{"id":88581,"date":"2020-09-08T07:09:08","date_gmt":"2020-09-08T07:09:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=88581"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:03:47","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:03:47","slug":"los-comportamientos-demuestran-que-en-realidad-es-un-manipulador","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/los-comportamientos-demuestran-que-en-realidad-es-un-manipulador\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9l Dice Que Es Sensible Pero Estos 9 Comportamientos Demuestran Que En Realidad Es Un Manipulador"},"content":{"rendered":"

Est\u00e1s muy contenta de haber encontrado por fin a un chico emotivo y que no teme abrirse sobre sus emociones. Sin embargo, hay algo raro.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re blaming yourself for not being able to deal with his emotions, thinking you\u2019re just not used to having a sensitive boyfriend.<\/p>\n

If you can sense that there\u2019s something wrong, there\u2019s a chance he\u2019s a manipulator who pretends to be sensitive as a part of his con.<\/p>\n

Echa un vistazo a estos signos de un manipulador disfrazado<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Te compromete falsamente<\/h2>\n

\"hermosa<\/p>\n

Al ojo inexperto le parece que en realidad hizo un compromiso en beneficio de tener una relaci\u00f3n sana.<\/p>\n

However, in reality, he uses every possible situation to make it look like he\u2019s doing you favors.<\/p>\n

For example, if you ask him to go out with you, he might say something like: \u201cWell, I already had plans but I can cancel them for you.\u201d<\/p>\n

In fact, he didn\u2019t even have plans but wanted to use the chance to make himself look good and flexible.<\/p>\n

Parece que siempre descarga su equipaje en ti.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Of course, it\u2019s okay for a guy to share his problems with you but a manipulator has a unique way of doing that. He finds a way to control you with his traumas or sad experiences from his past.<\/p>\n

Por ejemplo, puede que le hayan puesto los cuernos y ahora lo utiliza para que tengas m\u00e1s cuidado a la hora de relacionarte con otros hombres porque dice que el hecho de que hables con otros hombres desencadena todas las emociones negativas que tiene del pasado.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s always the victim<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You often hear him say that he\u2019s such a nice guy and that\u2019s probably why everyone is always hurting him. He can make every situation look like he\u2019s the one who got hurt, no matter what the real story is.<\/p>\n

Everyone is out to get him and it\u2019s always him who ends up being a victim in almost every possible scenario.<\/p>\n

His \u2018care\u2019 feels weird<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

He\u2019s sneaky with giving you advice that only serves him. He formulates his sentences so it seems like he truly cares but he\u2019s actually trying to get you to do what he wants.<\/p>\n

So, if he doesn\u2019t want you to do something, he might say something like, \u201cI just really don\u2019t want you to get hurt\/disappointed.\u201d<\/p>\n

At first, you think that he must really care about you but it feels really weird and it\u2019s like every time you listen to his advice, you\u2019re left feeling empty and confused.<\/p>\n

Te arrastra a su estado de \u00e1nimo<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve noticed that however he feels, you start feeling. Sure, you might be un verdadero emp\u00e1tico<\/a> but you\u2019ll notice that he intentionally tries to pull you down and isn\u2019t satisfied until he succeeds.<\/p>\n

He can\u2019t stand you being happy if he\u2019s sad and he wants you to feel responsible for his feelings as this gives him a way to blame you whenever something goes wrong.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t seem sincere<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

He usually does what you want him to do and says all the right things. He\u2019s a natural people pleaser but you can sense that there\u2019s something fake about it.<\/p>\n

You can see by paying attention to his facial expressions that he isn\u2019t honest.<\/p>\n

Las cosas que hace por ti parecen exageradas y planificadas con demasiado cuidado y rara vez comete errores, sobre todo al principio de la relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Cuando algo parece demasiado bueno para ser verdad, suele serlo.<\/p>\n

Busca atenci\u00f3n constante<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

You\u2019re just about to go to a party which he knew about and he calls you to tell you he\u2019s not feeling well and you have to go see him.<\/p>\n

You will be glad to at first but with time, you\u2019ll notice that this is a pattern. He does this on purpose to drag you away from having fun with other people and focus all your energy and time on him.<\/p>\n

He tells you sad stories at \u2018convenient\u2019 times<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Tiene muchas historias tristes y de alguna manera se las arregla para compartirlas con usted en los momentos m\u00e1s convenientes.<\/p>\n

Usually, when he\u2019s done speaking and crying, he\u2019ll ask for something such as a favor or money or he\u2019ll ask for you to do something you\u2019ve already said no to.<\/p>\n

This is a definite sign he\u2019s manipulating you and you should dump him, no questions asked.<\/p>\n

Llora todo el tiempo<\/h2>\n

\"chico<\/p>\n

A guy being brave enough to show his emotions is amazing but this guy cries all the time, especially when things aren\u2019t going his way.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s a good chance that whenever you need to tell him something really important which he assumes will be uncomfortable, he suddenly gets super emotional and cries.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s like he can cry on command whenever it\u2019s convenient for him.<\/p>\n

Si al leer esto te has dado cuenta de que tu novio emocional es en realidad un manipulador y ahora te sientes decepcionada o enfadada, te entendemos.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Leaving that kind of guy will be tricky since that\u2019s where his manipulation tactics will reach their highest level.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Stay strong and don\u2019t let him trick you into staying with him. You now know better.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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You\u2019re so happy to have finally found a guy who\u2019s emotional and isn\u2019t afraid to open up about his emotions. Still, something feels weird. You\u2019re blaming yourself for not being able to deal with his emotions, thinking you\u2019re just not used to having a sensitive boyfriend. If you can sense that there\u2019s something wrong, there\u2019s…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-88581","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":false,"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","parent":29643,"count":570,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29646,"category_count":570,"category_description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","cat_name":"understanding men","category_nicename":"understanding-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/88581","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=88581"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/88581\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=88581"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=88581"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=88581"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}