{"id":88334,"date":"2020-08-14T08:00:12","date_gmt":"2020-08-14T08:00:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=88334"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:55:16","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:55:16","slug":"yo-catfished-mi-ex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/yo-catfished-mi-ex\/","title":{"rendered":"Le hice catfishing a mi ex y descubr\u00ed cosas inesperadas"},"content":{"rendered":"

I didn’t know how to approach my ex and I thought that contacting him from my fake social media account was my only way<\/strong><\/em> para entender por qu\u00e9 me dej\u00f3.<\/p>\n

I just couldn\u2019t come to terms with the break-up.<\/p>\n

Quer\u00eda saber si se enganchar\u00eda a otra enseguida o si a\u00fan no me hab\u00eda superado. La ruptura me dej\u00f3 la cabeza llena de preguntas y lo peor es que quer\u00eda que volviera.<\/p>\n

As it turns out, this wasn\u2019t one of my best or most sane ideas. I found out some unexpected and unpleasant things.<\/p>\n

Por experiencia propia, hacer catfishing a tu ex nunca es la forma correcta de reconciliarse o averiguar el verdadero motivo de la ruptura<\/strong><\/em>. You shouldn’t even think about trying it.<\/p>\n

It won’t do you any good. It may only cause you more pain.<\/p>\n

Ver\u00e1s, cuando mi ex rompi\u00f3 conmigo, me qued\u00e9 con algunas luchas tras la ruptura<\/a>. Esta es mi historia sobre catfishing mi ex.<\/p>\n

It wasn’t worth the effort<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

It really wasn’t. It only helped me realize that man wasn\u2019t in love with me anymore and as time passed by, I realized that I also didn\u2019t love him the same way I did before.<\/p>\n

We broke up. He became my ex, a part of my past and that’s exactly where I should leave him, in the past.<\/p>\n

It’s so hard to pretend that you are someone else<\/h2>\n

Sinceramente, admiro a la gente que siempre finge ser otra persona s\u00f3lo para agradar a los dem\u00e1s o para caer bien a los dem\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

I have always been my true self. This is the first time I had to lie and pretend that I was someone else. It’s so hard.<\/p>\n

It’s so hard to remember all those lies and you’re afraid of being caught all the time.<\/p>\n

Las citas en l\u00ednea nunca son seguras<\/h2>\n

\"persona<\/p>\n

This time it was safe because I really didn’t have any bad intentions. I didn’t want to hurt my ex, I just wanted to find out some things that were bothering me after the break-up.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, me hizo pensar. \u00bfCu\u00e1ntos perfiles falsos hay? \u00bfCu\u00e1nta gente miente sobre s\u00ed misma s\u00f3lo para gustar o enamorar a los dem\u00e1s?<\/p>\n

Todos debemos tener m\u00e1s cuidado con las redes sociales e Internet.<\/strong> <\/em>You can never be sure who’s hiding behind someone’s profile.<\/p>\n

Lying is never a good way to achieve something…<\/h2>\n

Como ya he dicho, mentir sobre<\/a> myself was the hardest part for me. I’m truly not used to lying. It was so complicated for me and a veces me perd\u00eda totalmente en mis propias mentiras.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Really, what was I thinking? That we\u2019d be chatting forever and that he\u2019d never ask me on a date? It’s so funny but in the beginning, I had the feeling like we were falling in love again.<\/p>\n

La relaci\u00f3n debe basarse en la confianza<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

I’m sure that trust is the foundation for every sincere relationship, that a relationship can’t survive without trust.<\/p>\n

Nothing is worth it if you have lost your partner’s trust.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

I managed to get my ex to open up to me but I didn’t like what he had to say<\/h2>\n

Despu\u00e9s de charlar un rato, mi ex se abri\u00f3 totalmente a m\u00ed. Le pregunt\u00e9 por su pasado y sus relaciones anteriores.<\/p>\n

Me dijo que hab\u00eda estado enamorado una vez antes que yo, verdadera, loca e incondicionalmente enamorado de una chica, pero que ella nunca mostr\u00f3 comprensi\u00f3n por \u00e9l y nunca le dijo lo mucho que significaba para ella.<\/p>\n

Hab\u00eda una raz\u00f3n por la que nuestra relaci\u00f3n termin\u00f3 y lo \u00fanico correcto era seguir adelante<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Deber\u00eda haber aceptado que \u00edbamos por caminos diferentes. Deber\u00eda haber dado alg\u00fan tiempo<\/a> para sanar y seguir adelante.<\/p>\n

We broke up and we stayed friends but now, my ex is angry at me and he doesn’t even want to keep in touch with me.<\/p>\n

De verdad, some things can’t be fixed<\/em><\/strong>por mucho que lo intentemos, s\u00f3lo podemos empeorarlos.<\/p>\n

La verdad siempre sale a la luz al final<\/h2>\n

Eventually, my ex started doubting me and he asked around a little bit. He always knew I had a fake profile because I would play games on it and it didn’t take him long to put the pieces together.<\/p>\n

Supo durante alg\u00fan tiempo que era yo y entonces, en medio de una conversaci\u00f3n, me llam\u00f3 por mi verdadero nombre y me pregunt\u00f3 por qu\u00e9 lo hac\u00eda.<\/p>\n

I sat frozen in front of my computer. I didn’t know what to do or what to answer with. I couldn’t understand what gave me away. Of course, I admitted that was me and explained why I did it.<\/p>\n

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