{"id":80435,"date":"2020-06-10T13:49:10","date_gmt":"2020-06-10T13:49:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=80435"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:26:54","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:26:54","slug":"tus-disculpas-no-significan-nada","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/tus-disculpas-no-significan-nada\/","title":{"rendered":"Tus disculpas no sirven de nada si no cambias"},"content":{"rendered":"

Si alguien es una persona que perdona, soy yo. <\/span><\/p>\n

We\u2019re all human beings. People make mistakes and nobody is perfect. I get it, I really do. <\/span><\/p>\n

Nunca te ped\u00ed la perfecci\u00f3n. Nunca te ped\u00ed que fueras impecable y siempre fui comprensivo cuando hiciste algo mal y te arrepentiste despu\u00e9s. <\/span><\/p>\n

You could even say that I am an empath. I know that you can sometimes find yourself in a situation where you do something you normally wouldn\u2019t. <\/span><\/p>\n

Some would say that I am a forgiving person, as well. I\u2019m not someone who throws people out of their lives on a first strike.<\/span><\/p>\n

In fact, I\u2019m widely known as a professional giver of <\/span>segundas oportunidades<\/span><\/a>. En todo momento me esfuerzo por conocer su punto de vista, escuchar su versi\u00f3n de los hechos y ponerme en su lugar. <\/span><\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

However, don\u2019t you dare take me as a fool. I may be many things but I\u2019m not a stupid girl. You see, my patience has its limits. <\/b><\/p>\n

S\u00ed, sigo a mi coraz\u00f3n en la mayor\u00eda de las ocasiones. Dejo que mis emociones prevalezcan en mis procesos de toma de decisiones m\u00e1s veces de las que deber\u00eda.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nevertheless, I have a brain as well. I\u2019m capable of reasoning things and of seeing the truth through my rose tinted glasses. <\/span><\/p>\n

Basically, what I\u2019m trying to tell you is that I am well aware of the fact that apologies are only valid when you never repeat your mistakes. <\/span><\/p>\n

En cualquier otra ocasi\u00f3n, no significan nada. Tienen valor cero cuando las utilizas como excusas para justificar tu comportamiento.<\/span><\/p>\n

No tiene sentido que me pidas <\/b>perdonarte<\/b><\/a> if you don\u2019t plan on changing your ways.<\/b><\/p>\n

No point in asking for a second chance if you\u2019ll go back to your old ways as soon as the opportunity arises.<\/b><\/p>\n

However, that is exactly what you\u2019ve been doing all along. In fact, it seems that this kind of behavior has become a habit of yours. <\/span><\/p>\n

Cometes un error, me tratas mal y hieres mis sentimientos. En cuanto ves que quiero echarte de mi vida, te pones de rodillas.<\/span><\/p>\n

All of a sudden, you act like you\u2019re ready to do whatever it takes just for me to take you back.<\/span><\/p>\n

You make endless promises about how you\u2019ll change, how you\u2019ll never repeat your mistake, and how this is the last time we\u2019ll be in this situation.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

So, silly me forgives you. The truth is that I don\u2019t do it because I truly believe you.<\/span><\/p>\n

De hecho, lo hago porque quiero creerte. Porque te quiero tanto que busco una excusa para perdonarte.<\/span><\/p>\n

As\u00ed que eso es exactamente lo que hago. Te acepto de nuevo y te doy otra segunda oportunidad. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sin embargo, al cabo de un tiempo, cuando est\u00e1s seguro de tu lugar en mi vida, vuelves a las andadas. <\/span><\/p>\n

Haces exactamente lo que juraste que nunca har\u00edas: repites el mismo error del que supuestamente estabas tan arrepentido y acabas pidi\u00e9ndome perd\u00f3n. <\/span><\/p>\n

Durante a\u00f1os, t\u00fa y yo hemos estado atrapados en este ciclo sin fin y no ve\u00eda salida. <\/span><\/p>\n

Desde hace a\u00f1os, <\/span>you\u2019ve been breaking my heart and each time you did, you expected one apology to magically glue it together, so you could keep on crushing it.<\/b><\/p>\n

Bueno, querida, tengo que decepcionarte y decirte que esta pr\u00e1ctica ha llegado a su fin. <\/span>You\u2019re out of second chances \u2013 and most importantly, you\u2019ve run out of my forgiveness. <\/b><\/p>\n

No, I\u2019m not doing this because I\u2019ve lost the ability <\/span>perdonar<\/span><\/a>. My heart is still kind and full of love. It just doesn\u2019t have any more room for you. <\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019ve stopped forgiving you because you don\u2019t deserve it. In fact, I\u2019ve chosen to stop doing it simply because none of your apologies were ever real. <\/span><\/p>\n

You never wanted my forgiveness because you were really sorry. You didn\u2019t ask for it because you repented your choices or because you realized you had made a mistake. <\/span><\/p>\n

En su lugar, <\/span>you kept on apologizing because you wanted a chance to keep on hurting me. Well, my darling, that is something I won\u2019t be allowing you to do anymore.<\/b><\/p>\n

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If anyone is a forgiving person, I am.  We\u2019re all human beings. People make mistakes and nobody is perfect. I get it, I really do.  So, I never asked you for perfection. I never asked you to be flawless and I was always full of understanding when you did something wrong and repented later.  You…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":80444,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-80435","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Your-Apology-Means-Nothing-If-You-Don\u2019t-Change.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/80435","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=80435"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/80435\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/80444"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=80435"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=80435"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=80435"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}