Esta es una de mis frases favoritas. Significa que un hombre no vive s\u00f3lo para s\u00ed mismo.<\/p>\n
It took me some time to fully absorb these powerful, inspiring words and over the years they\u2019ve become ever louder and stronger.<\/p>\n
Estas palabras eran como una melod\u00eda que sonaba en un compartimento oculto de mi cerebro, esperando a que su letra cobrara sentido.<\/p>\n
Indeed, we all came into this world alone, but we weren’t meant to isolate ourselves from human warmth, kind words, meaningful relationships, and compassion.<\/p>\n
We\u2019re meant to be the person we needed when we were younger!<\/h2>\n
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Ahora, retrocede en el tiempo y piensa en cuando eras adolescente. \u00bfC\u00f3mo te sent\u00edas entonces? \u00bfProbablemente confundido, perdido, presionado, desafiado, incomprendido?<\/p>\n
S\u00e9 a ciencia cierta que odiaba la autoridad y que me peleaba constantemente con mis padres, sintiendo que nadie me entender\u00eda jam\u00e1s.<\/p>\n
Ahora piensa en tu primer d\u00eda de instituto o universidad.<\/p>\n
Can you recall the levels of severe anxiety before entering the classroom and then realizing that you didn’t know anyone and you were completely on your own.<\/p>\n
How many times did you want to give an answer to a professor’s question but didn’t for fear of appearing too geeky among your peers or mejores amigos<\/a>?<\/p>\n How many times did you feel uncomfortable in a group of random friends or peers because they ignored you in a conversation as if you didn’t exist?<\/p>\n And how often did you cry because you were convinced that no one wanted to hang out with you and you\u2019d be forever a legit “misfit.”<\/p>\n \u00bfRecuerdas todas esas veces en las que lo m\u00e1s bonito al final del d\u00eda era que por fin hab\u00eda terminado?<\/p>\n Or when you\u2019d upload the most badass pictures of yourself on social media in the hopes that someone would notice you and initiate contact, because that would mean the world to you?<\/p>\n \u00bfCu\u00e1ntas veces alguien dijo algo a tus espaldas que hiri\u00f3 tus sentimientos y rompi\u00f3 tu confianza?<\/p>\n \u00bfRecuerdas lo que se siente al llorar a l\u00e1grima viva porque alguien te ha traicionado o te di por sentado<\/a>?<\/p>\n Bueno, al igual que t\u00fa, recuerdo muy bien esos momentos.<\/strong><\/p>\n Recuerdo cuando la gente se re\u00eda de que llevara tacones porque era demasiado delgada, as\u00ed que para ellos resultaba rid\u00edcula con tacones.<\/p>\n Recuerdo cuando nadie quer\u00eda salir conmigo porque era un ni\u00f1o muy introvertido, ten\u00eda salud mental<\/a> problemas, y le resultaba dif\u00edcil establecer contacto con otros ni\u00f1os.<\/p>\n Mi \u00fanico amigo era un oso al que llam\u00e9 Tedo (y a\u00fan hoy lo tengo, aunque ahora tambi\u00e9n tengo amigos de verdad).<\/p>\n Por aquel entonces necesitaba a alguien con quien compartir cosas, decir lo que sent\u00eda por ciertas cosas sin que me juzgaran por ello.<\/p>\n As\u00ed que decid\u00ed compartir todo eso con mi oso. Nunca me dijo nada a cambio, pero sab\u00eda escuchar.<\/p>\n He would silently absorb all of my words, making me feel less lonely in a world that has difficulties accepting introverted kids as “regular” ones.<\/p>\n Cuando miro hacia atr\u00e1s, me doy cuenta de que las cosas que m\u00e1s necesitaba eran autoestima<\/a>...calidez, aceptaci\u00f3n, amigos y algunas palabras amables.<\/p>\n When I look at myself now, I realize that I still need all those things \u2013 just like you and every other single human being on earth.<\/p>\n Por muy seguro de ti mismo que est\u00e9s en ese momento, siempre hay margen para mejorar tu autoestima.<\/p>\n No importa cu\u00e1ntos amigos tengas, nunca estar\u00e1s harto de calidez, cortes\u00eda y aceptaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n But, we often forget that because we’re focused on other things that are “more important” to us at that moment.<\/p>\n Olvidamos que una sola sonrisa puede significar el mundo para alguien que tiene un mal d\u00eda.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n Juzgamos a los dem\u00e1s antes incluso de intentar comprenderlos.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n We’re focused only on ourselves because we don’t have time to help others.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n We don’t notice all the little things because we’re only preoccupied with the big ones.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n Vivimos como si fu\u00e9ramos robots desprovistos de emoci\u00f3n y simpat\u00eda.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n We forget that life is a process and that, by only focusing on goals, we neglect the entire process in the hopes that one day we’ll wake up to a world that will somehow magically be a better place.<\/p>\n Si cada uno de nosotros ha contemplado todas las veces que nos han tratado mal, ignorado y subestimado.<\/p>\n We\u2019d never intentionally do the same thing to others or turn our backs on someone who\u2019s feeling the same way.<\/p>\n De hecho, un solo ser humano tiene la capacidad de cambiar el mundo entero, porque cuanto m\u00e1s amor y calor difundimos, m\u00e1s se multiplica.<\/p>\n Mostrando compasi\u00f3n y amar incondicionalmente<\/a>evolucionamos como personas y ayudamos a los dem\u00e1s a evolucionar.<\/p>\n Instead of acting bossy and competitive toward others (especially those who are younger than us), think about how they\u2019d feel if we were friendly and approachable.<\/p>\n Or think of how you\u2019d feel if someone older had to treat you as their friend who fully understands you. We could be someone who encourages others to never give up, no matter what.<\/p>\n Podr\u00edamos darles algunos de los mejores consejos de la historia y cambiar su perspectiva de las cosas.<\/p>\n Una simple conversaci\u00f3n puede inspirar a alguien a ver el panorama completo y darse cuenta de que est\u00e1 exactamente donde tiene que estar en ese momento.<\/p>\n Imagine you’re a stranger in a new city where you have no friends and no family.<\/p>\n You have only yourself and you’re dying to make new friends \u2013 or at least have someone to go for a walk or out for a drink with.<\/p>\n Ahora imagina que todas las personas con las que hablas son gru\u00f1onas y no est\u00e1n interesadas en entablar amistad contigo.<\/p>\n \u00bfTe sentir\u00edas decepcionado y alienado? \u00bfQuerr\u00edas ser la persona que necesitabas cuando eras m\u00e1s joven y estabas decepcionado? Seguro que s\u00ed.<\/p>\n Siempre que te encuentres con un desconocido, ten presente que t\u00fa tambi\u00e9n lo fuiste en alg\u00fan momento o podr\u00edas serlo en el futuro.<\/p>\n Shower them with warmth, offer them a productive conversation, and ask them if they need something \u2013 because one day you’ll need the same treatment from others.<\/p>\n Did you have teachers in your school who didn’t believe that you were capable of achieving things?<\/p>\n Were you encircled by people who didn’t believe you have the capacity to do whatever you want only if you set your mind to it?<\/p>\n There are plenty of people feeling that way every single second, every single day. Don’t just pass them thinking that it’s none of your business and someone else will comfort or help them.<\/p>\n It’s high time we start noticing things and people around us and acting accordingly, because that’s what we ought to do.<\/p>\n We\u2019re born to nourish teamwork, to help those in need, and to give a part of ourselves to humanity and the world we live in.<\/p>\n It’s time to tell those who are feeling sad that it will pass.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n You’ve probably gone through all kinds of emotions, from uplifting to draining ones, and you know that they are not meaningless.<\/p>\n Sabes que todo sucede por una raz\u00f3n y que no importa lo mal que te sientas hoy, ma\u00f1ana, dentro de unos d\u00edas, semanas o meses, todo tendr\u00e1 sentido para ti.<\/p>\n![\"mujer](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-thinking-standing.jpg\")
<\/p>\nBut, the truth is: Change starts within you! Be who you needed when you were younger and you’ll start changing the world around you.<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nWe, human beings, have wasted lots of time thinking that someone or something is none of our business and it’s high time we change that!<\/h2>\n
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