{"id":8662,"date":"2020-08-17T08:47:17","date_gmt":"2020-08-17T08:47:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=8662"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:59:01","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:59:01","slug":"usted-encontrara-la-fuerza-alejarse-relacion-toxica-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/usted-encontrara-la-fuerza-alejarse-relacion-toxica-2\/","title":{"rendered":"As\u00ed es como encontrar\u00e1s la fuerza para alejarte de una relaci\u00f3n t\u00f3xica"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>En el fondo sab\u00edas que no era amor. El amor no deb\u00eda ser as\u00ed. No se supon\u00eda que el amor te lastimara y te disminuyera.<\/p>\n<p>No se supon\u00eda que el amor te hiciera sentir menos digno. Pero, tu amor lo hizo.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Tu amor te romp\u00eda el coraz\u00f3n cada ma\u00f1ana que te despertabas. Tu amor te lastimaba con cada texto que recib\u00edas. Tu amor te destru\u00eda con cada palabra dura que dec\u00eda.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>It wasn\u2019t always like that. When you met him, he wanted to give you the world. He wanted you to feel safe and protected.<\/p>\n<p>He wanted to wrap you in his love and keep you safe in his arms\u2014away from bad people, away from the vicious world.<\/p>\n<p><i> Isn\u2019t that every girl\u2019s dream? Isn\u2019t that all you\u2019ve ever wanted? <\/i><\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que le seguiste la corriente. As\u00ed que aceptaste seguirle ciegamente porque ve\u00edas un rayo de sol al final de tu oscuro y solitario t\u00fanel.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-108218\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/a-loving-couple-standing-face-to-face.jpg\" alt=\"una pareja de enamorados frente a frente\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/a-loving-couple-standing-face-to-face.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/a-loving-couple-standing-face-to-face-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/a-loving-couple-standing-face-to-face-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/a-loving-couple-standing-face-to-face-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/a-loving-couple-standing-face-to-face-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u00bfQui\u00e9n iba a pensar que s\u00f3lo te arrastrar\u00eda m\u00e1s profundamente en la oscuridad en lugar de mostrarte la salida?<\/p>\n<p>He began to change, to show his hidden \u2018rotten\u2019 face one tiny step at a time. It first began with nagging: \u201cYou shouldn\u2019t have done this, you shouldn\u2019t have done that\u2026\u201d, but gradually it became worse.<\/p>\n<p>Empez\u00f3 a gritarte por cada cosa que desaprobaba o le disgustaba. Quer\u00eda que bailaras al ritmo de la m\u00fasica que pon\u00eda.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>He wanted you to become someone else, someone up his street\u2014a complete stranger to you. He wanted you to be perfect, his little work of art. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>And you became that. You couldn\u2019t recognize yourself anymore. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/todas-las-chicas-han-perdido-alguna-vez-a-un-hombre-toxico\/\">You weren\u2019t the person you used to be.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Poco a poco, una cosa a la vez, se asegur\u00f3 de que eso sucediera. Te correg\u00eda en todo lo que hac\u00edas.<\/p>\n<p>Even when you had your moments of complete soberness, when you weren\u2019t drugged with his words and deeds, when you knew that you weren\u2019t crazy and that you weren\u2019t guilty of things he accused you of, you couldn\u2019t fight back.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-108225\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/a-young-loving-couple-arguing-in-the-house.jpg\" alt=\"una joven pareja de enamorados discutiendo en casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/a-young-loving-couple-arguing-in-the-house.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/a-young-loving-couple-arguing-in-the-house-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/a-young-loving-couple-arguing-in-the-house-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/a-young-loving-couple-arguing-in-the-house-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/a-young-loving-couple-arguing-in-the-house-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Te desarmar\u00eda justo al comienzo de la batalla.<\/p>\n<p>Te hac\u00eda creer cosas que no eran ciertas, se inventaba palabras y les daba vida, como si hubieran salido de tu boca.<\/p>\n<p>Era desesperante y estabas perdido, sin tener otro lugar al que ir que quedarte all\u00ed y esperar a que terminara.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes, you were even apologizing for things that you never did, just so you could shut him up, just so he would leave you alone already. You couldn\u2019t listen to him and his screaming anymore.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Cada una de sus fr\u00edas y despiadadas palabras te atravesaba justo en el coraz\u00f3n, como si fueran viejas y oxidadas pero afiladas cuchillas.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Those hurtful and degrading moments were the ones that led you to where you are today\u2014far away from him.<\/p>\n<p>Although you felt like you couldn\u2019t take any of it anymore, you weren\u2019t aware that every toxic move he made gave you more strength to <a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/kat-george\/2013\/07\/here-is-how-you-walk-away-from-him\/\" rel=\"noopener\">alejarse de \u00e9l.<\/a> S\u00e9 que ahora lo sabes.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-108216 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/a-brunette-in-black-with-a-brown-bag-goes-somewhere.jpg\" alt=\"una morena de negro con un bolso marr\u00f3n va a alguna parte\" width=\"800\" height=\"543\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/a-brunette-in-black-with-a-brown-bag-goes-somewhere.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/a-brunette-in-black-with-a-brown-bag-goes-somewhere-300x204.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/a-brunette-in-black-with-a-brown-bag-goes-somewhere-768x521.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/a-brunette-in-black-with-a-brown-bag-goes-somewhere-150x102.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Cada vez que quer\u00edas irte, \u00e9l te atra\u00eda de nuevo...<\/i><\/b> . Cada vez que te enfrentabas a \u00e9l y le dec\u00edas que te trataba como a una mierda, se disculpaba s\u00f3lo para callarte, te trataba amablemente durante unos d\u00edas y luego el c\u00edrculo continuaba.<\/p>\n<p>En cuanto ve\u00eda que te hab\u00edas calmado, volv\u00eda a ser un completo gilipollas.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Segu\u00edas pensando que cambiar\u00eda.<\/i><\/b> You knew you fell in love with him for some reason, but you couldn\u2019t remember why anymore.<\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que seguiste pensando que cambiar\u00eda. Segu\u00edas minti\u00e9ndote a ti misma dici\u00e9ndote que s\u00f3lo era una fase y que se le pasar\u00eda. Incluso intentaste ayudarle a ver que no era una buena persona.<\/p>\n<p>All of that was in vain. These people can\u2019t change unless they want to. You can\u2019t do anything about it so it would be better if you\u2019 never even tried. You should have left a long time ago.<\/p>\n<p>But, it\u2019s okay because you left. Somehow you found the strength and one simple goodbye did it. Done. He is history now.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Encontraste la fuerza para aceptar tu relaci\u00f3n por lo que era<\/i><\/b> \u2014a pack of toxic lies. Lying and cheating became more than you could handle.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-108210\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/beautiful-brunette-standing-outside-with-a-man-and-talking.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/beautiful-brunette-standing-outside-with-a-man-and-talking.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/beautiful-brunette-standing-outside-with-a-man-and-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/beautiful-brunette-standing-outside-with-a-man-and-talking-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/beautiful-brunette-standing-outside-with-a-man-and-talking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/beautiful-brunette-standing-outside-with-a-man-and-talking-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You simply cracked. And he couldn\u2019t stop there. Not just that he lied to you, he abused you emotionally by making you believe in things that were not true.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/narcisistas-manipuladores-psicopatas-personas-toxicas-dano\/\">Te dio luz de gas y te manipul\u00f3<\/a> para que hiciera lo que \u00e9l quer\u00eda.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Encontraste la fuerza para poner fin a todo por fin.<\/i><\/b> You decided you weren\u2019t going to hurt anymore. You decided that you weren\u2019t going to waste your life on that pathetic bastard who was sucking you dry.<\/p>\n<p>You decided you\u2019d had enough of him tearing you up inside.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Encontraste la fuerza para decirte por fin que te merec\u00edas algo mejor. <\/i><\/b> You know that life doesn\u2019t last forever and you finally realized that you might miss the right one by putting up with the wrong one.<\/p>\n<p>You knew it was time to change that, at any cost. The kind of love you were getting was not the love you deserved and the amount of love you were putting into your relationship wasn\u2019t paid back, not even a bit.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Encontraste la fuerza para aceptar que dejarlo te har\u00eda da\u00f1o<\/i><\/b> . Of course, you\u2019re going to hurt. No matter what he did to you, you got used to being around that person.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-108214 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/a-sad-red-haired-woman-standing-outside-in-the-rain.jpg\" alt=\"una mujer pelirroja triste de pie fuera bajo la lluvia\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/a-sad-red-haired-woman-standing-outside-in-the-rain.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/a-sad-red-haired-woman-standing-outside-in-the-rain-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/a-sad-red-haired-woman-standing-outside-in-the-rain-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/a-sad-red-haired-woman-standing-outside-in-the-rain-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/a-sad-red-haired-woman-standing-outside-in-the-rain-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He was a part of your life for a long time and now he\u2019s gone. Every change is scary, even one for the good. The scariest part is the one that comes right after breaking up.<\/p>\n<p>Est\u00e1s dolida porque est\u00e1s sola y sin mencionar que \u00e9l se encarg\u00f3 de que te sintieras rechazada e indigna.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Encontraste la fuerza para tomar las riendas de tu vida.<\/i><\/b> Esto es lo m\u00e1s importante de lo que ten\u00edas que darte cuenta. Por fin te diste cuenta de que ten\u00edas que hacer algo.<\/p>\n<p>Te has dado cuenta de que te niegas a seguir viviendo as\u00ed. Quiz\u00e1 ahora necesites ayuda de tus amigos o de tu familia, quiz\u00e1 necesites ayuda profesional.<\/p>\n<p>Whatever it is, don\u2019t hesitate to ask, to do something. That is only the first but most important step that awaits you in life. A life without abuse, a life without him.<\/p>\n<p><i> Don\u2019t let anyone define you and mold you like you\u2019re a lousy and faceless piece of clay. <\/i><\/p>\n<p><i> Don\u2019t let anyone make you his own masterpiece because you are the only one who knows what you need, want and deserve. Never settle for anything else <\/i> .<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-108235 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/This-Is-How-Youll-Find-The-Strength-To-Walk-Away-From-A-Toxic-Relationship-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"As\u00ed es como encontrar\u00e1s la fuerza para alejarte de una relaci\u00f3n t\u00f3xica\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/This-Is-How-Youll-Find-The-Strength-To-Walk-Away-From-A-Toxic-Relationship-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/This-Is-How-Youll-Find-The-Strength-To-Walk-Away-From-A-Toxic-Relationship-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/This-Is-How-Youll-Find-The-Strength-To-Walk-Away-From-A-Toxic-Relationship-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/This-Is-How-Youll-Find-The-Strength-To-Walk-Away-From-A-Toxic-Relationship-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/This-Is-How-Youll-Find-The-Strength-To-Walk-Away-From-A-Toxic-Relationship-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You knew deep inside that it wasn\u2019t love. Love was not supposed to be like that. Love was not supposed to hurt you and diminish you. Love was not supposed to make you feel less worthy. But, your love did. Your love broke your heart every morning you woke up. Your love hurt you with&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":108207,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29625],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8662","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-toxic-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29625,"label":"toxic relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/This-Is-How-Youll-Find-The-Strength-To-Walk-Away-From-A-Toxic-Relationship.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29625,"name":"toxic relationship","slug":"toxic-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29625,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? 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