{"id":82860,"date":"2020-06-22T12:27:37","date_gmt":"2020-06-22T12:27:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=82860"},"modified":"2022-06-29T11:36:21","modified_gmt":"2022-06-29T11:36:21","slug":"amistades-inapropiadas-estando-casado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/amistades-inapropiadas-estando-casado\/","title":{"rendered":"Amistades inapropiadas cuando se est\u00e1 casado: \u00bfSon \"s\u00f3lo amigos\"?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Como todo el mundo, <\/span>personas casadas<\/span> tambi\u00e9n tienen <\/span>amigos del sexo opuesto<\/span>. Estos <\/span>amistades del sexo opuesto<\/span> are usually perfectly innocent \u2013 until they turn into inappropriate friendships when married! <\/span><\/p>\n

It’s when they start working extra hours, coming home with traces of lipstick on their collar, excessively <\/span>mensajes de texto<\/span>, and you start wondering: “<\/span>What the hell is happening?” <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

“Hmm…that male\/<\/span><\/i>compa\u00f1era de trabajo<\/span><\/i> seemed suspicious to me the second I saw him\/her. I could tell by the way they looked at my spouse that they were interested.\u201d <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

\u201cBut, I know my loved one would never do such a thing. They would never hurt me, well, not deliberately. Okay, I’m seriously starting to suspect that something fishy is going on here!”<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

And that’s how you ended up here searching for ‘inappropriate friendships when married’. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tal vez sospecha que su marido o mujer est\u00e1 teniendo una <\/span>aventura emocional<\/span><\/a> (o Dios no lo quiera <\/span>relaci\u00f3n f\u00edsica<\/span>), or you’re just interested in the way friendships (should) function when you\u2019re married.<\/span><\/p>\n

No worries, we’ll cover all that here, so buckle up because it’s going to be a bumpy ride!<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfEst\u00e1 bien que un hombre o una mujer casados tengan un amigo del sexo opuesto?<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Mi humilde opini\u00f3n es que est\u00e1 bien que un <\/span>pareja casada<\/span> salir con gente del <\/span>sexo opuesto<\/span> because there’s no way you can avoid this (unless you’re a total introvert and you refuse to socialize with anyone). <\/span><\/p>\n

Nuestros trabajos, rutinas diarias, aficiones, gimnasios, cafeter\u00edas, etc. son lugares en los que conocemos a montones de personas con las que pasamos mucho tiempo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Nos convertimos en <\/span>buenos amigos<\/span> con nuestro compa\u00f1eros<\/a> (tanto hombres como mujeres) porque nuestro trabajo es el lugar donde pasamos la mayor parte de nuestro tiempo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ser\u00eda realmente inc\u00f3modo que te negaras incluso a hablar con tu colega porque tu c\u00f3nyuge est\u00e1 demasiado celoso de todos los que te rodean. Esto interferir\u00eda en tu trabajo, tu vida social y tu cordura.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

It would be really hard to track who you could and could not socialize with, right? That leads us to the most important thing in a marriage \u2013 TRUST. <\/span><\/p>\n

Can you trust that your partner won’t do anything stupid when hanging out with their <\/span>mejor amigo del sexo opuesto<\/span>? \u00bfCree usted en <\/span>amistades plat\u00f3nicas<\/span><\/a>? <\/span><\/p>\n

En el matrimonio y otras relaciones, todo se basa en la confianza. Si no hay confianza, le costar\u00e1 dejar que su c\u00f3nyuge forme <\/span>estrechas amistades<\/span> con el <\/span>sexo opuesto<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you’ve had a bad experience in the past when it comes to <\/span>amistades plat\u00f3nicas<\/span>entonces puede que tengas problemas para tolerarlos. Pero, una vez m\u00e1s, todo depende de la capacidad de confiar en tu pareja. <\/span><\/p>\n

When you know you can trust them, then you know it’s okay for them to spend time with a <\/span>miembro del sexo opuesto<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfEst\u00e1 bien que los casados est\u00e9n a solas con otro hombre\/mujer?<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Cuando se trata de salir con gente del <\/span>sexo opuesto<\/span>, there’s a difference between hanging out in public\/groups and spending time alone. <\/span><\/p>\n

But, truth be told, you don’t have to hide in an isolated coffee shop or similar in order to be alone with someone.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tanto los hombres como las mujeres pasan muchas horas juntos en el trabajo y a veces tienen que hacer horas extra con uno de sus compa\u00f1eros o compa\u00f1eras. <\/span><\/p>\n

Van juntos de viaje de negocios (s\u00e9 que te acabas de imaginar esas camas tan acogedoras en las habitaciones de hotel), y tambi\u00e9n pasan juntos ratos de relax despu\u00e9s del trabajo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Or imagine that there’s only <\/span>una persona<\/span> at the gym at the moment your spouse arrives. The chances that they would communicate are really high because it would be really awkward if they didn’t. <\/span><\/p>\n

Entonces, \u00bfest\u00e1 bien que un <\/span>hombre casado<\/span> o mujer estar a solas con ese <\/span>una persona<\/span> en el gimnasio? Algunos dir\u00edan que s\u00ed, otros que no. <\/span><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

I would say yes because there’s no point in pretending that you’re totally antisocial just because you have to be alone with that <\/span>una persona<\/span> en el mismo lugar. <\/span><\/p>\n

En caso de que haya respondido que no, la pregunta es: \u00bfQu\u00e9 es un <\/span>hombre casado<\/span> o un <\/span>mujer casada<\/span> \u00bfQu\u00e9 se supone que hay que hacer en una situaci\u00f3n as\u00ed? <\/span><\/p>\n

Should they turn around and leave once they see there’s only <\/span>una persona<\/span> del sexo opuesto? Ser\u00eda muy inc\u00f3modo y una estupidez. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfEstar\u00eda bien rechazar un viaje de negocios con un colega del <\/span>sexo opuesto<\/span>? Our jobs are not something we can play with. We don’t really have a choice when it comes to this, so there’s nothing we can do about it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Entonces, la pregunta es: \u00bfEn qu\u00e9 situaci\u00f3n no estar\u00eda bien que un <\/b>hombre casado<\/b> o una mujer para estar a solas con otra mujer\/hombre?<\/b><\/p>\n

Y la respuesta es: Cuando no son de fiar (no se puede confiar en ellos) y\/o est\u00e1n bajo los efectos del alcohol, o cuando esa otra mujer u otro hombre es alguien con quien sol\u00edan tener una relaci\u00f3n sentimental.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Te sorprender\u00eda lo f\u00e1cil que es revivir una vieja pasi\u00f3n.<\/span><\/p>\n

Unas copas, muchas risas, <\/span>confiando en<\/span> el uno en el otro, sutil <\/span>coqueteos<\/span>, <\/span>apoyo emocional<\/span>, plenty of good time and voila; we have a recipe for ‘inappropriate friendships when married’.<\/span><\/p>\n

Antes de lo que te imaginas, acabas evitando cada <\/span>bandera roja<\/span> and doing something you probably shouldn’t; something you’ve sworn you’ll never do no matter what.<\/span><\/p>\n

Una vez que revivas un <\/span>conexi\u00f3n emocional<\/span> con esa persona, <\/span>f\u00edsico<\/span> atracci\u00f3n<\/span><\/a> will follow. And it’s up to you whether you choose to do something on impulse, or think rationally and retreat. <\/span><\/p>\n

Por desgracia, no todos estamos dotados de un gran sentido del autocontrol.<\/span><\/p>\n

Some people can’t control themselves in critical situations because the urge and temptation to do something they know is wrong is strong. <\/span><\/p>\n

After that they usually feel regret and wish they hadn’t listened to their impulse but rather the rational side of the brain. That is when acquaintances or friendships form into inappropriate friendships when married. <\/span><\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <\/span>7 se\u00f1ales de que tu hombre est\u00e1 teniendo una <\/span>Asunto emocional<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

C\u00f3mo evitar que las amistades de g\u00e9nero opuesto se conviertan en amistades inapropiadas<\/h2>\n

Si quiere proteger su <\/span>matrimonio<\/span>necesita <\/span>establecer l\u00edmites<\/span> cuando se trata de <\/span>relaciones de g\u00e9nero opuesto<\/span> fuera de tu matrimonio. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tienes que hacer una lista imaginaria de comportamientos aceptables e inaceptables, para saber c\u00f3mo reaccionar en determinadas situaciones. <\/span><\/p>\n

When you know what is considered acceptable, it’s easier for you to <\/span>establecer l\u00edmites<\/span> y c\u00ed\u00f1ete a ellas. Sabr\u00e1s exactamente qu\u00e9 hacer o qu\u00e9 no hacer cuando salgas con tu <\/span>amiga<\/span> o amigo var\u00f3n. <\/span><\/p>\n

Establecer l\u00edmites es el primer paso para proteger tu intimidad. <\/span>propia relaci\u00f3n<\/span> and that’s why it is essential. <\/span><\/p>\n

Here’s a list of rules that will help you set <\/span>amistad entre personas del mismo sexo<\/span> l\u00edmites:<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Mant\u00e9n claras tus prioridades<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Uno de los mayores peligros de <\/span>amistades del sexo opuesto<\/span> es el impulso de darles a veces prioridad sobre su c\u00f3nyuge. <\/span><\/p>\n

Intercambiando toneladas de <\/span>mensajes de texto<\/span> a diario, incluyendo <\/span>datos personales<\/span> (reservado para su c\u00f3nyuge) y seguir todos sus movimientos en <\/span>redes sociales<\/span> puede contribuir a priorizar su <\/span>amigo del sexo opuesto<\/span> sobre tu compa\u00f1ero.<\/span><\/p>\n

Cuando empiezas a fantasear con tener un <\/span>relaci\u00f3n \u00edntima<\/span> con tu amigo, vuestra amistad se vuelve inapropiada a cierto nivel. <\/span><\/p>\n

When you blackmail your partner by saying that you will abandon them if they don’t accept your <\/span>amistad de g\u00e9nero opuesto<\/span>empiezas a dar prioridad a tu amigo en vez de a ellos.<\/span><\/p>\n

That’s why it’s important to always keep your priorities straight no matter what.<\/span><\/p>\n

Preg\u00fantate qu\u00e9 es m\u00e1s importante para ti. \u00bfEs su c\u00f3nyuge o su amigo? <\/span>Si la respuesta es esta \u00faltima, entonces deber\u00edas reconsiderar la idea de casarte.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Sea sincero con su pareja<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Me gusta llamarlo el asesino silencioso de toda relaci\u00f3n.<\/span><\/p>\n

Cuando tienes tendencia a mentir a tu pareja sobre tu paradero o sobre determinadas actividades con tu <\/span>amigo del sexo opuesto<\/span>, you know what you’re doing is not right. <\/span><\/p>\n

Otherwise, you wouldn’t lie to your partner about it, right?<\/span><\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, siempre que tengas ganas de ocultarle algo a tu c\u00f3nyuge, preg\u00fantate por qu\u00e9 sientes que necesitas hacerlo en primer lugar.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfTiene miedo de que su c\u00f3nyuge se ponga celoso? \u00bfO crees que tienen motivos para estar celosos?<\/span><\/p>\n

When you know what you’re doing is not right, don’t do it. Well, don’t do it if you care about <\/span>salvar su matrimonio<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Always be honest with your partner because that’s the only way to prevent <\/span>amistades del sexo opuesto<\/span> de convertirse en amistades inapropiadas cuando se est\u00e1 casado.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Evite cualquier tipo de coqueteo con su amigo (especialmente delante de su c\u00f3nyuge).<\/h2>\n

\"dos<\/p>\n

When we’re having a good time with our friends, we usually have a tendency to get extra personal with them. We subtly touch them while laughing, or make inappropriate jokes and similar. <\/span><\/p>\n

Well, there’s a thin boundary between regular friendly behavior and flirtatious behavior when it comes to hanging out with friends of the opposite gender. <\/span><\/p>\n

Just one inappropriate, subtle touch when laughing could make you look like you’re more than “just friends”. <\/span><\/p>\n

It is easy to cross the line when you’re feeling comfortable in their company and that’s why you need to ensure you avoid any kind of flirtatious behavior with your <\/span>sexo opuesto<\/span> amigo (especialmente delante de su c\u00f3nyuge). <\/span><\/p>\n

You don’t want them to feel uncomfortable or to start suspecting you’re having an affair with your friend. You want them to trust you and when they do, then you know there’s nothing you should worry about.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Don’t force your partner to also be friends with your opposite gender friend<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

There is nothing worse than forcing your partner to do something they’re not comfortable with. Just because you enjoy spending time with your <\/span>sexo opuesto<\/span> friend, this doesn’t mean your partner will enjoy it, too.<\/span><\/p>\n

Todos tenemos libertad para elegir a nuestros amigos, as\u00ed que obligarles a aceptar a tu amigo y pasar tiempo con \u00e9l es un poco ego\u00edsta. <\/span><\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, la raz\u00f3n principal por la que muchas personas empiezan a insistir en que su c\u00f3nyuge sea amigo de su <\/span>sexo opuesto<\/span> amigo es porque quieren pasar m\u00e1s tiempo con su amigo.<\/span><\/p>\n

They don’t want to choose between their friend and spouse. I mean, why would they when they can have both? Or perhaps not.<\/span><\/p>\n

The bottom line is, if your spouse wants to hang out with your friend, that’s okay. But, if they don’t, there’s no need to insist they change their mind about it.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Limita el tiempo que pasas con tu amigo del sexo opuesto<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

This one is closely connected with the previous one. If you don’t limit your time spent together with your <\/span>sexo opuesto<\/span> amigo, puede que acabes pasando m\u00e1s tiempo con \u00e9l que con tu c\u00f3nyuge.<\/span><\/p>\n

Si tu amigo es tu colega, con pasar tiempo juntos en el trabajo y salir de vez en cuando a tomar algo o algo similar deber\u00eda bastar.<\/span><\/p>\n

Imagina que pasaras unas horas al d\u00eda en el trabajo con tu colega y que despu\u00e9s pasaras todo tu tiempo libre con \u00e9l.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ser\u00eda demasiado, \u00bfverdad? <\/span><\/p>\n

You wouldn’t have time for anything else, like spending quality time with your spouse or <\/span>familiares<\/span>. Como todo en la vida, el equilibrio es la clave de unas relaciones felices y sanas. <\/span><\/p>\n

Pasar demasiado tiempo con alguien puede convertirse poco a poco en un h\u00e1bito t\u00f3xico. Descuidar a otras personas de tu vida, tus aficiones y similares no es sano porque la diversidad es la clave de la felicidad.<\/span><\/p>\n

6. Don’t accuse your spouse of ser demasiado celoso<\/a>, insane, or “crazy”<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

If your spouse is showing any signs of jealousy or if they are freaking out about something you did or said, don’t take it for granted. <\/span><\/p>\n

There’s probably a reason why they are acting that way and that reason might be connected with your inappropriate friendship(s).<\/span><\/p>\n

The thing is, we all experience jealousy in a different way. Perhaps you don’t see your actions as something your partner should worry about, but they do because that is their jealousy trigger.<\/span><\/p>\n

When that happens, don’t accuse your spouse of being overly jealous, insane, or crazy. Partners who truly care about each other always make sure they show understanding and sacrifice some things when needed.<\/span><\/p>\n

Por ejemplo, pasar menos tiempo con su <\/span>sexo opuesto<\/span> amigo o evitar salir de viaje con \u00e9l puede no ser un cambio dr\u00e1stico para ti, pero puede significar el mundo para tu pareja. <\/span><\/p>\n

7. Don’t form inappropriate friendships with the opposite gender<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

You’re probably thinking: <\/span>Oh really? Like I didn’t know that already. <\/span><\/i>Bromas aparte, lo que quiero decir con evitar formar inapropiadas <\/span>amistades del sexo opuesto<\/span> es que hay que prestar atenci\u00f3n a factores inadecuados.<\/span><\/p>\n

Uno de los factores inadecuados m\u00e1s comunes es la edad.<\/span><\/p>\n

Imagine that you’re a 65-year-old man <\/span>mensajes de texto<\/span> y salir con una mujer que est\u00e1 en sus treinta sobre una base regular. \u00bfCrees que a tu c\u00f3nyuge no le parecer\u00eda un poco raro y empezar\u00eda a sospechar?<\/span><\/p>\n

Chances are they would and that’s why you need to pay attention to those factors because they are often a true measure of inappropriateness. <\/span><\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: Cuando tu mayor amor se casa con su mayor amor<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

8 se\u00f1ales de advertencia de que hay\/hab\u00eda un inter\u00e9s rom\u00e1ntico en una amistad del sexo opuesto<\/h2>\n

Si observa alguno de los signos siguientes, lo m\u00e1s probable es que su <\/span>amistad de g\u00e9nero opuesto<\/span> es o era m\u00e1s que eso:<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Constantly repeating that you’re “just friends”<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Si dices <\/span>We’re just friends<\/span><\/i> once or twice, it’s really not a big deal, but if you keep repeating it, then it’s something you should worry about. Why?<\/span><\/p>\n

Because repeating things doesn’t only mean reassuring others that you’re just friends, it often means that you’re trying to convince yourself to believe something you know is not true.<\/span><\/p>\n

This happens on a subconscious level, so we’re mostly unaware of it.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pero, si te das cuenta de que sigues repiti\u00e9ndolo aunque nadie te haya dicho nada al respecto, entonces sabes que tienes el impulso de justificar las cosas, obviamente, por una raz\u00f3n.<\/span><\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <\/span>6 razones por las que no puedes ser \"s\u00f3lo amigo\" de alguien a quien una vez amaste <\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

2. Compartir cosas \u00edntimas y aspectos problem\u00e1ticos de tu matrimonio con tu amigo del sexo opuesto.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Aunque las amistades son cada vez m\u00e1s flexibles a medida que pasa el tiempo, hay cosas que deben permanecer dentro de su marco. <\/span>matrimonio<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Compartir cosas \u00edntimas o aspectos problem\u00e1ticos de tu matrimonio con tu <\/span>amigo del sexo opuesto<\/span> es un <\/span>bandera roja<\/span> porque deber\u00edas hacerlo con tu c\u00f3nyuge y no con tu amigo. <\/span><\/p>\n

It means you feel as if your spouse doesn’t understand you, whereas your <\/span>sexo opuesto<\/span> amigo es aquel en quien conf\u00edas. <\/span><\/p>\n

Compartir cosas \u00edntimas forma <\/span>conexi\u00f3n emocional,<\/span> que es el primer paso para establecer tambi\u00e9n una conexi\u00f3n f\u00edsica.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Compararlos constantemente con su c\u00f3nyuge<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Your spouse and your friends should be two separate worlds because they’re on a different list of priorities.<\/span><\/p>\n

Si se encuentra comparando su <\/span>sexo opuesto<\/span> friend to your spouse, it means you’re prioritizing them equally.<\/span><\/p>\n

You compare them because they lack something your friend has and vice versa. You’re literally weighing up with whom you are more compatible in every aspect of your relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Alejarse<\/a> de sus obligaciones y actividades habituales<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You used to play football or go to dance class, but now all of a sudden you don’t have time for it or you’re not interested in it because you want to spend more time with your <\/span>sexo opuesto<\/span> amigo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Or you’re <\/span>mensajes de texto<\/span> them 24\/7 and as a result you constantly feel restless because you don’t get enough sleep, which might influence your job performance, for example.<\/span><\/p>\n

You’re gradually pulling away and the reason why you’re doing so is your best <\/span>sexo opuesto<\/span> amigo.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Pensar y fantasear constantemente con ellas<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Do you often find yourself thinking about them in between your tasks, when you’re feeling bored, or when you’re trying to fall asleep at night.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfSue\u00f1a despierto con ellos todo el tiempo? \u00bfFantaseas con intimar con ellos?<\/span><\/p>\n

If yes, then you know your friendship is starting to reek of “inappropriate”. <\/b><\/p>\n

Constantly thinking and fantasizing about them are signs of infatuation. It means you like them so much you can’t stop thinking about them even though you know it’s not right.<\/span><\/p>\n

6. Ocultar cosas a tu pareja<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Do you hide your phone from your spouse when you’re <\/span>mensajes de texto<\/span> with your friend? Do you lie to your spouse about your whereabouts when you’re about to hang out or go on a trip with your friend?<\/span><\/p>\n

If yes, then you’re deliberately hiding things from your partner because you know you’re doing something you shouldn’t.<\/span><\/p>\n

By doing that, you’re creating a gap in your marriage and giving your spouse legit reasons to be jealous and suspect you’re having an affair or similar.<\/span><\/p>\n

7. Hacerles regalos personales<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

\u00bfCu\u00e1ntas veces has ido a la tienda y has pensado en comprar algo para tu <\/span>sexo opuesto<\/span> amigo? \u00bfCu\u00e1ntas veces algo te ha recordado a ellos y has pensado que les encantar\u00eda?<\/span><\/p>\n

Hacerles regalos personales significa esforzarse por <\/span>haz que se sientan especiales<\/span><\/a>que es algo que deber\u00edas hacer en tu matrimonio.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you can’t remember the last time you surprised your spouse with a personal, unique gift, then it’s time to question your priorities and your friendship as well.<\/span><\/p>\n

8. Pasar tiempo a solas y dejarse llevar<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Do you often fantasize about being alone with them and that fantasy includes intimacy as well? Have you thought about going with the flow and indulging yourself despite the fact you’re still married?<\/span><\/p>\n

Este es el mayor <\/span>bandera roja<\/span> that you’re definitely not “just friends”, given that you’re seriously thinking about being more than that. <\/span><\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: L\u00edmites matrimoniales saludables con los amigos: Los 7 mejores ejemplos<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Reflexiones finales<\/h2>\n

If you’ve just realized that you or your spouse are suffering from a trending syndrome called “inappropriate friendships when married”, reset your priorities, talk to each other and, most importantly, be honest with each other. <\/span><\/p>\n

Remember that there’s nothing worse than doing something behind each other’s back. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Siempre <\/span>establecer l\u00edmites<\/span> para proteger su matrimonio y en caso de que su amistad con el <\/span>sexo opuesto<\/span> becomes inappropriate, press the pause button and reset your priorities (of course, assuming that you’re still in love with your spouse and you care about them). <\/span><\/p>\n

If not, sometimes going separate ways is necessary because it’s better than hurting each other or wasting each other’s time. <\/span><\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <\/span>10 Signs He Wants You To Be ‘Just Friends’<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

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Just like everyone else, married people also have friends of the opposite gender. These opposite gender friendships are usually perfectly innocent \u2013 until they turn into inappropriate friendships when married!  It’s when they start working extra hours, coming home with traces of lipstick on their collar, excessively texting, and you start wondering: “What the hell…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":82862,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29623],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-82860","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-marriage"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29623,"label":"marriage"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Inappropriate-Friendships-When-Married-Are-They-Just-Friends_.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29623,"name":"marriage","slug":"marriage","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29623,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Establishing a happy marriage is not an easy task. Learning how to recognize red flags and deal with issues will help you make your marriage successful.","parent":29620,"count":474,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29623,"category_count":474,"category_description":"Establishing a happy marriage is not an easy task. Learning how to recognize red flags and deal with issues will help you make your marriage successful.","cat_name":"marriage","category_nicename":"marriage","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/82860","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=82860"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/82860\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/82862"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=82860"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=82860"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=82860"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}