{"id":88013,"date":"2020-08-14T06:36:44","date_gmt":"2020-08-14T06:36:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=88013"},"modified":"2022-05-11T19:56:21","modified_gmt":"2022-05-11T19:56:21","slug":"miedo-al-engullimiento","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/miedo-al-engullimiento\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfC\u00f3mo est\u00e1 saboteando sus relaciones el miedo a ser engullido?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Vivimos en un mundo lleno de miedos. Tenemos un <\/span>miedo al compromiso<\/span><\/a>, <\/span>miedo a la intimidad<\/span>, <\/span>miedo al rechazo<\/span> \u2013 and the one trending at the moment is <\/span>miedo al engullimiento<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

The term “engulfment” actually sounds like something powerful that can eat you up in a second and with minimum effort.<\/span><\/p>\n

You don’t even need to know the real meaning of it in order to scare the living daylights out of you. <\/span><\/p>\n

(Don’t worry, we won’t skip defining it.)<\/span><\/p>\n

Entonces, \u00bfcu\u00e1l es el <\/b>miedo al engullimiento<\/b>?<\/b><\/p>\n

Basically, it is a fear of “losing yourself” in relationships where you’re being controlled or dominated, or you\u2019ve become needy and demanding. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

In other words, it is a fear of being “suffocated” by someone to the point where you feel like you’re no longer in touch with yourself.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Esto suele ocurrir sin querer y la persona ni siquiera es consciente de ello, bueno, hasta que se da cuenta. <\/span><\/p>\n

Also, many people mistake engulfment with love, but the truth is that it\u2019s similar to limerence (being high on love).<\/span><\/p>\n

You get addicted to it, so you don’t even notice it\u2019s happening. <\/span><\/p>\n

(Algunos) ejemplos de engullimiento<\/b><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Aunque el engullimiento se relaciona principalmente con <\/span>relaciones \u00edntimas<\/span>La verdad es que puede ocurrir en cualquier lugar, desde dentro de grupos hasta en cualquier tipo de relaci\u00f3n. <\/span><\/p>\n

He aqu\u00ed algunos ejemplos de engulfment para ayudarle a comprender mejor el concepto. <\/span><\/p>\n

Unirse a un grupo o secta<\/h2>\n

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You’ve probably heard lots of times about different cults and you may have even been a part of one, so you already know how things function there.<\/span><\/p>\n

Los miembros de una determinada secta se pierden ante el l\u00edder y el grupo en su conjunto. <\/span><\/p>\n

Pierden su propia identidad y pasan a depender del grupo. Literalmente, ya no saben funcionar solos porque obtienen todo lo que necesitan del grupo y, en cierto modo, est\u00e1n controlados por \u00e9l. <\/span><\/p>\n

Padres sobreprotectores<\/a><\/h2>\n

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Normalmente se trata de las madres, porque la conexi\u00f3n con sus hijos es muy poderosa incluso cuando se convierten en adultos leg\u00edtimos.<\/span><\/p>\n

Por miedo a que les pase algo y para protegerlos de todo tipo de toxicidad del mundo, los padres suelen volverse sobreprotectores.<\/span><\/p>\n

This overprotectiveness “suffocates” a child and doesn’t leave enough space for his or her healthy development. <\/span><\/p>\n

Even though parents want the best for their kids, it’s still important to give them some space to make mistakes and learn from them. It’s the only way for a child to become independent.<\/span><\/p>\n

Amistades<\/h2>\n

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Algunas personas tienen un carisma realmente fuerte que a veces puede convertirse en un comportamiento controlador. Por ejemplo, imagina a un introvertido empedernido y a un extrovertido saliendo juntos. <\/span><\/p>\n

En alg\u00fan momento, el introvertido puede empezar a sentirse dominado y controlado si el extrovertido es quien elige todas sus actividades, impone sus propias opiniones y creencias al introvertido, y cosas similares. <\/span><\/p>\n

And that is when the introvert might start feeling engulfed by the extrovert. When you don’t have much space to express yourself, it is natural that you start feeling suffocated.<\/span><\/p>\n

Lugar de trabajo<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Imagine it\u2019s the first day of tu nuevo trabajo<\/a> and you feel overwhelmed by your boss thinking that he\u2019s some kind of an alien creature.<\/span><\/p>\n

But, as time progresses, you realize that he\u2019s just like you and me and there’s nothing to be afraid of. <\/span><\/p>\n

Just because some are in higher positions than you, it doesn’t mean you should feel engulfed by them.<\/span><\/p>\n

It usually takes little time to realize that, however, so the engulfment phase doesn’t last for long (but it’s a worthy example nonetheless).<\/span><\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <\/span>7 se\u00f1ales de que padece filofobia: el miedo a enamorarse<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

Relaciones \u00edntimas<\/h2>\n

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Y uno de los ejemplos m\u00e1s famosos de miedos de engullimiento est\u00e1 dentro de <\/span>relaciones \u00edntimas<\/span>. It’s when you just start dating and feel on cloud nine. <\/span><\/p>\n

You want to spend all of your time with the other person (not only your free time) and when you’re not together, you fantasize about being with them.<\/span><\/p>\n

Todo lo que ves, dices o haces te recuerda a ellos y tienes ese impulso incontrolable de hacer cualquier cosa por ellos para hacerlos felices. <\/span><\/p>\n

And that’s actually normal, but ONLY in the beginning stages of a new relationship. When the honeymoon phase is over (usually around the 3-month mark), these intense feelings of infatuation should start to wane.<\/span><\/p>\n

If they don’t, then you’re at high risk of becoming an <\/span>envolvente<\/span> compa\u00f1ero. <\/span>Relaciones sanas<\/span> are all about nourishing each other’s independence, your own friendships, hobbies, and similar.<\/span><\/p>\n

Cuando un miembro de la pareja <\/span>envolvente<\/span>pronto empiezan a aparecer <\/span>miedo al abandono,<\/span> lo que se traduce en <\/span>miedo al compromiso<\/span> en futuras relaciones. <\/span><\/p>\n

Amor vs. Engullimiento<\/b><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Como ya se ha dicho, mucha gente piensa que engullir significa experimentar el amor porque debemos perdernos en una relaci\u00f3n y pasar juntos el mayor tiempo posible.<\/span><\/p>\n

La raz\u00f3n por la que mucha gente piensa esto se debe a los medios de comunicaci\u00f3n (especialmente esas pel\u00edculas rom\u00e1nticas de bajo presupuesto).<\/span><\/p>\n

Todos sabemos lo que pasa: Chica y chico se gustan mucho pero no pueden estar juntos por alguna raz\u00f3n. Cuando superan todas las barreras, acaban siendo felices para siempre.<\/span><\/p>\n

El chico har\u00eda cualquier cosa por la chica, incluso renunciar a su trabajo s\u00f3lo para apoyar sus aficiones. Y ella est\u00e1 dispuesta a hacer lo mismo por \u00e9l. <\/span><\/p>\n

Aunque a los que estamos al otro lado de la pantalla esto nos parezca demasiado bonito, la realidad es algo distinta.<\/b><\/p>\n

Nos convencemos de que as\u00ed es exactamente como debe ser el amor de verdad y, por tanto, aplicamos ese conocimiento en la vida real. <\/b><\/p>\n

But, the thing that they don’t show in the movies is how this romance would usually end up if it was realistically depicted.<\/span><\/p>\n

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They don’t tell you that spending too much time with your <\/span>amado<\/span> perder\u00e1 el contacto con los dem\u00e1s (amigos y familia) y con usted mismo. <\/span><\/p>\n

En la vida real <\/span>relaciones adultas<\/span> tambi\u00e9n pasan por etapas de <\/span>vinculaci\u00f3n interna<\/span>intenso <\/span>intimidad emocional,<\/span> y <\/span>crecimiento espiritual<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pero, la diferencia entre amor y engullimiento es que las personas en <\/span>relaciones sanas<\/span><\/a> don’t let themselves derive all their <\/span>necesidades emocionales<\/span> s\u00f3lo de su relaci\u00f3n. <\/span><\/p>\n

En otras palabras, tienen una vida fuera de la relaci\u00f3n y un mont\u00f3n de otras personas para apoyarse, salir y hacer todas esas cosas que hac\u00edan antes de entrar en una relaci\u00f3n. <\/b><\/p>\n

Cuando un socio deja que su <\/span>autoestima<\/span> y <\/span>autoestima<\/span> dependen en gran medida de su pareja y cuando <\/span>la persona siente<\/span> como si as\u00ed debiera ser, entran en el engullimiento. <\/span><\/p>\n

Desarrollan <\/span>temores de abandono<\/span> porque <\/span>pueden<\/span>‘t imagine losing their partner, as this would also mean losing their <\/span>autoestima<\/span> y esencialmente todo su mundo.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfCu\u00e1les son las causas del engullimiento? <\/b><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Hay muchas razones por las que algunos son m\u00e1s propensos que otros a experimentar el engullimiento en las relaciones, y \u00e9stas suelen estar relacionadas con <\/span>salud mental<\/span>falta de amor durante la infancia, y <\/span>trastornos de la personalidad<\/span>:<\/span><\/p>\n

Sentirse solo<\/a><\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Even though we’re virtually connected more than ever in this modern era, real-life connections have become a scarcity. It’s relatively easy for an individual to feel lonely even when surrounded by people. <\/span><\/p>\n

If we’re not that close with our family and friends (or if we don’t have any), we experience severe loneliness, which in turn might cause engulfment in an <\/span>relaci\u00f3n \u00edntima<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Empezamos a satisfacer todas nuestras necesidades de nuestro socio y <\/span>ansiedad por separaci\u00f3n<\/span> se hace inevitable.<\/span><\/p>\n

Baja autoestima<\/h2>\n

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When we’re feeling unloved, <\/span>podemos<\/span> tener un <\/span>mal rato<\/span> aceptar el hecho de que somos dignos de amor. Por eso, cuando por fin conocemos a alguien a quien gustamos, lo percibimos como la persona m\u00e1s importante de nuestra vida.<\/span><\/p>\n

Lo hacemos porque nos colman de amor y nos hacen sentir m\u00e1s seguros de nosotros mismos.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nuestra relaci\u00f3n se convierte en la fuente de nuestro amor propio y nuestra confianza, y as\u00ed es como nos perdemos antes de lo que creemos. <\/span><\/p>\n

Miedo al abandono<\/h2>\n

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Si tiene un <\/span>miedo al abandono<\/span>, you’re prepared to do anything not to lose that one person (be it your partner, friend, or someone else).<\/span><\/p>\n

Esa relaci\u00f3n se convierte en tu prioridad n\u00famero uno y, por eso, tiendes a descuidar otras cosas en tu vida.<\/span><\/p>\n

Todo se centra aqu\u00ed en <\/span>miedo al abandono<\/span> that\u2019s preventing you from reaching your full potential. <\/span>Temor al abandono<\/span> y engullimiento <\/span>dos miedos<\/span> que est\u00e1n interconectadas.<\/span><\/p>\n

Basically, you lose yourself because you’re afraid of losing the other person. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sentirse incomprendido<\/h2>\n

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Si sientes que nadie te entiende, incluidos tus amigos y tu familia, y por fin conoces a esa persona que ve tu verdadero yo y saca lo mejor de ti, se convierte en la pieza que faltaba en el puzzle de tu vida.<\/span><\/p>\n

You become engulfed because you’re overly happy about the fact that someone finally understands your fears, wishes, and how you operate. <\/span><\/p>\n

Les env\u00edas mensajes de texto las 24 horas del d\u00eda, compartes con ellos todos tus pensamientos (incluso los irrelevantes) y s\u00f3lo quieres salir con ellos. <\/span><\/p>\n

Salir con otros no es tan satisfactorio como con esa persona especial. Y este sentimiento de intensa adoraci\u00f3n puede desencadenar la <\/span>miedo al abandono<\/span> tambi\u00e9n. <\/span><\/p>\n

Trauma por inmovilizaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

This type of trauma occurs when a child is forced\/required to put their parent’s needs before their own. This usually happens due to one parent’s physical or emotional absence. <\/span><\/p>\n

When that happens, a child is forced to fit the role of an adult and take on lots of responsibilities. The child doesn’t have the freedom to be just a child like his or her peers. <\/span><\/p>\n

Las causas m\u00e1s comunes de <\/span>enmeshment<\/span> traumas son la p\u00e9rdida de uno de los progenitores (o de ambos) y la enfermedad f\u00edsica o mental de uno de ellos.<\/span><\/p>\n

Negligencia emocional<\/a><\/h2>\n

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Algunos padres est\u00e1n f\u00edsicamente disponibles 24 horas al d\u00eda, 7 d\u00edas a la semana, pero emocionalmente ausentes. Cuando eso ocurre, los ni\u00f1os empiezan a sentirse desatendidos emocionalmente.<\/span><\/p>\n

Since they don’t have a <\/span>experiencia positiva<\/span> cuando se trata de <\/span>necesidades emocionales<\/span>desarrollan <\/span>BPD<\/span> (L\u00edmite <\/span>Trastorno de la personalidad<\/span>).<\/span><\/p>\n

M\u00e1s adelante en la vida, empiezan a buscar la conexi\u00f3n emocional literalmente en todos los que les rodean, y especialmente en sus parejas.<\/span><\/p>\n

They have a void that they try to fill with other people’s affection and often become dependent on their partners. <\/span><\/p>\n

Experimentan su amor como un sustituto del que nunca recibieron de sus padres. <\/span><\/p>\n

Maltrato f\u00edsico<\/h2>\n

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If a person was physically abused, they might feel as if they’re not worthy of any type of affection and love from others. They start feeling <\/span>indigno de ser amado<\/span><\/a> y les cuesta confiar en los dem\u00e1s. <\/span><\/p>\n

So, when they finally meet someone they do fully trust, they become engulfed. Out of fear that they will lose that person, they are focused on meeting their partner\u2019s every need and literally doing anything for them. <\/span><\/p>\n

Abusos sexuales<\/h2>\n

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Las personas que han sufrido abusos sexuales tambi\u00e9n tienen dificultades para confiar en los dem\u00e1s. Tienen una <\/span>mal rato<\/span> establecer conexiones porque temen volver a resultar heridos. Adem\u00e1s, sufren de baja <\/span>autoestima<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

So, finding someone who is patient with them, understands what they’ve been through, and can meet their <\/span>necesidades emocionales<\/span> resulta en engullimiento.<\/span><\/p>\n

Abuso verbal<\/h2>\n

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Lo mismo puede aplicarse tambi\u00e9n al abuso verbal, s\u00f3lo que en un contexto diferente.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you’ve been bullied at school or verbally abused by your family or close friends, this will reflect on your <\/span>salud mental<\/span> y percepci\u00f3n de ti mismo. <\/span><\/p>\n

You will feel like you don’t deserve love and affection and because of that, you will always give more than 100% into every relationship. <\/span><\/p>\n

When you feel like you’re not good enough, you start doing everything in your power to prove otherwise to both yourself and others. <\/span><\/p>\n

6 se\u00f1ales de engullimiento<\/b><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Feeling responsible for other people’s happiness<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

One of the biggest signs of engulfment is the feeling of being responsible for other people’s happiness. It’s when you’re constantly thinking about your next move and whether they will like what you’re going to do or say.<\/span><\/p>\n

Also, you’re solely focused on meeting their every need, request, and wish because you feel it’s your job to make them happy. On a subconscious level, you know that if you make them happy, they won’t leave you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Thinking that it\u2019s selfish to put your own needs before others<\/h2>\n

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Another sign of engulfment is thinking that it is selfish to put your own happiness before someone else’s. You’re convinced that self-care and meeting your own needs would be an act of the ultimate selfishness.<\/span><\/p>\n

Other people’s happiness is your priority and you seldom or never ask yourself what it is that you really want from the relationship (be it romantic or platonic).<\/span><\/p>\n

That mindset gets you stuck in dancing to other people’s tunes without even knowing it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sentirse indigno del amor y percibirlo como algo que hay que merecer<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Los individuos que carecieron de amor paterno durante la infancia corren un mayor riesgo de sentirse indignos de amor y de verlo como algo que hay que ganarse m\u00e1s adelante en la vida.<\/span><\/p>\n

They don’t understand that <\/span>amor incondicional<\/span><\/a> es algo que deber\u00eda ocurrir de forma natural y rec\u00edproca.<\/span><\/p>\n

Por el contrario, entran en una relaci\u00f3n con la mentalidad de que tienen que hacer todo lo que est\u00e9 en su mano para gustar y adorar a la otra persona.<\/span><\/p>\n

Esto se debe a su tendencia a hacer lo mismo para ganarse el amor de sus padres. <\/span><\/p>\n

Thinking that others will abandon you if you don’t do what they want<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Miedo al abandono<\/span> es una de las fuerzas m\u00e1s poderosas del mundo.<\/span><\/p>\n

The person lives in constant fear that their partner or friend will abandon them if they don’t meet all their expectations and do exactly what they want.<\/span><\/p>\n

So, they end up doing things they normally wouldn’t do only to avoid disappointing them and being abandoned.<\/span><\/p>\n

Y ah\u00ed es donde se pierden. Al pensar demasiado y tratar de hacer felices, deseados y queridos a los dem\u00e1s, se descuidan a s\u00ed mismos. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sentir que a nadie le gustar\u00e1 tu verdadero yo<\/h2>\n

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Another sign of engulfment is when you feel like no one will ever like the real you, so you tend to be something you’re not only to win their approval.<\/span><\/p>\n

You think that the only time someone will like you is if you’re perfect in every aspect of your life \u2013 an impossible feat.<\/span><\/p>\n

The real you also consist of quirks and flaws that need to be embraced instead of replaced with “perfection.” But<\/span> engullimiento<\/span> Los miedos te impiden comprenderlo y ver las cosas racionalmente. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sentirse digno s\u00f3lo cuando los dem\u00e1s te valoran<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

When you lack self-love, you feel unworthy of other people’s attention and love. So, when others start showing you love and appreciation, you instantly feel more worthy.<\/span><\/p>\n

For example, let’s say that you are great at drawing, but you don’t see it as something amazing. But, when other people value your work, you immediately start appreciating your talent.<\/span><\/p>\n

This one is connected with seeking validation from other people. It’s when you think that only other people’s love can make you desirable and worthy.<\/span><\/p>\n

Terapia<\/h2>\n

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Si su <\/span>miedo al engullimiento<\/span> est\u00e1 relacionado con acontecimientos pasados, es aconsejable que busque un terapeuta que le ayude a afrontar su miedo. <\/span><\/p>\n

When finding the right therapist, be sure that you feel comfortable with them, and that you trust them, because that’s the first step to being able to open up and deal with the fear. <\/span><\/p>\n

Hacer frente a <\/b>Miedo a ser engullido<\/b><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Independientemente de que busque o no ayuda de un terapeuta, es necesario realizar un trabajo individual si quiere superar con \u00e9xito la <\/span>miedo al engullimiento<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Paso 1: Aceptar el hecho de que toda conexi\u00f3n y relaci\u00f3n con otra persona es arriesgada.<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

No puedes saber el resultado de tu afecto ni lo que ocurrir\u00e1 en el futuro. <\/span><\/p>\n

Puede que ahora te corresponda y te colme de afecto, y que m\u00e1s adelante se convierta en una persona completamente distinta. La clave est\u00e1 en saber qui\u00e9n eres y qu\u00e9 esperas de la relaci\u00f3n, y ser realista.<\/span><\/p>\n

Debes alimentar tu <\/span>autoestima<\/span><\/a> y si\u00e9ntete a gusto contigo mismo. Esto evitar\u00e1 que entres en la fase de engullimiento, ya que estar\u00e1s en contacto contigo mismo.<\/span><\/p>\n

As\u00ed, pase lo que pase con la otra persona, no te afectar\u00e1 hasta el punto de perderte a ti mismo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Paso 2: Reflexione sobre su pasado<\/h2>\n

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Eval\u00faa tu relaci\u00f3n con tus padres durante la infancia para detectar cualquier posible negligencia, falta de amor o abandono. <\/span><\/p>\n

Your past might be closely connected with your fears, so the sooner you target the root of the problem, the sooner you’ll be able to fix it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Piensa en las cosas que deber\u00edan haber sido diferentes en tu relaci\u00f3n padre-hijo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Usually, you don’t notice those things as a child, but as an adult, you now have a clear picture on how your childhood experience should have been. <\/span><\/p>\n

Paso 3: Escucha y corrige a tu cr\u00edtico interior<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Whenever you feel like you’re not worthy of love, you need to earn love, or you have a <\/span>miedo al abandono<\/span>Escucha a tu cr\u00edtico interior e intenta averiguar de d\u00f3nde viene. <\/span><\/p>\n

Cuestiona tus pensamientos y corrige o calla a tu cr\u00edtico interior, porque necesitas desarrollar la <\/span>parte adulta cari\u00f1osa<\/span> de ti para poder funcionar en otras relaciones. <\/span><\/p>\n

Cuando desarrolle un <\/span>amar al yo adulto<\/span>, you won’t seek validation in other places and you won’t worry only about what the other <\/span>persona quiere<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Y recuerda: \u00a1t\u00fa puedes!<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

S\u00ed, llevar\u00e1 tiempo dominar un estilo de vida saludable. <\/span>relaci\u00f3n personal<\/span> que comprende el amor propio y <\/span>autoestima<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

But, as always, if you stay persistent and determined, there’s not a single fear in the world that you can’t conquer, let alone <\/span>miedo al engullimiento<\/span>! <\/span><\/p>\n

All you have to do is believe in yourself that you CAN, and you\u2019re halfway there. <\/span><\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <\/span>10 maneras de superar con \u00e9xito el miedo al amor<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

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We live in a world filled with various fears. We have a fear of commitment, fear of intimacy, fear of rejection \u2013 and the one trending at the moment is fear of engulfment.  The term “engulfment” actually sounds like something powerful that can eat you up in a second and with minimum effort. You don’t…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-88013","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":false,"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/88013","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=88013"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/88013\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=88013"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=88013"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=88013"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}