{"id":80618,"date":"2020-06-24T10:09:27","date_gmt":"2020-06-24T10:09:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=80618"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:16:04","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:16:04","slug":"se-valiente-para-elegirte-a-ti-mismo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/se-valiente-para-elegirte-a-ti-mismo\/","title":{"rendered":"S\u00e9 lo bastante valiente para elegirte a ti misma cuando \u00e9l no lo haga"},"content":{"rendered":"

Todos hemos estado en una situaci\u00f3n en la que la persona a la que queremos duda en elegirnos, y t\u00fa no eres una excepci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

En una situaci\u00f3n en la que el hombre que ponemos en un pedestal can\u2019t make up his mind<\/a> about us, compares us with other girls or simply acts like he doesn\u2019t know what he wants.<\/p>\n

However, let\u2019s be real; other people\u2019s pain doesn\u2019t make yours any less strong.<\/p>\n

Puedes o\u00edr hablar de un mill\u00f3n de otras experiencias, pero no ser una prioridad para el hombre que siempre pusiste en primer lugar es doloroso y deja consecuencias.<\/p>\n

Well, I\u2019m not here to talk about him.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter whether he\u2019s been unfaithful, whether he treated you like his second choice, if you were this guy\u2019s last resort or if he refused to put a label on your relationship.<\/p>\n

En cualquier caso, el resultado final es el mismo: He didn\u2019t choose you over someone else, over his desire for freedom or over his urges.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"imagen<\/p>\n

Sea lo que sea, la cuesti\u00f3n es que ser rechazado por alguien que significa mucho para ti duele much\u00edsimo.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s devastating and heartbreaking to think that you\u2019re not enough for him and that there is absolutely nothing you can do to change his mind.<\/p>\n

However, I\u2019m here to beg you no basar su propio sentido de autoestima<\/a> on someone else\u2019s opinion, even if that someone is the person you care for so deeply.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I\u2019m here to beg you not to see yourself through this douchebag\u2019s eyes<\/strong>. Aqu\u00ed para pedirle que vea su propio valor, incluso si \u00e9l no lo hizo.<\/p>\n

Por favor, \u00e1mate a ti misma a pesar de la falta de amor que recibiste de \u00e9l<\/strong>. Resp\u00e9tate a ti mismo a pesar de que \u00e9l nunca lo hizo.<\/p>\n

Most importantly, be brave enough to choose yourself when he doesn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

Elige tu propia felicidad incluso cuando \u00e9l te haga sentir miserable y elige centrarte en tu vida en lugar de perder m\u00e1s de tu precioso tiempo y energ\u00eda en intentar que \u00e9l forme parte de ella.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t lie to you\u2014having a stable romantic relationship is important. It\u2019s significant for your emotional and mental health and it can contribute to your overall happiness.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, \u00bfsabes qu\u00e9 es a\u00fan m\u00e1s importante? La relaci\u00f3n que tienes contigo mismo. De hecho, los romances van y vienen<\/strong>. You\u2019ll lose a lot of people throughout your life journey, whether you like it or not.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, the relationship you have with yourself is the only one that isn\u2019t going anywhere. It\u2019s the only one you\u2019ll have to be a part of as long as you breathe.<\/strong><\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, en lugar de gastar toda tu energ\u00eda en intentar arreglar algo que obviamente no tiene arreglo, c\u00e9ntrate en sentirte lo mejor posible.<\/p>\n

Conc\u00e9ntrate en convertirte en la mejor versi\u00f3n posible de ti misma y en convertirte en la mujer que est\u00e1s destinada a ser.<\/p>\n

Please, don\u2019t give any more of your time to someone who doesn\u2019t deserve it. Stop putting effort into a relationship which is doomed to fail.<\/p>\n

Deja de darle segundas oportunidades interminables. Deja de darle m\u00e1s oportunidades para que empiece a apreciarte y a tratarte como te mereces.<\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

En su lugar, empieza a tratarte como esperas que te traten.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Stop begging him to give you his undivided attention, while in the meantime you\u2019re settling for crumbs of it. Instead, darte la atenci\u00f3n que tanto anhelas.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Deja de pedirle que te quiera y qui\u00e9rete a ti misma.<\/strong> Deja de esperar a que \u00e9l te mime y aprovecha todas las oportunidades que tengas para complacerte a ti misma de todas las formas posibles.<\/p>\n

Most importantly\u2014always choose the possibility of being happy on your own over being miserable with this amor a medias<\/a> you\u2019ve been getting.<\/p>\n

Instead of spending more months or years trapped in the same place, waiting for a miracle which obviously won\u2019t ever come, set yourself free.<\/p>\n

Escapa de sus jaulas y haz sitio a un hombre de verdad que tenga la capacidad de darte lo que quieres y necesitas.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Mientras tanto, convi\u00e9rtete en esa persona para ti.<\/strong>. Hasta que el amor de tu vida aparezca por fin en tu puerta, \u00a1disfruta de tu solter\u00eda y s\u00e1cale el m\u00e1ximo partido!<\/p>\n

\"S\u00e9<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

We\u2019ve all been in a situation where the person we love hesitates to choose us and you\u2019re no exception. In a situation where the man we put on a pedestal can\u2019t make up his mind about us, compares us with other girls or simply acts like he doesn\u2019t know what he wants. However, let\u2019s be…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":80628,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-80618","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Be-Brave-Enough-To-Choose-Yourself-When-He-Doesn\u2019t.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","parent":29643,"count":290,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29644,"category_count":290,"category_description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","cat_name":"self-love","category_nicename":"self-love","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/80618","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=80618"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/80618\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/80628"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=80618"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=80618"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=80618"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}