{"id":82964,"date":"2020-06-22T12:34:52","date_gmt":"2020-06-22T12:34:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=82964"},"modified":"2022-01-17T23:47:23","modified_gmt":"2022-01-17T23:47:23","slug":"un-chico-que-no-discute-estos-5-temas-contigo-no-es-el-chico-para-ti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/un-chico-que-no-discute-estos-5-temas-contigo-no-es-el-chico-para-ti\/","title":{"rendered":"Un chico que no quiere hablar contigo de estos 5 temas no es para ti"},"content":{"rendered":"

Lo hemos dicho un mill\u00f3n de veces. El santo grial de toda relaci\u00f3n sana y exitosa es... \u00bfQu\u00e9?<\/span><\/p>\n

Comunicaci\u00f3n<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

Open and honest communication is the foundation of any relationship\u2019s well-being. Still, there are some things that a person who isn\u2019t committed to you simply won\u2019t talk about.<\/span><\/p>\n

If he avoids talking to you about any of these five topics, I\u2019m sad to tell you that he\u2019s probably not the right person for you.<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Sus necesidades emocionales<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

If he doesn’t care about what your emotional needs are, there’s no way he’s going to fulfill them. <\/span><\/p>\n

Cada persona tiene una forma \u00fanica de ser amada que le hace sentirse segura y cuidada.<\/span><\/p>\n

Your partner should be open to listening about what it is that makes you feel emotionally satisfied so he can alter the way he’s treating you accordingly.<\/span><\/p>\n

There’s no point in being in a relationship with him if he doesn\u2019t make you feel safe to be as vulnerable as you are and want to be in front of him.<\/span><\/p>\n

Un chico que te hace sentir que tus necesidades son irrelevantes o te considera demasiado necesitada por querer que tus emociones sean tenidas en cuenta es probablemente un narcisista ego\u00edsta<\/a>. It\u2019s time for you to <\/span>d\u00e9jalo ir<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Planes para la futuro de su relaci\u00f3n<\/a><\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

It’s important to enjoy the moment, but being in a relationship with someone means that you’d like to spend a whole lot of time with them (do I hear forever?).<\/span><\/p>\n

This means you’re probably excited to plan your future together.<\/span><\/p>\n

If your partner isn’t willing to talk to you about what he sees in the future for the two of you, it usually means he isn\u2019t willing to think so far ahead, because by then he\u2019ll be long gone.<\/span><\/p>\n

If planning for the future with you seems like a waste of time to your boyfriend, he probably doesn’t see himself in it at all.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Sus inseguridades, miedos y emociones negativas<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Se supone que tu ser querido es tu puerto seguro. Deber\u00edas poder compartir con \u00e9l tus mayores inseguridades, y \u00e9l deber\u00eda ayudarte a hacerte m\u00e1s fuerte escuch\u00e1ndote y apoy\u00e1ndote.<\/span><\/p>\n

Your fears and problems shouldn\u2019t bore him but bother him \u2013 he should be the one to help you get through them by creating a safe environment in which you can share whatever is bugging you.<\/span><\/p>\n

If your boyfriend doesn’t want to listen to you talking about the problems you’re facing or fears you have, he’s definitely not the one for you<\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n

If he wants to be with you when you\u2019re at your best but isn\u2019t willing to deal with you at your worst, he has to go. <\/span>D\u00e9jalo.<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Everything about you makes you who you are \u2013 both the good and the bad. The right man will know that and love you even more for trusting him and choosing to share your problems with him.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Sus relaciones anteriores<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Your past has had a great impact on who you are today. Of course, he doesn’t need to know every little detail of how your life with your ex looked like, but he should be interested in your relationship history.<\/span><\/p>\n

No es algo de lo que haya que hablar todo el tiempo, pero en un momento dado la discusi\u00f3n es inevitable. <\/span><\/p>\n

What you’ve been through (love wise) should concern him and if he’s in love with you, he’ll probably want to know as much as he can.<\/span><\/p>\n

Una broma sobre tu ex en su nombre est\u00e1 bien, pero si se pone demasiado celoso o incluso se enfada cuando mencionas tus relaciones pasadas, deber\u00edas alejarte de \u00e9l.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Su individualidad<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

If your boyfriend doesn\u2019t want to accept that you had a life before him and plan on having a life now that he\u2019s around, he isn\u2019t a keeper.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s important to talk about areas of life that don\u2019t necessarily include your partner. Also, it\u2019s important to discuss boundaries you need the other person to respect when it comes to your personal matters.<\/span><\/p>\n

Just because two people are in a relationship, no matter how committed they are to one another, doesn\u2019t mean that they get to control other aspects of each other\u2019s lives.<\/span><\/p>\n

Still, it\u2019s incredibly important that he cares about what\u2019s happening to you at work, in your friendships, or in any other sphere of your life that doesn\u2019t include him.<\/span><\/p>\n

Also, if he\u2019s not willing to share what\u2019s he\u2019s up to when you\u2019re not around, that\u2019s your red flag right there.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a1Buena suerte, chicas! Y recordad, por muy inc\u00f3modo que os resulte compartir algo, la comunicaci\u00f3n es la clave de la curaci\u00f3n y la aceptaci\u00f3n.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

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We\u2019ve said it a million times. The holy grail of every healthy and successful relationship is\u2026 What? Communication. Open and honest communication is the foundation of any relationship\u2019s well-being. Still, there are some things that a person who isn\u2019t committed to you simply won\u2019t talk about. If he avoids talking to you about any of…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":82974,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-82964","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/A-Guy-Who-Wont-Discuss-These-5-Topics-With-You-Is-Not-The-Guy-For-You.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","parent":29643,"count":570,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29646,"category_count":570,"category_description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","cat_name":"understanding men","category_nicename":"understanding-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/82964","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=82964"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/82964\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/82974"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=82964"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=82964"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=82964"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}