{"id":84393,"date":"2020-07-09T08:31:06","date_gmt":"2020-07-09T08:31:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=84393"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:42:36","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:42:36","slug":"chica-que-nunca-ha-sido-la-elegida","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/chica-que-nunca-ha-sido-la-elegida\/","title":{"rendered":"A la chica que nunca ha sido \"la elegida\""},"content":{"rendered":"

For as long as you can remember, you\u2019ve always been a man\u2019s <\/span>segunda opci\u00f3n<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ve had multiple relationships and different guys have called you their girlfriend but you know that not one of them ever saw you as his soulmate. <\/span><\/p>\n

Estabas ah\u00ed cuando necesitaban a alguien conveniente.<\/b><\/p>\n

All\u00ed cuando quer\u00edan una novia por tener una relaci\u00f3n, all\u00ed para ser una novia de rebote que les ayudara a curar su coraz\u00f3n roto, y all\u00ed cuando su miedo a estar solos les abrumaba. <\/b><\/p>\n

Desde que tienes uso de raz\u00f3n, <\/span>you\u2019ve always been a man\u2019s second best. <\/b>La chica simp\u00e1tica que te\u00f3ricamente les da todo lo que necesitan, pero tambi\u00e9n la chica a la que nunca aman de verdad.<\/span><\/p>\n

To put things simply, you\u2019re a good girlfriend \u201con paper\u201d. You are good looking, people consider you funny and interesting, and you\u2019re definitely anything but stupid.<\/span><\/p>\n

So, at the end of the day, you actually have no idea why your relationships end. You never get the closure you need and every guy who has broken up with you just tells you that you\u2019re not the one. <\/span><\/p>\n

None of them have seen you as their forever person. You\u2019ve never felt their unconditional love and undivided attention.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

En cambio, cada uno de tus novios te ha amado con <\/span>la mitad de sus corazones<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Eras lo suficientemente bueno para ellos hasta que encontraran a alguien m\u00e1s, o mientras esperaban pacientemente a alguna chica que los dejara en espera.<\/b><\/p>\n

It\u2019s like they used you as a passing station instead of a final destination. They needed you on their journey to finding true love instead of seeing you as their goal.<\/b><\/p>\n

La verdad sea dicha, <\/span>all of the loves you\u2019ve had were temporary<\/b>– you were someone who served the moment. <\/span><\/b><\/p>\n

Ni un solo hombre en tu vida te ha visto como algo permanente <\/b>o como una mujer con la que quieren envejecer.<\/span><\/p>\n

En consecuencia, <\/span>you can\u2019t help but feel like a consolation prize<\/b>. Como la chica a la que acuden los chicos cuando no hay nadie mejor a su alrededor y a la que recurren cuando todos los dem\u00e1s les abandonan.<\/span><\/p>\n

The worst part is that you\u2019ve tried your best in each one of your relationships. You\u2019ve never held parts of yourself back and each time, you\u2019ve hoped you\u2019ve finally found your match made in heaven.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, it\u2019s always turned out to be different. You\u2019ve always ended up feeling like a supporting role and you\u2019ve never actually had the chance to be the star of your own love movie. <\/span><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Well, I\u2019m here to ask you not to lose hope. <\/span>Puede que ahora no lo parezca, pero cr\u00e9anme cuando les digo que ninguno de estos tipos ha sido <\/b>el \u00fanico para ti<\/b><\/a>tampoco. <\/b><\/p>\n

Ninguno de ellos ha sido tu alma gemela y tu persona para siempre. \u00bfSabes por qu\u00e9? Porque <\/span>ese hombre a\u00fan no se ha cruzado en tu camino.<\/b><\/p>\n

As painful as this might be, the truth is that there are some things beyond your comprehension and some events you can\u2019t impact, as much as you try.<\/span><\/p>\n

What I\u2019m trying to tell you is that none of your past relationships were meant to last. None of your exes were meant to be yours and there is nothing you can really do about it.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, that doesn\u2019t mean that your Prince Charming won\u2019t come eventually. <\/span><\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019re sentenced to a loveless life just because you\u2019ve had a few bad experiences. It doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019re not meant to be loved or that you should give up on relationships altogether. <\/span><\/p>\n

Cr\u00e9eme cuando te digo que uno de estos d\u00edas, tu destino cambiar\u00e1 dr\u00e1sticamente.<\/span><\/p>\n

There will come a man who will love you in all the ways you\u2019ve never been loved and a man who will always treat you as the only woman in the world. <\/span><\/p>\n

A man who won\u2019t see you as a rebound, as a girl to pick up his broken pieces, or as something temporary. <\/span>Un hombre que est\u00e1 destinado a ser tuyo y que te ver\u00e1 como \u00fanico. <\/b><\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo tienes que esperar el momento oportuno. Adem\u00e1s, tienes que estar preparado para su llegada.<\/span><\/p>\n

Porque <\/span>when he comes, he\u2019ll make you realize why it\u2019s never worked with anyone before him.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"A<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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