{"id":8099,"date":"2020-06-07T11:35:39","date_gmt":"2020-06-07T11:35:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=8099"},"modified":"2021-09-21T12:22:34","modified_gmt":"2021-09-21T12:22:34","slug":"el-tipo-de-la-carta-no-trato-como-prioridad","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/el-tipo-de-la-carta-no-trato-como-prioridad\/","title":{"rendered":"Carta al chico que no me trat\u00f3 como a una prioridad"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>\"Querido t\u00fa\",<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It is me telling the same story over and over again. I just don\u2019t know what bad luck I have with guys, as I always bump into <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bolde.com\/hes-not-worth-your-time-8-signs-to-move-on\/\" rel=\"noopener\">someone who isn\u2019t worthy.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>And you were just one of them. You were just a number. One boy more who didn\u2019t treat me like a priority. Everyone was more important than me.<\/p>\n<p>Fucking neighbor\u2019s cat was more important than me. And I was always the second option. The one you came to when you had nobody to comfort you.<\/p>\n<p>A la que acud\u00edas cuando quer\u00edas sexo. La que siempre estaba ah\u00ed y en la que siempre pod\u00edas confiar.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Viste cu\u00e1nto te amaba y me diste por sentado.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-88677\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/unhappy-woman-writing-a-letter.jpg\" alt=\"mujer infeliz escribiendo una carta\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/unhappy-woman-writing-a-letter.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/unhappy-woman-writing-a-letter-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/unhappy-woman-writing-a-letter-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You never appreciated my love and I loved you like I had never loved before &#8211; with my whole heart and soul.<\/p>\n<p>Estaba perdidamente enamorada de ti y t\u00fa no eras m\u00e1s que un hombre que quer\u00eda conseguir lo que quer\u00eda y desvanecerse.<\/p>\n<p>You didn\u2019t want to commit. You didn\u2019t want our love to last. You never put a label on our relationship. And you don\u2019t know how much that hurt me.<\/p>\n<p>It hurt me like it would hurt any other woman. And even when I told you about that, you said that what we had was magical and that you didn\u2019t want to put a label on it. And I bought all your shit.<\/p>\n<p>Hab\u00edas encontrado una forma malvada de enga\u00f1ar a una chica que te amaba. Fuiste capaz de encontrar un camino hacia mi coraz\u00f3n y lo rompiste en pedazos.<\/p>\n<p>You didn\u2019t even ask me how I felt. You never asked me what my aspirations were. You thought about your needs only.<\/p>\n<p>Fuiste mi torturador durante tantos a\u00f1os pero fui incapaz de dejarte marchar.<\/p>\n<p>Pens\u00e9 que mi amor te har\u00eda diferente. Pens\u00e9 que cambiar\u00edas. <a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/katie-ray\/2016\/03\/i-may-be-a-fool-but-you-are-a-coward\/\" rel=\"noopener\">Ahora veo lo tonta que fui.<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>Fui una tonta porque estaba ciegamente enamorada de ti. Y lo que sent\u00edas por m\u00ed era indiferencia.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You didn\u2019t even know what you wanted in life. If you had told me, I would have listened to you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-88679\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/portrait-of-thoughtful-women-leaning-against-street.jpg\" alt=\"retrato de mujer pensativa apoyada en la calle\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/portrait-of-thoughtful-women-leaning-against-street.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/portrait-of-thoughtful-women-leaning-against-street-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/portrait-of-thoughtful-women-leaning-against-street-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Si hubieras querido dejarme, te habr\u00eda dejado marchar. Pero no, era m\u00e1s conveniente quedarte cerca y aprovecharte de m\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Lo hiciste porque sab\u00edas que pod\u00edas. Y yo acept\u00e9 ciegamente todas tus sugerencias.<\/p>\n<p>I spent so many nights wondering what I did wrong. I thought I was the reason our relationship wasn\u2019t successful. I thought that I had to change.<\/p>\n<p>But the harsh truth was that I didn\u2019t have to change because I was the best girlfriend you will ever have.<\/p>\n<p>Eras t\u00fa quien ten\u00eda que decidir lo que quer\u00edas de tu vida, sin decirme tu decisi\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Pero fuiste un cobarde al hacer eso. Te dejaste llevar porque era lo m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil. Y yo quer\u00eda luchar por ti.<\/p>\n<p><strong>But fighting for someone who didn\u2019t want to be fought for is impossible.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Desgraciadamente, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/entry\/i-learned-the-hard-way-that-you-cant-take-a-vacation-from-grief_us_58ebe044e4b0c89f91208bb1\" rel=\"noopener\">Lo aprend\u00ed de una manera dura. <\/a><\/p>\n<p>Ahora que s\u00f3lo eres un pasado doloroso para m\u00ed, he aprendido algunas lecciones importantes. He aprendido que nunca debo conformarme con menos de lo que merezco.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-88681\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/smiling-woman-wearing-white-sweater-1.jpg\" alt=\"mujer sonriente con jersey blanco\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/smiling-woman-wearing-white-sweater-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/smiling-woman-wearing-white-sweater-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/smiling-woman-wearing-white-sweater-1-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I learned to love myself in the first place. And I will never let a man play with my emotions like you did. It happened only once and it won\u2019t happen again.<\/p>\n<p>Me di cuenta de que soy digna y necesito un hombre que sea igual que yo.<\/p>\n<p>Merezco a alguien que me trate como a la ni\u00f1a de sus ojos. Merezco un hombre que encuentre mi felicidad m\u00e1s importante que la suya propia.<\/p>\n<p>Merezco un hombre cuyo amor se sienta como en casa. Merezco un hombre que haga realidad todos mis sue\u00f1os.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Too bad, that man won\u2019t be YOU!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-48124\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/If-You-Feel-Like-Youre-Going-To-Be-Single-Forever-Read-This-1.jpg\" alt=\"Carta al chico que no me trat\u00f3 como a una prioridad\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/If-You-Feel-Like-Youre-Going-To-Be-Single-Forever-Read-This-1.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/If-You-Feel-Like-Youre-Going-To-Be-Single-Forever-Read-This-1-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/If-You-Feel-Like-Youre-Going-To-Be-Single-Forever-Read-This-1-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cDear You\u201d, It is me telling the same story over and over again. I just don\u2019t know what bad luck I have with guys, as I always bump into someone who isn\u2019t worthy. And you were just one of them. You were just a number. One boy more who didn\u2019t treat me like a priority&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":88676,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8099","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/A-Letter-To-The-Guy-Who-Didn\u2019t-Treat-Me-Like-A-Priority.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. 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