{"id":82833,"date":"2020-06-22T12:28:40","date_gmt":"2020-06-22T12:28:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=82833"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:36:05","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:36:05","slug":"tu-pareja-es-simplemente-toxica","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/tu-pareja-es-simplemente-toxica\/","title":{"rendered":"Dios no est\u00e1 poniendo a prueba tu relaci\u00f3n, tu pareja es t\u00f3xica"},"content":{"rendered":"

You know what this is? This isn\u2019t just some lame letter. It’s an intervention. For you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Te entiendo de verdad, de verdad. Est\u00e1s perdidamente enamorada de \u00e9l y tratas de justificarlo cada vez que te hace algo malo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Lo entiendo porque una vez estuve en tu lugar.<\/i><\/b> Una vez estuve ciegamente enamorada de un hombre. Juro que ese tipo pod\u00eda hacer lo que quisiera y aun as\u00ed, nunca lo dejar\u00eda.<\/span><\/p>\n

Me volqu\u00e9 demasiado en esa relaci\u00f3n. Era esa clase de amor <\/span>cuando olvidas<\/span> <\/a>todo y a todos los que te rodean. Esa persona se convierte en el centro de tu mundo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Todo mi mundo giraba s\u00f3lo en torno a \u00e9l. Nuestra relaci\u00f3n se convirti\u00f3 en lo \u00fanico importante para m\u00ed.<\/span><\/p>\n

Se convirti\u00f3 en mi \u00faltimo pensamiento antes de irme a la cama, mi primer pensamiento al despertarme. La raz\u00f3n de mi sonrisa. En tan poco tiempo, <\/span>se convirti\u00f3 en todo mi universo.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I know that there are no guarantees in life but I never could even imagine that I\u2019d fall so deeply in love with someone who\u2019d be my worst nightmare in the end.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

I gave my all to a man who didn’t even deserve for me to wave at him when I see him on the street.<\/b><\/p>\n

Por su culpa, perd\u00ed a mucha gente que me quer\u00eda de verdad y lo lamento hasta el d\u00eda de hoy.<\/b><\/p>\n

He never gave me any reason to love him at all and even so, I loved him with all my heart. I couldn’t explain that to anyone.<\/span><\/p>\n

I think that’s how love actually is\u2014unexplainable and unreasonable. However, I know that you get me.  <\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo est\u00e1 jugando contigo, conf\u00eda en m\u00ed.<\/i><\/b> You are worth so much more than that. You are worthy of a man who’ll be able to love you the same way you love him and even more. Someone who’ll appreciate and cherish you.<\/span><\/p>\n

I turned my back on all the people who spoke badly about him\u2014my family and friends\u2026 They all tried to warn me that he wasn\u2019t good for me but I didn’t want to listen. <\/span><\/p>\n

Pens\u00e9 que s\u00f3lo estaban celosos.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

\u00bfCelosa de qu\u00e9? \u00bfDe una relaci\u00f3n tan t\u00f3xica y da\u00f1ada? \u00bfDe un hombre que me falt\u00f3 al respeto y me humill\u00f3 tantas veces?<\/b><\/p>\n

I didn’t think clearly back then. Now I do but it’s too late. I already hurt my loved ones, people who only wanted to save me from that toxic man and who only wanted what was best for me.<\/span><\/p>\n

This is my story and I only wanted to get through to you through my experience. I wanted to share my story with you and make you realize what is also waiting for you if you don’t stop it in time.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don’t blame God anymore for your damaged relationship. Trust me, God is always on your side. He would never make you suffer like you’re suffering right now.<\/b><\/p>\n

God isn’t testing your relationship. All those terrible things that you’re going through right now aren’t God’s fault. It’s only your partner. He is the one who makes you suffer so much.<\/span><\/p>\n

Despierta. <\/span>He doesn’t love you and he never will.<\/i><\/b> He’s there only because he knows how you feel about him and that you’ll do whatever it takes to keep him in your life.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

I know that he often tells you how he loves you more than anything in this world and how he’ll stay with you until the end, no matter what.<\/span><\/p>\n

Esos <\/span>son s\u00f3lo palabras<\/span> <\/a>and words mean nothing when his actions speak differently. Remember that he’s a player and a pretty good one. He’s good with words because he knows that most women like to hear sweet words.<\/span><\/p>\n

Por favor, s\u00e9 m\u00e1s listo que yo. <\/span>D\u00e9jalo de una vez por todas.<\/i><\/b> Don’t allow yourself to lose all the people who love you because of a man who never did.<\/span><\/p>\n

As hard as it is, you have to burn that bridge. You have to close that chapter. It’s time to listen to that advice from your loved ones.<\/span><\/p>\n

It’s time to take back control over your own life. It’s time to make a change. It’s time to admit that you were wrong all this time. It’s time to show that toxic man who <\/span>el verdadero jugador<\/span> es<\/span>.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

Conf\u00eda en m\u00ed, hay un cap\u00edtulo mejor escrito para ti en tu libro de la vida<\/i><\/b> but you’ll never be able to open it until you completely close the old one.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Dios<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You know what this is? This isn\u2019t just some lame letter. It’s an intervention. For you. I really get you, I honestly do. You are head over heels in love with him and you try to justify him whenever he does something bad to you. I understand it because I was once in your place….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":82834,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29616],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-82833","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spirituality"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29616,"label":"spirituality"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/God-Isnt-Testing-Your-Relationship-Your-Partner-Is-Just-Toxic.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29616,"name":"spirituality","slug":"spirituality","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29616,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you feel like you need help staying in touch with your spirituality and higher self, this is where you'll find all the inspiration and strength you lack.","parent":38,"count":147,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29616,"category_count":147,"category_description":"If you feel like you need help staying in touch with your spirituality and higher self, this is where you'll find all the inspiration and strength you lack.","cat_name":"spirituality","category_nicename":"spirituality","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/82833","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=82833"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/82833\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/82834"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=82833"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=82833"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=82833"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}