{"id":84451,"date":"2020-08-13T13:38:58","date_gmt":"2020-08-13T13:38:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=84451"},"modified":"2021-08-12T06:31:26","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T06:31:26","slug":"las-relaciones-son-mas-dificiles-para-las-personas-que-piensan-demasiado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/las-relaciones-son-mas-dificiles-para-las-personas-que-piensan-demasiado\/","title":{"rendered":"Esta es la raz\u00f3n por la que las relaciones son m\u00e1s dif\u00edciles para las personas que piensan demasiado"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>Las relaciones son un trabajo duro.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Yes, they are beautiful and a lot of times worth that hard work, but sometimes it\u2019s just too much for some people. Especially <\/b><b><i>overthinkers<\/i><\/b><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In order to have a stable and strong relationship, you need to believe in yourself and your partner, and \u2013 you guessed it \u2013 overthinking is what stops that from happening.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/pensar-demasiado-arruina-la-relacion\/\"><b>Pensar demasiado es lo que suele matar las relaciones<\/b><\/a><b> al final.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>The problem is the following: Anxious people already know they\u2019re anxious and that makes them feel like a burden right at the start.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Anxiety is often accompanied by low self-esteem, which doesn\u2019t help either.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Overthinkers want to meet a person who will understand this, but it\u2019s hard for them to believe anyone could accept them the way they are because \u2013 let\u2019s be honest \u2013 anxiety affects life habits big time.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s what makes you weird at parties and occasionally hate yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-84453 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-touching-her-hair-5.jpg\" alt=\"mujer toc\u00e1ndose el pelo de pie al aire libre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-touching-her-hair-5.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-touching-her-hair-5-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-touching-her-hair-5-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Todo lo que parece tan f\u00e1cil y normal para otras personas es tan dif\u00edcil e inalcanzable para una persona ansiosa.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00bfPor qu\u00e9? La ansiedad es en cierto modo <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/si-tienes-miedo-de-tu-futuro-es-que-vives-en-el-presente\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">incapaz de vivir el momento presente<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Siempre preocupado por lo que ha pasado o por lo que puede pasar.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>It\u2019s like a constant premonition of something bad that you can\u2019t control.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s understandable that no one can function normally if they\u2019re in a constant state of stress and fear. That\u2019s what paralyzes a person and makes everyday tasks draining.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>What\u2019s worse, anxious people are more often than not the type of people who notice every little detail around them, which only means there are more things to overthink about.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Se fijan en las miradas extra\u00f1as, los cambios de voz y los gestos m\u00e1s insignificantes, y luego exageran su significado en su cabeza.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Entonces, \u00bfqu\u00e9 se puede hacer para ayudar a una persona ansiosa a vivir una relaci\u00f3n normal y sana?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Una de las principales cosas que puedes hacer es hacerles saber que todo va bien, y hacerlo a menudo. Una acci\u00f3n muy sencilla pero eficaz.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-84455 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-sitting-on-bench-9.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer sentados en un banco y hablando\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-sitting-on-bench-9.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-sitting-on-bench-9-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-sitting-on-bench-9-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Make them see things that are happening at that moment; don\u2019t let them wander around in their mind (especially at the beginning of the relationship where it\u2019s normal for everyone to be a little bit anxious around their partner.)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t give them a reason to overthink \u2013 say what you feel right away when something happens.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t be afraid to take control of some aspects of your relationship or life together. You can be the one who decides things because they probably have a problem with being indecisive.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Lee entre l\u00edneas.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>A veces, cuando responden con frases cortas, puede significar que algo les preocupa, pero se sienten demasiado inc\u00f3modos para admitirlo.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Lo mismo ocurre con h\u00e1bitos nerviosos como jugar con las manos, rebotar la rodilla, etc.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Si notas esos h\u00e1bitos, evita decirlo: <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 est\u00e1s tan nervioso?<\/span><\/i> <i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00bfSe encuentra bien?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s only going to make things worse because they will become hyper-aware of themselves and their body language that obviously screams <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">nervioso<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Instead, try to just communicate and take their mind off of what\u2019s bothering them at that moment.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Una conversaci\u00f3n abierta, honesta y consciente lo arregla casi todo, incluido esto. Hazlo m\u00e1s a menudo.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Understanding someone\u2019s fears is one of the most ultimate love languages. It\u2019s just good to keep in mind that not everyone\u2019s fears are obvious to the eye.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-84457 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-hugging-woman-5.jpg\" alt=\"hombre con camiseta amarilla abrazando a mujer\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-hugging-woman-5.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-hugging-woman-5-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-hugging-woman-5-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-hugging-woman-5-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-hugging-woman-5-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-hugging-woman-5-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-hugging-woman-5-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-hugging-woman-5-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-hugging-woman-5-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-hugging-woman-5-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Other than reassuring, conversations, and mindfulness \u2013 it\u2019s important to let them know you accept them for who they are.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Set an example to show them it\u2019s possible to love and care about somebody even when they have certain issues and have a hard time accepting themselves.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Be their safe place, but also be their reality check. It\u2019s possible to do both, it just needs to be done the right way.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Una persona ansiosa piensa demasiado, pero eso tambi\u00e9n significa que se preocupa mucho.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The only thing they need is to have full trust in you \u2013 that\u2019s when everything gets better.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Confiar en alguien que te comprende, te quiere, te cuida, te protege y atraviesa momentos dif\u00edciles contigo no tiene precio.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>In return, you get the most amazing love you\u2019ll ever experience \u2013 the love of a person who cares about your every thought and every part of you.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Alguien que te apreciar\u00e1 el resto de tu vida.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Y overthinker es s\u00f3lo un gran amante disfrazado.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-84792 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/This-Is-Why-Relationships-Are-Hardest-For-People-Who-Overthink-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Esta es la raz\u00f3n por la que las relaciones son m\u00e1s dif\u00edciles para las personas que piensan demasiado\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/This-Is-Why-Relationships-Are-Hardest-For-People-Who-Overthink-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/This-Is-Why-Relationships-Are-Hardest-For-People-Who-Overthink-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/This-Is-Why-Relationships-Are-Hardest-For-People-Who-Overthink-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/This-Is-Why-Relationships-Are-Hardest-For-People-Who-Overthink-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Relationships are hard work. Yes, they are beautiful and a lot of times worth that hard work, but sometimes it\u2019s just too much for some people. Especially overthinkers. In order to have a stable and strong relationship, you need to believe in yourself and your partner, and \u2013 you guessed it \u2013 overthinking is what&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":84457,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-84451","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-hugging-woman-5.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? 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