{"id":81889,"date":"2020-07-09T11:19:27","date_gmt":"2020-07-09T11:19:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=81889"},"modified":"2022-12-02T11:17:52","modified_gmt":"2022-12-02T11:17:52","slug":"ex-ya-esta-saliendo-con-otra-persona-y-me-duele","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/ex-ya-esta-saliendo-con-otra-persona-y-me-duele\/","title":{"rendered":"Mi Ex Ya Est\u00e1 Saliendo Con Otra Persona Y Me Duele - Esta Es La Raz\u00f3n"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8221;My ex is dating someone else already and it hurts like hell. I thought I was over them. I was sure they had disappeared from my mind, yet here I am, broken to the bone seeing them with someone new.&#8221;<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>Esto es por lo que pasa la mayor\u00eda de la gente al ver su <\/b><b>ex pareja<\/b><b> en un <\/b><b>nueva relaci\u00f3n<\/b><b>. Y si te sientes identificado, esto es para ti.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Break-ups are complicated and that&#8217;s the understatement of the century. A <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">desamor<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> por s\u00ed solo es lo suficientemente devastador, pero saber que tu ex ya tiene a alguien nuevo alineado trae un nuevo nivel de dolor.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Despu\u00e9s de todo, compartisteis muchos momentos preciosos e \u00edntimos que ahora simplemente han desaparecido. Y adem\u00e1s de eso, su <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ex pareja<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> doesn&#8217;t seem to miss you much at all.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 te sientes as\u00ed? \u00bfQuieres que tu <\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ex vuelta<\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> or are you nostalgic for something that&#8217;s never coming back?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><em><strong><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">Esta es la raz\u00f3n por la que tu coraz\u00f3n se rompe de nuevo<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you&#8217;re having a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">mal rato<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> lidiar con su ex seguir adelante con un <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">nuevo socio<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Esto arrojar\u00e1 algo de luz sobre la <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">razones reales<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> por qu\u00e9.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>Tu ego est\u00e1 siendo magullado<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-81892 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-standing-outdoor-3.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con camisa negra de pie al aire libre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-standing-outdoor-3.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-standing-outdoor-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-standing-outdoor-3-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Al mismo tiempo, esto es bueno <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">y<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> bad news. What&#8217;s good about it, you may wonder?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Well, it&#8217;s kind of obvious; this is not about suppressed emotions or you pining for your ex <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">propiamente dicho<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Se trata de tu ego recibiendo un duro golpe despu\u00e9s de ver tu <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ex traslado<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> en.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You didn\u2019t break up due to unresolved issues and you&#8217;re not <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">obsesionado<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> over this out of romantic reasons. You have been replaced with a \u2018newer model\u2019 and it feels like crap.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Muy a menudo, sucede que las emociones persistentes no tienen nada que ver con ver a tu ex <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/le-gusto-pero-ha-empezado-a-salir-con-otra\/\">salir con otra persona<\/a>. Sometimes, it&#8217;s a bit more superficial than that.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Es posible que (en el fondo) quieras que tu <\/b><b>ex pareja<\/b><b> to still have feelings for you, even though you&#8217;re not willing to reciprocate them. It&#8217;s what makes you feel desired.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&#8217;s somewhat comforting to know that there is still someone out there pining for you. And that false illusion you&#8217;ve created in your mind is blown the moment you see your ex with a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">nuevo amor<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Una larga historia<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> short, you&#8217;re merely human! Just <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00faltimo mes<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">,<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Estaba teniendo un <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">mal rato<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> viendo mi <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ex-novio<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> con su <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">nueva novia<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u00a1y hab\u00edamos terminado hac\u00eda muchos meses!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Esta persona se convirti\u00f3 en su <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">mejor amigo<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> y si su <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">relaci\u00f3n duradera<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> ha terminado hace poco, por supuesto verlo con ella es perjudicial para tu <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">autoestima<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&#8217;s human nature wanting to go on <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">redes sociales<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> y ver c\u00f3mo <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">intensificado <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">y te dej\u00f3 con un <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">coraz\u00f3n roto<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Pero el <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">d\u00eda siguiente<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">tienes que enfrentarte a la m\u00fasica.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/estas-exactamente-donde-necesitas-estar-ahora-mismo\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Conf\u00eda en m\u00ed, est\u00e1s exactamente donde necesitas estar ahora mismo<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<h2>You&#8217;re currently in a rebound relationship<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-81894 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-kissing-1-1.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer besandose cerca de una ventana\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-kissing-1-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-kissing-1-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-kissing-1-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00bfQu\u00e9 constituye un <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">relaci\u00f3n de rebote<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">? Generalmente, se conoce como una relaci\u00f3n en la que uno salta directamente de la <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">relaci\u00f3n anterior<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In most cases, it&#8217;s an escape route to avoid dealing with intricate issues post-break-up. You are distracting yourself (and shielding your heart) from the (inevitable) pain by focusing on a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">nuevo novio<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\/<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">nueva novia<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Basically, you&#8217;re just in it to get away from your ex as quickly as possible. And at times, it works, but mostly, you&#8217;re just postponing the inevitable.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">En <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">primera vez<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Me met\u00ed en un <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">relaci\u00f3n de rebote<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, it was more complex than I could&#8217;ve anticipated. Why? <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Porque nunca me di una oportunidad real de mejorar. No hab\u00eda <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">proceso de curaci\u00f3n<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Todo fue precipitado, sin emoci\u00f3n y fr\u00edo.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pens\u00e9 que si simplemente iba <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ning\u00fan contacto<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> desde el principio, ser\u00eda m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil, pero acab\u00f3 siendo una de las <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">lo m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Pas\u00e9.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Nunca me cur\u00e9 realmente de la devastadora ruptura con quien cre\u00eda que era mi <\/b><b>alma gemela<\/b><b>. Nunca supe realmente que un martes por la tarde ser\u00eda el <\/b><b>\u00faltima vez<\/b><b> Alguna vez lo bes\u00e9.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cuando lo vi con un <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">nueva novia<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">,<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> someone I&#8217;ve known since <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">instituto<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">...todo lleg\u00f3 a las manos. Yo estaba <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">mensajes de texto<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> como un loco, pregunt\u00e1ndole c\u00f3mo pod\u00eda haberme hecho eso y rog\u00e1ndole que <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">reunirse<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> para el cierre.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sin embargo, nunca lo consegu\u00ed, as\u00ed que tuve que aprender por las malas. La verdad es que estaba lejos de haberlo superado y la relaci\u00f3n en la que me precipit\u00e9 no ayud\u00f3 en nada.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c9l era feliz con su nueva chica y yo me sent\u00eda desgraciada, sola y minti\u00e9ndome a m\u00ed misma dici\u00e9ndome que estaba bien.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Si puedo darte una pieza de <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">consejos sobre relaciones<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Esto es todo:\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&#8217;t jump into a <\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">nueva relaci\u00f3n<\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> straight out of a break-up, especially if your ex has already moved on. It&#8217;s going to make you realize a lot of really painful things. (Learn from my mistake.)<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<h2>You&#8217;re questioning whether they were ever <i>verdaderamente<\/i> feliz contigo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-81896 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-leaning-on-wall-3.jpg\" alt=\"mujer apoyada en un muro de hormig\u00f3n beige\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-leaning-on-wall-3.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-leaning-on-wall-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-leaning-on-wall-3-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I can&#8217;t tell you how many times I thought to myself: <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8221;My ex is dating someone else already and it hurts like a mofo!&#8221;<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I&#8217;d be scrolling through my <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">redes sociales<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> accounts and accidentally spot a photo of him and his new squeeze. And I can&#8217;t put into words how much my heart would sink.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Esa sol\u00eda ser yo. Sol\u00eda ser la chica a la que abrazaba tan fuerte con una sonrisa de mejilla a mejilla. Yo sol\u00eda ser la que estaba por toda su p\u00e1gina de Instagram y la chica a la que enviaba millones de <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">mensajes de texto<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> al d\u00eda.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Now, I am gone. There isn&#8217;t a trace of me on his <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">redes sociales<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> accounts and it&#8217;s as if I never existed.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nuestra <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">amigos comunes<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> didn&#8217;t tell me much (they never wanted to get involved) but I could tell that he was happy with her. Worse yet, it was a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">larga distancia<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> relaci\u00f3n y se <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">todav\u00eda <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a1Pr\u00f3spero!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>I had been right there but I just wasn&#8217;t enough for him. Was it all just a lie? Was I merely just another notch in his belt before he found who he <\/b><b><i>realmente <\/i><\/b><b>\u00bfcon qui\u00e9n quer\u00eda estar?<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I can&#8217;t explain how many toxic thoughts rummaged through my head. I was on the verge of getting a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">chico nuevo<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> s\u00f3lo para demostrarle lo poco que me afectaba.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, then I realized&#8230; <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What was the point? What would I achieve? What we had was special while it lasted. Yeah, it hurts that he&#8217;s gone but why belittle our love story just because it&#8217;s over?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">S\u00f3lo me har\u00eda da\u00f1o a m\u00ed misma. As\u00ed que dej\u00e9 de mirar sus perfiles y dej\u00e9 de decirme a m\u00ed misma que yo no significaba nada para \u00e9l. Rompimos por una raz\u00f3n y \u00e9l hab\u00eda seguido adelante.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If I wanted to get better, I just needed to accept that and turn over a new leaf. Trust me, it&#8217;s so much easier that way.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/el-poder-de-alejarse-de-un-hombre\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">El poder de alejarse de un hombre: Deja Que Vea Lo Que Ha Perdido<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<h2>Su ex pareja fue su primer amor verdadero<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-81898 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-holding-womans-hand.jpg\" alt=\"hombre cogiendo la mano de una mujer mientras camina por la acera\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-holding-womans-hand.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-holding-womans-hand-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-holding-womans-hand-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Aunque tu primer amor rara vez resulta ser tu <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">alma gemela<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> for life, they&#8217;re still a very significant part of your life. They are the one you went through all the ups and downs with.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That person is who taught you stuff about love that you couldn&#8217;t possibly grasp before. And it&#8217;s normal to feel protective of that after your relationship fizzles out.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>En cierto modo, sientes que tienes derechos sobre ellos y cuando los ves con un <\/b><b>nuevo socio<\/b><b>, you get the feeling that they don&#8217;t deserve them or better yet, don&#8217;t belong with them.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Los primeros amores pueden ser muy complicados. Con mi primer chico, sent\u00ed que era <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">it<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> para m\u00ed, como si no tuviera otro sitio al que ir que hacia \u00e9l.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">En ese momento, no ten\u00eda ni idea de lo equivocada que estaba, pero estar con alguien para el <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">primera vez<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> y perderlos te hace sentir perdido.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If your ex was your first real love, this could explain the sheer volume of pain you&#8217;re experiencing now. Your <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">salud mental<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> might seem to be deteriorating because you&#8217;re pining for someone who was never meant to last.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&#8217;s hard saying goodbye to a romantic love, especially one who played an enormous role in shaping us into who we are today.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>M\u00edralo de este modo: conociste a alguien que acab\u00f3 cambiando tu vida. Crecieron juntos, maduraron juntos y aprendieron mucho a trav\u00e9s de una serie de errores y peque\u00f1as victorias.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That was an experience that will always be embedded in your memory. It didn&#8217;t last but so what?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You still have a whole future ahead of you. And because of the lessons you&#8217;ve learned with your first love, now, you&#8217;re more careful when entering <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">nuevas relaciones<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Deje que su <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ex pareja<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> do his thing and you do yours. Don&#8217;t cry because it&#8217;s over, smile because it happened!<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>Te hace sentir como si la ruptura hubiera sido culpa tuya.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-81900 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-on-concrete-1.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con gafas sentada en cemento cerca de una valla\" width=\"1280\" height=\"853\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-on-concrete-1.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-on-concrete-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-on-concrete-1-1024x682.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-on-concrete-1-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1280px) 100vw, 1280px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">En las relaciones, ambas partes tienden a invertir grandes cantidades de esfuerzo y energ\u00eda para que funcionen. Y cuando todo estalla en pedazos y tu <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ex traslados<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> tan f\u00e1cilmente, puede hacerte sentir como un completo fracasado.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Seeing your ex with their new squeeze brings back all the memories of what could&#8217;ve been but never was. It reminds you of how much you (supposedly) failed and this plays with your mind.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It also leads you to think: \u201c<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">My ex is dating someone new already and it hurts so much. I am such a complete failure!&#8221;<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">T\u00e9ngalo en cuenta cuando esos pensamientos viciosos ocupen su mente: Su ex est\u00e1 obligado a mostrar sus verdaderos colores en alg\u00fan momento.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Es s\u00f3lo cuesti\u00f3n de tiempo que hagan lo mismo con sus <\/b><b>nuevo socio<\/b><b> que te hicieron a ti.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&#8217;t suppress all of their shortcomings just because they&#8217;re seemingly so happy now. Remind yourself of how emotionally unavailable they were.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Piensa en todas las formas en que te han hecho sentir invisible y poco querido. Todo el mundo puede parecer feliz a primera vista, pero nadie m\u00e1s que ellos saben lo que ocurre a puerta cerrada.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&#8217;t diminish yourself just because they look happy on paper.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One day (it could be tomorrow or in a year), you&#8217;re going to meet the person you&#8217;re truly meant to be with and when you do, this person will stop mattering altogether.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Why not speed up the process? Why not realize how utterly irrelevant your ex and who they&#8217;re seeing are? It has no bearing on your current life.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Las rupturas se producen por multitud de razones. <\/span><b>Haven&#8217;t you heard that it takes two to tango?<\/b><\/p>\n<h2>Todav\u00eda est\u00e1s de duelo por tu relaci\u00f3n pasada<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-81902 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-leaning-on-table-2.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con los ojos cerrados apoyada en una mesa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-leaning-on-table-2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-leaning-on-table-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-leaning-on-table-2-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">People try to fool themselves into believing that they&#8217;ve moved on and that there is zero emotional attachment left.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, the honest truth is that you might need a little extra time to rid yourself of all the pain you haven&#8217;t fully processed.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You may have consciously moved forward but that doesn&#8217;t erase the grief that&#8217;s left in your heart. The pain doesn&#8217;t simply dissolve without a trace.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">En el fondo, es posible que sigas totalmente unido a esa persona sin darte cuenta de lo profundamente traum\u00e1tica que fue para ti la ruptura.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mi consejo es que te reserves el tiempo que necesitas para ti y te permitas eliminar todas las emociones negativas que puedas sentir.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Piensa largo y tendido en el estado actual de tu mente y en c\u00f3mo te sientes realmente al mencionar a tu ex.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Does it give you anxiety when you think: &#8221;<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">My ex is dating someone else already and it hurts,&#8221; <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00bfo puedes permanecer tranquilo, sereno y con la cabeza racional?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>T\u00f3mate todo el tiempo que necesites para procesar lo que ha ocurrido entre vosotros. Nadie puede precipitar <\/b><b>proceso de curaci\u00f3n<\/b><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Da un paso atr\u00e1s y reeval\u00faa d\u00f3nde est\u00e1s. Si tu coraz\u00f3n sigue sufriendo por tu <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">relaci\u00f3n anterior<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Deja que encuentre la paz a su propio ritmo.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&#8217;s okay to grieve something that once meant a great deal to you. It doesn&#8217;t necessarily mean that you want your <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ex vuelta<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">s\u00f3lo significa que necesitas m\u00e1s tiempo para volver a estar bien por tu cuenta.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And guess what? One day, you&#8217;ll be okay. Your heart won&#8217;t sink when you see them again and you&#8217;ll be able to smile without swallowing tears.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">S\u00e9 valiente. Todos estamos en nuestro propio viaje hacia la felicidad.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/se-esta-alejando-o-esta-rompiendo-contigo\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00bfSe est\u00e1 alejando de ti o est\u00e1 rompiendo? 17 maneras de saberlo<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<h2>You&#8217;re wondering why you weren&#8217;t enough<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-82009 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-leaning-on-table-3.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con jersey blanco apoyada en una mesa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-leaning-on-table-3.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-leaning-on-table-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-leaning-on-table-3-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ser un <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ex-novia<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> sucks. Seeing your ex in the warm embrace of a new person brings out something inside of you that you didn&#8217;t know existed.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Te hace sentir inadecuado, vac\u00edo, poco inteligente y poco divertido.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Y te deja un sabor tan amargo en la boca que nunca se va del todo, no hasta que est\u00e1s completamente bien y con alguien nuevo que realmente te hace m\u00e1s feliz de lo que nunca fuiste con tu ex.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But until that happens, you can&#8217;t help but wonder why you weren&#8217;t enough.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You opened up your heart and gave them a piece of you that they ultimately couldn&#8217;t appreciate. You made yourself be vulnerable like you never were before, just to see that it didn&#8217;t matter.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Aqu\u00ed est\u00e1n hoy, felices, realizados y como si no se hubieran roto corazones en el proceso. \u00bfCu\u00e1ndo <\/b><b><i>usted<\/i><\/b><b> \u00bfdejar de importar?<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can&#8217;t help but wonder why couldn&#8217;t that have been you? How close were you to being their one true love? What should you have done differently for them to stay?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do you know what? The answer is absolutely nothing. You were a good partner, a kind one, and you cared more than you should&#8217;ve.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You put in the effort on a daily basis and you always put their well-being first. Their needs trumped your own and you would&#8217;ve gone to the ends of the earth for them and they still left.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What does that tell you? They weren&#8217;t worthy of your time, love or effort. You are going to be enough for a person who deserves you. And that person <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">se<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u00a1Vamos!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When they do, there will be no more second-guessing or diminishing your own worth. You&#8217;ll be content and at peace just the way that you are.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><em><strong><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">\u00bfQu\u00e9 debe hacer cuando su ex est\u00e1 con otra persona?<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<h2>Don&#8217;t allow yourself to react negatively<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-85318 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-standing-on-a-boardwalk.jpg\" alt=\"mujer de pie en un paseo mar\u00edtimo rodeada de p\u00e1jaros\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-standing-on-a-boardwalk.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-standing-on-a-boardwalk-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-standing-on-a-boardwalk-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No matter what happens, don&#8217;t let your heart get the better of you. Remain calm and collected. Think about your reaction before you make a scene or cause yourself any unnecessary pain.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Las emociones negativas pueden desbordar f\u00e1cilmente tu mente y crear un ambiente t\u00f3xico que te asfixiar\u00e1. Resiste el impulso de reaccionar mal y, en lugar de eso, camina en otra direcci\u00f3n.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">En lugar de pensar: <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8221;My ex is dating someone else already and it hurts so much, when will the pain stop?&#8221; <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Perm\u00edtete sentirte triste durante un minuto, luego lev\u00e1ntate, llama a tu mejor amiga y deja que te ayude a ver lo que vales.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>Evita mencionar a tu ex pareja<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-85342 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-on-rock-14.jpg\" alt=\"mujer rubia sentada en una roca cerca de una monta\u00f1a\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-on-rock-14.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-on-rock-14-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-on-rock-14-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&#8217;t think about them, don&#8217;t talk about them and don&#8217;t let anyone fill your head with any information about them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let that person evaporate from your mind and eventually, you&#8217;ll stop thinking about them altogether. It&#8217;s funny how the mind works. When you force yourself to erase someone from your memory, it ends up doing the trick.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It takes a little bit of effort that I know isn&#8217;t easy but it&#8217;s all for the sake of successfully moving on toward a healthier, happier future. Put your <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">salud mental<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> primero y tus pensamientos negativos despu\u00e9s.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>Prep\u00e1rese para un sentimiento de p\u00e9rdida con el fin de seguir adelante<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-85345 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-on-hammock-1.jpg\" alt=\"mujer sentada en hamaca mirando el agua\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-on-hammock-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-on-hammock-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-on-hammock-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dejar ir es insoportable y requiere mucha fuerza de voluntad y fortaleza, as\u00ed que te animo a que te prepares para la sensaci\u00f3n de p\u00e9rdida que inevitablemente invadir\u00e1 tu mente.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Independientemente de lo da\u00f1ina, t\u00f3xica o agotadora que fuera la relaci\u00f3n, segu\u00eda siendo una gran parte de tu vida que ahora has perdido.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Acknowledge the pain, feel it and don&#8217;t be afraid of your emotions. It&#8217;s never easy<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/mi-ex-tiene-una-nueva-novia\/\"> ver a tu ex con alguien nuevo<\/a> pero una vez que hagas las paces con esta nueva situaci\u00f3n en tu cabeza, seguir adelante ser\u00e1 m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Alivia el estr\u00e9s de tu mente estando preparado para los sentimientos que puedan invadirte en ocasiones.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And then, instead of thinking: &#8221;My ex is dating someone else already and it hurts like hell,&#8221; you&#8217;ll be able to see it from a rational point of view.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><b><i>They are happy with someone new and one day you will be too. And that&#8217;s all there is to it. Chapter closed!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/superar-el-desamor\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Superar <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Heartbreak<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">: 16 consejos para sanar el coraz\u00f3n<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-82446 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/My-Ex-Is-Dating-Someone-Else-Already-And-It-Hurts-This-Is-Why-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Mi Ex Ya Est\u00e1 Saliendo Con Otra Persona Y Me Duele - Esta Es La Raz\u00f3n\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/My-Ex-Is-Dating-Someone-Else-Already-And-It-Hurts-This-Is-Why-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/My-Ex-Is-Dating-Someone-Else-Already-And-It-Hurts-This-Is-Why-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/My-Ex-Is-Dating-Someone-Else-Already-And-It-Hurts-This-Is-Why-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/My-Ex-Is-Dating-Someone-Else-Already-And-It-Hurts-This-Is-Why-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8221;My ex is dating someone else already and it hurts like hell. I thought I was over them. I was sure they had disappeared from my mind, yet here I am, broken to the bone seeing them with someone new.&#8221; This is what most people go through upon seeing their ex-partner in a new relationship&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":81891,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-81889","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/My-Ex-Is-Dating-Someone-Else-Already-And-It-Hurts-This-Is-Why.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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