{"id":86989,"date":"2020-09-08T06:35:23","date_gmt":"2020-09-08T06:35:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=86989"},"modified":"2022-08-25T12:01:13","modified_gmt":"2022-08-25T12:01:13","slug":"cosas-raras-que-hacen-los-narcisistas-para-manipular","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/cosas-raras-que-hacen-los-narcisistas-para-manipular\/","title":{"rendered":"13 cosas raras que hacen los narcisistas para manipular a sus v\u00edctimas"},"content":{"rendered":"

It doesn’t matter if you’ve had a relaci\u00f3n t\u00f3xica<\/a> with a narcissistic ex or you’re still involved with someone suffering from NPD \u2013 either way, you know very well that there are some behavior patterns every narcissist follows.<\/p>\n

S\u00ed, todos ellos son personas individuales, pero extra\u00f1amente, hay algunas cosas raras que hacen los narcisistas que son comunes a todos ellos.<\/p>\n

I’m not talking here about their individual personality traits that have nothing to do with their disorder. I’m referring to some strange things that characterize them.<\/p>\n

Each one of these habits or actions can serve as a bulletproof sign that you’re dealing with a narcissist and can help you save yourself in time.<\/p>\n

Esta lista definitiva de cosas raras que hacen los narcisistas profundiza un poco m\u00e1s bajo las capas de su personalidad y va m\u00e1s all\u00e1 de algunas cosas que podr\u00edas esperar experimentar de alguien as\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s get into it.<\/p>\n

Intimidad artificial<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

When you meet a malignant narcissist for the first time, his goal is to get to know you better. He is not doing it because he\u2019s genuinely interested in your life.<\/p>\n

It’s all a part of his abuso narcisista<\/a> t\u00e1cticas que comienzan de inmediato.<\/p>\n

De hecho, esta persona quiere que expongas tus vulnerabilidades. Quiere conocer todos tus puntos d\u00e9biles para poder utilizarlos en tu contra m\u00e1s adelante.<\/p>\n

However, it would be too weird if he asked you deeply personal questions right away \u2013 you\u2019d see through his intentions and his plan would fail at the first step.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why he uses reverse psychology techniques on you. Instead of openly snooping around your life, he is the one who starts to confide in you first.<\/p>\n

Once he does this, you begin to trust him more. You feel like he\u2019s someone who will keep your secrets and won\u2019t take advantage of you letting him in.<\/p>\n

De este modo, alguien con un trastorno narcisista de la personalidad crea una intimidad artificial.<\/p>\n

Lo mismo ocurre con bombardeo de amor<\/a>. Pretende preocuparse por ti m\u00e1s que por nadie antes que \u00e9l, as\u00ed que no tienes m\u00e1s remedio que darle todas esas emociones a cambio.<\/p>\n

En consecuencia, la mayor\u00eda de las relaciones t\u00f3xicas narcisistas avanzan a una velocidad enorme.<\/p>\n

Before you know it, you\u2019re already seriously involved with this person and basically, you don\u2019t even know when and how it happened.<\/p>\n

You feel incredibly close to your narcissist and get the impression that you\u2019ve found your long lost soulmate.<\/p>\n

You feel an emotional connection you\u2019ve never felt before and that you could trust this man with your life, even though things are nowhere near that.<\/p>\n

Identidad inventada<\/h2>\n

\"narcisista<\/p>\n

Another one of the weird things narcissists do is pretend to be someone they\u2019re not. You see, deep down, every narcissistic person is perfectly aware of their true selves.<\/p>\n

De hecho, luchan contra la inseguridad y rara vez aceptan su verdadera personalidad. En cambio, hacen todo lo posible por ocultar sus imperfecciones.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why a narcisista<\/a> se inventa una nueva identidad para impresionar a su v\u00edctima.<\/p>\n

Sabe que nunca te enamorar\u00edas del hombre que es en realidad, as\u00ed que necesita hacerse pasar por otra persona para meterse en tu piel.<\/p>\n

Ten cuidado porque estas personas suelen ser mentirosos compulsivos, entre todos los dem\u00e1s trastornos mentales que padecen.<\/p>\n

Por ello, sus v\u00edctimas suelen tardar mucho tiempo en llegar al fondo de sus enga\u00f1os.<\/p>\n

No, a person suffering from NPD won\u2019t give you a fake name. They\u2019ll probably decirte la verdad<\/a> sobre algunos datos b\u00e1sicos sobre s\u00ed mismos.<\/p>\n

However, they\u2019ll completely disregard certain information they don\u2019t find appealing. They\u2019ll hide their failures and, most importantly, they\u2019ll do everything in their power for you not to see their dark side.<\/p>\n

When you first meet someone like this, you think that he is too good to be true. You can\u2019t believe that you\u2019re so lucky to cross paths with such a perfect person.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, a narcissist\u2019s personality is actually a blend of different people.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not rare for them to take over the things they like about their friend\u2019s and family\u2019s past and present them as their own personal history.<\/p>\n

The worst part about all this is that once you do find out that you\u2019ve been lied to, it\u2019s usually too late.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re already trapped in this narcissistic relationship and you love this person so much that you forgive them for their misdeeds from the beginning.<\/p>\n

Relacionado: 52 cosas manipuladoras que dicen los narcisistas en una discusi\u00f3n<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Campa\u00f1a de desprestigio<\/h2>\n

\"empleados<\/p>\n

Gran parte de la oferta narcisista radica en que el narcisista se siente mejor que su v\u00edctima<\/a> \u2013 doing everything in his power to make you feel like he is above you in all ways possible.<\/p>\n

B\u00e1sicamente, lo que estas personas buscan es aprobaci\u00f3n. Necesitan que les idealices y, para conseguirlo, primero tienen que menospreciarte, ya que es la \u00fanica forma de que est\u00e9s por debajo de ellos.<\/p>\n

That is exactly why they often do something called a smear campaign, spreading negative propaganda about you just to ruin your reputation \u2013 yet another one of the things weird things narcissists do.<\/p>\n

Un narcisista hablar\u00e1 mal de usted a sus amigos, familiares y compa\u00f1eros de trabajo. Har\u00e1 todo lo posible para que todos ellos te pierdan el respeto.<\/p>\n

Durante este tiempo, utilizar\u00e1 mentiras y manipulaciones. Difundir\u00e1 sabiamente rumores sobre usted, todo ello con el objetivo final de que los dem\u00e1s piensen mal de usted.<\/p>\n

De este modo, una persona narcisista destruye tu credibilidad. La gente deja de considerarte fiable y tu palabra pierde todo su peso.<\/p>\n

Consequently, even when you try looking for help from others \u2013 once you try escaping this mental prison he\u2019s put you in \u2013 you keep finding shut doors.<\/p>\n

Even when you try telling people that he\u2019s an abuser, nobody actually believes you since their opinion of you is already tainted.<\/p>\n

Al fin y al cabo, no tienes a nadie m\u00e1s a quien recurrir que a tu narcisista. Y eso es exactamente lo que quer\u00eda lograr todo el tiempo.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, es su forma de impedir que progreses en la vida. Una manera de controlarte.<\/p>\n

After all, how can you hope of getting the promotion you need so you could gain your financial independence if your partner\u2019s made sure your boss and coworkers consider you irresponsible or even a thief?<\/p>\n

How do you expect your friends to give you a shelter once you finally decide to leave him and go no contact if your partner\u2019s made sure they consider you a liar or abuser?<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo puede iniciar el proceso de recuperaci\u00f3n del abuso narcisista<\/a> si no tienes a nadie que te ayude?<\/p>\n

Guardar rencor<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s face it, all of us are resentful from time to time. Some things seem completely irrelevant, but you can\u2019t force yourself to forget them or to forgive the ones who did you harm.<\/p>\n

Dicho esto, los narcisistas son campeones de guardar rencor<\/a>. They have a memory of an elephant and never forget something that\u2019s hurt them, even if they act like they accept someone\u2019s apology.<\/p>\n

In fact, the problem is that a narcissist\u2019s ego rarely allows him to show anyone that he is heartbroken or emotionally damaged. He will often act like someone hurting him isn\u2019t such a big deal.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, s\u00f3lo se comportar\u00e1 as\u00ed al principio. En cambio, en cuanto surge el primer desacuerdo, se asegura de mencionar algo del pasado y de reabrir viejas heridas.<\/p>\n

Lo mismo ocurre con las relaciones rom\u00e1nticas. Una persona narcisista est\u00e1 dispuesta a acosar a su pareja durante a\u00f1os por algo que hicieron hace mucho tiempo.<\/p>\n

Te restregar\u00e1 directamente en la nariz algunas cosas que estabas seguro de que eran cosa del pasado cada vez que os pele\u00e9is.<\/p>\n

This man has no capacity for forgiveness. He doesn\u2019t accept apologies and always remembers every time his feelings got hurt.<\/p>\n

Doble rasero<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

On the other hand, a narcissist will rarely remember the things he\u2019s done to his victims, which is also a red flag that you’re dealing with a soci\u00f3pata<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Este tipo de personas suelen tener un doble rasero. Tienen una serie de normas para sus v\u00edctimas, otra para el resto del mundo y una tercera para ellos mismos.<\/p>\n

Un narcisista se considera un privilegiado. Es lo mejor de lo mejor y una criatura dada por Dios.<\/p>\n

Por lo tanto, puede comportarse como quiera. Tiene derecho a hacer ciertas cosas que nadie m\u00e1s hace.<\/p>\n

Esta persona se ve a s\u00ed misma como la realeza, mientras que todos los dem\u00e1s no son m\u00e1s que sus sirvientes. El mundo gira a su alrededor.<\/p>\n

These people lack empathy and think they have the full right to do whatever they want, without taking other people\u2019s opinions or feelings into consideration.<\/p>\n

No s\u00f3lo eso, debido a su falta de empat\u00eda, un narcisista siempre se las arregla para justificar sus malas acciones.<\/p>\n

He finds excuses for his toxic behavior and doesn\u2019t have trouble forgiving himself, since he doesn’t have the ability to observe things from your point of view.<\/p>\n

De hecho, espera que el resto del mundo tambi\u00e9n sea tolerante con sus actos. Seg\u00fan \u00e9l, haga lo que haga, siempre merece un indulto.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, he is extremely judgmental when it comes to others \u2013 especially when it comes to his romantic partner.<\/p>\n

Todo lo que haces se observa a trav\u00e9s del microscopio. Cada uno de tus errores es diseccionado, discutido y analizado hasta la m\u00e9dula.<\/p>\n

This man holds you accountable for all the wrong choices you\u2019ve ever made. On the other hand, if he happens to do exactly the same thing, he doesn\u2019t go so hard on himself.<\/p>\n

De hecho, espera comprensi\u00f3n y un trato amable, a pesar de que \u00e9l nunca da lo mismo a cambio.<\/p>\n

Ser un camale\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Another one of the weird things narcissists are capable of is to transform into whoever they want. And no, I\u2019m not talking about this in a good way.<\/p>\n

Of course, one\u2019s adaption skills are quite significant \u2013 they give you the possibility of hanging out with different people and chase away one\u2019s fears.<\/p>\n

What I\u2019m trying to tell you is that most of the people with NDP are actually skilled actors, which can be extremely dangerous for your relationship.<\/p>\n

After all, whenever you hear about cases of domestic violence, you think of yourself \u2013 that the abuser seemed like a nice guy and you can\u2019t believe the accusations against him.<\/p>\n

You wonder how this sociopath in disguise tricked the entire world into considering him a high-value man, even though he can\u2019t be further from one.<\/p>\n

Well, narcissists are usually chameleons. They don\u2019t go around acting like abusadores<\/a> since they\u2019re extremely careful about their reputation and the public image they present.<\/p>\n

Instead, at first sight, these people are usually perceived as the kindest and the most polite human beings you\u2019ve ever met.<\/p>\n

They\u2019re masters at putting on a mask of a decent man and pretending to be someone they\u2019re not.<\/p>\n

However, when they come home, they usually turn into real-life beasts. A narcissist knows that his victim is head over heels for him so he doesn\u2019t have any more need for false pretenses.<\/p>\n

Now, he is safe to show you his worst sides. Nobody could ever connect these two personalities with each other \u2013 and there is exactly where lies their magical ability.<\/p>\n

You know how there are some parts of you you simply can\u2019t hide, even if you tried? Some aspects of your personality that always swim to the surface and you can\u2019t control it?<\/p>\n

Well, that is where you\u2019re similar to the rest of the world.<\/p>\n

Por otro lado, mientras un narcisista intenta conquistarte, tiene un sentido del autocontrol tan fuerte que puede ocultar lo que quiera sobre s\u00ed mismo y reinventar la persona que es.<\/p>\n

Anular a la otra persona<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Como ya se ha dicho, otro de los s\u00edntomas de su trastorno es que los narcisistas se consideran los m\u00e1s importantes del mundo.<\/p>\n

Esperan que los dem\u00e1s vean y sepan lo especiales y \u00fanicos que son.<\/p>\n

According to them, the entire universe revolves around them. They\u2019re always the number one priority and everyone else comes behind them.<\/p>\n

Aunque esto pueda parecer s\u00f3lo un caso de alta autoestima, en realidad es parte de su trastorno mental y un rasgo que causa problemas en todas sus relaciones, incluidas las rom\u00e1nticas.<\/p>\n

What I\u2019m trying to tell you is that when you\u2019re in an relaci\u00f3n abusiva<\/a> con alguien que sufre de NPD, dejas de existir como tu verdadero yo.<\/p>\n

According to his views, you\u2019re no longer an individual with your own personality, best friends, family, interests, dreams, fears, hopes\u2026<\/p>\n

En cambio, tu \u00fanico papel en este mundo es el de su pareja rom\u00e1ntica. Fuiste enviada a este mundo para complacerle y como herramienta para que \u00e9l consiga lo que quiere.<\/p>\n

La cuesti\u00f3n es que este tipo de persona nunca te reconocer\u00e1 ni a ti ni a tus emociones, lo que tambi\u00e9n es una forma de abuso narcisista<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Siempre que te pasa algo, \u00e9l tiene algo m\u00e1s importante a lo que todos deben prestar atenci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

For example, when you talk to this person about your problems or tell him you\u2019re feeling bad, he\u2019ll never put any energy in trying to help you.<\/p>\n

Instead, he\u2019ll immediately turn the tables and make it all about him. He\u2019ll start talking about a similar situation he was once in, or connect what you\u2019re going through with something he experienced.<\/p>\n

En cualquier caso, la cuesti\u00f3n es que anula a su v\u00edctima. Intenta borrar su individualidad y su objetivo final es su asesinato espiritual.<\/p>\n

Acoso y espionaje<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Lo m\u00e1s espeluznante de estar involucrado con un narcisista es su posesivo<\/a> y naturaleza celosa.<\/p>\n

And we\u2019re not talking of the normal jealous because someone cares for you a lot and obviously can\u2019t stay immune to picturing you next to someone else.<\/p>\n

Con una personalidad narcisista, los celos forman parte de su trastorno y suelen ir m\u00e1s all\u00e1 de tu comprensi\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

El n\u00facleo de su comportamiento posesivo radica en dos cosas principales: el deseo de control y los problemas de confianza.<\/p>\n

En primer lugar, estas personas tienen una necesidad incontrolable de tener siempre el control en todos los aspectos de su vida y de la tuya.<\/p>\n

They deny your right to privacy and things as boundaries and personal space don\u2019t exist for them.<\/p>\n

Secondly, we all think that the rest of the world is just like us. Therefore, a narcissist knowing that he can\u2019t be trusted, expects everyone else, including you to be the same.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why he usually engages in things such as spying and stalking. Yes, you heard it right: This is not just something you only see in the movies.<\/p>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Un narcisista detallista elegir\u00e1 a su v\u00edctima potencial mucho antes de acercarse a ella por primera vez.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll spend some time stalking her and trying to collect as much information about her as possible.<\/p>\n

Este acoso contin\u00faa tambi\u00e9n despu\u00e9s de la ruptura. Sigue todos tus movimientos, se obsesiona con tus publicaciones en las redes sociales e incluso molesta a tus allegados.<\/p>\n

When it comes to spying, it usually takes place during your narcissistic relationship and often includes techniques and equipment you don\u2019t even know exist.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be surprised if you find out that your narcissistic partner has put cameras all around your apartment or found a way to listen in on your phone conversations.<\/p>\n

These are the people who will hack your social media profiles, snoop through your phone while you\u2019re sleeping, or even get someone to intentionally flirt with you just to check your fidelity.<\/p>\n

The worst part is that you don\u2019t have to give your narcissist a reason to doubt you in order for him to start behaving like this. It\u2019s just a part of who he is and there is absolutely nothing you can do about it.<\/p>\n

Identificaci\u00f3n proyectiva<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Un rasgo com\u00fan de la personalidad narcisista es la proyecci\u00f3n. De hecho, la identificaci\u00f3n proyectiva es su mecanismo de defensa n\u00famero uno.<\/p>\n

No, they don\u2019t use this projection as a way to defend themselves from you since you\u2019re not the one attacking them.<\/p>\n

En cambio, lo utilizan para protegerse de sus propios impulsos y de las partes ocultas de su car\u00e1cter.<\/p>\n

En alg\u00fan nivel de su conciencia, los narcisistas saben qui\u00e9nes son. Saben que tienen al menos algunas partes negativas de su personalidad.<\/p>\n

However, they do their best to escape those aspects of themselves. In fact, they repress it to the point that they start pretending that they\u2019re not there.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, el problema surge cuando una persona narcisista empieza a acusar a su v\u00edctima de tener esos impulsos que \u00e9l intenta ocultar de s\u00ed mismo.<\/p>\n

Cuando un narcisista proyecta sus malas cualidades en otra persona y empieza a odiarla por tener esos rasgos imaginarios.<\/p>\n

Basically, if your narcissist is an abuser, this is something he can\u2019t accept about himself.<\/p>\n

Por lo tanto, es probable que te acuse de maltratadora, aunque \u00e9l sea el \u00fanico que muestra tendencias violentas en su comportamiento.<\/p>\n

Lo mismo ocurre con la fidelidad. Si su narcisista es infiel<\/a>, it\u2019s not uncommon for him to accuse you of the same. If he hates himself or you, he\u2019ll constantly accuse you of hating him, and so on.<\/p>\n

El juego de las culpas<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Otra de las cosas raras que los narcisistas hacen tan bien es jugar al juego de la culpa.<\/p>\n

A big problem with these people is that they literally have no sense of responsibility, which is also a red flag that you’re dealing with a psic\u00f3pata<\/a>.<\/p>\n

According to them, they\u2019re never guilty for anything happening to them or around them.<\/p>\n

In fact, when they\u2019re in a relationship, the other person is always responsible for everything going downhill, while they\u2019re the ones who should be praised for the relationship\u2019s successes.<\/p>\n

Narcissists don\u2019t know how to apologize sincerely.<\/p>\n

In fact, even when they at some point act like they\u2019re ready to take responsibility, they turn the tables soon enough and make you look like the bad guy in the story.<\/p>\n

Incluso si un narcisista consigue f\u00edsicamente violento<\/a> with you and has no other way of getting back into your life but to own up to his mistakes and promise he\u2019ll never repeat them again, don\u2019t expect to get a real apology.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Instead, he\u2019ll probably try to blame you for provoking him. You were either too loud, you didn\u2019t know when to stop arguing, or you told him something you knew would trigger him.<\/p>\n

The same goes for infidelity as well. Even if you catch him red-handed and he has no other choice but to admit his error, he\u2019ll use reverse psychology and make you guilty for his actions.<\/p>\n

He might tell you that he had doubts about your fidelity or that you weren\u2019t giving him enough attention. Practically, either way, you made him do it.<\/p>\n

A narcissist has this need to always be the victim of every possible situation. He\u2019s not mature enough to stand any kind of judgment or to take responsibility for his actions.<\/p>\n

Instead, for him, it\u2019s much easier to shift the blame to others and pretends to be perfect.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, el problema es que, al cabo de un tiempo, su v\u00edctima empieza a creerle.<\/p>\n

He brainwashes you into thinking that you\u2019re always the only one guilty, which makes it almost impossible for you to leave the cage he\u2019s put you in.<\/p>\n

Chantaje emocional<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Narcissists are the biggest blackmailers in this world. No, they\u2019re not the ones who will kidnap your loved one and ask for ransom (although you shouldn\u2019t put it past them.)<\/p>\n

Todo narcisista utiliza chantaje emocional<\/a> como herramienta de \u00e9xito contra su v\u00edctima. Ya sabe que eligen con mucho cuidado a qui\u00e9n atacar y escudri\u00f1an a sus v\u00edctimas antes de acercarse a ellas.<\/p>\n

Well, it\u2019s quite unlikely that a narcissist will pick a heartless victim with a lack of empathy. They don\u2019t choose selfish people with high self-esteem.<\/p>\n

Instead, they\u2019ll always focus on empaths with insecurity problems. Therefore, if a narcissist is involved with you, he is perfectly aware that you\u2019re an emotional person who is mostly led by her feelings.<\/p>\n

So, he uses this trait of yours against you. He threatens you, has anger outbursts, and does everything in his power to intimidate you every time he doesn\u2019t get his way.<\/p>\n

At the end of the day, you start to feel fear, obligation, and guilt \u2013 often referred to as FOG.<\/p>\n

No, this man doesn\u2019t care that you\u2019re no longer with him out of your sincere love for him, he uses FOG to manipulate you into staying with him.<\/p>\n

Emotional blackmail doesn\u2019t only happen when you try leaving your narcissist.<\/p>\n

\"espejo<\/p>\n

Tambi\u00e9n te chantajea cuando decides compartir tu versi\u00f3n de los hechos con alguien en un intento de liberarte de sus cadenas.<\/p>\n

Sus amenazas difieren de una persona a otra.<\/p>\n

While some narcissists tell you that they\u2019ll turn your life into a living hell if you don\u2019t do what they say, some threaten to make a huge scandal or drama and embarrass you in front of everyone.<\/p>\n

Tambi\u00e9n los hay con estrategias de chantaje m\u00e1s serias. Los que amenazan con hacerte da\u00f1o f\u00edsico si les dejas o prometen hacerse da\u00f1o a s\u00ed mismos si te alejas.<\/p>\n

Naturally, when this group is in question, you can\u2019t help but feel FOG.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re afraid that your narcissist will turn his threats into reality, you feel obliged to be with him since you\u2019re the only one who can prevent him from doing something bad, and at the end of the day, the overwhelming guilt prevents you from turning your back on him.<\/p>\n

Consciously, you know that he wouldn\u2019t do anything to hurt himself. However, there is always that tiny voice in the back of your head, wondering: \u201cWhat if he really goes through with it?\u201d<\/p>\n

You know you couldn\u2019t live with such a huge responsibility \u2013 you\u2019d still consider yourself guilty for his actions, instead of realizing that this is a person who has a personality disorder and needs help.<\/p>\n

Sabotaje<\/h2>\n

\"el<\/p>\n

Cuando ves cuentos de hadas o telenovelas cursis, ves que el malo est\u00e1 dispuesto a hacer lo que haga falta con tal de crearle un problema al protagonista.<\/p>\n

Van a sus espaldas y recurren a lo inimaginable.<\/p>\n

Of course, you assume that this only happens in the movies. After all, who would go that far and through all of that trouble just to ruin another person\u2019s life?<\/p>\n

Pues bien, cuando te involucras con alguien que padece un trastorno narcisista de la personalidad, ves que todas estas intrigas son, de hecho, bastante realistas.<\/p>\n

El hecho es que los narcisistas a menudo se comportan de manera similar a los villanos de las pel\u00edculas. Fingen amarte, pero en realidad hacen todo lo que est\u00e1 en su mano para sabotearte de todas las formas posibles.<\/p>\n

They\u2019ll give their best to destroy all of your other healthy relationships. They will spread gossip about you to your best friends, play double games, and lie in every chance they get.<\/p>\n

Lo mismo con el trabajo.<\/p>\n

Tu pareja narcisista es capaz de ocultarte correos importantes, romper literalmente el ordenador que necesitas para tu proyecto o llamar an\u00f3nimamente a tu jefe para quejarse de tu trabajo.<\/p>\n

Cr\u00e9eme, la madrastra malvada de todos esos cuentos de hadas no tiene nada que envidiar a un narcisista decidido a sabotear a su v\u00edctima.<\/p>\n

However, he doesn\u2019t do this only when you try to go ning\u00fan contacto<\/a> y dejarlo.<\/p>\n

In fact, a narcissist behaves like this during your relationship since it\u2019s his way of forming stronger emotional codependency.<\/p>\n

Luz de gas<\/h2>\n

\"el<\/p>\n

Gaslighting is one of those weird things narcissists (and other people) do that you\u2019ve probably heard of.<\/p>\n

Resumiendo, luz de gas<\/a> significa jugar con tu cabeza y tu salud mental, que es algo que a los narcisistas les encanta hacer y otro de los s\u00edntomas de su trastorno.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a tactic every narcissistic person uses in attempts to control your world.<\/p>\n

You see, for a sociopath like this, it\u2019s not enough to have absolute control over everything going on around you, he wants to be in charge of all events taking place inside of you as well.<\/p>\n

Cuando te ilumina con gas, un narcisista te lava el cerebro para que le creas m\u00e1s que a tus propios ojos, o\u00eddos e instintos.<\/p>\n

Te hace creer que su percepci\u00f3n de la realidad es la \u00fanica en la que debes confiar y seguir.<\/p>\n

For example, when you\u2019re being gaslighted, your abuser will often accuse you of imagining things, for overreacting or exaggerating, which of course impacts your mental health.<\/p>\n

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However, the suffering doesn\u2019t end there. In fact, he will probably try to convince you that some things didn\u2019t happen the way they did, even though you were there to experience them.<\/p>\n

Un narcisista maligno hila los hechos y los interpreta de la forma que m\u00e1s le conviene.<\/p>\n

This is especially true when it comes to you complaining about the treatment you\u2019ve been getting in your toxic relationship.<\/p>\n

At the end of the day, you’re not in an abusive relationship, you\u2019re being too sensitive, or you\u2019re too weak. He is not unfaithful, you\u2019re the one who is overly paranoid or jealous.<\/p>\n

Naturally, at first, you don\u2019t believe him. However, after a while, your narcissist skilfully manages to distort your reality.<\/p>\n

Al cabo de un tiempo, empiezas a sentirte perdido y a preguntarte si realmente eres t\u00fa el loco.<\/p>\n

Al someter a sus v\u00edctimas a la luz de gas, los narcisistas hacen todo lo posible por agotarlas mentalmente hasta el punto de que ya no tengan fuerzas para enfrentarse a ellos.<\/p>\n

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