{"id":85439,"date":"2020-07-09T10:54:31","date_gmt":"2020-07-09T10:54:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=85439"},"modified":"2022-02-21T19:12:34","modified_gmt":"2022-02-21T19:12:34","slug":"lee-esto-si-has-estado-en-una-relacion-fracasada","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/lee-esto-si-has-estado-en-una-relacion-fracasada\/","title":{"rendered":"Lee esto si has estado en una relaci\u00f3n fallida"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Las rupturas son duras, de eso no hay duda. Pierdes a la persona que te importa profundamente y, de repente, tienes que aprender a vivir sin ella.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t matter who initiated the end of your relationship \u2013 whenever it happens, it\u2019s painful for both parties.<\/p>\n<p>Even if you\u2019re the one who happened to stop loving your romantic partner, you can\u2019t help but feel sorry for the fact that you two had to say your final goodbyes.<\/p>\n<p>However, if you\u2019re honest, you\u2019ll see that breakups happen all the time.<\/p>\n<p>This might sound harsh, but the truth is that every couple who doesn\u2019t end up married or as life partners, has to part ways sooner or later.<\/p>\n<p>Basically, what I\u2019m trying to tell you is that statistically speaking, most of your romantic relationships will end up with breakups. Sadly, it\u2019s all a part of life and something we all have to face.<\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, what can be even worse is when you end things with someone you weren\u2019t even really a couple with.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Pasar por un fracaso <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/que-es-la-situacion\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">situaci\u00f3n<\/a> es mucho m\u00e1s doloroso que una relaci\u00f3n fallida.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>S\u00e9 que muchos no estar\u00e1n de acuerdo conmigo aqu\u00ed, pero cr\u00e9anme cuando digo que <strong>it\u2019s quite possible to miss someone you never actually had<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t only miss this person, you suffer even more for the potential your romance might have had.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85443\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/young-woman-suffering.jpg\" alt=\"mujer joven que sufre una ruptura llorando y sentada en un sof\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"502\"><\/p>\n<p>Lloras por todo lo que podr\u00edas y deber\u00edas haber hecho. Todas las cosas que imaginabas junto a este hombre, todos los planes de futuro que ten\u00edas, y el hecho de que nada de eso se har\u00e1 realidad.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019ve ever been in a failed situationship, you\u2019ll know that it leaves the most devastating consequences on your self-esteem.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Whether you like to admit it or not, you\u2019re not only hurt by the fact that you have to go on without this man, but you\u2019re also devastated that he never had the decency to choose you for real.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Despu\u00e9s de todo el tiempo que pasasteis juntos, nunca te llam\u00f3 novia. Nunca te cogi\u00f3 de la mano ni te present\u00f3 con orgullo a todos sus amigos y familiares.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/5-senales-de-que-los-gritos-no-quieren-comprometerse-que-estas-ignorando\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Nunca quiso comprometerse<\/a> y segu\u00edas neg\u00e1ndote a poner una etiqueta a vuestra relaci\u00f3n. Nunca fuisteis exclusivos y nunca supisteis a qu\u00e9 ateneros con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que.., <strong>you assume that you can\u2019t expect anything more or better from any other man<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re clearly not meant to be loved, and you\u2019ll never be enough for a guy to prioritize you and make you the only woman in his life.<\/p>\n<p>Well, let me tell you that you can\u2019t be more wrong. <strong>Just because you had one situationship like this, it doesn\u2019t mean that you can\u2019t form a real relationship<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>I know that this sounds like I\u2019m trying to comfort you, but believe me on this one: It\u2019s not you, it\u2019s him.<\/p>\n<p>It was never your fault that this immature boy didn\u2019t have the capacity to give you what you deserve.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85444\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/sad-woman-staring.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste mirando por la ventana\" width=\"800\" height=\"507\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/sad-woman-staring.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/sad-woman-staring-300x190.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/sad-woman-staring-768x487.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re not to blame for the fact that he didn\u2019t know what he wanted and couldn\u2019t make up his mind about you.<\/p>\n<p>I won\u2019t lie to you. You\u2019re guilty of allowing him to keep treating you like this, after realizing that he\u2019ll never be the man you need. I get it.<\/p>\n<p>Segu\u00edas esperando que cambiara, pero todo segu\u00eda igual.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, no tiene sentido pensar ahora en el pasado. Lo que pas\u00f3, pas\u00f3, y lo \u00fanico que puedes hacer es aprender de ello.<\/p>\n<p>En lugar de dejar que esta experiencia te arruine sin remedio, t\u00f3matela como una lecci\u00f3n. Aprende a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/12-tipos-de-hombres-que-evitan-las-citas\/\">evitar el tipo de hombres<\/a> que son claramente jugadores y que obviamente te aplastar\u00e1n el coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Lo m\u00e1s importante, <strong>ens\u00e9\u00f1ate a no conformarte nunca con menos de lo que mereces<\/strong>. Realize that it\u2019s not acceptable to be someone\u2019s last resort and don\u2019t let another man ever treat you as such.<\/p>\n<p><strong>S\u00f3lo cuando alcances esta mentalidad ver\u00e1s que el final de esta situaci\u00f3n es ciertamente <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/el-fin-de-tu-relacion-no-es-el-fin-de-tu-vida\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">no es el final de tu vida<\/a> \u2013 it\u2019s actually a chance for your new beginning.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Only then will you be ready to meet a man who won\u2019t just treat you like his first choice, but his one and only choice.<\/p>\n<p>A man who will always be sure about you, won\u2019t have any doubts about his feelings and will make you feel safe and loved.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85452\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Read-This-If-You\u2019ve-Been-In-A-Failed-Situationship-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Lee esto si has estado en una relaci\u00f3n fallida\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Read-This-If-You\u2019ve-Been-In-A-Failed-Situationship-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Read-This-If-You\u2019ve-Been-In-A-Failed-Situationship-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Read-This-If-You\u2019ve-Been-In-A-Failed-Situationship-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Read-This-If-You\u2019ve-Been-In-A-Failed-Situationship-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Breakups are tough, there\u2019s no doubt about that. You lose the person you deeply care about and all of a sudden, you have to learn how to live without them. It doesn\u2019t matter who initiated the end of your relationship \u2013 whenever it happens, it\u2019s painful for both parties. Even if you\u2019re the one who&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":85450,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29625],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-85439","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-toxic-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29625,"label":"toxic relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Read-This-If-You\u2019ve-Been-In-A-Failed-Situationship..jpg",800,507,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29625,"name":"toxic relationship","slug":"toxic-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29625,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? 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