{"id":85692,"date":"2020-07-09T10:59:51","date_gmt":"2020-07-09T10:59:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=85692"},"modified":"2022-02-26T11:05:55","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T11:05:55","slug":"primero-rompimos-y-luego-nos-casamos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/primero-rompimos-y-luego-nos-casamos\/","title":{"rendered":"Primero rompimos y luego nos casamos; esto es lo que pas\u00f3"},"content":{"rendered":"

S\u00e9 que todas las chicas que lean esta historia conectar\u00e1n con ella de alguna manera.<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo puedo estar tan seguro?<\/p>\n

Well\u2026 It all started when I was in high school. I fell in love with the most popular boy there, duh. This is already starting to sound like a romantic movie but I swear to you that it wasn\u2019t anything like that.<\/p>\n

De alguna manera llam\u00e9 su atenci\u00f3n y empezamos a salir. Estaba locamente enamorada de \u00e9l. \u00c9l fue mi primer todo.<\/p>\n

I believed there was no one who could ever replace him and I guess I was right. And yes, I\u2019m sure because later in life, I tried to replace him and it never worked.<\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 pas\u00f3 despu\u00e9s?<\/p>\n

I can\u2019t honestly be completely sure of what it was that tore us apart. Did we drift apart? Did we want to explore other people, other options in life?<\/p>\n

Obviamente, pens\u00e1bamos que el amor y la vida eran algo m\u00e1s de lo que ten\u00edamos el uno con el otro y ambos seguimos buscando nuestro destino<\/a>.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\"se\u00f1ora<\/p>\n

Years later, we found it, back in each other\u2019s arms.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I can\u2019t say I spent all those years apart dwelling on our past relationship. Did I miss him? I sure did.<\/p>\n

De alguna manera, me hice a la idea de que el tiempo que pas\u00e9 con \u00e9l siempre ser\u00eda un bonito recuerdo, pero que nunca estuvimos destinados a nada m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Siempre que pensaba en \u00e9l, pensaba que hab\u00eda sido una parte maravillosa de mis a\u00f1os de adolescencia y debo admitir que a veces imaginaba que segu\u00edamos juntos.<\/p>\n

Aun as\u00ed, cre\u00eda que nuestra relaci\u00f3n era tan incre\u00edble porque \u00e9ramos j\u00f3venes, despreocupados y libres, y que ten\u00eda muy poco que ver con lo compatibles que fu\u00e9ramos.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

A veces me imaginaba c\u00f3mo ser\u00eda nuestra relaci\u00f3n en el mundo real y adulto.<\/p>\n

Nunca pude pensar en nada que nos impidiera ser la pareja perfecta, pero segu\u00eda enterrando esos pensamientos, pensando en lo infantil que estaba siendo.<\/p>\n

I didn\u2019t even know who he was anymore. At that point, we hadn\u2019t seen each other for years and I wasn\u2019t even sure if I\u2019d recognize him if I saw him.<\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Segu\u00ed con mi vida, buscando amor verdadero<\/a>.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Hubo algunos hombres que me hicieron sentir que podr\u00edan ser la elecci\u00f3n perfecta para m\u00ed, pero de alguna manera nunca fueron suficientes.<\/p>\n

Me faltaba algo y nunca supe qu\u00e9 era, pero esa sensaci\u00f3n de vac\u00edo me acompa\u00f1\u00f3 en todas mis relaciones.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\u00bfAlguna vez pens\u00e9 que era mi amor por \u00e9l lo que me hac\u00eda sentir as\u00ed? No, porque nunca lo pens\u00e9 as\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Ahora s\u00e9 que siempre form\u00f3 parte de mi coraz\u00f3n y de mi alma, pero en aquel momento lo ignoraba por completo.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

I know that the romantics among you would like to hear that when we first met it was all rainbows, butterflies and fireworks and I\u2019m sorry to disappoint you but it wasn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

La primera vez que nos vimos despu\u00e9s de muchos a\u00f1os, simplemente nos alegramos de reencontrarnos y hablar un rato.<\/p>\n

Nothing amazing happened. I didn\u2019t fall into his arms, telling him he was the love of my life or anything like that.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\"foto<\/p>\n

Quedamos en volver a vernos. Recuerdo que esa misma noche me sent\u00ed en paz. Era como si todo empezara a recomponerse.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Still, I didn\u2019t recognize what was happening until much, much later.<\/p>\n

Poco a poco empezamos a salir de nuevo y, \u00bfadivina qu\u00e9? Acabamos cas\u00e1ndonos y teniendo una hermosa familia.<\/p>\n

Whenever people asked us how we met, I\u2019ve always told them that it was nothing special, just two high school sweethearts who ended up together.<\/p>\n

Ahora, cuando pienso en ello, nuestra historia es especial.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a story of two souls who were meant to be together and who found their way back to one another.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

I now know that there\u2019s nothing more special that can happen to you than being lucky enough to encuentra tu alma gemela<\/a>.<\/p>\n

I\u2019d like to think that los dos de alguna manera lo hicimos<\/a> happen but we really didn\u2019t. It was destiny.<\/p>\n

\"Primero<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I know that every girl who\u2019ll read this story will connect to it in some way. How can I be so sure? Well\u2026 It all started when I was in high school. I fell in love with the most popular boy there, duh. This is already starting to sound like a romantic movie but I…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":85732,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29623],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-85692","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-marriage"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29623,"label":"marriage"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/First-We-Broke-Up-And-Then-We-Got-Married-This-Is-What-Happened.jpg",800,502,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29623,"name":"marriage","slug":"marriage","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29623,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Establishing a happy marriage is not an easy task. Learning how to recognize red flags and deal with issues will help you make your marriage successful.","parent":29620,"count":474,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29623,"category_count":474,"category_description":"Establishing a happy marriage is not an easy task. Learning how to recognize red flags and deal with issues will help you make your marriage successful.","cat_name":"marriage","category_nicename":"marriage","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/85692","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=85692"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/85692\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/85732"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=85692"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=85692"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=85692"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}