{"id":81349,"date":"2020-06-22T12:37:42","date_gmt":"2020-06-22T12:37:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=81349"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:29:14","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:29:14","slug":"mitos-sobre-las-citas-que-debes-romper","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/mitos-sobre-las-citas-que-debes-romper\/","title":{"rendered":"5 mitos sobre las citas que debes erradicar si quieres una vida amorosa feliz"},"content":{"rendered":"

Todas las \u00e9pocas de citas, incluida la actual, tienen algunas reglas no escritas. Son las pautas que la mayor\u00eda de nosotros seguimos simplemente porque \"as\u00ed es como funcionan las cosas\".<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, \u00bfte has preguntado alguna vez si estas reglas est\u00e1n dificultando a\u00fan m\u00e1s tu vida sentimental? Aqu\u00ed tienes 5 mitos sobre las citas que debes romper si quieres tener una vida amorosa feliz.<\/p>\n

1. The right girl can \u201cfix\u201d any man<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

\u00bfCu\u00e1ntas veces has sido testigo de una situaci\u00f3n en la que un hombre con problemas ser\u00e1 supuestamente arreglado y curado por la mujer adecuada?<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter if we\u2019re talking about a serial cheater, a player, a commitment-phobe, or about an emotionally unavailable man.<\/p>\n

En todos los escenarios, todo el mundo espera que cambie en cuanto conozca a una buena mujer que le abra el coraz\u00f3n al amor.<\/p>\n

Una mujer que le inspire a ser diferente y que le ayude a convertirse en la mejor versi\u00f3n posible de s\u00ed mismo.<\/p>\n

Well, I say that\u2019s a load of rubbish. Women are not rehabilitation centers for hombres da\u00f1ados<\/a>.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not your job to repair them or to save them from themselves. Even if you\u2019re a part of a couple, you\u2019re both still responsible for your own choices and actions.<\/p>\n

2. La primera impresi\u00f3n lo es todo<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t lie to you: the vibe you get when you meet someone new for the first time can help you form an opinion about them in many cases.<\/p>\n

However, it doesn\u2019t mean that you shouldn\u2019t give men a chance to fix the first impression they made.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t give up on a guy just because your first date was awkward or because he failed to knock you off your feet. He might have been nervous or maybe he just needs some more time to relax.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que este mito se ha incrustado en ti junto con la idealizaci\u00f3n de amor a primera vista<\/a>.<\/p>\n

However, trust me when I tell you that you can fall in love with someone you didn\u2019t feel butterflies with when you first laid your eyes on him.<\/p>\n

3. El amor siempre es suficiente<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Wherever you turn, you\u2019re surrounded by romantic comedies and novels which glorify romance. In these stories, love is all that matters.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed ocurr\u00eda en los cuentos de hadas que le\u00edas de ni\u00f1a, en todas esas pel\u00edculas de chicas que ve\u00edas de adolescente, e incluso en algunos libros y pel\u00edculas cl\u00e1sicos que gozan de gran popularidad entre todas las edades.<\/p>\n

Love is this force that can beat everything and everyone but can\u2019t be beaten. It has the strength to overcome all possible obstacles and if it\u2019s real, it will last a lifetime.<\/p>\n

Basically, you\u2019ve been taught that love is enough for two people to work out. Well, guess what: it\u2019s not.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t mean that you and your ex didn\u2019t love each other enough just because your relationship failed.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019ll succeed with some other guy just because you share some deep emotions.<\/p>\n

Yes, love is crucial. However, if it\u2019s not accompanied by trust, respect, compatibility, and many other things, el amor no basta<\/a>.<\/p>\n

4. El chico siempre tiene que dar el primer paso<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

According to some old fashioned dating rules, it\u2019s the man who courts the woman.<\/p>\n

\u00c9l es quien debe perseguirte, quien debe enviar el primer mensaje, quien debe iniciar la comunicaci\u00f3n, quien debe invitarte a salir a una primera cita<\/a>y hacer todos los dem\u00e1s movimientos importantes en tu relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Pues d\u00e9jame decirte que esto no es m\u00e1s que un mito del que debes olvidarte si quieres una vida amorosa feliz. Despu\u00e9s de todo, esta regla no tiene absolutamente nada que ver con la l\u00f3gica y el sentido com\u00fan.<\/p>\n

What if you like a guy who simply doesn\u2019t notice you? Does it mean that you should sit around, patiently waiting for him to magically become a mind reader and to approach you just like that?<\/p>\n

Of course, you could always do that. However, if you do, you\u2019ll miss out on a lot of opportunities.<\/p>\n

Besides, we\u2019re all about equality. So, let\u2019s be equal when it comes to this as well.<\/p>\n

5. It doesn\u2019t matter what your friends and family think<\/h2>\n

\"tres<\/p>\n

Elegir a la persona para siempre debe ser una decisi\u00f3n exclusivamente tuya.<\/p>\n

After all, this is the person you\u2019ll be spending the rest of your life with and you\u2019re the only one who has a say when it comes to this huge decision.<\/p>\n

Por lo tanto, casi todo el mundo le dir\u00e1 que se escuche a s\u00ed mismo cuando se trata de esta elecci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

La gente te aconsejar\u00e1 que hagas caso omiso de todo lo que te digan tu familia y tus amigos y que vayas a por lo que t\u00fa quieras.<\/p>\n

A riesgo de parecer anticuado, no estoy de acuerdo. De hecho, tambi\u00e9n es uno de los mitos de las citas que deber\u00edas romper cuanto antes.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong: I\u2019m not telling you to blindly listen to your loved ones, to live your life under their terms, trying to please them.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, I\u2019m asking you to take their opinion into consideration, if nothing else. Never forget that these are the people who love you and only want what\u2019s best for you.<\/p>\n

Besides, they\u2019re not in love with this man, so they don\u2019t idealize him. They don\u2019t have their rose-tinted glasses on so they can be more realistic and see some things you probably don\u2019t.<\/p>\n

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Every dating era, including today\u2019s, has some unwritten rules. These are the guidelines most of us follow just because \u201cthat\u2019s how things work\u201d. Nevertheless, have you ever wondered if these rules are actually making your dating life even harder? Here are 5 dating myths you have to bust if you want a happy love life….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":81377,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-81349","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/5-Dating-Myths-You-Have-To-Bust-If-You-Want-A-Happy-Love-Life.jpg",800,554,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","parent":29643,"count":442,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29648,"category_count":442,"category_description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","cat_name":"dating tips","category_nicename":"dating-tips","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81349","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=81349"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81349\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/81377"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=81349"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=81349"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=81349"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}