{"id":8602,"date":"2019-11-16T11:54:52","date_gmt":"2019-11-16T11:54:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=8602"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:14:24","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:14:24","slug":"como-mejor-im-sin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-mejor-im-sin\/","title":{"rendered":"Me gusto m\u00e1s cuando estoy sin ti"},"content":{"rendered":"

I hate what we have become. I hate that now we\u2019re just another \u201cman breaks girl\u201d story. I never expected this to happen to us, but here we are. Our relationship wasn\u2019t that bad, you know?<\/p>\n

Ten\u00edamos nuestros altibajos, como todo el mundo, pero lo que me encantaba de ellos era que, despu\u00e9s de los bajones, nuestros subidones siempre eran incre\u00edbles. Pero al final, todo lo que nos quedaba eran bajones. Nada de subidas.<\/p>\n

Me encantaba c\u00f3mo me hac\u00edas sentir. Me sent\u00ed segura, querida y admirada.<\/a> Te tuve para amarme, as\u00ed que nunca lo hice por m\u00ed mismo. Te tuve para protegerme, para cuidarme, as\u00ed que nunca lo hice por m\u00ed mismo.<\/p>\n

Y cuando te fuiste, fue como empezar mi vida de nuevo. Para ser honesto, te odiaba en ese momento. Odiaba el hecho de que pudieras dejarme, pero ahora, cuando miro atr\u00e1s, hasta yo me dejar\u00eda.<\/p>\n

I had to rebuild myself all the way from the beginning. I thought about \u201cus\u201d for so long, that I had to learn to think about \u201cme\u201d.<\/p>\n

Tuve que aprender a darme prioridad a m\u00ed misma, a conocer qui\u00e9n soy de verdad, sin ti, sin mi familia y sin mis amigos. Ten\u00eda que estar sola, para poder abrazar la soledad.<\/p>\n

\"Me<\/p>\n

And let me tell you\u2014estar solo es incre\u00edble.<\/a> Rocking that single life like I don\u2019t get to live another day. I even did bungee jumping. Crazy right? I love the new fearless version of myself.<\/p>\n

Me encanta esta nueva yo fuerte e independiente. La nueva yo que dej\u00f3 su antiguo trabajo y ahora es escritora, algo que yo cre\u00eda que era el sue\u00f1o m\u00e1s loco. La nueva yo que ahora intenta hacer algo diferente cada d\u00eda.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not all sunshine and rainbows, but it doesn\u2019t have to be. Some days a new thing to do is just to take a different route home and see something I could do tomorrow.<\/p>\n

Some days I don\u2019t feel like leaving home and facing the world, so a new thing is finding a TV show I never saw before. What I learned is that it\u2019s okay to have bad days, as long as you don\u2019t let them beat you down.<\/p>\n

Ahora, Me gusta c\u00f3mo me siento<\/a>. Me gusta que tu ruptura haya sido lo mejor que me ha pasado. Ahora me siento segura de m\u00ed misma, algo que nunca tuve contigo.<\/p>\n

I was always trying to be that perfect girl you imagined, only to lose who I was. I don\u2019t blame you for doing that. You never really pressured me to do it, but I was so insecure I felt if I don\u2019t change, you will leave me.<\/p>\n

Te convert\u00ed en mi \u00fanica prioridad, cosa que jur\u00e9 no hacer nunca. Poco a poco me convertiste en algo que nunca quise ser. As\u00ed que tuve que convertirme en alguien a quien admirar, amar y sobre todo, respetar. E hice un buen trabajo.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I hate what we have become. I hate that now we\u2019re just another \u201cman breaks girl\u201d story. I never expected this to happen to us, but here we are. Our relationship wasn\u2019t that bad, you know? We had our ups and downs like everyone else, but what I loved about them was the fact that…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":8605,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8602","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/IZJKSG1FLK.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8602","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8602"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8602\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/8605"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8602"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8602"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8602"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}