{"id":86043,"date":"2020-07-09T11:05:23","date_gmt":"2020-07-09T11:05:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=86043"},"modified":"2021-10-29T14:05:07","modified_gmt":"2021-10-29T14:05:07","slug":"confia-en-el-tiempo-de-tu-vida","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/confia-en-el-tiempo-de-tu-vida\/","title":{"rendered":"Por eso debes confiar en el calendario de tu vida"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;Trust the timing of your life&#8221;, he said to me. But back then, I didn&#8217;t believe that the timing of my life was in my favor.<\/p>\n<p>Yo estaba pasando por <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/superar-el-desamor\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">un doloroso desenga\u00f1o<\/a>Estaba buscando trabajo desesperadamente y, adem\u00e1s, luchaba contra la depresi\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>pens\u00e9 para mis adentros: <em>&#8220;This is not happening. This is not where I&#8217;m supposed to be at the moment. How in the world is it possible for everything to fall apart literally overnight?&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>I spent a great amount of time crying and feeling like the universe, God and all the other higher powers and forces had abandoned me. All I could think of was: &#8220;The timing of life sucks!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Y entonces, en un momento dado, todo empez\u00f3 a cambiar.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Conoc\u00ed a un chico estupendo que me apoy\u00f3 mucho. Me ayud\u00f3 a luchar contra mi depresi\u00f3n y resulta que conoc\u00eda a alguien que pod\u00eda ofrecerme un trabajo.<\/p>\n<p>I couldn&#8217;t believe what the odds of this miraculous chance encounter were!<\/p>\n<p>\u200bJust when I was on the verge of giving up on everything, the perfect timing happened and I realized that all this time, the timing was right.<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps it wasn&#8217;t doing what I wanted it to do but it taught me valuable life lessons and enriched me with life experiences.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">As\u00ed que, s\u00ed, conf\u00eda en los tiempos de tu vida, porque la vida no es un destino, sino un proceso.<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-86089\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-wearing-black-camisole.jpg\" alt=\"mujer vestida con camisola negra triste y abraz\u00e1ndose a s\u00ed misma y sentada\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>\u00bfCu\u00e1ntas veces has sentido exactamente lo mismo que yo? \u00bfCu\u00e1ntas veces has pensado que te hab\u00edan abandonado y que todo se desmoronaba ante tus propios ojos?<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t worry, we have all felt the same way at one point in our life. We imagine that we need to be in a certain place at a certain time.<\/p>\n<p>Que necesitamos alcanzar nuestros objetivos lo antes posible y que esperamos que nada interfiera en nuestros sue\u00f1os y deseos.<\/p>\n<p>Olvidamos que esto no es realmente posible (bueno, no en la vida real) y esta planificaci\u00f3n y enso\u00f1aci\u00f3n es lo que nos impide confiar en los tiempos de nuestra vida.<\/p>\n<p>En lugar de centrarnos en nuestro <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/por-que-el-cambio-es-necesario-para-el-desarrollo-y-el-crecimiento-personal\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">crecimiento personal<\/a>tendemos a centrarnos \u00fanicamente en nuestros objetivos. Olvidamos que la vida no es una carrera que consta de varias estaciones, cada una dise\u00f1ada para un objetivo alcanzado.<\/p>\n<p>Life is a process and the timing is not something you should influence but instead trust with all of your heart that everything that&#8217;s happening right now is happening for a reason.<\/p>\n<p>We need to believe that we&#8217;re exactly where we&#8217;re supposed to be at the present moment and that each hardship and every chance are all a part of a greater purpose.<\/p>\n<p>Instead of only focusing on what&#8217;s wrong, we need to celebrate small wins because they are a part of the process.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">Las peque\u00f1as victorias son las que nos dan forma, mientras que las grandes victorias son los hitos.<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-86090\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/travelling-young-woman.jpg\" alt=\"mujer joven que viaja que sostiene la mano de una persona que est\u00e1 parada cerca de un cuerpo de agua profundo azul\" width=\"800\" height=\"507\"><\/p>\n<p>Imagine that you could get everything you ever wanted at this exact time; that you could move on without feeling any trace of a heartbreak or that you&#8217;re famous on social media.<\/p>\n<p>Que las vacaciones duren todo el a\u00f1o, que tengas coche, novio\/novia o marido\/mujer seg\u00fan tus normas y preferencias.<\/p>\n<p>Do you think you would be grateful for all of this if someone gave it to you just like that? I don&#8217;t think so.<\/p>\n<p>Ni t\u00fa, ni yo, ni nadie podr\u00eda sentir la cantidad de agradecimiento y aprecio por algo que se nos ha dado al instante y sin necesidad de esforzarnos.<\/p>\n<p>Because we only focus on achieving the end goal, we forget to enjoy all those little moments and celebrate all those small wins before \u2018getting to the desired destination\u2019.<\/p>\n<p>We&#8217;re only focused on getting there at any cost so that we can cross this item off the list and switch to the next one.<\/p>\n<p>Despu\u00e9s de la siguiente viene otra y as\u00ed sucesivamente.<\/p>\n<p>We forget to breathe and enjoy all the other wonderful things happening around us just because we&#8217;re so focused on our cravings, desires and being in control.<\/p>\n<p>Las peque\u00f1as victorias son las que nos dan forma y nos ayudan a crecer. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/despertar-espiritual\/\">despertar espiritual<\/a>. So, that&#8217;s where we should direct our energy.<\/p>\n<p>Hace poco me top\u00e9 con un concepto que dice que levantarse por la ma\u00f1ana y hacer la cama es una gran victoria porque nos da sentimientos de satisfacci\u00f3n y satisfacci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Hacer la cama es la primera tarea que consigues realizar, lo que te motiva a realizar tambi\u00e9n otras tareas ese d\u00eda.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfVes c\u00f3mo esta peque\u00f1a victoria est\u00e1 conectada con otras peque\u00f1as victorias que al final se unen en una o varias grandes victorias?<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">We cannot control what&#8217;s happening around us but we can do the best we can each day and that&#8217;s all that matters!<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-86092\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/young-female-on-a-treadmill.jpg\" alt=\"mujer joven en una cinta de correr haciendo ejercicio con ropa deportiva y auriculares\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>I remember when I was really skinny and couldn&#8217;t gain weight even though I was eating like crazy.<\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que decid\u00ed empezar a hacer ejercicio con la esperanza de ganar m\u00fasculo, despertar mi cuerpo y llenarlo de energ\u00eda positiva.<\/p>\n<p>Iba al gimnasio unos d\u00edas a la semana y cada sesi\u00f3n de entrenamiento completada era mi peque\u00f1a victoria.<\/p>\n<p>Ni un segundo me centr\u00e9 \u00fanicamente en el resultado final de ganar algo de peso, porque sab\u00eda que era un proceso que llevar\u00eda meses o a\u00f1os antes de que viera cambios visibles.<\/p>\n<p>Cada vez que volv\u00eda a casa despu\u00e9s del gimnasio, me recompensaba con algo simb\u00f3lico para celebrar esta peque\u00f1a victoria.<\/p>\n<p>Despu\u00e9s de mil de estas peque\u00f1as victorias, por primera vez me di cuenta de que tambi\u00e9n hab\u00eda logrado la grande.<\/p>\n<p>Por fin hab\u00eda ganado peso y me ve\u00eda sana y feliz. Y luego, cuando mir\u00e9 atr\u00e1s en el proceso, me di cuenta de lo mucho que hab\u00eda crecido mental y f\u00edsicamente durante todo ese tiempo.<\/p>\n<p>Hab\u00eda d\u00edas en los que me sent\u00eda fatal, pero nunca me quedaba en casa y me negaba a ir a entrenar. Esto mejor\u00f3 mi autodisciplina, mi sentido de la devoci\u00f3n y mi perseverancia.<\/p>\n<p>The same thing can be applied to the college where I perceived every exam as a small win, whereas a final piece of paper that said I\u2019d finished was a big win.<\/p>\n<h2>As\u00ed que s\u00ed, conf\u00eda en el tiempo de tu vida porque la fe es la fuerza m\u00e1s poderosa del universo.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-86094\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-closing-eyes-1.jpg\" alt=\"mujer cerrando los ojos sonriendo en el enfoque que tiene el pelo rizado \" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>We often like to think that we can control the present, the future and everything that&#8217;s happening to us but the truth is that we cannot and we&#8217;re not supposed to be in control of anything.<\/p>\n<p>There are multiple factors that can ruin every possible plan but we still don&#8217;t give up on planning.<\/p>\n<p>And when things don&#8217;t go the way we anticipated, we end up <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/nadie-me-amara-jamas\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">sentirse miserable<\/a> y como si el universo intentara enga\u00f1arnos y jugar con nosotros. Olvidamos que la fe es lo \u00fanico que escapa al control.<\/p>\n<p>When we&#8217;re focused on doing the best we can each day and every moment and when we have found our silver lining, all there is left to do is trust that the universe will do the rest for us.<\/p>\n<p>No podemos saber lo que ocurrir\u00e1 el a\u00f1o que viene, pero cuando echamos la vista atr\u00e1s al a\u00f1o pasado, podemos darnos cuenta de algunas cosas de las que no \u00e9ramos conscientes en aquel momento.<\/p>\n<p>Llegamos a comprender por qu\u00e9 tuvieron que ocurrir algunas cosas y luego nos culpamos a nosotros mismos por no confiar en el universo.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Al final aprendemos que si queremos el arco iris, tenemos que lidiar con la lluvia.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Romper con alguien puede parecer el fin del mundo, pero al cabo de un tiempo nos damos cuenta de que ha sido lo mejor que nos ha pasado porque no est\u00e1bamos contentos con nuestra pareja.<\/p>\n<p>Una vez que conocemos a alguien nuevo, aprendemos a agradecer y apreciar cada cosa buena que hace por nosotros s\u00f3lo porque hemos probado lo que se siente al ser <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/7-cosas-que-puedes-hacer-cuando-empieza-a-darte-por-sentada\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">se da por sentado<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Before going to sleep, we look up, pinch ourself to make sure we&#8217;re not dreaming and we say: <strong>&#8220;Thank you universe and the timing of my life!&#8221;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s interesting that whenever something bad happens, we see it as something totally undesirable and negative. We dream of living in a state where we&#8217;ll experience only feelings of bliss and happiness.<\/p>\n<p>Nos esforzamos por amar, re\u00edr y disfrutar, y tememos las l\u00e1grimas y el dolor. Sin embargo, todo esto es lo que nos da forma y nos hace ser quienes somos.<\/p>\n<h2>Nuestras risas, l\u00e1grimas, alegr\u00edas y tristezas son las que nos acercan a conectar con nuestro verdadero yo.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-86097\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/sideview-of-a-woman-praying.jpg\" alt=\"vista lateral de una mujer rezando con el pu\u00f1o cerrado cerca de la boca\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>My life is not perfect and neither is yours and it will never be. We are flawed and imperfect and we have plenty of quirks and weird habits but that&#8217;s exactly what makes us who we are.<\/p>\n<p>Podemos convencernos a nosotros mismos de que otro trabajo nos har\u00eda m\u00e1s felices o que otras circunstancias de la vida ser\u00edan m\u00e1s agradables y placenteras, y podemos darle vueltas a esa idea durante mucho tiempo y sentirnos desdichados, o podemos optar por hacerlo lo mejor posible y confiar en el momento oportuno de nuestra vida.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Esfuerzo, paciencia y aceptaci\u00f3n son los tres ingredientes secretos de la verdadera felicidad.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>When you know that you have given your best, that you&#8217;ve been patient and that you&#8217;ve accepted the nature of the universe (instead of questioning it), then you know there&#8217;s nothing else you could have done.<\/p>\n<p>Entonces sabr\u00e1s que el momento de tu vida es tu amigo y no un enemigo al que debes exterminar y obligar a seguir tus reglas.<\/p>\n<p>Esta sincronizaci\u00f3n no es algo que se pueda ver o influenciar porque es una fuerza oculta que vive en nuestro coraz\u00f3n y s\u00f3lo puede ser activada por la fe.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/estas-exactamente-donde-necesitas-estar-ahora-mismo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Conf\u00eda en m\u00ed, est\u00e1s exactamente donde necesitas estar ahora mismo<\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-86105\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/This-Is-Why-You-Need-To-Trust-The-Timing-Of-Your-Life-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Por eso debes confiar en el calendario de tu vida\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/This-Is-Why-You-Need-To-Trust-The-Timing-Of-Your-Life-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/This-Is-Why-You-Need-To-Trust-The-Timing-Of-Your-Life-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/This-Is-Why-You-Need-To-Trust-The-Timing-Of-Your-Life-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/This-Is-Why-You-Need-To-Trust-The-Timing-Of-Your-Life-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;Trust the timing of your life&#8221;, he said to me. But back then, I didn&#8217;t believe that the timing of my life was in my favor. I was going through a painful heartbreak, I was desperately looking for a job and as a bonus, I was also fighting with depression. I thought to myself: &#8220;This&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":86099,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29637],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-86043","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-life-hacks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29637,"label":"life hacks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/This-Is-Why-You-Need-To-Trust-The-Timing-Of-Your-Life.jpg",800,511,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29637,"name":"life hacks","slug":"life-hacks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29637,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","parent":22911,"count":281,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29637,"category_count":281,"category_description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","cat_name":"life hacks","category_nicename":"life-hacks","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/86043","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=86043"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/86043\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/86099"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=86043"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=86043"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=86043"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}