{"id":88254,"date":"2020-07-09T08:29:52","date_gmt":"2020-07-09T08:29:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=88254"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:43:24","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:43:24","slug":"debes-seguir-siendo-amigo-de-tu-ex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/debes-seguir-siendo-amigo-de-tu-ex\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfDeber\u00edas seguir siendo amigo de tu ex? La lista definitiva de pros y contras"},"content":{"rendered":"

Break-ups are always tough, no matter who decided to end the relationship. Even though the relationship has ended, both partners won’t lose feelings immediately.<\/span><\/p>\n

One side will always suffer and the other side will feel bad for hurting their feelings; that\u2019s why it’s always difficult for all of us to deal with a break-up.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ahora, <\/span>la cuesti\u00f3n<\/i><\/b> que todos querr\u00edamos saber la respuesta es <\/span>si debemos seguir siendo amigos de nuestro ex tras una ruptura o no.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\u00bfSe puede seguir siendo amigo de un ex tras una ruptura? \u00bfEs realmente una buena idea seguir siendo amigo de tu ex? Por otra parte, \u00bfqui\u00e9n necesita enemigos en la vida, verdad?<\/span><\/p>\n

If you’re in a dilemma about whether you should become friends <\/span>con tu ex<\/span><\/a> o no, he aqu\u00ed algunas <\/span>ventajas y desventajas<\/i><\/b> of that ‘friendship’.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

\u2714 Your ex knows you best; they get you<\/h2>\n

Si terminaste tu relaci\u00f3n con buen pie, puedes convertirte en el mejor amigo de tu ex.<\/i><\/b> Al fin y al cabo, \u00bfqui\u00e9n te conoce mejor que esa persona?<\/span><\/p>\n

They know how you think and act in certain situations and that\u2019s why they can always give you good advice about everything.<\/span><\/p>\n

They won’t judge you no matter what you do because they know you and they can’t be surprised by your actions. If there are no feelings involved between you two, they can greatly help you with your love life.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u2716 Your ex knows you best; that means they know all of your secrets<\/h2>\n

Hmm\u2026 Is it really a good thing that they know you best? They know your opinions about certain people, they know your flaws, they know all of your secrets.<\/span><\/p>\n

Who can guarantee you that they won’t use this against you at a certain moment? You won’t feel comfortable around them because you’ll always wonder whether or not they told your mutual friends your secrets.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u2714 You’ll finally have a male friend<\/h2>\n

Female friendships are great. The bond between the two women is unlike any other. But let’s be honest, it would be great to have <\/span>un amigo var\u00f3n<\/span><\/a>Una perspectiva masculina.<\/span><\/p>\n

Men are always more honest in friendships than women. He’ll tell you if that dress doesn’t suit you or if you’re wearing too much make-up.<\/span><\/p>\n

He could give you the best advice on men because duh, he’s a guy too. He knows how men think and he can help you with understanding guys.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u2716 He might pretend that he wants to be friends just to win you back<\/h2>\n

Maybe he still has feelings for you and he can’t come to terms with the break-up. Maybe being friends with you is just one of his methods to win you back.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u2714 It’s the mature thing to do<\/h2>\n

Your ex asked you to remain friends and everyone around you says that you should do it because it’s the mature thing to do and they’re right.  <\/span><\/p>\n

Aunque a\u00fan sientas algo por \u00e9l que os impida seguir siendo amigos, <\/span>debes aprender a controlar tus emociones.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\u2716 There is a reason why you are exes<\/h2>\n

You had your reasons for the break-up. They hurt you, you hurt them, it’s irrelevant. The important thing is that you couldn’t get along as a couple, so why should you as friends?<\/span><\/p>\n

There are still some unfinished issues remaining from the past and sooner or later, they’ll come to the surface.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u2714 They can help you move on<\/h2>\n

If you decide to remain friends with your ex, you’ll communicate more and that\u2019ll help you to get the closure you need. You’ll talk about all problems you had in the relationship that eventually led you to the break-up.<\/span><\/p>\n

In those talks, you’ll realize that your partner doesn’t have any romantic feelings for you anymore. You’ll understand that it’s over for good and that it’s time <\/span>para seguir adelante<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u2716 They can become a problem for your next relationship<\/h2>\n

Maybe you’re okay with hanging out with your ex but it could be a problem for your next partner. They’ll be jealous because they won’t believe that it’s only friendship.<\/span><\/p>\n

On the other hand, your ex can also become jealous and understand that he’s not completely over you. Maybe he’ll be honest and admit this to you but he may try to separate you from your new partner.<\/span><\/p>\n

Como puedes ver, volverte amigo de tu ex tiene algunos beneficios, pero tambi\u00e9n tiene algunos aspectos negativos que pueden afectar a tu vida de muchas maneras.<\/span><\/p>\n

Lo \u00fanico que sabemos con certeza es que <\/span>esta es una situaci\u00f3n delicada<\/i><\/b> y primero tienes que darte un tiempo para procesar la ruptura. <\/span>Despu\u00e9s, la decisi\u00f3n depende de usted.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"\u00bfDeber\u00edas<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Break-ups are always tough, no matter who decided to end the relationship. Even though the relationship has ended, both partners won’t lose feelings immediately. One side will always suffer and the other side will feel bad for hurting their feelings; that\u2019s why it’s always difficult for all of us to deal with a break-up. Now,…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":88257,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-88254","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Should-You-Remain-Friends-With-Your-Ex_-The-Ultimate-Pros-And-Cons-List.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. If you need advice on when and how to break up, you'll find it all here.\r\n","parent":29627,"count":263,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29628,"category_count":263,"category_description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. If you need advice on when and how to break up, you'll find it all here.\r\n","cat_name":"dealing with breakup","category_nicename":"dealing-with-breakup","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/88254","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/13"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=88254"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/88254\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/88257"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=88254"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=88254"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=88254"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}