Todas las noches sin dormir, \u00bfpara qu\u00e9? Otra decepci\u00f3n y otro nuevo comienzo, empezar de cero.<\/span><\/p>\n How do you let go of something that defined your life for so long? How do you make peace knowing what you thought was real suddenly isn\u2019t?<\/b><\/p>\n Me trajiste tanto dolor y me dejaste sola y confundida. Perd\u00ed toda direcci\u00f3n en mi vida porque estaba tan inmersa en hacerte feliz.<\/span><\/p>\n Olvid\u00e9 qui\u00e9n era sin ti y, cuando te fuiste de mi vida, me di cuenta de repente. Necesitaba encontrarme a m\u00ed misma de nuevo.<\/span><\/p>\n I don\u2019t want to see you as an enemy, but I do want to see myself as the hero of my own life.<\/b><\/p>\n For a moment I got scared I\u2019d never get back on my feet again, but now I know I will.<\/span><\/p>\n Life\u2019s an unpredictable journey and I\u2019ve always been a wanderer. I\u2019ve always felt too much yet never ever given up. You couldn\u2019t change that.<\/b><\/p>\n Ni siquiera despu\u00e9s de todo lo que me hiciste pasar. Ni siquiera cuando me hiciste da\u00f1o intencionadamente. Ni siquiera despu\u00e9s de todas las cosas imaginarias de las que me culpaste.<\/span><\/p>\n I always saw the good in you. I still do\u2026 but it\u2019s time for you to take care of yourself and for me to care about myself.<\/b><\/p>\n That\u2019s the lesson life taught me through you. You can\u2019t change somebody if they don\u2019t want to change themselves, no matter how hard you try.<\/b><\/p>\n Cada uno es responsable de sus propios actos y ninguna empat\u00eda har\u00e1 que alguien vea sus propios defectos cuando pone tanta energ\u00eda en evitarlos y culpar a los dem\u00e1s.<\/span><\/p>\n It\u2019s not my responsibility to save you. It\u2019s not my responsibility to keep you entertained and happy.<\/b><\/p>\n Nunca me hab\u00eda dado cuenta, pero ahora s\u00ed.<\/span><\/p>\n La \u00fanica manera de crecer es mediante la autorreflexi\u00f3n y la humildad, equilibrando nuestro ego y nuestras emociones.<\/b><\/p>\n The ego is not always bad, because it\u2019s there to protect us. The problem is when it gets so big there\u2019s no room for anything else but ego.<\/span><\/p>\n That\u2019s when the lack of self-reflection makes you blind to other people\u2019s feelings and needs.<\/span><\/p>\n That\u2019s why I had to take care of them on my own. That\u2019s why I promised myself I will change my life for the better, even if that means living without you.<\/span><\/p>\n I will not make our story an example of failure but of a life\u2019s lesson that needed to happen in order for good things to come.<\/b><\/p>\n No har\u00e9 de nuestro amor una tragedia, sino un aprendizaje.<\/span><\/p>\n This lesson requires self-love and braveness, and I\u2019m here for it.<\/span><\/p>\n I\u2019m slowly learning to love myself for all the things I am. I\u2019m learning how to forgive myself and give myself a second chance.<\/b><\/p>\n I know I\u2019m worthy of real love and pure attention, and I won\u2019t accept anything less.<\/span><\/p>\n S\u00e9 que el amor que doy puede serme devuelto de la misma manera.<\/span><\/p>\n And above all, I know that I\u2019m enough the way I am.<\/span><\/p>\n Luch\u00e9 durante tanto tiempo para aceptarme y ahora por fin empiezo a ver lo bueno que hay en m\u00ed. Ir\u00f3nicamente, fue s\u00f3lo despu\u00e9s de que ya no estuvieras aqu\u00ed.<\/b><\/p>\n Me niego a volver a poner mi felicidad en manos de otras personas.<\/span><\/p>\n Now that I know my life is in my hands, I\u2019m ready to make something great out of it.<\/span><\/p>\n I\u2019m ready to start over and think of you as someone who helped me get there.<\/b><\/p>\n As I said before, life\u2019s an unpredictable journey, but I\u2019m determined to make it the best it can be.<\/b><\/p>\n I wish I could say I\u2019m happy I met you, but that would be a lie. On the contrary, I sometimes wish we never met at all. Either way, it is what it is, and now I\u2019m learning to live with your memory in the back of my mind, hoping it would somehow cease to…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":83145,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-83144","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Our-Relationship-Wasnt-A-Failure-But-Redirection-Toward-Good-Things-To-Come.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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