{"id":81851,"date":"2020-06-22T12:39:39","date_gmt":"2020-06-22T12:39:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=81851"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:27:15","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:27:15","slug":"ser-la-mujer-que-necesitabas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/ser-la-mujer-que-necesitabas\/","title":{"rendered":"S\u00e9 la mujer que necesitabas de peque\u00f1a y enorgull\u00e9cela"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>\u00bfRecuerdas todas las veces que te sentiste insegura de peque\u00f1a? \u00bfTodas las veces que pensabas que no eras lo bastante buena, guapa o lista?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Siempre hab\u00eda alguien mejor que t\u00fa, y siempre alguien que te lo recordaba.<\/p>\n<p>Imagine if, in those moments, you had someone to tell you all of those things were nothing but lies \u2013 someone to tell you that the opinions of others have nothing to do with your life.<\/p>\n<p>Todos hemos luchado con algo mientras crec\u00edamos y muchas de esas cosas se han quedado con nosotros. Muchas personas se han sentido profundamente heridas por las palabras de otros.<\/p>\n<p>Tantos han cre\u00eddo en esas palabras y las han tomado como parte de s\u00ed mismos.<\/p>\n<p><strong>The worst thing that can happen in a child\u2019s life is for them to believe in other\u2019s people lies. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Even when we later on in adulthood recognize those words as lies, it\u2019s hard to ignore the impact they had on us for so long.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Muchas veces, las experiencias traum\u00e1ticas o incluso los comentarios groseros provocan cambios en el comportamiento personal y, de alguna manera, secuestran su verdadera personalidad.<\/p>\n<p>Nos hace empezar a medir nuestra val\u00eda bas\u00e1ndonos en cosas como nuestro aspecto y nuestros logros externos e ignorar nuestros talentos naturales y nuestra empat\u00eda.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-81909\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-inside.jpg\" alt=\"mujer sentada dentro del armario abriendo sus puertas\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-inside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-inside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-inside-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Afortunadamente, hay muchos ejemplos de c\u00f3mo la lucha acaba haci\u00e9ndonos m\u00e1s fuertes. Siempre tenemos la oportunidad de mejorar las cosas.<\/p>\n<p>A veces, en medio de la lucha, nos damos cuenta de lo fuertes que somos en realidad. Una vez que empezamos a rechazar nuestras falsas creencias sobre nosotros mismos, empezamos a darnos cuenta de nuestras verdaderas posibilidades.<\/p>\n<p><strong>There\u2019s nothing in the world more powerful than a woman who knows her worth and needs no permission.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>A woman who is unapologetically herself. The kind of woman who doesn\u2019t conform to the expectations of others but meets her own expectations.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>A woman who knows to set boundaries and see through the people who don\u2019t mean good to her \u2013 the one who demands respect and believes in her potential.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>She doesn\u2019t wait for anyone, but proceeds to do things on her own, trusting her intuition and judgment.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s the kind of woman you needed as a little girl. That\u2019s the kind of woman you need now.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Once we know our worth, there\u2019s nothing that can make us feel insecure, especially not words from people who barely know us.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The truth is, people don\u2019t really care what you do as much as you think, so why should you take their opinions to heart?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-81906\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-in-blue-dress.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con vestido azul frente al espejo con las manos en los bordes del espejo\" width=\"800\" height=\"539\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-in-blue-dress.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-in-blue-dress-300x202.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-in-blue-dress-768x517.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s important to know what we\u2019re capable of and what\u2019s inside of us. Nothing and no one else can decide our value as a human being but ourselves.<\/p>\n<p>To decide a human\u2019s value based on looks and God-given personality traits is pointless and mean.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Todo el mundo es libre de ser su aut\u00e9ntico yo, expresarse con naturalidad y sentirse seguro entre los dem\u00e1s.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If you have ever been hurt, don\u2019t let it change who you are and strip the world of your uniqueness.<\/p>\n<p>Especialmente como mujer, cuando el mundo entero te exige locuras. Te pide que seas independiente pero fr\u00e1gil, que luches pero seas amable.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Be strong in a sense of staying true to who you are \u2013 and that means listening to no one but yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Hazlo por la ni\u00f1a que llevas dentro y que pensaba que le pasaba algo. \u00bfY por qu\u00e9? Cosas que nunca fueron ciertas.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Embrace yourself and be kind to yourself. Don\u2019t strive for perfection, only progress.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You deserve to be happy and loved as you are \u2013 the same words the girl in you needed to hear all along.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-81911\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Be-The-Woman-You-Needed-As-A-Little-Girl-And-Make-Her-Proud-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"S\u00e9 la mujer que necesitabas de peque\u00f1a y enorgull\u00e9cela\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Be-The-Woman-You-Needed-As-A-Little-Girl-And-Make-Her-Proud-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Be-The-Woman-You-Needed-As-A-Little-Girl-And-Make-Her-Proud-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Be-The-Woman-You-Needed-As-A-Little-Girl-And-Make-Her-Proud-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Be-The-Woman-You-Needed-As-A-Little-Girl-And-Make-Her-Proud-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Remember all the times you felt insecure as a little girl? All the times you felt like you weren\u2019t good enough, beautiful enough, or smart enough? There was always someone better than you, and always someone to remind you of that. Imagine if, in those moments, you had someone to tell you all of those&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":81910,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-81851","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Be-The-Woman-You-Needed-As-A-Little-Girl-And-Make-Her-Proud.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. 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