{"id":8511,"date":"2017-11-14T13:11:46","date_gmt":"2017-11-14T13:11:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=8511"},"modified":"2021-08-31T08:35:43","modified_gmt":"2021-08-31T08:35:43","slug":"chica-marco-territorio-hes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/chica-marco-territorio-hes\/","title":{"rendered":"Para la chica que marc\u00f3 su territorio, \u00e9l es todo tuyo"},"content":{"rendered":"

En primer lugar. Puedes qued\u00e1rtelo. <\/b>Sinceramente. Pens\u00e9 que podr\u00eda manejarlo. S\u00f3lo pasar el rato casualmente. \u2018Friends with benefits\u2019<\/a>como quieras llamarlo. Estaba seguro de que esta vez podr\u00eda manejarlo. <\/span>When I picked up the phone and called his number, I knew who I was calling and what he would offer. I knew that he would give me the \u2018boyfriend experience\u2019 without anything pesky like an attachment or a commitment to go with it.<\/b> Sab\u00eda que me llevar\u00eda a su mundo y me har\u00eda sentir que pertenec\u00eda a \u00e9l, pero mi lugar ser\u00eda precario en el mejor de los casos.<\/span><\/p>\n

Me sent\u00eda sola y la verdad era que me gustaba.<\/b> I liked hanging out with him, spending time with him. We got along well and we laughed together. I liked him so much in fact that during both our first and second go \u2018round I thought it was actually going to turn into something. When I met his daughter I thought, for sure, it was going somewhere, I was excited that she seemed to like me right away, and that he was bringing me into his world. <\/span><\/p>\n

It didn\u2019t take long after that meeting before he dropped it on me that he just wanted to be friends. He didn\u2019t want to settle down.\u00a0<\/a>Ver\u00e1s, eso era lo suyo. La honestidad. Despu\u00e9s de haber sido enga\u00f1ado y mentido durante a\u00f1os, era refrescante. <\/span>De alguna manera pens\u00e9 que saber de antemano que hab\u00eda alguien m\u00e1s era mejor que ser enga\u00f1ado. <\/b>I was a fucking moron settling for table scraps. And it would never take long for the reality that I didn\u2019t want to settle for table scraps to bring me back from my delusion. <\/span><\/p>\n

This last time I wasn’t going to be taken in. I wasn’t going to confuse what was what. I was going to go along, enjoy the ride and not catch any real feelings. And that\u2019s what I did, for a minute. Until we started spending more time together, going out on cute little dates, hanging out with his friends. <\/span>I stopped asking questions I didn\u2019t want to know the answers to, and I tried to ignore the sick feeling inside my stomach that knew this was just pretending.<\/b><\/p>\n

No tard\u00e9 en darme cuenta de en qu\u00e9 me hab\u00eda metido. Un d\u00eda entr\u00e9 mientras hablaba por el altavoz con uno de sus chicos. El chico me oy\u00f3 y pregunt\u00f3, <\/span>\u201cIs that Sarah?\u201d Nope. Not Sarah.<\/b> Y ese fue el principio del fin, por \u00faltima vez.<\/b> Of course I asked, \u201cWho\u2019s Sarah?\u201d and for once his honesty faltered. I knew he must really care about me if he was going so far as to lie. That\u2019s fucked up, right? In any case, he wasn\u2019t committed to me so what could I do? <\/span><\/p>\n

The next time I walked in and saw your pink slippers, I was like, \u2018Whose fucking slippers are these? And why would he leave them for me to see?\u2019<\/b> The answer was so obvious, because he didn\u2019t care if I saw them, and he didn\u2019t care how seeing them would make me feel. You would have thought I would have left immediately. I didn\u2019t. I stayed, we chilled. <\/span><\/p>\n

Me fui a casa y so\u00f1\u00e9 con zapatillas rosas. Volv\u00ed otro d\u00eda y sus zapatillas se hab\u00edan movido. De alguna manera dud\u00e9 de que las hubiera movido. <\/span>Tus pies debieron de estar en ellos mientras paseabas, sinti\u00e9ndote como en casa, y luego los volviste a poner en otro sitio.<\/b> Tu territorio estaba claramente marcado. Tus zapatillas, en la puerta, como si pertenecieran all\u00ed. Como si t\u00fa pertenecieras all\u00ed. \u00bfY d\u00f3nde me dejaba eso a m\u00ed? \u00bfIba a dejar alguna se\u00f1al, o marcador, para hacerte saber que yo tambi\u00e9n estaba all\u00ed? \u00bfIba a empezar una guerra con tus zapatillas? \u00bfVeo tus zapatillas rosas y te subo mi albornoz morado?<\/span> No, not me. I\u2019m going to leave this place and never come back. <\/b>Tus zapatillas, y ese tipo, est\u00e1n a salvo de m\u00ed.<\/span><\/p>\n

by\u00a0Tia Grace<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

First of all. You can have him. Honestly. I thought I could handle it. Just casually hanging out. \u2018Friends with benefits\u2019, whatever you want to call it. I was sure this time I could handle it. When I picked up the phone and called his number, I knew who I was calling and what he…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":8517,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8511","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/jake-davies-252800.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","parent":29651,"count":207,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29653,"category_count":207,"category_description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","cat_name":"letters","category_nicename":"letters","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8511","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8511"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8511\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/8517"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8511"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8511"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8511"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}