{"id":88436,"date":"2020-08-14T06:41:07","date_gmt":"2020-08-14T06:41:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=88436"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:28:59","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:28:59","slug":"nunca-seas-la-esposa-de-un-hombre-con-el-que-sales","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/nunca-seas-la-esposa-de-un-hombre-con-el-que-sales\/","title":{"rendered":"Nunca seas la esposa de un hombre con el que sales, s\u00f3lo acabar\u00e1s decepcionada"},"content":{"rendered":"

Os conozco, chicas.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tu buen coraz\u00f3n, tus inocentes intenciones y tus sinceros planes de futuro te hacen pensar que la mejor forma de conquistar a un hombre es demostrarle lo buena que puedes ser para \u00e9l.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

No escondas nada, \u00e1brete completamente a \u00e9l y mu\u00e9strale c\u00f3mo ser\u00eda su vida contigo.<\/span><\/p>\n

It makes perfect sense to you. You\u2019re in a loving relationship that\u2019s moving towards commitment and <\/span>matrimonio<\/span><\/a>, so why shouldn\u2019t you act like you\u2019re already married? After all, in your mind and heart, you already are.<\/span><\/p>\n

There\u2019s only one problem \u2013 that\u2019s not how he feels. It will take a lot for him to understand he\u2019s married and start acting like he is even when you actually do get married. Right now, that\u2019s not where he is in his mind.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t invest too much too soon. Don\u2019t love too hard too soon. Don\u2019t make too many plans before the time comes.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Muchas chicas empiezan a tratar a sus novios como si fueran sus maridos en cuanto la relaci\u00f3n se vuelve exclusiva.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfTienes un anillo en el dedo? No. Con eso basta.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

You\u2019re there, thinking how fulfilled you are by the commitment and closeness you get from your \u201cplaying house\u2019\u2019 kind of relationship, believing that it\u2019s a testament to how much you care about each other.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

You give more and more each day and are suddenly left broken, surprised, and confused when he treats you like you\u2019re just some girl in his life.<\/span><\/p>\n

Entonces, \u00bfqu\u00e9 pasa?<\/span><\/p>\n

Escenario uno:<\/i><\/b> He leaves you without batting an eye because to him, you\u2019re \u2018\u2019just\u2019\u2019 a girlfriend.<\/span><\/p>\n

Your pain is that much bigger because you assumed you\u2019d found the one from the way he accepted being treated like your hubby.<\/span><\/p>\n

Estaba contento de que hicieras todo por \u00e9l, pero no estaba dispuesto a devolverte el favor. Una vez que lleg\u00f3 el momento de actuar como un marido, se fue.<\/span><\/p>\n

Segundo escenario:<\/i><\/b> You wait for years for him to actually decide to marry you, and he still doesn\u2019t. He gets all the benefits of a wife without marrying you, so there\u2019s nothing motivating him to actually do it.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Despu\u00e9s de muchos a\u00f1os de vivir como una esposa de mentira, pasas por un divorcio como <\/span>romper<\/span><\/a> sin haber estado casados.<\/span><\/p>\n

Si un hombre quiere que seas su esposa, tiene que gan\u00e1rselo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t devote yourself completely to a man who still hasn\u2019t shown he\u2019s willing to commit to you.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

You\u2019re impatient to give him everything you have, to make him feel like a king, and to be his queen. By the time you realize he\u2019s a million miles away from that kind of perspective, you\u2019ll be long hurt.<\/span><\/p>\n

Aguanta. Tienes mucho que dar, pero gu\u00e1rdatelo por ahora. Ya llegar\u00e1 el momento en que un hombre demuestre que es digno de tu devoci\u00f3n.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t give him the benefits of marriage if he doesn\u2019t give you the <\/span>compromiso<\/span><\/a> y responsabilidad de uno.<\/span><\/p>\n

Always remember that acting like a wife to your boyfriend doesn\u2019t guarantee that he\u2019ll eventually marry you<\/i><\/b>.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

It only guarantees that there\u2019s a huge chance you\u2019ll be left broken and disappointed in love and men.<\/span><\/p>\n

Utiliza tu tiempo para ser su novia. Con\u00f3celo mejor. Divi\u00e9rtete.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t dive headlong into tracking his appointments, cleaning his home, and cooking his meals.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t make him your absolute priority in life, putting him before your family, friends, job, education. Make sure he proves he\u2019s worthy of making huge compromises.<\/span><\/p>\n

Val\u00f3rate y valora tu tiempo. Valora tu propia vida. Poner en \u00e9l y en tu relaci\u00f3n expectativas demasiado altas o incluso irracionales es la forma m\u00e1s r\u00e1pida de que fracase.<\/span><\/p>\n

Being like a wife to your boyfriend is not the way towards a successful marriage but it can be the way to the relationship\u2019s total failure.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Aprecia y ama a tu novio, pero mantenlo siempre expectante y esperanzado. Deja que est\u00e9 deseando casarse contigo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t push him towards taking you for granted \u2013 know your worth and make sure he knows it too.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Nunca<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I know you girls. Your good hearts, innocent intentions, and sincere plans for the future have you thinking that the best way to get a man is to show him how good you can be for him. You hide nothing, open up to him completely, and show him what his life with you would look…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":88438,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-88436","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Never-Be-A-Wife-To-A-Man-You\u2019re-Dating-You\u2019ll-Only-End-Up-Disappointed.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","parent":29643,"count":442,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29648,"category_count":442,"category_description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","cat_name":"dating tips","category_nicename":"dating-tips","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/88436","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=88436"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/88436\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/88438"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=88436"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=88436"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=88436"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}