should blindly obey your girl\u2019s wishes.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m just trying to prepare you for the consequences of your actions and trying to make you understand the real meaning hidden behind her words.<\/p>\n<h2>8. El tratamiento silencioso<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80413\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-holding-white-cup.jpg\" alt=\"mujer sosteniendo taza blanca con el hombre a su alrededor dentro de la cocina\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-holding-white-cup.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-holding-white-cup-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-holding-white-cup-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Otro de los juegos que las mujeres practican con los hombres es el llamado <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/7-formas-de-reaccionar-ante-el-silencio-en-tu-relacion-de-pareja\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">tratamiento silencioso<\/a>. Ya sabes, \u00bfese comportamiento femenino cuando te ignora o te da respuestas de una sola palabra a tus preguntas?<\/p>\n<p>Well, this one is pretty similar to the \u201cI\u2019m not angry\u201d game. In both cases, your girl will act angry but will deny feeling like that.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, she\u2019ll probably use irony and sarcasm while talking to you. She might try insulting you indirectly or she\u2019ll just turn off her cell phone and decline your calls.<\/p>\n<p>Basically, she\u2019ll do anything besides actually telling you what\u2019s wrong. This is another case in which you\u2019re expected to use your magician skills and read her mind.<\/p>\n<p>O puedes esperar a que recupere el sentido com\u00fan y est\u00e9 dispuesta a hablarte como una adulta. T\u00fa eliges.<\/p>\n<h2>9. No darle la oportunidad de disculparse<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80414\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-in-white-and-blue-polo.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con polo blanco y azul junto a un hombre con camisa blanca\" width=\"800\" height=\"520\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-in-white-and-blue-polo.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-in-white-and-blue-polo-300x195.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-in-white-and-blue-polo-768x499.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Cuando cometes un error, el orden natural de los acontecimientos es decir que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/100-frases-de-lo-siento-para-que-tu-amada-te-perdone\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">you\u2019re sorry<\/a> to the person you\u2019ve harmed.<\/p>\n<p>However, many women won\u2019t give you the chance to apologize to them.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, they\u2019ll probably tell you that they don\u2019t need your apologies and that you saying that you\u2019re sorry means nothing.<\/p>\n<p>Pues hacerles caso y no pedir perd\u00f3n es un gran error. De hecho, todas las chicas esperan que les pidas perd\u00f3n, a pesar de lo que digan.<\/p>\n<p>However, what most men don\u2019t know is that saying that you\u2019re sorry is not enough.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, you have to actually show it, and your actions have to reflect your words if you don\u2019t want them to end up sounding empty.<\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, this doesn\u2019t mean that you should form a habit of apologizing all the time, especially for the things you didn\u2019t do.<\/p>\n<h2>10. Pretending she\u2019s not jealous<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80419\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-staring-at-two-couple-1.jpg\" alt=\"mujer mirando a dos pareja mirando celosa con vestido negro\" width=\"800\" height=\"521\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-staring-at-two-couple-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-staring-at-two-couple-1-300x195.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-staring-at-two-couple-1-768x500.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When you like a girl, it\u2019s normal to get jealous of other guys around her.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019ll become a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/11-senales-pareja-control-freak\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">mani\u00e1tico del control<\/a> who will cage her and keep her just for yourself, but it wouldn\u2019t be normal if you felt nothing when you see her around another man who might represent a threat to your relationship or your place in her life.<\/p>\n<p>Bueno, aqu\u00ed es donde las chicas funcionan casi igual que los chicos. As\u00ed que no hay duda de una cosa: si le gustas a una chica, se pondr\u00e1 celosa hasta cierto punto.<\/p>\n<p>However, most women won\u2019t admit this, even if their life depends on it as that would be proof of their feelings for you, which is something they\u2019re trying to hide at all costs.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, they\u2019ll pretend that they don\u2019t care who you see, where you go, who you\u2019re texting, and if you\u2019re flirting with someone else.<\/p>\n<h2>11. \u201cIt\u2019s not you, it\u2019s me\u201d<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80421\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-rejecting-proposal.jpg\" alt=\"mujer rechazando propuesta de un hombre mientras que en una cita para cenar\" width=\"800\" height=\"520\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-rejecting-proposal.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-rejecting-proposal-300x195.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-rejecting-proposal-768x499.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>How many times have you heard this empty phrase? I don\u2019t think there\u2019s a man out there who has never been told the infamous words \u201cIt\u2019s not you, it\u2019s me.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Well, let me tell you a big secret: in a girl\u2019s head, it\u2019s always you. Even if she doesn\u2019t want to tell you, there is a reason for her losing interest or dumping you.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, there is also a chance that she simply doesn\u2019t like you enough to actually be with you. Maybe she thinks she can do better or perhaps there is another guy she\u2019s chosen over you.<\/p>\n<h2>12. Negaci\u00f3n de afecto<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80427\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-ignoring-the-man.jpg\" alt=\"mujer ignorando al hombre con el foco en el hombre\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-ignoring-the-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-ignoring-the-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-ignoring-the-man-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Another popular form of passive aggressive behavior is something known as \u201cwithholding affection\u201d. This is a mind game women play to emotionally blackmail and manipulate you.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando una chica est\u00e1 tratando de hacer un punto o quiere que la persigas m\u00e1s, ella retendr\u00e1 el afecto.<\/p>\n<p>She wants you running after her like a little puppy, since she is convinced that, as a man, you\u2019re dependent on physical touch.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><em><strong>&#8211; Hot and cold games<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Jugando a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/soplar-caliente-y-frio-la-psicologia-detras-del-juego-de-citas\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">juegos fr\u00edos y calientes<\/a> a menudo hacen que los hombres no sepan a qu\u00e9 atenerse.<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;ve ever found yourself in a situation where you had absolutely no clue what a girl wanted from you or whether she was even interested or not, she was probably playing these games, without you even noticing.<\/p>\n<h2>13. Quererte frente a ser indiferente<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80433\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/handsome-guy-in-blue-top.jpg\" alt=\"chico guapo en top azul de pie en el camino de la puerta sosteniendo un anteojo\" width=\"800\" height=\"529\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/handsome-guy-in-blue-top.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/handsome-guy-in-blue-top-300x198.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/handsome-guy-in-blue-top-768x508.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Uno de los juegos m\u00e1s comunes de las mujeres con los hombres es aquel en el que te dejan sin pistas sobre sus verdaderos sentimientos.<\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019re trapped in this kind of game, the girl you\u2019re into will probably <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/fake-love\/toxic-relationship\/senales-de-que-es-un-bombardeo-de-amor-y-no-amor-verdadero\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">bomba de amor<\/a> you at first. In the beginning, she will act like she\u2019s too good to be true.<\/p>\n<p>She will behave like you\u2019re the man she\u2019s spent her entire life waiting for. She will treat you like her Prince Charming.<\/p>\n<p>Esta chica te enviar\u00e1 mensajes de texto todo el tiempo, aceptar\u00e1 tus invitaciones a salir, te llamar\u00e1 para quedar e incluso podr\u00eda llegar a presentarte a sus amigos y familiares.<\/p>\n<p>She will probably tell you that she loves you and if she doesn\u2019t say those exact words, she will definitely act like she does.<\/p>\n<p>However, as soon as she sees that you\u2019re hooked, she\u2019ll change. All of a sudden, she\u2019ll start acting indifferent and there will be no sign of the girl you used to know.<\/p>\n<p>Just like that, she\u2019ll become too busy to see you, she\u2019ll stop putting you first, she won\u2019t initiate communication, and she\u2019ll start treating you like her last resort.<\/p>\n<p>Naturally, when this starts to happen, you\u2019ll assume that she\u2019s lost interest with time.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll be convinced that she\u2019s fallen out of love with you and after a few initial tries to revive the flame between you two, you\u2019ll want to give up on this girl.<\/p>\n<p>However, that\u2019s when she\u2019ll go to being her old self. She\u2019ll sense that she\u2019s losing you and she\u2019ll start to love you again.<\/p>\n<p>Before you know it, you\u2019ll find yourself trapped in an endless cycle of this girl playing her hot and cold mind games.<\/p>\n<p>In that process, you\u2019ll fall madly in love with her, which is exactly what she wanted all along.<\/p>\n<p>Not only that: you\u2019ll also be under her complete control. Without even being aware of it, you\u2019ll be ready to do whatever it takes just to prevent her entering her \u201ccold phase\u201d once more.<\/p>\n<h2>14. Env\u00edo de se\u00f1ales contradictorias<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80441\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-jealous-to-a-woman.jpg\" alt=\"hombre celoso a una mujer hablando con otro hombre\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-jealous-to-a-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-jealous-to-a-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-jealous-to-a-woman-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Aunque a menudo se acusa a los chicos de enviar <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/tus-senales-contradictorias-me-hacen-cuestionarme\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">se\u00f1ales contradictorias<\/a>La verdad es que la mayor\u00eda de las chicas son campeonas de esta disciplina.<\/p>\n<p>De hecho, una de las t\u00e1cticas m\u00e1s comunes que utilizan las mujeres para que te vuelvas loco por ellas son esos mensajes ocultos que tanto te cuesta descifrar.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfTe has encontrado alguna vez en una situaci\u00f3n en la que una chica est\u00e1 claramente celosa de otras mujeres de tu vida pero ella misma se niega a darte una oportunidad?<\/p>\n<p>Where she tells you that she\u2019s been dying to see you but can\u2019t make it every time you invite her on a date?<\/p>\n<p>Have you ever been in a situation where a girl\u2019s actions don\u2019t match her words? Where she doesn\u2019t let you move on but doesn\u2019t want to be with you either?<\/p>\n<p>Well, in that case, my friend, you\u2019re in the trap of a woman\u2019s mixed signals.<\/p>\n<p>You spend most of your time dissecting everything this girl does or tells you and before you know it, she\u2019s becomes the only person you think of.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">&#8211; Making you jealous<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Ninguna mujer quiere tener una relaci\u00f3n con un hombre posesivo o controlador. Sin embargo, lo que rara vez admitir\u00e1n es que disfrutan vi\u00e9ndote un poco celosa.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, a certain amount of jealousy often serves as proof that you&#8217;re really into them. Therefore, girls will sometimes try to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/como-poner-celoso-a-un-chico-13-maneras-de-hacer-que-te-desee-desesperadamente\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">ponerte celoso<\/a> a prop\u00f3sito, s\u00f3lo para conseguir una reacci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<h2>15. Te compara con su ex<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80455\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-fighting-in-bed.jpg\" alt=\"pareja luchando en la cama con su ropa de dormir puesta\" width=\"800\" height=\"529\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-fighting-in-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-fighting-in-bed-300x198.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-fighting-in-bed-768x508.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Una chica que intenta ponerte celoso poniendo sobre la mesa sus relaciones anteriores nunca lo har\u00e1 directamente.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019ll never say \u201cMy ex was better than you\u201d or \u201cI loved my ex more than I love you\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>However, she\u2019ll constantly compare you to him in subtle ways. She\u2019ll mention the romantic gestures and the surprises he made for her, she\u2019ll casually talk about his presents and the attention he gave her.<\/p>\n<p>Hay dos opciones en este escenario.<\/p>\n<p>En el primero, una chica pondr\u00e1 a su ex en un pedestal. No parar\u00e1 de hablar de lo perfecta que era su relaci\u00f3n con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p>Si esto es algo con lo que te sientes identificado, d\u00e9jame decirte que probablemente est\u00e9 exagerando. De hecho, est\u00e1 idealizando su romance pasado para establecer un est\u00e1ndar que espera que t\u00fa alcances.<\/p>\n<p>Quiere que inconscientemente empieces a competir con su ex. Quiere que le compres cosas mejores y que la trates con m\u00e1s cari\u00f1o que \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, if she is talking trash about her ex, it\u2019s her way of sending you a message. This way, she\u2019s actually warning you of the type of behavior she won\u2019t tolerate in your relationship.<\/p>\n<p>However, this is also a form of manipulation. When you hear all of this, you\u2019ll do your best not to repeat this guy\u2019s mistakes and prove to her that not all men are the same.<\/p>\n<h2>16. Showing you that you\u2019re replaceable<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80611\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-angry-with-his-partner.jpg\" alt=\"hombre enfadado con su pareja contestando y ri\u00e9ndose de una llamada telef\u00f3nica justo a su lado\" width=\"800\" height=\"529\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-angry-with-his-partner.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-angry-with-his-partner-300x198.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-angry-with-his-partner-768x508.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Una chica que intenta ponerte celoso har\u00e1 todo lo posible para demostrarte que puedes ser reemplazado f\u00e1cilmente.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00ed, le gustas, pero puede encontrar a otro t\u00fa en un minuto.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, una mujer inteligente nunca te lo dir\u00e1 abiertamente, ya que sabe que ser\u00eda grosero e inapropiado.<\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, she\u2019ll make sure you\u2019re perfectly aware of this fact at all times so you never take her for granted.<\/p>\n<p>First and foremost, she\u2019ll casually mention all the guys who are hitting on her. Of course, she\u2019ll convince you that she remains immune to their courtship but the point is that she has other options.<\/p>\n<p>She might even tell you that one of her exes is going out of his way to make up with her. She\u2019ll point out that only now has he realized what he lost.<\/p>\n<p>Todo esto tiene un prop\u00f3sito: esta chica quiere que te conviertas en <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/6-cosas-que-los-hombres-temen-perder\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">miedo de perderla<\/a>. Adem\u00e1s, quiere advertirte que seas lo suficientemente sabio como para ver su val\u00eda antes de sentir su ausencia.<\/p>\n<h2>17. Coquetear con otros chicos<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80458\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/men-and-woman.jpg\" alt=\"hombres y mujer flirteando en un bar mientras beben cerveza\" width=\"800\" height=\"529\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/men-and-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/men-and-woman-300x198.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/men-and-woman-768x508.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Flirting with other guys in your presence is something girls will do, especially if they feel that they\u2019re not getting enough attention from you.<\/p>\n<p>Esta es otra de sus estrategias para demostrarte que hay otros peces en el mar.<\/p>\n<p>A girl will do this if you aren\u2019t exclusive or even if you are in a labelled relationship.<\/p>\n<p>When you try to confront her about this, she\u2019ll tell you that flirting is not cheating or she\u2019ll try to convince you that you\u2019re imagining things.<\/p>\n<p>Reaccionando a su <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/7-consejos-para-ligar-que-atraen-a-un-chico\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">ligar<\/a> in the right way is not easy. If you stay silent about it, she\u2019ll start doing it even more since in reality she wants a reaction.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, if you tell her that you\u2019re bothered by her behavior, you\u2019re exposing your vulnerabilities to her.<\/p>\n<p>This way, she\u2019ll probably flirt with someone every time she wants to provoke you or hurt your feelings.<\/p>\n<h2>18. Utilizar las redes sociales para darte celos<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80612\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/young-man-using-social-media.jpg\" alt=\"hombre joven utilizando los medios sociales en un tel\u00e9fono inteligente con gustos comentarios y el icono de la persona en color azul\" width=\"800\" height=\"529\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/young-man-using-social-media.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/young-man-using-social-media-300x198.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/young-man-using-social-media-768x508.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>En las citas modernas, las redes sociales son una parte importante de toda relaci\u00f3n rom\u00e1ntica. Por lo tanto, tambi\u00e9n le da a tu chica una oportunidad incre\u00edble para ponerte celoso.<\/p>\n<p>This is especially the case if we\u2019re talking about your ex-girlfriend.<\/p>\n<p>After all, she doesn\u2019t need to have any physical contact with you to make you jealous \u2013 it\u2019s more than enough to post an Instagram story with some other guy or to ask her friend to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/comentarios-chulos-para-instagram\/\">deja un comentario debajo de su foto.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>If you ever find yourself in this situation, don\u2019t think that she found someone else immediately after your breakup.<\/p>\n<p>Probablemente s\u00f3lo intenta que te acerques a ella.<\/p>\n<p>Quiere que reacciones y que tengas miedo de que siga adelante.<\/p>\n<p>Espera que te acerques a ella y quiere que volvamos a estar juntos pero se niega a dar un primer paso real hacia una reconciliaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<h2>19. Salir con otros chicos<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80463\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-and-woman-in-the-gym.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer en el gimnasio con ropa deportiva\" width=\"800\" height=\"502\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-and-woman-in-the-gym.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-and-woman-in-the-gym-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-and-woman-in-the-gym-768x482.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Technically, when you\u2019re not in a labeled, committed, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/15-characteristics-of-a-healthy-and-mature-relationship\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">relaci\u00f3n sana<\/a>, you both have the right to date other people. Well, that\u2019s exactly what this girl uses to make you jealous.<\/p>\n<p>De hecho, se asegura de que seas consciente de que sigue en la piscina de las citas.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando una chica menciona sus otras citas o lleva a otros chicos a los lugares donde espera verte, debes saber que lo hace a prop\u00f3sito.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><strong><em>&#8211; Playing the victim<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Jugar la carta de la v\u00edctima es tambi\u00e9n uno de los juegos mentales m\u00e1s comunes de las chicas. De hecho, utilizan numerosas t\u00e1cticas de las que los chicos no tienen ni idea para parecer inocentes en todas las situaciones.<\/p>\n<h2>20. L\u00e1grimas<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80464\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-crying-next-to-a-man.jpg\" alt=\"mujer llorando junto a hombre en el sof\u00e1 del sal\u00f3n\" width=\"800\" height=\"502\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-crying-next-to-a-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-crying-next-to-a-man-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-crying-next-to-a-man-768x482.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When a woman doesn\u2019t get what she wants or when things don\u2019t go her way, she\u2019ll go straight to using the proven method most guys immediately fall for: crying.<\/p>\n<p>After all, who can remain immune to an innocent girl\u2019s tears?<\/p>\n<p>Bueno, tengo que reventar tu burbuja y decirte que muchas chicas pueden llorar a petici\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>She knows that you\u2019ll forgive her or that you\u2019ll give her what she wants because no man wants to be the reason for his girlfriend\u2019s tears.<\/p>\n<p>Sadly, in some cases, her crying is nothing but a form of manipulation. It\u2019s her game and a way for her to play with your head.<\/p>\n<h2>21. You&#8217;re always guilty<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80465\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/sad-man-sitting-in-brown-couch.jpg\" alt=\"hombre triste sentado en un sof\u00e1 marr\u00f3n en una habitaci\u00f3n oscura\" width=\"800\" height=\"522\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/sad-man-sitting-in-brown-couch.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/sad-man-sitting-in-brown-couch-300x196.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/sad-man-sitting-in-brown-couch-768x501.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Otro juego mental de las mujeres es la culpabilizaci\u00f3n. De alguna manera, siempre acabas siendo culpable de todo lo que ocurre en tu relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>A girl who is into playing games will rarely take responsibility for her words or actions. Even when she admits that she\u2019s made a mistake, she\u2019ll turn the tables and accuse you of provoking her.<\/p>\n<p>Either way, you\u2019re the bad guy of the story. You did something to hurt her feelings, you are the one who caused her <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/como-afrontar-el-desamor\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">angustia<\/a>, and you\u2019re the one who caused problems between you two.<\/p>\n<p>No matter what happens, you\u2019re always the one who ends up apologizing. Not only that: you\u2019re also always the one who feels guilty.<\/p>\n<p>Si esto sigue ocurriendo en tu relaci\u00f3n, d\u00e9jame decirte que esta chica se ha metido en tu cabeza sin que te des cuenta.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s practically impossible for you to be in the wrong all the time. A healthy relationship is a two way street and it\u2019s time for her to take her share of responsibility as well.<\/p>\n<h2>22. Poner su pasado sobre la mesa<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80466\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-in-pain-sitting.jpg\" alt=\"mujer dolorida sentada junto a un hombre que la consuela\" width=\"800\" height=\"507\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-in-pain-sitting.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-in-pain-sitting-300x190.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-in-pain-sitting-768x487.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Cuando una chica te dice que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/signos-mujer-emocionalmente-no-disponible-2\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">no est\u00e1 disponible emocionalmente<\/a>, she\u2019ll probably use her past as justification.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019ll tell you that she\u2019s been hurt and suffered from heartache more times than she can count and that consequently, she\u2019s lost her trust in men.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019ll probably tell you that she is too scared to open up to you, and that she is afraid that you\u2019ll take advantage of her and abandon her when she needs you the most.<\/p>\n<p>Nobody\u2019s arguing that this girl was treated badly in the past. However, that is not an excuse for her nasty behavior in the present.<\/p>\n<p>After all, you didn\u2019t do anything wrong so why should you be the one paying for the debts left by her exes? Why should you suffer the consequences of their actions?<\/p>\n<p>I won\u2019t argue with the fact that she\u2019s been hurt. However, I\u2019m begging you not to allow this fact to become a weapon for her to use against you, nor see it as a justification for her bad behavior towards you.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><strong><em>&#8211; Using you<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Cuando te preocupas por una chica, sientes el impulso de protegerla y mantenerla a salvo. Esto a menudo incluye ayudarla.<\/p>\n<p>However, you have to be careful not to cross the line and not to find yourself in a situation where she&#8217;ll use your kind intentions and take advantage of you.<\/p>\n<h2>23. Fingir indefensi\u00f3n<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80467\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-helping-his-girlfriend.jpg\" alt=\"hombre ayudando a su novia de pie con ropa deportiva\" width=\"800\" height=\"501\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-helping-his-girlfriend.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-helping-his-girlfriend-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-helping-his-girlfriend-768x481.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Las mujeres son el sexo d\u00e9bil seg\u00fan los roles hist\u00f3ricos de g\u00e9nero.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, cuando una chica es todo igualdad, fingir indefensi\u00f3n y pedir que te gu\u00eden por la vida est\u00e1 absolutamente fuera de lugar.<\/p>\n<p>However, this is exactly what most girls do. They use you and trick you into thinking that they can\u2019t make it without you, even though that couldn\u2019t be further from the truth.<\/p>\n<p>If your girl is acting this way, she\u2019s actually playing with your ego. She wants you to feel like a big, macho man and tough guy near her.<\/p>\n<p>She is giving you an opportunity to take over the role of an alpha male, so you feel important when you\u2019re with her.<\/p>\n<h2>24. Pedir favores<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80468\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-inflating-flat-car-tire.jpg\" alt=\"hombre inflando un neum\u00e1tico pinchado durante la temporada de nieve\" width=\"800\" height=\"520\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-inflating-flat-car-tire.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-inflating-flat-car-tire-300x195.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-inflating-flat-car-tire-768x499.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Pedir favores es otro de los juegos que las mujeres hacen a los hombres.<\/p>\n<p>Una chica que te gusta te suplicar\u00e1 que la ayudes a mudarse, que le eches una mano en casa, que le cambies la rueda pinchada, que le cuides el coche y que te conviertas en su manitas personal.<\/p>\n<p>At first, you\u2019ll feel flattered by the fact that <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/6-cosas-que-hace-que-demuestran-que-puedes-confiar-plenamente-en-el\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">conf\u00eda en ti<\/a>. She clearly sees that she can rely on you and you\u2019re glad that she counts on you.<\/p>\n<p>However, if you look at things closely, you\u2019ll see that she is not returning your favors. Most of the time, she is actually taking advantage of your kindness and is using you as a doormat.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80614\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/24-Most-Common-Mind-Games-Women-Play-On-Men-Pinterest..jpg\" alt=\"Los 24 juegos mentales m\u00e1s comunes de las mujeres con los hombres\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/24-Most-Common-Mind-Games-Women-Play-On-Men-Pinterest..jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/24-Most-Common-Mind-Games-Women-Play-On-Men-Pinterest.-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/24-Most-Common-Mind-Games-Women-Play-On-Men-Pinterest.-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/24-Most-Common-Mind-Games-Women-Play-On-Men-Pinterest.-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Even though they usually refuse to admit it, the truth is that women play games. In fact, in most cases, they do it more often than men. This doesn&#8217;t mean that all women are manipulative. In fact, most mind games women play on men are actually directed towards making you chase them even harder or&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":80474,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-80364","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/24-Most-Common-Mind-Games-Women-Play-On-Men.jpg",800,524,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. 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