{"id":81944,"date":"2020-06-22T12:45:23","date_gmt":"2020-06-22T12:45:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=81944"},"modified":"2022-02-27T14:41:51","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T14:41:51","slug":"te-hace-sentir-indeseado-vete","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/te-hace-sentir-indeseado-vete\/","title":{"rendered":"Si alguna vez te hace sentir indeseada, vete y no vuelvas atr\u00e1s"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Lo peor de las personas que te hacen sentir indeseado es la forma en que te motivan a empezar a pensar que no eres digno.<\/p>\n<p>Nadie deber\u00eda cuestionar nunca su propia val\u00eda.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Just because someone doesn\u2019t know how to love you doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re unlovable.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>I know that awful feeling. Here you are, and there he is. It seems like you can\u2019t reach him no matter what you do.<\/p>\n<p>It feels like you\u2019re invisible; he doesn\u2019t even see you. Do you even matter to him? Would anything you do make him blink, if nothing else? It seems not.<\/p>\n<p>The person who\u2019s the biggest part of your life seems not to care whether you\u2019re even there. At that very moment, you\u2019re unimportant.<\/p>\n<p>Pareces tan peque\u00f1o a sus ojos. Deseas ser peque\u00f1o en realidad. Deseas retirarte tan dentro de ti que nadie pueda verte.<\/p>\n<p>How can you even exist with such little value you carry? That\u2019s how a woman feels when her man makes her feel unwanted and unloved.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You have to run \u2013 run and never come back. Don\u2019t think twice, because you\u2019re not leaving anything behind but the pain.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Tu hombre deber\u00eda valorarte, protegerte, cuidarte. Deber\u00eda amarte y reconocer cuando hace algo que te hace sentir invisible.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-81949\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/sad-young-woman.jpg\" alt=\"una joven triste llorando enfocada y un hombre tumbado en una cama a lo lejos y borroso\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/sad-young-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/sad-young-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/sad-young-woman-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>If he\u2019s got you to a point where you no longer see yourself, that\u2019s the point of no return. Go now. Don\u2019t fall into the trap of trying to make yourself more noticeable for him.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Don\u2019t bend over backward to attract his attention. You don\u2019t need it any longer.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>No matter what you do at this point, it won\u2019t benefit you in any way. It will only make you feel worse to know that even when you try your hardest to make him notice you, he still doesn\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re not the one to blame. It\u2019s not the things you did or did not do that made him act this way. That\u2019s the reason you\u2019re also not the one who can change this.<\/p>\n<p>The only thing you can do is leave while there\u2019s still time for you to go back to your confident, healthy, powerful self.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Don\u2019t waste your time on trying to go back to something you two maybe had before he started going blind to everything about you.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s no going back.<\/p>\n<p>If you stay, you\u2019ll fall deeper in the mud every day. With every morning you\u2019ll feel weaker, more tired, more sad than you did the day before.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Day by day there\u2019ll be nothing left of the person you used to be. You\u2019ll become a shadow of the girl who once existed.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>La chica que sab\u00eda <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/la-chica-de-las-cartas-necesita-aprecio\/\">apreciarse a s\u00ed misma<\/a> y del mundo. La chica que amaba la vida, se amaba a s\u00ed misma y sab\u00eda repartir amor all\u00e1 donde iba.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-81951\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/grayscale-photography-of-man.jpg\" alt=\"fotograf\u00eda en escala de grises de un hombre de pie en el lado del puente con una persona borrosa en la distancia\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/grayscale-photography-of-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/grayscale-photography-of-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/grayscale-photography-of-man-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/en-el-momento-en-que-me-vaya-y-deje-de-luchar-considera-que-me-he-ido-para-siempre\/\">She\u2019ll be gone forever<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>La gente dice que lo m\u00e1s valioso de nuestros seres queridos nunca es lo que son como personas, sino la maravillosa forma en que nos hacen sentir.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>If he makes you feel like nothing, there\u2019s nothing about him to regret leaving.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>That girl though\u2026 She\u2019s worth it. Everything about her is worth it. Don\u2019t leave her behind, that\u2019s something you will regret. She\u2019s the one you should seek. She\u2019s the one to protect.<\/p>\n<p>Leave now. It won\u2019t be easy, but you will heal. Getting away from him will be your starting point in this journey of regaining your strength and confidence.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Don\u2019t let him make you think you\u2019re the one who\u2019s unlovable. Just because there\u2019s a dark cloud over his head that stops him from seeing your worth, it definitely doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re unworthy.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Dejar que te haga sentir indeseada y destruya tu autoestima es lo peor que puedes hacerle a esa chica incre\u00edble.<\/p>\n<p>He was a bump in the road and he did slow you down, but don\u2019t let him stop you for good.<\/p>\n<p>Everything he ruined can be rebuilt. Once you realize you shouldn\u2019t question your value, things will start falling back into their rightful place.<\/p>\n<p>This is where you learn never to let this happen to you again.&nbsp;There will always be people who won\u2019t see your worth \u2013 the most important thing is that you don\u2019t let it be you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-81956\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/If-He-Ever-Makes-You-Feel-Unwanted-Leave-And-Never-Turn-Back-Pinterest.png\" alt=\"Si alguna vez te hace sentir indeseada, vete y no vuelvas atr\u00e1s\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/If-He-Ever-Makes-You-Feel-Unwanted-Leave-And-Never-Turn-Back-Pinterest.png 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/If-He-Ever-Makes-You-Feel-Unwanted-Leave-And-Never-Turn-Back-Pinterest-200x300.png 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/If-He-Ever-Makes-You-Feel-Unwanted-Leave-And-Never-Turn-Back-Pinterest-683x1024.png 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/If-He-Ever-Makes-You-Feel-Unwanted-Leave-And-Never-Turn-Back-Pinterest-768x1152.png 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The worst thing about people who make you feel unwanted is the way they motivate you to start thinking you\u2019re unworthy. No one should ever question their own worth. Just because someone doesn\u2019t know how to love you doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re unlovable. I know that awful feeling. Here you are, and there he is. It&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":81952,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-81944","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/If-He-Ever-Makes-You-Feel-Unwanted-Leave-And-Never-Turn-Back.jpg",800,546,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81944","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=81944"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81944\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/81952"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=81944"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=81944"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=81944"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}