{"id":81289,"date":"2020-06-22T12:36:48","date_gmt":"2020-06-22T12:36:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=81289"},"modified":"2022-01-12T22:31:58","modified_gmt":"2022-01-12T22:31:58","slug":"la-quimica-no-conduce-a-una-relacion-solida","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/la-quimica-no-conduce-a-una-relacion-solida\/","title":{"rendered":"4 razones por las que una qu\u00edmica fuerte no conduce necesariamente a una relaci\u00f3n fuerte"},"content":{"rendered":"

Deep down, most of us want a fairytale kind of love. You want someone who will shake the ground under your feet, make you lose your mind \u2013 someone who will rock your world.<\/p>\n

Bueno, todas estas cosas son en realidad signos de una qu\u00edmica incre\u00edblemente fuerte<\/a> entre dos personas. Sin embargo, \u00bfesta qu\u00edmica conduce siempre tambi\u00e9n a una relaci\u00f3n s\u00f3lida?<\/p>\n

1. Compatibility in bed doesn\u2019t make you compatible in life<\/h2>\n

\"esposa<\/p>\n

I\u2019ll be dead honest with you: Lovemaking is an extremely important part of every relationship. Whoever tries to tell you otherwise is lying.<\/p>\n

No se trata s\u00f3lo de placer f\u00edsico, tambi\u00e9n es una forma de estrechar lazos entre la pareja. Aumenta la intimidad y sirve para aliviar el estr\u00e9s.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, es un mito que las personas sean buenas o malo en la cama<\/a> in general. The only thing that counts and guarantees both of the partner\u2019s complete pleasure is actually physical compatibility.<\/p>\n

However, getting along in the bedroom doesn\u2019t necessarily mean that you\u2019ll also get along outside of it. In fact, the two usually have very little in common.<\/p>\n

Ser compatible<\/a> en la vida real significa ser capaz de llegar a un compromiso. Significa tener visiones del mundo y planes de futuro similares, y querer casi las mismas cosas en la vida.<\/p>\n

B\u00e1sicamente, puedes ser una pareja incre\u00edble con alguien bajo las s\u00e1banas, lo que sin duda es se\u00f1al de una qu\u00edmica incre\u00edblemente fuerte.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, si os cuesta encontraros a medias durante el d\u00eda, vuestra relaci\u00f3n es de todo menos fuerte y sana. S\u00ed, es probable que la intimidad f\u00edsica os mantenga juntos durante un tiempo.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, as soon as the passion fades away (and it will), your disagreements in real life will come to the surface and you\u2019ll start seeing your relationship for what it really is.<\/p>\n

2. It\u2019s not a healthy basis for a relationship<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Una relaci\u00f3n rom\u00e1ntica sana entre dos personas se basa en muchas cosas. S\u00ed, la qu\u00edmica es una de ellas, pero desde luego no puede ser la \u00fanica.<\/p>\n

In fact, there are many more important foundations of a real relationship, including unconditional love, mutual respect, appreciation, willingness to put in the effort and make sacrifices, understanding, compromise\u2026<\/p>\n

If you have chemistry and passion, that\u2019s great.<\/p>\n

But if you want to know more about the future of your relationship, it\u2019s time to ask yourself whether you two as a couple share all of these other things mentioned above.<\/p>\n

The bottom line is that it\u2019s not enough for you and your romantic partner to be lovers only. Instead, you two should also be mejores amigos<\/a> y socios en el crimen, y la qu\u00edmica no es suficiente para eso.<\/p>\n

Debe ser la persona con la que conectes a nivel intelectual, emocional y mental. Alguien cuya alma ames y que te complete en todos los aspectos de la vida.<\/p>\n

3. Los polos opuestos se atraen, pero rara vez duran<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Seg\u00fan la mayor\u00eda de los expertos en citas, las personas suelen experimentar la qu\u00edmica m\u00e1s fuerte con sus polos opuestos.<\/p>\n

After all, it\u2019s perfectly normal that you show a special interest in someone who is different than you. It\u2019s difficult for you to be intrigued by a person who is similar to you.<\/p>\n

You know how they\u2019ll react in most situations, you can guess what they\u2019re thinking, and you know what to expect from them because their behavior often mirrors yours.<\/p>\n

En cambio, cuando conoces a tu opuesto, te desaf\u00eda. Tienes ganas de escarbar en las capas m\u00e1s profundas de su personalidad.<\/p>\n

Sientes la necesidad de desvelar su lado misterioso. La necesidad de conocerlos y de llegar al fondo de alguien que no se parece en nada a ti.<\/p>\n

En consecuencia, te sientes atra\u00eddo por esas personas. Sientes unos fuegos artificiales incre\u00edbles y pasas por una monta\u00f1a rusa de emociones.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que s\u00ed, se puede decir que los polos opuestos se atraen como imanes. Sin embargo, rara vez duran.<\/p>\n

De hecho, en la mayor\u00eda de los casos, tus diferencias se convierten en un problema en tu relaci\u00f3n. Todo lo que te gustaba de la otra persona empieza a molestarte.<\/p>\n

Besides, when it comes to these couples, everything is always dramatic. You can\u2019t help but fight and disagree all the time since you have different attitudes and opinions.<\/p>\n

Aunque la relaci\u00f3n puede parecer interesante al principio, con el tiempo se vuelve agotadora y agotadora.<\/p>\n

4. It\u2019s all about your own needs<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

True love is always selfless, while chemistry is not. When you think that you\u2019re in love with someone, the truth is that you\u2019re looking for a way to satisfy your own needs.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong: I\u2019m not saying that you\u2019re using this person. However, you want them all to yourself and the only thing you\u2019re concerned about is how this relationship makes you feel.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, a strong relationship that has a firm basis is all about meeting both of your needs and desires. In this case, you want the other person to be happy, even if that doesn\u2019t include you.<\/p>\n

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Deep down, most of us want a fairytale kind of love. You want someone who will shake the ground under your feet, make you lose your mind \u2013 someone who will rock your world. Well, all of these things are actually signs of incredibly strong chemistry between two people. However, does this chemistry always lead…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":87419,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-81289","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/sad-woman-looking-boyfriend-leaving-her.jpg",1000,668,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81289","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=81289"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81289\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/87419"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=81289"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=81289"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=81289"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}