{"id":87655,"date":"2020-09-08T06:49:19","date_gmt":"2020-09-08T06:49:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=87655"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:08:08","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:08:08","slug":"los-hombres-toxicos-dicen-para-hacerte-sentir-atrapada","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/los-hombres-toxicos-dicen-para-hacerte-sentir-atrapada\/","title":{"rendered":"4 frases que dicen los hombres t\u00f3xicos para hacerte sentir atrapada"},"content":{"rendered":"

When a third party sees a victim staying next to her toxic abuser for years, despite everything he\u2019s putting her through, the first question which logically arises is: \u201cWhy?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 alguien en su sano juicio permanecer\u00eda un minuto m\u00e1s junto a alguien que est\u00e1 convirtiendo su vida en un infierno?<\/p>\n

Well, what most people don\u2019t know is that toxic men use a set of strategies to keep their victims next to them as long as possible.<\/p>\n

Parte de estas estrategias suelen ser algunas frases comunes que utilizan para que te sientas atrapado en la relaci\u00f3n con ellos.<\/p>\n

\u201cI will change\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

La primera mentira, y la m\u00e1s com\u00fan hombres t\u00f3xicos<\/a> say is that they will change. When you\u2019re involved with a guy like this and when you start seeing his destructive behavior, naturally you want to leave.<\/p>\n

However, he doesn\u2019t allow you to get rid of him so easily. In fact, he traps you to remain in this harmful relationship by giving you numerous false promises.<\/p>\n

Seg\u00fan \u00e9l, es la \u00faltima vez que te trata mal. Al parecer, por fin se ha dado cuenta de sus errores y est\u00e1 dispuesto a cambiar las cosas.<\/p>\n

Crees que el amor que siente por ti es tan fuerte que est\u00e1 dispuesto a cambiar de actitud por ti. En el fondo, quieres creerle, ya que le quieres mucho.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

You\u2019re more than happy to give him another chance. Nevertheless, over time, you end up giving him endless second chances.<\/p>\n

A pesar de tus expectativas, tu hombre t\u00f3xico en realidad nunca cambia. Y lo peor es que, sinceramente, nunca ha pensado hacerlo.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

En cambio, todo esto era parte de su gran plan. Una parte de su esquema para mantenerte cerca el mayor tiempo posible.<\/p>\n

Yes, after a while, you realize what he\u2019s been doing. However, that is once you\u2019re already buried in his manipulations so deeply that you don\u2019t see a way out.<\/p>\n

\u201cI\u2019d be lost without you\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Algunas mujeres tienen una necesidad subconsciente de salvar a todos<\/a> around them. If you\u2019re one of them, you must think of yourself as this superwoman.<\/p>\n

You assume that you have the capacity to open a man\u2019s heart to love and the ability to turn his life upside down.<\/p>\n

Bueno, d\u00e9jame decirte una cosa: los hombres t\u00f3xicos lo perciben. Eligen sabiamente a sus v\u00edctimas y este hombre sab\u00eda que eras una emp\u00e1tica a la que pod\u00eda atrapar con su triste historia de vida.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

That\u2019s exactly why he keeps you next to him by telling you that he would be completely lost without you.<\/p>\n

Whenever he says something like this, he is emotionally blackmailing you. You think that you can\u2019t leave him because he needs you.<\/p>\n

According to this sentence, you\u2019re the only ray of light in this man\u2019s existence. If you abandon him, he will be surrounded by darkness and his life will be ruined.<\/p>\n

\u201cYou need me\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Por otra parte, tambi\u00e9n existe un tipo diferente de gente t\u00f3xica<\/a> que se concentran en el hecho de que usted los necesita y no al rev\u00e9s.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re trapped with this kind of a man, he does everything in his power to convince you that you could never make it without him.<\/p>\n

He will put his maximum effort into making you financially and emotionally dependent on him. This guy brainwashes you into believing that you don\u2019t have anyone besides him.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Even though he doesn\u2019t care about you at all, he will persuade you into thinking that no man besides him would love you the way he does.<\/p>\n

After some time, this toxic man makes you believe that you\u2019re not meant to be loved. So you end up staying with him because you think you have nowhere else to go.<\/p>\n

\u201cYou\u2019re too sensitive\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

A list of common phrases narcissists use goes something like this: \u201cYou\u2019re overreacting,\u201d \u201cYou\u2019re too sensitive,\u201d \u201cWhat I did wasn\u2019t a big deal\u201d.<\/p>\n

Al decirte estas frases, tu pareja t\u00f3xica est\u00e1 minimizando tu dolor. Est\u00e1 intentando darle la vuelta a la tortilla y poner la situaci\u00f3n a su favor.<\/p>\n

According to him, he is not the one to blame for the hell he\u2019s putting you through. He is not the abuser and you\u2019re not his victim\u2014you\u2019re just overly emotional and take everything too personal.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

This is actually one of the forms of gaslighting. While you\u2019re going through all of this, you start to question your own sanity.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t help but wonder whether he is really right. Are you really exaggerating?<\/p>\n

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