{"id":88540,"date":"2020-08-14T07:04:58","date_gmt":"2020-08-14T07:04:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=88540"},"modified":"2022-01-24T19:34:45","modified_gmt":"2022-01-24T19:34:45","slug":"la-vida-despues-del-divorcio-para-los-hombres","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/la-vida-despues-del-divorcio-para-los-hombres\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f3mo es continuar con tu vida despu\u00e9s del divorcio para los hombres"},"content":{"rendered":"

Cuando dos personas se divorcian, todo el mundo se compadece de la esposa y, a menudo, nadie se pregunta c\u00f3mo le va al marido. <\/span><\/p>\n

We all have this misconception that it’s easier for men to deal with a divorce than women. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

There are so many things that people don’t know about <\/span>la vida despu\u00e9s del divorcio<\/span><\/a> for men. Many people aren’t even aware of how divorce affects us also; it changes our lives completely. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfEst\u00e1s aqu\u00ed leyendo esto porque tu matrimonio termin\u00f3 o tal vez acabas de empezar la <\/span>proceso de divorcio<\/span>? It doesn’t matter either way. Welcome to the club, you are not alone. <\/span><\/p>\n

The situation is confusing, to say the least. You’re a <\/span>hombre soltero<\/span> de nuevo, pero incluso has olvidado c\u00f3mo ser soltero. <\/span>Everything you once called ‘ours’ now has to be split into ‘yours’ and ‘hers’. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

You’re aware that so many things have changed. These are <\/span>tiempos dif\u00edciles<\/span> y t\u00fa <\/span>necesito tiempo<\/span> para organizar tus pensamientos y sentimientos. <\/span><\/p>\n

En primer lugar, necesita tiempo para <\/span>proceso de duelo<\/span> and then you need to accept what happened and leave it in the past. You’ll have to snap out of it and learn to live after your divorce.  <\/span><\/p>\n

Lo que sin duda quiere saber es qu\u00e9 esperar de su <\/span>nueva vida<\/span>, su <\/span>despu\u00e9s del divorcio<\/span> vida.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 puede esperar de ella?<\/b><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

El divorcio es realmente dif\u00edcil<\/span> tiempo<\/span> for all people. You have to be aware that it brings so many new things into your life that’ll change it completely. <\/span><\/p>\n

Hay tantas cosas que puedes <\/span>esperar de un divorcio<\/span><\/a>. Predictable, unpredictable, beautiful, terrible things\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n

Here are some things and feelings you’ll most definitely experience after your divorce. <\/span><\/p>\n

You’ll feel like you’re left all alone<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

You’ll think that you’re the only one who cares about your divorce and you\u2019ll see that you’re your own biggest support. <\/span><\/p>\n

You’ll lose so many friends, especially if you were the one who made a mistake which was the reason for your divorce. Your friends will turn their backs on you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Si tu divorcio se pone feo, tu mujer s\u00f3lo querr\u00e1 hablar contigo de <\/span>pensi\u00f3n alimenticia<\/span> en presencia de sus abogados. <\/span><\/p>\n

After some time, you’ll be sitting all alone in your new apartment and you’ll realize that you’re all alone in all of it. You’ll understand that you’re the only person who is there for you. <\/span><\/p>\n

You’ll spend so much money and time on the divorce process<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Sometimes, ex-partners can’t agree on money or dividing property or the most painful part if you have kids\u2014<\/span>custodia de menores<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Aunque usted y su <\/span>ex-esposa<\/span> have an agreed divorce, it’ll still cost you so much money, as you\u2019ll have to pay your <\/span>abogado de divorcios<\/span> y algunos honorarios legales.<\/span><\/p>\n

Lo mejor ser\u00eda que pudierais llegar a un acuerdo extrajudicial sobre vuestro divorcio. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Si puedes estar de acuerdo en todo menos <\/span>custodia de menores<\/span>, then you’ll have to hire a <\/span>derecho de familia<\/span> lawyer and it’ll cost you even more. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sin embargo, puede ponerse de acuerdo sobre<\/span> custodia f\u00edsica compartida.<\/b> This is when both parents have legal custody but one has to be the child’s primary caretaker and that’s usually the mother. <\/span><\/p>\n

You’ll have the same responsibilities, you’ll be able to see your kids whenever you want to, but still, they will live with their mother and you’ll have to pay <\/span>pensi\u00f3n alimenticia<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

El divorcio tambi\u00e9n afectar\u00e1 a tus hijos.<\/h2>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

Esto es un hecho, si ten\u00e9is hijos en com\u00fan. No importa si usted y su <\/span>ex-esposa<\/span> quedaron amigos, tu <\/span>los ni\u00f1os se sentir\u00e1n<\/span><\/a> the consequences too. They’ll also realize that everything has changed. <\/span><\/p>\n

Even if you have joint custody, it won’t be the same for them. They’ll feel that something is missing. <\/span><\/p>\n

After some time, you or your ex-partner (or possibly both of you) will find a new partner and it’ll be difficult for them to accept it. <\/span><\/p>\n

You have to show your kids understanding, especially if they’re teenagers, as it\u2019s also a <\/span>momento dif\u00edcil<\/span> para ellos. <\/span><\/p>\n

Si tu ex y t\u00fa ten\u00e9is alg\u00fan desacuerdo, procurad no pelearos delante de los ni\u00f1os. <\/span>Deja importantes secuelas en su <\/i><\/b>salud mental<\/i><\/b>. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Both of you have to sit down and talk to your kids about it. Tell them everything they need to know and tell them that even though you have decided to separate, they’ll still be your priority. <\/span><\/p>\n

You’ll have to pay alimony to your ex-wife<\/h2>\n

\"billetes<\/p>\n

La madre obtiene la custodia y el padre paga <\/span>pensi\u00f3n alimenticia<\/span> es el escenario m\u00e1s com\u00fan, por lo que debes estar preparado para ello. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sin embargo, debe hablar con un <\/span>derecho de familia<\/span> lawyer about it. Of course, they’re your children and you are obligated to provide for them but you aren’t necessarily obligated to provide for your <\/span>ex-esposa<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Algunos de vuestros amigos comunes tomar\u00e1n partido<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Your friends will blame one of you for your divorce. They’ll try to find out what the reason for it was or who’s guilty for it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Por supuesto, en la mayor\u00eda de los casos, culpan al marido<\/i><\/b>.<\/b> Piensan que \u00e9l hizo algo, como enga\u00f1ar o descuidar a su mujer, y que ese fue el motivo del divorcio. <\/span><\/p>\n

They’ll choose one side because it’ll be uncomfortable for them to continue to hang out with both of you. Again, in most cases, they will usually feel sorry for the wife so they choose her side. <\/span><\/p>\n

You’ll see how you’ll be disappointed in so many people after your divorce.<\/span><\/p>\n

Many of those people who pretended to be your best friends for so long won’t be there for you, in one of the most <\/span>tiempos dif\u00edciles<\/span> de tu vida. <\/span><\/p>\n

That can be a good thing, however, because you know how people say, \u2018<\/span>A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out\u2019.<\/b><\/p>\n

Your feelings won’t go away immediately<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

If you aren’t the one who suggested the divorce and you still have feelings for your partner, you have to be aware that those feelings can’t go away overnight.<\/span><\/p>\n

It won\u2019t be easy to cope with the divorce but you’ll also have to find a way to deal with it in the healthiest way possible. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don’t let anyone feel sorry for you. You have to be brave and strong. It’ll all pass; you just need to give yourself some time. You have to go through <\/span>recuperaci\u00f3n del divorcio<\/span> y tienes que pensar en tu propia <\/span>bienestar<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

So, you are divorcing your wife even though you still love you? So what? Trust me, you aren’t the first man who had to go through this and <\/span>it’s not the end of the world.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Tus verdaderos amigos y <\/span>familiares<\/span> le dar\u00e1 <\/span>apoyo emocional<\/span> and you’ll get through it sooner than you think. <\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00f3mo <\/b>afrontar el divorcio<\/b>? <\/b><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Encuentre la forma de coparentalizar con \u00e9xito con su ex mujer<\/h2>\n

\"padre<\/p>\n

Lo mejor tanto para ti como para tus hijos ser\u00eda que encontrarais la manera de poneros de acuerdo f\u00e1cilmente y tener una relaci\u00f3n de coparentalidad satisfactoria.<\/span><\/p>\n

You have to show your kids that the relationship between you two doesn’t affect your relationship with them. <\/span>Necesitan saber que ambos estar\u00e9is siempre ah\u00ed para ellos, pase lo que pase. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Talk to them more about it. Let them ask you everything they want to know. Maybe they won’t accept it in the beginning but you’ll have to be patient and let them understand and accept the new situation. <\/span><\/p>\n

Encuentre un grupo de apoyo y \u00fanase a \u00e9l<\/h2>\n

\"grupo<\/p>\n

El divorcio puede ser mucho m\u00e1s duro para los hombres que para las mujeres.<\/span><\/p>\n

Women tend to have so many friends and they’re all there for them in such times and they have <\/span>women’s<\/span> grupos de apoyo<\/span>,<\/span> lo que tambi\u00e9n les facilita las cosas. <\/span><\/p>\n

Men don’t like to share their feelings with other people so much. We like to keep that to ourselves because we always pretend we’re tough and strong. <\/span><\/p>\n

Cr\u00e9eme, no hay nada malo en mostrar tus emociones, en mostrar que t\u00fa tambi\u00e9n eres vulnerable o c\u00f3mo tambi\u00e9n sufres.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nadie pensar\u00e1 mal de ti por ello. Al contrario, la gente te apreciar\u00e1 m\u00e1s porque est\u00e1s siendo sincero. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tambi\u00e9n puede encontrar <\/span>grupos de apoyo<\/span> for divorced men, as it would be helpful to hear other men’s experiences. <\/span>Es mucho m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil cuando tienes a alguien con quien compartir tu dolor. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Trabaja tu autoestima<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Men’s health<\/span> puede sufrir mucho debido a todo el estr\u00e9s y los problemas a los que nos enfrentamos despu\u00e9s de un divorcio. Hay que saber que <\/span>su <\/span>salud mental<\/span><\/a> afecta en gran medida a su <\/span>salud f\u00edsica<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you feel depressed for a long time, you won’t be able to eat well or sleep well.<\/span><\/p>\n

Maybe you’ll even try to drown your sorrows in alcohol or some other things you think might help you but these are unhealthy things which will leave some negative consequences on your physical health, which is not a healthy way to deal with your <\/span>despu\u00e9s del divorcio<\/span> luchas. <\/span><\/p>\n

Toma <\/span>amor propio<\/span>No s\u00f3lo por ti, sino tambi\u00e9n por tus hijos. Tienes que ser fuerte por ellos.  <\/span><\/p>\n

Trabaje en su <\/span>autoestima<\/span> and self-confidence. This is only a temporary situation, it\u2019ll pass and you have to continue with your life. <\/span><\/p>\n

Queda con tus viejos amigos<\/h2>\n

\"tres<\/p>\n

Llame a algunos de sus <\/span>viejos amigos<\/span> y p\u00eddeles que queden. \u00c1brete a ellos y cu\u00e9ntales algunas cosas que te preocupan. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don’t be afraid or ashamed to talk to them about how you feel. They are your friends and they want to be there for you and maybe they’ll give you some helpful advice. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don’t get involved in short-term relationships<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Al principio podr\u00eda pensarse que participar en <\/span>a corto plazo<\/span> relaciones te ayudar\u00e1n a olvidar tus <\/span>ex-esposa<\/span> but it won’t. <\/span><\/p>\n

La primera vez<\/span> you try it, you might like it and think that it’s helping you but when you get tired of it, when you realize that it’s all false, it’ll make you think of your marriage and you’ll be depressed again once you understand that it was the real thing. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don’t get me wrong; you should give yourself a chance with dating again and you should start a <\/span>nueva relaci\u00f3n<\/span> con alguien.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, that should be only once you feel you’re ready for dating again and once you meet someone new whom you like. <\/span><\/p>\n

Encuentra algo que te haga olvidar el divorcio.<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Sal, haz ejercicio, busca un nuevo hobby, practica yoga o medita, decora tu nueva casa para hacer una cueva de hombre. <\/span><\/p>\n

Step out of your comfort zone and do something new. Do some things you’ve always wanted to but didn’t have time for because of so many obligations. <\/span><\/p>\n

Do some things you really enjoy. Travel and visit some places you’ve always wanted to visit. Do whatever you think will help you to take your mind off the divorce and your <\/span>despu\u00e9s del divorcio<\/span> luchas. <\/span><\/p>\n

6 de los errores m\u00e1s comunes <\/b>que hacen los hombres despu\u00e9s del divorcio<\/b> <\/b><\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

Volver a salir con alguien demasiado pronto<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Deja de intentar volver a casarte demasiado r\u00e1pido. Acabas de salir de una relaci\u00f3n seria, as\u00ed que \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 no disfrutar ahora de tu solter\u00eda?<\/span><\/p>\n

You have to be sure that you’re completely over your ex-spouse. You can’t<\/span> empezar a salir<\/span><\/a> si a\u00fan sientes algo por ella. <\/span><\/p>\n

Deber\u00edas darte un poco de tiempo y dedicarte a tu auto-relaci\u00f3n, ya que esto te ayudar\u00e1 mucho una vez que vuelvas al juego de las citas.<\/span><\/p>\n

You’ll feel more confident and you won’t be afraid to give someone new a chance to enter your life. <\/span><\/p>\n

Acabar en una situaci\u00f3n autodestructiva<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Por desgracia, muchos hombres acaban <\/span>autodestructivo<\/span> situation because they don’t see another way out of their current situation.<\/span><\/p>\n

Drinking, using pills and other addictions won’t help you at all and will only ruin your life completely. <\/span><\/p>\n

Your divorce happened for a reason, probably because you weren’t happy in your marriage. You should see your divorce as your chance to find love and someone who’ll make you happy.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don’t ruin that chance because you may not get another one. <\/span><\/p>\n

Aislarse<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

It’s okay if you don’t want to talk to your friends or <\/span>familiares<\/span> sobre tus sentimientos<\/span>. However, you don’t have to completely isolate yourself from them.<\/span><\/p>\n

Hay muchas otras cosas de las que puedes hablar. Vis\u00edtalos o inv\u00edtalos a visitarte en tu nueva casa. <\/span><\/p>\n

However, bottling up your emotions isn’t healthy. If you can’t talk about them with the people close to you, then seek professional help and talk about it to them.<\/span><\/p>\n

Un terapeuta profesional tambi\u00e9n puede ayudarle a encontrar la manera de afrontar su divorcio de forma sana. <\/span><\/p>\n

Hacer que sus hijos elijan un bando<\/h2>\n

\"padre<\/p>\n

Leave the kids out of it, don\u2019t drag them into your marital problems as they will suffer enough once they find out their parents are divorcing. <\/span><\/p>\n

Desgraciadamente, <\/span>despu\u00e9s de un divorcio, <\/span>m\u00e1s <\/span>hombres <\/span> hacer que sus hijos elijan un bando. Quieren que sus hijos les elijan y se vayan a vivir con ellos. S\u00e9 que todos querr\u00edamos llevarnos a nuestros hijos con nosotros, pero esta no es la manera de hacerlo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Hablar mal de su ex<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Este es probablemente el mayor error que cualquier hombre puede cometer despu\u00e9s de terminar su matrimonio, especialmente si hay ni\u00f1os de por medio. <\/span><\/p>\n

Compartisteis una parte de vuestras vidas juntos, ten\u00e9is muchos recuerdos y os quisisteis una vez. Por todo eso, deber\u00edas seguir siendo amiga de tu ex.<\/span><\/p>\n

Talking trash about your ex will say more about you than her. Don’t try to turn your family or friends against her. Trust me, it won’t bring you any good and you’ll only feel worse. <\/span><\/p>\n

Espiar a su ex<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Decidisteis tomar caminos separados y ya no tienes derecho a involucrarte en su vida amorosa. Ambos ten\u00e9is derecho a salir con quien quer\u00e1is. <\/span><\/p>\n

You shouldn’t spy on them because once you see them with someone else (and you will after some time), it’ll only make you feel more sad and depressed. <\/span><\/p>\n

Your dating life doesn’t depend on hers. You should start dating whenever you feel ready for that and don’t feel bad if you find someone before your ex does. <\/span><\/p>\n

Realmente creo que la vida despu\u00e9s <\/span>divorcio para hombres<\/span><\/a> es tan duro como para las mujeres. Sin embargo, tenemos que arregl\u00e1rnoslas para afrontarlo y continuar con nuestras vidas.<\/span> <\/span><\/p>\n

Demasiadas personas dependen de nosotros y no debemos defraudarlas. Recuerda que nos espera una vida maravillosa despu\u00e9s de pasar por momentos dolorosos de divorcio.<\/span><\/p>\n

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