{"id":85466,"date":"2020-08-13T13:41:16","date_gmt":"2020-08-13T13:41:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=85466"},"modified":"2021-08-12T06:28:40","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T06:28:40","slug":"diferentes-niveles-de-amistad","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/diferentes-niveles-de-amistad\/","title":{"rendered":"Diferentes niveles de desarrollo de la amistad y su importancia"},"content":{"rendered":"

When we’re young and (somewhat) naive, friendship seems like the simplest thing in the world… But did you know that there are actually 5 different <\/span>niveles de amistad<\/span> \u00bfdesarrollo?<\/span><\/p>\n

Su <\/span>mejor amigo<\/span> fue una vez un completo desconocido, y el <\/span>amigos ocasionales<\/span> que una vez tuviste se convirti\u00f3 en tal <\/span>amigos \u00edntimos<\/span> que a menudo te maravillas de lo impredecible que puede ser la vida.<\/span><\/p>\n

You know what they say – a <\/span>buen amigo<\/span> is hard to find and even harder to keep! And they’re not wrong.<\/span><\/p>\n

Para mantener un <\/span>nivel de amistad<\/span>En primer lugar, debes saber cu\u00e1l es tu posici\u00f3n con respecto a determinadas personas y qui\u00e9nes son tus interlocutores. <\/span>verdaderos amigos<\/span> son.<\/span><\/p>\n

So let’s dive into why it’s so vital to take it step-by-step and not rush into anything, and pin down the friendship levels.<\/span><\/p>\n

Diferentes etapas de la progresi\u00f3n de la amistad<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

It’s time to pinpoint the main <\/span>niveles de amistad<\/span> development and how each of them differs from the other. Find out where you stand with each friend and if there’s hope for leveling up.<\/span><\/p>\n

Primera etapa: meros desconocidos<\/h2>\n

\"dos<\/p>\n

Obviamente, este <\/span>nivel de amistad<\/span> is based on a clear lack of awareness of the other person. This stage is the lowest one, but at the same time, it’s one of the most important.<\/span><\/p>\n

How is that? Well, simply put – we all start as strangers. Like I’ve already mentioned, your <\/span>mejor amigo<\/span> was once a stranger. Your co-workers with whom you’re close were once complete strangers.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ignorabas por completo el impacto que llegar\u00edan a tener en tu vida y m\u00edrate ahora. As\u00ed que decir que este es un nivel vital es quedarse corto.<\/span><\/p>\n

When you’re still strangers, it all depends on the first impression. As sad as it is, if one leaves a bad first impression, chances of a friendship blossoming are slim to none.<\/span><\/p>\n

But if you click, you’ve got a good chance of turning it all around.<\/span><\/p>\n

It’s all about continued interaction and the will to <\/span>reunirse<\/span> en un semi<\/span>con regularidad<\/span> to establish if there’s a chance for a deeper bond.<\/span><\/p>\n

And by no means should you force anything. If it happens organically, great. But if you don’t feel any type of connection, it’s just not in the cards.<\/span><\/p>\n

It’s not the end of the world if things don’t pan out. Those who are meant to be in your life will always find their way to you. A stranger today could become a <\/span>amigo \u00edntimo<\/span> en pocos meses. <\/span><\/p>\n

And isn’t that the beauty of life? You never know how it will surprise you, and that way there’s always a sense of excitement and anticipation.<\/span><\/p>\n

Segunda etapa: Conocidos<\/h2>\n

\"tres<\/p>\n

Esta es la segunda <\/span>nivel de amistad<\/span> development, and it comes right after the ‘stranger’ one. <\/span><\/p>\n

En <\/span>nivel de conocimiento<\/span> can be characterized by random interactions on an occasional level that don’t necessarily amount to much.<\/span><\/p>\n

You don’t experience constant communication and you’re not familiar with each other’s personal lives, but you do bump into each other from time to time and develop a brisk conversation.<\/span><\/p>\n

Un conocido es alguien a quien conoces casualmente del trabajo o de otro lugar, lo que, a su vez, hace que os ve\u00e1is a menudo.<\/span><\/p>\n

But this doesn’t result in meaningful conversation but rather a ”Hi, how are you” – ”Good, how about you” or something along those lines.<\/span><\/p>\n

The other person doesn’t know any of your <\/span>amigos \u00edntimos<\/span>o miembros de su familia, o con qui\u00e9n le gusta pasar el tiempo.<\/span><\/p>\n

But that’s perfectly normal for this <\/span>nivel de amistad<\/span>. Sin embargo, hay esperanzas de progresar.<\/span><\/p>\n

It’s not uncommon for two acquaintances to become closer with time after they realize that their casual run-ins always result in fun banter or chit-chat.<\/span><\/p>\n

But there has to be a mutual will for that to happen. If it’s one-sided, it’s unlikely to work. Both of you need to be willing to see if you have actual friendship potential.<\/span><\/p>\n

Cuando decida que quiere <\/span>reunirse<\/span> and actually see each other intentionally, you’re slowly moving toward the third stage of friendship, which I’ll elaborate on below.<\/span><\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <\/span>Relaci\u00f3n epistolar: 6 razones para recuperar el romance de la vieja escuela<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

Tercera etapa: Amigos ocasionales<\/h2>\n

\"dos<\/p>\n

De todos los <\/span>niveles de amistad<\/span>Esta es la fase en la que realmente tienes posibilidades de lograrlo. <\/span>Amistades ocasionales<\/span> significa que tienes alg\u00fan conocimiento b\u00e1sico de la otra persona.<\/span><\/p>\n

En este punto, su <\/span>encuentros<\/span> son m\u00e1s frecuentes que las de los conocidos, ya que el nivel de cercan\u00eda es m\u00e1s profundo.<\/span><\/p>\n

What bonds two people in the ‘causal friends’ stage are some <\/span>intereses comunes<\/span> that you both partake in, and your interactions aren’t accidental, but intentional.<\/span><\/p>\n

Moreover, you’re much more likely to be personally invested in the other person, as you’re up-to-date with their life and achievements, and often give them pep talks and support them fully.<\/span><\/p>\n

But on the other hand, the emotional connection isn’t yet as deep as it has a chance of becoming. <\/span><\/p>\n

Cuando se trata de <\/span>niveles de amistad<\/span>, in this one, you start seeing this person for who they are, and vice versa, without putting on a mask and pretending to be someone you’re not.<\/span><\/p>\n

Todav\u00eda hay ciertas cualidades que te impiden profundizar en la amistad, pero el potencial est\u00e1 definitivamente ah\u00ed. Algunas relaciones se rompen en este punto, pero la mayor\u00eda se fortalecen y perseveran.<\/span><\/p>\n

The foundation for this friendship isn’t rock-solid, and that can play a large role in how it all pans out.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sin duda ten\u00e9is potencial para subir de nivel, pero ambos ten\u00e9is que estar dispuestos a superar vuestras diferencias y dedicar tiempo y esfuerzo para que funcione.<\/span><\/p>\n

Cuarta etapa: Amigos \u00edntimos<\/h2>\n

\"dos<\/p>\n

De todos los <\/span>niveles de amistad<\/span>es a la que aspira la mayor\u00eda de la gente. En esta etapa, no hay contenci\u00f3n y ambas personas est\u00e1n estrechamente conectadas a nivel emocional y personal.<\/span><\/p>\n

Amistades \u00edntimas<\/span> such as this allow for a freedom you don’t often experience in other types of friendships.<\/span><\/p>\n

No mucha gente llega a este nivel, pero los que lo hacen saben lo valioso y preciado que es un <\/span>verdadero amigo<\/span> es. Es una zona de amor, comprensi\u00f3n, comunicaci\u00f3n sana y sentido de pertenencia.<\/span><\/p>\n

Amigos \u00edntimos<\/span> cheer each other on like no one else. They push each other to be better, and they are extremely emotionally connected, unlike the casual stage, where it’s still not fully there.<\/span><\/p>\n

Su <\/span>mejor amigo<\/span> is the person you tell all your secrets to. There is no shame, judgment, or awkwardness. You can simply be your quirky self and share what’s in your heart.<\/span><\/p>\n

Os ayud\u00e1is mutuamente hacia vuestra <\/span>objetivos en la vida<\/span> and you’re sad when the other one is sad, just like you’re pleased for their happiness.<\/span><\/p>\n

Su existencia te proporciona tanta alegr\u00eda, como <\/span>amigos \u00edntimos<\/span> are almost like family. They’re not your blood, but they might as well be.<\/span><\/p>\n

To me, this stage is all about being in sync mentally, physically, and spiritually. Two individuals who go through life’s ups and downs together, hand in hand.<\/span><\/p>\n

You’ve seen them at their worst and they held your hand when you were falling apart. There is almost no one else you’d call in time of need and vice versa. <\/span><\/p>\n

El entendimiento que ambos comparten es extraordinario y da gracias a su buena estrella por haberse topado con una criatura tan especial.<\/span><\/p>\n

No way did you ever think someone like them would end up meaning so much to you, but now, you can’t imagine how you’d function without their daily support and encouragement.<\/span><\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <\/span>C\u00f3mo dejarlo todo: 12 secretos para la libertad definitiva<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

Quinta etapa: Familiares y parejas sentimentales<\/h2>\n

\"madre<\/p>\n

Si pensabas que <\/span>amigos \u00edntimos<\/span> was as good as it gets, you were wrong (and that’s amazing, isn’t it?)<\/span><\/p>\n

To think that there’s another level of closeness than the one you share with your <\/span>mejores amigos<\/span> es asombroso. Pero lo hay. Y todos los <\/span>niveles de amistad<\/span> no puede superar el v\u00ednculo que compartes con tu familia y tu S\/O.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don’t get me wrong. <\/span>Amigos \u00edntimos<\/span> son joyas absolutas, y algunas de ellas alcanzan el nivel de familia, lo que no hace sino demostrar lo inestimables que son las relaciones humanas.<\/span><\/p>\n

I’m sure you already know how special the connection you share with your significant other is. They are probably the only person who puts up with your constant shenanigans and still loves you beyond words.<\/span><\/p>\n

Me parece que algunas cosas son completamente imposibles de describir (<\/span>which won’t stop me from trying though<\/span><\/i>). Y una de esas cosas son esas relaciones especiales.<\/span><\/p>\n

Think about it. The things you share with your siblings are some of the things you couldn’t imagine telling a friend.<\/span><\/p>\n

Qu\u00e9 asombroso es que en tu hermano tengas a un <\/span>mejor amigo<\/span> for life? Only they’re so much more.<\/span><\/p>\n

You can fight, explode at each other, say all kinds of things you don’t mean, and you’ll always come back to each other. Sometimes, people take for granted how much family really matters.<\/span><\/p>\n

No mucha gente soportar\u00eda algunas de las cosas por las que hacemos pasar a nuestras familias y parejas, y aun as\u00ed nos eligen cada d\u00eda.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Y creo que la gente deber\u00eda ser m\u00e1s consciente de ello.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

No hay nada mejor que tener a alguien que sabes que siempre estar\u00e1 ah\u00ed. No importa lo que hagas, digas o lo mucho que intentes alejarlos. La familia (incluidos los hijos e hijas) es para toda la vida.<\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00f3mo mantener estos niveles de amistad m\u00e1s estrechos<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

For starters, never take them for granted. The foundation of every healthy relationship – be it with your partner, sibling, or closest friend – is continual support.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 para ellos lo que ellos son para ti, sin segundas intenciones.<\/p>\n

Keep an open line of communication. And no, this doesn’t mean constant communication. We all have lives, responsibilities, families, etc.<\/p>\n

All it takes is checking in with them and making sure they’re okay. You don’t have to talk every day for them to know you care.<\/p>\n

Don’t let it go too long without seeing each other. I know that sometimes it takes a lot of effort to find time to spend with those you love most.<\/p>\n

But if you don’t, the relationship will wither. Always make sure to see them on a regular basis, or at least try.<\/p>\n

Never let them think that you’ve forgotten about them. Your closest people need to know they’re not alone. And sometimes, we all get lonely.<\/p>\n

Text them out of the blue just to let them know they’re on your mind. Little things mean the most.<\/p>\n

Always say ”I love you”. Whether it’s your S\/O or your bestie. Everybody loves to hear those three words. And if you do love them, don’t be afraid to say it. Sometimes, that’s all it takes to brighten their day.<\/p>\n

No olvides nunca que las amistades m\u00e1s \u00edntimas tardaron mucho tiempo en convertirse en lo que son hoy. Por eso, nunca dejes de esforzarte para que sigan si\u00e9ndolo.<\/p>\n

Take care of these relationships, because they’re the most precious thing you have.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <\/span>18 maneras sencillas de convertirte en una prioridad como te mereces<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

Por qu\u00e9 nunca debes saltarte las etapas del desarrollo de la amistad<\/h2>\n

\"dos<\/p>\n

Let’s put it this way. Here is an interesting analogy that perfectly encapsulates the importance of moving up in your friendship level step by step.<\/span><\/p>\n

En el jard\u00edn de infancia, hacer <\/span>nuevos amigos<\/span> is beyond easy. You both agree to like the same animal and you’re immediately friends. And at that point – it’s totally justifiable.<\/span><\/p>\n

Quiero decir, \u00bfqu\u00e9 saben los ni\u00f1os de 5 a\u00f1os sobre <\/span>buenas amistades<\/span>? A ellos, diciendo <\/span>Me encanta<\/span> no tiene ning\u00fan significado m\u00e1s profundo, ya que quieren a sus juguetes casi tanto como a sus padres (ya me entiendes).<\/span><\/p>\n

When you’re that young, there is no meaning to <\/span>charla trivial<\/span> and you don’t depend on that <\/span>una persona<\/span> para otra cosa que no sea ser tu compa\u00f1ero de juegos.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pero 15 a\u00f1os despu\u00e9s, \u00bfd\u00f3nde est\u00e1n ahora?<\/b> Are those friends still in your life? My experience tells me, no, and that’s okay.<\/span><\/p>\n

But do you now get why that’s the case? Because the whole premise behind your <\/span>tipo de amistad<\/span> se basaba en que eran dos ni\u00f1os peque\u00f1os a los que les gustaban las mismas cosas.<\/span><\/p>\n

And when friendships are based on something so silly, they don’t stand a chance. And you can easily incorporate that logic into adult friendships as well.<\/span><\/p>\n

Let’s say you’re in college, you just met your roommate, and you immediately clicked. You consider her part of your <\/span>c\u00edrculo interior<\/span>, as you’ve quickly got to know her on a <\/span>nivel m\u00e1s profundo<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Y tiene sentido. Quiero decir, pasas la mayor parte de tu tiempo con esta persona, y probablemente conozcas su favorito <\/span>equipo deportivo<\/span>su <\/span>objetivos vitales,<\/span> y os veis en un <\/span>con regularidad<\/span> (<\/span>te guste o no<\/span><\/i>).<\/span><\/p>\n

Inmediatamente os agregasteis en <\/span>redes sociales<\/span> y etiquetaron un mont\u00f3n de fotos entre s\u00ed en el lapso de tres semanas.<\/span><\/p>\n

Te has saltado el <\/span>amistad casual<\/span> y nos hicimos mejores amigas desde el primer momento.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

And for a while it was. Until your first argument happened and things started to unravel. Maybe you found out she stole your BF, or you heard that she’s been talking badly about you behind your back.<\/span><\/p>\n

Esto le detuvo inmediatamente y se qued\u00f3 sin palabras. <\/b>\u00bfC\u00f3mo hizo la chica que desarroll\u00f3 tal <\/span>estrecha amistad<\/span> con tan r\u00e1pido traicionarte as\u00ed?<\/span><\/p>\n

I’ll tell you how. Because you never really knew her in the first place. You were two girls who were <\/span>pasar el tiempo<\/span> juntos en un <\/span>con regularidad<\/span> y ten\u00eda un mont\u00f3n de <\/span>intereses comunes<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Os conoc\u00edais desde hac\u00eda unas semanas y decidisteis que estabais m\u00e1s unidos de lo que realmente estabais.<\/span><\/p>\n

Y cuando por fin mostr\u00f3 su verdadera cara, te doli\u00f3 much\u00edsimo porque s\u00f3lo entonces te diste cuenta de lo superficial que era realmente esa amistad.<\/span><\/p>\n

Cuando se salta <\/span>niveles de amistad<\/span> tan imprudentemente s\u00f3lo acabas haci\u00e9ndote da\u00f1o a ti mismo. No puedes hacer un <\/span>para toda la vida<\/span> amigo r\u00e1pidamente. Se necesita tiempo, paciencia, amor y comprensi\u00f3n mutua.<\/span><\/p>\n

Te conozco.<\/span> probablemente pensaras que ten\u00edas algo tan especial, pero en realidad, s\u00f3lo eras <\/span>all\u00ed. <\/span><\/i>No ten\u00edais m\u00e1s remedio que veros todo el tiempo, lo que hac\u00eda que pareciera m\u00e1s profundo de lo que es.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mi consejo es que no te precipites. Hay amistades universitarias que perduran en el tiempo. Puedo afirmarlo con orgullo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pero hay que dejar que se desarrollen org\u00e1nicamente. Nada de saltarse etapas ni de llamarse mejores amigas el primer mes.<\/span><\/p>\n

If it’s meant to last, it will last. Skipping stages only means deluding yourself and making things worse than they need to be.<\/b><\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <\/span>C\u00f3mo separarse emocionalmente de alguien: 14 pasos para el \u00e9xito<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

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