{"id":8103,"date":"2020-05-07T11:50:21","date_gmt":"2020-05-07T11:50:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=8103"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:45:45","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:45:45","slug":"por-fin-dejar-ir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/por-fin-dejar-ir\/","title":{"rendered":"Este soy yo dej\u00e1ndome ir por fin"},"content":{"rendered":"

Este soy yo finalmente dejando de dar una mierda por nosotros dos.<\/strong> Por fin abandon\u00e9 la b\u00fasqueda in\u00fatil. Resolv\u00ed muchas cosas que llevaban mucho tiempo sin estar claras.<\/p>\r\n

I\u2019m so tired of being the only one who is investing in our relationship and always going the extra mile to make everything work. I\u2019m so tired of thinking and acting for the both of us.<\/a><\/p>\r\n

I didn\u2019t sign up for this kind of relationship. This is something I never wanted and definitely something I never expected to happen to me.<\/p>\r\n

Me cre\u00eda m\u00e1s listo, pero resulta que nunca sabes lo que te espera en el futuro.<\/p>\r\n

Este soy yo, finalmente, pasando a la acci\u00f3n.<\/strong> Me di cuenta de que s\u00f3lo hay una vida por vivir. De repente me di cuenta de que solo tienes una oportunidad para conseguir todo lo que quieres.<\/p>\r\n

Por lo tanto, si alguien se interpone en tu camino en lugar de hacer que te esfuerces m\u00e1s y que mejores, tiene que irse. No te hacen feliz y no trabajan para ti.<\/p>\r\n

I realized I won\u2019t waste my only chance of living the kind of life I want to live. I want everything and I won\u2019t let you stop me from getting it.<\/p>\r\n

The truth is, you really don\u2019t deserve me. Not even a bit.<\/p>\r\n

Este soy yo finalmente dejando de intentarlo.<\/strong> I\u2019m tired of making excuses for you every time you fuck things up.<\/p>\r\n

I\u2019m done fooling myself into thinking you won\u2019t be making the same mistakes over and over again. I\u2019m done trying to approve everything you do, just because I love you.<\/p>\r\n

You won\u2019t be getting any second chances. You\u2019ve fucked up so many times.<\/p>\r\n

Me drenaste a m\u00ed y a mi fuerza que puse en salvarnos e intentar que nos convirti\u00e9ramos en algo que durara para siempre.<\/p>\r\n

I don\u2019t want to be the bigger person anymore. I want to stick to what I believe in and that is that I don\u2019t want or need you anymore.<\/p>\r\n

I don\u2019t want to continuously swallow my pride and bend over backward for you. I\u2019ve been doing that for so long and I\u2019ve been getting absolutely nothing back. Well, not anymore.<\/p>\r\n

Por fin me he dado cuenta de lo que quiero y no es un relaci\u00f3n unilateral<\/a>. Me merezco mucho m\u00e1s que eso y lo conseguir\u00e9. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n

Pero lo primero en mi agenda es deshacerme de ti.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n

\"Este<\/p>\r\n

Este soy yo finalmente viendo tu verdadero yo.<\/strong> I was blinded by love. I couldn\u2019t see things straight.<\/p>\r\n

Pero, ahora que he despertado del sue\u00f1o que yo mismo dirig\u00ed, la niebla ha desaparecido. Puedo ver con claridad y s\u00e9 qui\u00e9n eres en realidad.<\/p>\r\n

Puedo ver a trav\u00e9s de cada una de tus convincentes mentiras y de tu impecable enga\u00f1o.<\/p>\r\n

Those empty words that come out of your mouth don\u2019t mean anything to me. Everything you say or do is nothing but a perfectly-constructed lie.<\/p>\r\n

When I first met you, you pretended to be something that you\u2019re not. It was all a carefully made-up game only to charm me and to make me fall in love with you.<\/p>\r\n

Era la mejor actuaci\u00f3n que hab\u00eda hecho hasta ahora y la compr\u00e9.<\/p>\r\n

Este soy yo finalmente recuperando algo de autoestima.<\/strong> Este soy yo finalmente tomando una posici\u00f3n por m\u00ed mismo. Esta soy yo poniendo fin a tu falta de respeto y aprecio.<\/p>\r\n

I finally realized that you will never be there for me. You won\u2019t be celebrating when I accomplish something. You won\u2019t be my shoulder to cry on when I fail.<\/p>\r\n

You will always be somewhere in the middle and I don\u2019t need that. I need someone who will be there at any moment of my life, whether a happy or sad one.<\/p>\r\n

Necesito a alguien que me haga creer en m\u00ed misma y que me obligue a luchar por lo que creo y quiero. Necesito a alguien que me nutra y que ayude a que mi autoestima crezca en lugar de desaparecer.<\/p>\r\n

This is me finally making peace with the fact that I\u2019m so much more than you deserve.<\/strong> Ahora s\u00e9 lo que quiero.<\/p>\r\n

I want real unconditional love and you\u2019re not the one who can give it to me. I want a good morning text just because someone remembered me.<\/p>\r\n

Quiero a alguien que nunca se canse de hablar conmigo o de escucharme cuando tenga un problema.<\/p>\r\n

Quiero a alguien con quien me sienta c\u00f3moda compartiendo mis secretos, mis miedos y mis aspiraciones.<\/p>\r\n

Quiero a alguien que se gane mi confianza incondicional. Quiero a alguien para el resto de mi vida. Desafortunadamente, ese no eres t\u00fa.<\/p>\r\n

This is me finally realizing that I don\u2019t want to waste any more of my time on you or any other guy like you. I\u2019d rather be single and wait for the one I know I want to spend the rest of my life with.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n

This is me finally giving up on anyone who makes me feel like I\u2019m hard to love. I\u2019m not, it\u2019s you who never learned how to love me.<\/p>\r\n

But it\u2019s even better that way because we never belonged with each other.<\/p>\r\n

This is me finally taking control over my life and my happiness. This is me deciding I\u2019m worth so much more than you were willing to admit and this is me letting go of un hombre emocionalmente inmaduro<\/a> – a ti.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n

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