{"id":81015,"date":"2020-06-11T07:45:20","date_gmt":"2020-06-11T07:45:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=81015"},"modified":"2022-01-19T15:52:47","modified_gmt":"2022-01-19T15:52:47","slug":"las-relaciones-epistolares-recuperan-el-romance-de-la-vieja-escuela","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/las-relaciones-epistolares-recuperan-el-romance-de-la-vieja-escuela\/","title":{"rendered":"Relaci\u00f3n epistolar: 6 razones para recuperar el romance de la vieja escuela"},"content":{"rendered":"

En tiempos en que viajar se consideraba un lujo o una empresa peligrosa, el intercambio de cartas era el principal medio de comunicaci\u00f3n.<\/span><\/p>\n

Amigos, colegas, familiares y amantes esperaban d\u00edas o incluso meses para recibir una respuesta a su carta.<\/span><\/p>\n

And that’s how the term <\/b>relaci\u00f3n epistolar<\/b> cobr\u00f3 vida. Es una relaci\u00f3n en la que te comunicas con alguien a trav\u00e9s de <\/b>escritura de cartas<\/b><\/a>que es un verdadero arte en s\u00ed mismo. <\/b><\/p>\n

Now, if you think you’ve never been in such a relationship, consider this: <\/span>Enviar mensajes de texto y chatear a trav\u00e9s de las redes sociales es la versi\u00f3n moderna de un <\/i><\/b>relaci\u00f3n epistolar<\/i><\/b>. So, I bet you’ve been in one, right?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Pasaste horas y horas compartiendo tus pensamientos y sentimientos m\u00e1s profundos con tu <\/span>amigo por correspondencia<\/span> and the biggest advantage is that you didn’t have to wait for days, weeks or months for them to reply; they would literally do it within seconds.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nos gusta pensar que esto es una ventaja, pero \u00bfes realmente as\u00ed? <\/b><\/p>\n

Los principales ingredientes de una cosecha <\/span>relaci\u00f3n epistolar<\/span> son <\/span>ANTICIPACI\u00d3N Y EMOCI\u00d3N.<\/b><\/p>\n

Given that you don’t know when you will receive a response, you spend a great amount of time contemplating the content of their letter. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sientes pura emoci\u00f3n desde el d\u00eda en que env\u00edas la carta hasta el d\u00eda en que recibes una respuesta. Por si necesitas m\u00e1s argumentos, aqu\u00ed tienes una lista de razones leg\u00edtimas por las que deber\u00edamos recuperar el romanticismo de la vieja escuela.<\/span><\/p>\n

6 razones para recuperar el arte perdido de escribir cartas<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

1. It’s much more sentimental and romantic<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

“Hi, what’s up?”<\/span><\/i> Raise your hand if you have ever been irritated by this generic question. I’ll stop writing for a second to raise my hand first because I surely have been frustrated not once but multiple times. <\/span><\/p>\n

Now think about what you usually respond to this with. It’s probably: <\/span>“Nothing,”<\/span><\/i> o algo por el estilo. Hablando de conversaciones profundas, significativas y modernas. <\/span><\/p>\n

Joking aside, there’s actually nothing surprising about, <\/span>“Hi, what’s up?”<\/span><\/i> statements because when you have the ability to write to each other 24\/7, of course you’re going to write the first thing that comes to mind. (And some vintage souls like me get irritated by it, while others don’t.)<\/span><\/p>\n

Ahora, imagina que tienes delante un papel en blanco. \u00bfQu\u00e9 escribir\u00edas? \u00bfEmpezar\u00edas con algo como <\/span>“Yo, what you’ve been up to?”<\/span><\/i> Por supuesto que no. <\/span><\/p>\n

Prepararse para escribir una carta en realidad requiere un poco de lluvia de ideas y pensar en todas las cosas y sentimientos que te gustar\u00eda compartir con tu ser especial.<\/span><\/p>\n

That’s why letters are so much more sentimental and romantic! <\/span><\/p>\n

Hace poco, vi esta incre\u00edble pel\u00edcula rom\u00e1ntica <\/span>Brooklyn<\/span><\/i> (donde una pareja de \u00e9poca intercambia <\/span>cartas de amor<\/span>) y qued\u00e9 realmente hipnotizada por la belleza del romanticismo vintage.<\/span><\/p>\n

Envi\u00e9 un mensaje de texto a mi <\/span>amigo por correspondencia<\/span> para decirle que deseaba estar en un <\/span>relaci\u00f3n rom\u00e1ntica<\/span>,<\/span> intercambiando un <\/span>serie de cartas<\/span> y drogarse con el <\/span>epistolario<\/span> forma de vida.<\/span><\/p>\n

Una respuesta escrita en el <\/span>forma de una carta<\/span> es diez veces m\u00e1s intensa y sentimental que una respuesta instant\u00e1nea a trav\u00e9s de una red social.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. No stressing about \u2018seen\u2019<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

How many times have you witnessed someone reading your message and then leaving you waiting for their response? The worst of all is that you know they read it, because it says \u2018seen\u2019. <\/span><\/p>\n

I swear to God, there’s nothing more annoying than this. It instantly triggers you to overthink everything and you get convinced that you’ve probably insulted them somehow and that’s why they’re not replying.<\/span><\/p>\n

Constantly worrying about this and similar modern media situations is really frustrating and that’s why <\/b>escritura de cartas<\/b> \u00a1rocas! <\/b><\/p>\n

Once you write and send a letter to your special someone, you certainly won’t worry about things like \u2018seen\u2019 unless they invent some kind of tracking device that will send you a message when the recipient starts reading it.<\/span><\/p>\n

Por esta raz\u00f3n, las amistades medi\u00e1ticas modernas son dif\u00edciles de mantener, mientras que <\/span>amistades epistolares<\/span> son una historia completamente diferente. <\/span><\/p>\n

Imag\u00ednese que un <\/span>buen amigo<\/span><\/a> reads your message but doesn’t respond, only to find out that they responded to some other mutual friend.<\/span><\/p>\n

You would instantly feel disappointed, thinking you’re not a priority. Luckily, that doesn’t happen when it comes to the <\/span>palabra escrita<\/span> en <\/span>forma epistolar<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Your friend or romantic partner could have tons of letters on their desk and you’d never know whose letter they read first. Perhaps they read yours first or perhaps not.<\/span><\/p>\n

Una vez m\u00e1s, \u00e9sta es la verdadera belleza del misterio y la anticipaci\u00f3n.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Demuestra esfuerzo<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Texting someone while holding your phone in one hand and a sandwich in the other doesn’t really count for effort, right?<\/span><\/p>\n

I mean, we’re impressed by the ability to multitask but this doesn’t show real devotion or effort when it comes to <\/span>amor\u00edos<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sin embargo, encontrar algo de tiempo para escribir una carta conmovedora es una historia completamente diferente, porque requiere algo m\u00e1s que conectarse y teclear lo primero que se le ocurra. <\/span><\/p>\n

Para escribir cartas hay que encontrar un trozo de papel (preferiblemente decorado con un motivo especial), un bol\u00edgrafo, inspiraci\u00f3n y, lo m\u00e1s importante, TIEMPO. <\/span><\/p>\n

In times of hectic lifestyles, we often forget the importance of devoting our time to our loved ones. We want to finish everything in the fastest way possible and we don’t care about anything else. <\/span><\/p>\n

Al estar centrados en conseguir m\u00e1s y m\u00e1s, nos olvidamos de parar un momento y dar las gracias por todo lo que ya tenemos.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfY hay mejor manera de hacer que alguien se sienta especial que dici\u00e9ndole que realmente has dedicado tiempo a escribir esa carta?<\/span><\/p>\n

Invertir tiempo significa invertir uno mismo, lo que demuestra el m\u00e1ximo esfuerzo. Y estar dispuesto a esforzarse es una de las cualidades m\u00e1s deseables que alguien puede tener.<\/span><\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <\/span>40 Emocional <\/span>Cartas de amor<\/span> Para \u00e9l que le derretir\u00e1 el coraz\u00f3n<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

4. Crea expectaci\u00f3n y entusiasmo<\/h2>\n

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When we know that a person will reply to us as soon as they read our message, this doesn’t leave us much space for anticipation or excitement. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sometimes they reply the same second you text them, sometimes it takes a few minutes or hours, but in the end, you know you’ll get the reply that day or the next day.<\/span><\/p>\n

Como ya dije al principio, <\/span>escritura de cartas<\/span> is totally different from casual writing. It creates anticipation because you don’t know how long it will take for them to reply to you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Una vez enviada la carta<\/a>, you can’t help but think about every word you’ve written and imagine their facial expression once they start reading it, too.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sometimes these pictures are so vivid, making you feel as if they’ve already read the letter in front of you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Apart from contemplating their reaction to your letter, you also can’t help but think about their reply to everything you’ve written.<\/span><\/p>\n

You have many different potential replies in your head and you still can’t stop creating more of them.<\/span><\/p>\n

Once you finally receive a letter back and hold it in your hands\u2014sweet Lord!<\/span><\/p>\n

Al principio, te niegas a abrirlo (sobre todo si hay gente a tu alrededor) porque leerlo en presencia de otras personas te dar\u00eda la sensaci\u00f3n de que tambi\u00e9n est\u00e1n leyendo contigo.<\/span><\/p>\n

You have to find a secluded place where you’ll feel safe to smile or cry once you start absorbing their every word. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Entonces te das cuenta de que, de todas esas cosas que esperabas que escribieran, en realidad escribieron algo totalmente distinto; \u00a1algo diez veces m\u00e1s asombroso y conmovedor de lo que podr\u00edas haber pensado!<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Escribir cartas ayuda reducir el estr\u00e9s<\/a><\/h2>\n

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We already listed one thing that makes texting stressful and that is the famous \u2018seen\u2019. <\/span><\/p>\n

Otras cosas que convierten las actividades de env\u00edo de mensajes de texto en una experiencia estresante son mirar constantemente esa diminuta pantalla de un tel\u00e9fono m\u00f3vil y llevar el m\u00f3vil a todas partes (incluido el ba\u00f1o). <\/span><\/p>\n

And the most annoying of all: texting sounds (especially when you’re busy with something that requires your full attention). <\/span><\/p>\n

Cuando se combinan, todas estas cosas aumentan sus niveles de estr\u00e9s sobre una base diaria, mientras que <\/span>escritura de cartas<\/span> ayuda a reducirla. <\/span><\/p>\n

Te preguntar\u00e1s de qu\u00e9 manera escribir una carta puede aliviar el estr\u00e9s. <\/span>Pues bien, escribir una carta significa pulsar el bot\u00f3n de pausa del mundo real, las obligaciones, los quehaceres, etc. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

When you’re sitting down looking at that piece of paper in front of you and thinking about converting your deepest thoughts into words, you’re doing something creative and inspiring.<\/span><\/p>\n

Al igual que cantar, bailar y otras actividades, escribir tambi\u00e9n es una actividad que te ayuda a mejorar tu estado de \u00e1nimo.<\/span><\/p>\n

When you’re focused on creating something, you forget about all your worries and negative things that drain you on a daily basis.<\/span><\/p>\n

At the same time, you’re also making another person feel truly special. The fact that you’re doing something special for your loved one is enough to lift your spirits. <\/span><\/p>\n

6. Las cartas son una prueba tangible de nuestro afecto<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Cada vez que env\u00edo un mensaje de texto a mi <\/span>amigo por correspondencia<\/span> y me dicen algo dulce, divertido o rom\u00e1ntico, tengo que hacer una captura de pantalla para recordarlo m\u00e1s tarde o siempre que me sienta mal. <\/span><\/p>\n

Before, I used to scroll through the entire conversation and oftentimes I would press \u2018like\u2019 by accident or something like that. <\/span><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t think I need to explain how awkward it is for me to press \u2018like\u2019 on something that was written days or weeks ago.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sabr\u00edan al instante que me he pasado medio d\u00eda buscando esa <\/span>mensaje de texto<\/span><\/a>, which made me feel as if I had no life whatsoever. And that’s why letters are so much more practical!<\/span><\/p>\n

If you’re a re-reader like me and you like to save proof of their affection for you, letters are the way to go. They are tangible proof of our affection and that’s what makes them all the more special.<\/span><\/p>\n

Puedes tener una carta en tus brazos hasta ma\u00f1ana. Puedes releerla sin necesidad de hacer capturas de pantalla previas ni de desplazarte por la conversaci\u00f3n de chat durante una eternidad. <\/span><\/p>\n

It’s like holding the essence of their affection for you in your hands. By absorbing every word of it, you become attached to their unique handwriting and you could recognize it in a sea of other letters. <\/span><\/p>\n

There\u2019s nothing sweeter than having a tangible collection of letters for your own personal <\/span>novela epistolar<\/span> que ser\u00e1 le\u00eddo y rele\u00eddo durante una eternidad.<\/span><\/p>\n

Para terminar<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Espero haber conseguido retratar la belleza de una <\/span>relaci\u00f3n epistolar<\/span> and that you’ll at least give it a chance. After all, an old-school romance shouldn’t be forgotten. <\/span><\/p>\n

Debemos alimentar ese tipo de amor vintage siempre que tengamos la oportunidad de hacerlo, como hicieron Jean-Paul Sartre y Simone de Beauvoir.<\/span><\/p>\n

Su famoso <\/span>relaci\u00f3n epistolar<\/span> estaba llena de cartas maravillosas e inspiradoras, como \u00e9sta de Beauvoir: <\/span><\/p>\n

“Goodbye, your self, my life\u2014I love you. The weather\u2019s filthy\u2014my whole room\u2019s shaken by the wind, you\u2019d think it was going to turn upside down. My tenderest kisses, beloved little being\u2014I dreamt about you.” <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n:<\/span> Top 105 Romantic \u2018Thinking Of You\u2019 Quotes For Him And Her<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

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