{"id":86610,"date":"2020-08-13T20:29:00","date_gmt":"2020-08-13T20:29:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=86610"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:39:40","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:39:40","slug":"te-mantiene-en-un-segundo-plano","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/te-mantiene-en-un-segundo-plano\/","title":{"rendered":"7 cosas que demuestran que te deja en segundo plano"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfSe le dan mal las relaciones o es un jugador?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Figuring out if he\u2019s saving you as one of his options and wasting your time can be tricky. What if he\u2019s just keeping you on the back burner?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

For those who\u2019ve never even heard of such a kind of relationship, this is what it is: <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Una relaci\u00f3n en segundo plano es una relaci\u00f3n en la que \u00e9l te da la impresi\u00f3n de que las cosas est\u00e1n a punto de ponerse serias, cuando en realidad tiene otras opciones que quiere explorar primero.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

He\u2019s interested in hooking up with you, but he\u2019s not sure he\u2019ll ever want anything more. Still, he wants to keep you as an option. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Lee estas 7 se\u00f1ales que demuestran que tienes <\/span><\/i>una relaci\u00f3n en segundo plano<\/i><\/b>.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

\u00c9l toma todas las decisiones<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Todo en tu relaci\u00f3n sucede seg\u00fan sus condiciones. Tus deseos, planes y h\u00e1bitos nunca se tienen en cuenta.<\/span><\/p>\n

He only cares about getting what he wants from you and he can even be very open about it. If you try to make things go your way, he\u2019ll tell you you\u2019re being needy or pushy.<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ve probably noticed that he\u2019s <\/span>ego\u00edsta<\/span><\/a> en c\u00f3mo te trata.<\/span><\/p>\n

He\u2019s not there to make you feel happy, loved, or taken care of. You\u2019re one of his options and he treats you like you don\u2019t really matter that much because to him, you don\u2019t.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you\u2019re out of the picture he still has others to choose from.<\/span><\/p>\n

Te llama en el \u00faltimo minuto<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Even though he usually doesn\u2019t invite you to go to important events with him, he might call you at 9 to get ready for a party at 10 because his other option blew him off.<\/span><\/p>\n

If he often calls you or texts you last minute to hang out that means he never thinks of you first. He goes through his other, better options and you\u2019re definitely not his priority.<\/span><\/p>\n

He might get offended, annoyed, or mad if you refuse to go with him, but that\u2019s just because he\u2019s tired of going through his list, not because he cares that much about seeing you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Rara vez se le ve los fines de semana<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Everybody has some fun plans for the weekend and he does too. The thing is, you\u2019re never a part of those plans.<\/span><\/p>\n

He makes arrangements to hang out with his first interest(s) or even his real girlfriend. The only way he\u2019ll call you on the weekend is if the scenario from the previous point happens.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you truly were his only interest, or at least his priority interest, wouldn\u2019t he choose to spend time with you on the weekends?<\/span><\/p>\n

Tarda mucho en contestar<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t really care that you texted him. There\u2019s nothing in that message you sent that he cares about.<\/span><\/p>\n

He texts you when he\u2019s bored or lonely<\/span><\/a> and only when he needs you \u2013 he doesn\u2019t really bother to respond to your needs. He\u2019s not happy to even talk to you if it\u2019s not convenient for him.<\/span><\/p>\n

Todo esto puede enmascararse ingeniosamente con la historia de que est\u00e1 muy ocupado en el trabajo, haciendo algo importante o que no oye el tel\u00e9fono.<\/span><\/p>\n

If it only happened once or twice, he might be being honest, but if this is something that happens often, he\u2019s definitely keeping you on the back burner.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nunca hace verdaderos planes contigo<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t really say you\u2019ve ever agreed on meeting or doing something a week or even a couple of days ahead.<\/span><\/p>\n

Everything seems to always be so spontaneous, but it\u2019s actually last minute.<\/span><\/p>\n

Of course he can\u2019t commit to making plans with you. He has to check if anything more important is happening first, and then, if he\u2019s bored or has no one else to turn to, he\u2019ll make quick plans with you.<\/span><\/p>\n

He says he\u2019ll call but he doesn\u2019t<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

He told you he\u2019d call you but he didn\u2019t. He does this all the time. If he was committed to you, you would be at the front of his mind at almost all times.<\/span><\/p>\n

Forgetting to call you, and simply not even caring, definitely means he doesn\u2019t care about you or your feelings.<\/span><\/p>\n

Once his needs are satisfied, he no longer thinks of you. He might think of a charming excuse for his behavior but he doesn\u2019t even care if you get mad, that\u2019s why he gets to be so casual and carefree.<\/span><\/p>\n

Despite all this, he comes to you whenever he\u2019s lonely\/sad\/bored<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Even though, at moments, it seems obvious to you that you\u2019re not his top priority, he still comes to you. Why does he do that?<\/span><\/p>\n

Siempre que necesita sentirse reconfortado, entretenido o simplemente necesita compa\u00f1\u00eda, se pone en contacto contigo.<\/span><\/p>\n

La respuesta est\u00e1 ah\u00ed. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re there for him when no one else is and he can\u2019t just let that go. He doesn\u2019t really care about you, but he likes the way you make him feel and isn\u2019t willing to lose that.<\/span><\/p>\n

We hope we\u2019ve given you what it takes to decide if your guy is keeping you on the back burner or simply needs to work on his relationship skills. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Prot\u00e9jase y <\/span><\/i>don\u2019t let anyone treat you like you\u2019re only an option<\/span><\/i><\/a> cuando sabes que mereces ser una prioridad.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

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