{"id":81079,"date":"2020-07-09T11:31:31","date_gmt":"2020-07-09T11:31:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=81079"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:17:53","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:17:53","slug":"senales-de-que-te-esta-utilizando-para-superar-su-ruptura","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/senales-de-que-te-esta-utilizando-para-superar-su-ruptura\/","title":{"rendered":"9 se\u00f1ales inequ\u00edvocas de que te est\u00e1 utilizando para superar su ruptura"},"content":{"rendered":"

Terminar una relaci\u00f3n es duro, independientemente de qui\u00e9n lo haya decidido. Superar una ruptura es a\u00fan m\u00e1s duro.<\/span><\/p>\n

In the period after a breakup, we all feel so strange. There are a lot of mixed feelings and that’s why we can’t think clearly and deal with our emotions in a healthy way.<\/span><\/p>\n

Por desgracia, algunas personas eligen <\/b>de la peor manera posible<\/b><\/a> para hacer frente a una ruptura.<\/b><\/p>\n

Se lanzan a una nueva relaci\u00f3n demasiado pronto, con la esperanza de que les ayude a olvidar a su ex. Esto es especialmente cierto en el caso de los hombres.<\/span><\/p>\n

They have their men\u2019s pride and that’s why they won’t allow anyone to see them suffering. They want to show their exes that they aren’t hurt and that they can move on.<\/span><\/p>\n

What they don’t understand is that they lie to themselves that way, too.<\/b><\/p>\n

If your man does any of these things, then it means that he isn’t being honest with you about his feelings because he’s actually only dating you to get over his ex.<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Te dijo que tuvo una ruptura dura<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

He’ll only tell you the story of his breakup once because he doesn’t want to speak about it much. His ex probably really hurt him and he doesn’t want you to think that he is still suffering because of it.<\/span><\/p>\n

The breakup is kind of his weak spot because he just can’t make peace with the fact that he was betrayed or left behind.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Avanz\u00f3 demasiado r\u00e1pido<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Even though he had such a rough breakup, he started dating you only a few days later. It’s not possible for him to have moved on so fast.<\/span><\/p>\n

Debe pensar en todo lo que ha pasado y enfrentarse a sus sentimientos encontrados para poder seguir adelante como es debido. Y la \u00fanica forma de hacerlo es estando solo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pasar p\u00e1gina demasiado pronto s\u00f3lo le amargar\u00e1 o le dejar\u00e1 con problemas de confianza.<\/b> That’s why you’ll never be able to have a healthy relationship with him.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Est\u00e1 demasiado entusiasmado con vuestra relaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

He wants to spend all of his free time with you. Unfortunately, this isn\u2019t because he enjoys spending time with you. It’s because he is afraid of being alone in case his true feelings come to the surface.<\/span><\/p>\n

Te manda mensajes constantemente. Planea algo nuevo para ti cada d\u00eda. Te sorprende en tu lugar de trabajo. B\u00e1sicamente, intenta estar contigo todo el tiempo para convencerse de que ha pasado p\u00e1gina.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. No para de hablar de su ex<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Cada vez que est\u00e1is en un restaurante al que fue con su ex, o veis una pel\u00edcula que ellos vieron, o hac\u00e9is cualquier cosa que ellos hicieran antes, \u00e9l lo menciona.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Te compara constantemente con su ex<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

No matter what you do or wear, it always reminds him of his ex-girlfriend. That\u2019s because he still hasn’t left her in the past.<\/span><\/p>\n

Empiezas a sentirte estresado e inseguro. Puede que incluso <\/span>empieza a compararte<\/span><\/a> con ella.<\/span><\/p>\n

You think that no matter what you do, you’ll never be as pretty as she is or as good as she was. Well, think twice then. If she was so good, they wouldn’t have broken up, would they?.<\/span><\/p>\n

6. Se comporta de forma extra\u00f1a cuando ella est\u00e1 cerca<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Whenever you meet his ex somewhere, he starts acting so weird you don\u2019t recognize him. It’s because he still has some unresolved issues with her.<\/span><\/p>\n

He’s so confused around her that he actually doesn’t know how to behave.<\/span><\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t pay attention to you or your feelings because the only thing that’s important to him is showing her that he isn’t suffering because of the breakup, and that he has already moved on.<\/span><\/p>\n

7. \u00c9l planea aventuras para ustedes dos todo el tiempo<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

It’s like we already said. He doesn’t want to think about the breakup or his ex, so he tries to forget about it by doing some exciting and new things with you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Every day is a new adventure with him because it’s the only way he is able to relax and pretend that everything is fine.<\/span><\/p>\n

8. Bebe para adormecer sus sentimientos<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Bebe incluso cuando nadie m\u00e1s bebe. Empiezas a sentirte un poco inc\u00f3modo por ello. Puede que incluso tengas miedo de que se est\u00e9 volviendo adicto.<\/span><\/p>\n

You don’t have to be afraid or worried about your own well being. He won’t do you anything. He isn’t an addict. <\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo bebe mucho para adormecer sus sentimientos.<\/b> Le ayuda a relajarse contigo y a olvidar que a\u00fan siente algo por su ex.<\/span><\/p>\n

9. Te est\u00e1 usando como novia trofeo<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Le gusta presumir de ti, como si fueras <\/span>alg\u00fan tipo de trofeo<\/span><\/a> \u2013 especially in front of his ex or some of their mutual friends.<\/span><\/p>\n

He wants to show them that he has won in the ‘after the breakup’ game, particularly if his ex is still single.<\/span><\/p>\n

Despierta chica<\/b>!<\/span><\/p>\n

You are worth so much more than being his trophy girlfriend. You don’t deserve to be with someone who is using you, you deserve someone who wants to be with you only because he loves you.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Ending a relationship is hard, no matter whose decision it was. Getting over a breakup is even harder. In the period after a breakup, we all feel so strange. There are a lot of mixed feelings and that’s why we can’t think clearly and deal with our emotions in a healthy way. Unfortunately, some people…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":82963,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-81079","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/9-Surefire-Signs-He\u2019s-Using-You-To-Get-Over-His-Breakup.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","parent":29643,"count":570,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29646,"category_count":570,"category_description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","cat_name":"understanding men","category_nicename":"understanding-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81079","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=81079"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81079\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/82963"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=81079"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=81079"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=81079"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}