{"id":8860,"date":"2020-06-21T12:20:07","date_gmt":"2020-06-21T12:20:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=8860"},"modified":"2022-08-10T07:12:41","modified_gmt":"2022-08-10T07:12:41","slug":"carta-siente-que-a-nadie-le-importa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/carta-siente-que-a-nadie-le-importa\/","title":{"rendered":"Una carta para ti cuando sientes que a nadie le importa"},"content":{"rendered":"

Te levantas por la ma\u00f1ana no porque est\u00e9s deseando ver lo que te tiene preparado el d\u00eda siguiente, sino porque tienes que hacerlo.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t look forward to seeing people and you\u2019re not looking forward to new mornings and days because you forgot how amazing feels.<\/p>\n

Even if something amazing happens, you probably wouldn\u2019t be able to notice it. Because you\u2019re too busy feeling alone.<\/p>\n

Desde el momento en que abres los ojos este sentimiento te abruma. Te despiertas con un susurro en el o\u00eddo que te dice que a nadie le importa.<\/p>\n

It tells you how you need to say, \u201cI\u2019m fine,\u201d whenever someone asks you how you’ve been or how you shouldn\u2019t tell others about your issues because nobody really cares.<\/p>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

You get up, strip off your clothes and get under the shower. You let the water roll down your face while you continue thinking that there isn\u2019t a person in this world who could understand you.<\/p>\n

You feel like you’re the only one, like you\u2019re alone. So you end up getting out of that shower feeling tired even before your day started, but you somehow resist the urge to crawl back to your bed.<\/p>\n

\u00bfEs \u00e9sta realmente la vida que quieres tener? \u00bfEs realmente as\u00ed como quieres vivir? \u00bfSentirte cansado, sentir que a nadie le importa, que nadie te entiende?<\/p>\n

Aren\u2019t you tired of feeling tired? Aren\u2019t you tired of constantly bringing yourself down?<\/strong><\/p>\n

At one point you’ll have to snap out of it. At one point you’ll have to find the strength to deja de ser t\u00f3xico.<\/a><\/p>\n

You\u2019re the toxic one here.<\/a> You\u2019re hurting yourself. And you need to stop.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You have to stop hurting yourself and decide to take care of yourself for a change. Because if you don\u2019t do it, nobody else will be able to help you.<\/p>\n

En alg\u00fan momento, en la comodidad de tu cama, olvidaste lo agradable y c\u00e1lido que puede ser tener a alguien a quien realmente le importes.<\/p>\n

Olvidaste lo que se siente al no sentirse solo, lo que se siente al esperar con ilusi\u00f3n un nuevo d\u00eda y nuevas cosas incre\u00edbles que la vida puede darte.<\/p>\n

You might be unable to see it now, but this feeling of loneliness doesn\u2019t come when nobody cares. It comes when the person you care utterly about doesn\u2019t really care about you back.<\/strong><\/p>\n

There isn\u2019t an uglier feeling than to see that the person you\u2019d do anything for wouldn\u2019t even do half of the things you\u2019re ready to do.<\/p>\n

Only then your self-doubt starts and once that avalanche has been started, it won\u2019t take long until it buries you.<\/p>\n

\"Joven<\/p>\n

You start feeling like you\u2019re not good enough. You start thinking how you can\u2019t do a single thing right and you start hating yourself and your life for not being lovable.<\/p>\n

Pero lo peor de todo es que empiezas a sentir que a nadie le importa. Y todo esto lo haces t\u00fa solo.<\/p>\n

En lugar de culpar a la persona adecuada, acabas achacando todas las malas acciones de una sola persona a todas las dem\u00e1s personas de tu vida. Y poco a poco empiezas a alejar a la gente.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Because of this one person who did you wrong, who didn\u2019t reciprocate your feelings, you end up thinking that we\u2019re all the same. But we\u2019re not.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re just temporarily blinded by emotions, but once you\u2019re okay, you\u2019ll see you\u2019ve been projecting the insecurities of one person onto all the people around you. And that\u2019s what you shouldn\u2019t have done.<\/p>\n

\"Una<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, ma\u00f1ana, cuando abras los ojos, dec\u00eddete a esperar con ilusi\u00f3n ese d\u00eda. Sonr\u00ede antes de levantarte de la cama y, mientras empiezas a quitarte la ropa para ducharte, ponte a cantar.<\/p>\n

And then continue singing. And then get out of the shower and play some music. Let it be a song you\u2019ll continue playing in your head.<\/p>\n

Al d\u00eda siguiente, haz lo mismo. Y al d\u00eda siguiente, y al siguiente.<\/p>\n

Sonr\u00ede a tu fe y da la bienvenida a tu nuevo d\u00eda con una canci\u00f3n, preparado para ver todas las cosas asombrosas que te llegar\u00e1n ese d\u00eda.<\/p>\n

En cuanto a the person who doesn’t care about you<\/a> and because of whom you started feeling unlovable and unworthy and not good enough of others’ attention, well, there is only one thing you could do and that\u2019s to walk away.<\/p>\n

Even when it might be hard to do it, even if you don\u2019t want to hear it now, it\u2019s the truth and I\u2019m gonna drop it right here-sometimes you have to be your own hero and guard your own heart because a person you utterly care about doesn\u2019t care about you at all.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"hermosa<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: Al escritor lleno de vacilaciones<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Darling, you\u2019re the only one in charge of your life and if you don\u2019t love it, how do you expect anyone else to love you?<\/p>\n

Whatever disturbs your peace, whoever makes you feel unimportant, unworthy or miserable- then they don\u2019t deserve you and you\u2019re allowed to walk away.<\/p>\n

Once you walk away from such darkness, you\u2019ll come to a daylight and you\u2019ll be able to clearly see that there are people who truly care about you.<\/p>\n

There are people who want to know how your day was, who\u2019d like to go to the movies with you and who\u2019d enjoy grabbing a beer at the bar with you.<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9jate de lo que te hace sentir miserable. Deja de alejar a la gente buena. Aprende a volver a enamorarte de tu vida. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Cuida de ti mismo. Oc\u00fapate de tu felicidad. Cuando te preocupas, los dem\u00e1s tienden a seguirte.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Una<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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