{"id":82010,"date":"2020-06-22T12:48:38","date_gmt":"2020-06-22T12:48:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=82010"},"modified":"2022-01-10T00:27:43","modified_gmt":"2022-01-10T00:27:43","slug":"estaras-bien-sin-el","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/estaras-bien-sin-el\/","title":{"rendered":"Una carta de promesa a m\u00ed mismo: Estar\u00e1s bien sin \u00e9l"},"content":{"rendered":"

Hey, you. I know that you\u2019re not only con el coraz\u00f3n roto<\/a> y devastado.<\/p>\n

After all, you\u2019re a smart girl and you\u2019re perfectly aware that your heartache will go away sooner or later. The biggest problem here is that you\u2019re scared<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re terrified of having to keep on living without this man by your side. Without the man you thought was your other half and without the man who completed you.<\/p>\n

Durante todos esos a\u00f1os, estuviste convencido de que \u00e9l era tu salvador y la \u00fanica persona que te manten\u00eda con vida. Le ve\u00edas como tu raz\u00f3n para vivir, como tu mayor motivaci\u00f3n y como la causa de tu existencia.<\/p>\n

Pusiste toda tu energ\u00eda en tu relaci\u00f3n. Estabas dispuesta a hacer lo que fuera para mantenerlo a tu lado.<\/p>\n

You lost everyone because he asked you to. Your friends weren\u2019t good enough, your family didn\u2019t mean you well and you cut all of them off.<\/p>\n

Most of all\u2014te perdiste<\/a>. La chica que eras antes de que \u00e9l llegara dej\u00f3 de existir. La destruy\u00f3, tir\u00f3 su alma inocente y la mat\u00f3 espiritualmente.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ya no eras una persona, una hija o una amiga. De hecho, ya no eras una mujer. T\u00fa s\u00f3lo ten\u00edas el papel de su novia y para ti no exist\u00eda ning\u00fan mundo fuera de vuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Con el tiempo, este hombre se convirti\u00f3 en el centro de tu universo.<\/p>\n

\"novia<\/p>\n

La \u00fanica persona que te hac\u00eda sentir segura y protegida, el \u00fanico que pod\u00eda poner una sonrisa en tu cara y el \u00fanico hombre vivo que pod\u00eda hacerte feliz.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, ahora se ha ido<\/strong>. Te dej\u00f3 colgado y te abandon\u00f3 cuando m\u00e1s lo necesitabas<\/a>.<\/p>\n

So, you don\u2019t think you can make it without him. You saw him as your rock, safe haven and sanctuary.<\/p>\n

Crees que al perderle, has perdido todo lo valioso de tu vida.<\/strong> You\u2019re convinced that by breaking your heart, he also broke you beyond repair.<\/p>\n

Well, let me tell you that this couldn\u2019t be further from the truth. In fact, I\u2019m here to promise you that you\u2019ll be okay without him, even though you probably don\u2019t believe me now.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You won\u2019t miss him forever. In fact, one of these days you\u2019ll wake up with a smile on your face and you\u2019ll realize that this man wasn\u2019t the first thing you thought of.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll learn how to live without his presence<\/strong>. You\u2019ll remember who you really are and you\u2019ll become independent and powerful once again.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll understand that eres m\u00e1s que suficiente para ser feliz<\/strong>. That you don\u2019t need him to have your back and that he was actually the one not allowing you to reach your full potential.<\/p>\n

Ver\u00e1s, este tipo puso mucho empe\u00f1o en hacerte sentir indefensa. Quer\u00eda que pensaras que eras incapaz de vivir por tu cuenta y que le necesitabas para sobrevivir en este duro mundo.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Era la \u00fanica forma de mantenerte a su lado. La manera de que te haga emocionalmente dependiente<\/a> sobre \u00e9l y la forma de convertirte en su v\u00edctima.<\/strong><\/p>\n

However, after a while, you\u2019ll understand that he actually did you a favor when he left you to struggle on your own.<\/p>\n

S\u00ed, te hizo ocultar la mujer fuerte que eras antes de \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

However, that woman is still there, buried somewhere inside of you\u2014you just have to put some effort into digging deep enough to find you.<\/p>\n

S\u00ed, te rompi\u00f3 el coraz\u00f3n en un mill\u00f3n de pedacitos. Sin embargo, te aseguro que tienes lo que hace falta para pegar cada uno de ellos.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, cr\u00e9ame cuando le digo que he didn\u2019t break you because you\u2019re stronger than that. You\u2019re made of steel and you will rise back from the ashes like a phoenix.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I won\u2019t lie to you; scars will remain. Those painful wounds all over your soul will eventually heal but they will leave a mark.<\/p>\n

No, they won\u2019t hurt forever. Instead, they will serve you as a reminder of everything you had to experience…<\/p>\n

… as a reminder that you went through hell but were strong enough to come back from it more powerful than ever. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Te servir\u00e1n como recordatorio de tu fuerza y de tu supervivencia.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Una<\/p>\n

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Hey, you. I know that you\u2019re not only heartbroken and devastated. After all, you\u2019re a smart girl and you\u2019re perfectly aware that your heartache will go away sooner or later. The biggest problem here is that you\u2019re scared. You\u2019re terrified of having to keep on living without this man by your side. Without the man…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-82010","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":false,"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","parent":29651,"count":207,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29653,"category_count":207,"category_description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","cat_name":"letters","category_nicename":"letters","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/82010","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=82010"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/82010\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=82010"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=82010"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=82010"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}