{"id":88874,"date":"2020-09-08T07:26:52","date_gmt":"2020-09-08T07:26:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=88874"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:00:43","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:00:43","slug":"tomarse-un-descanso-equivale-al-fin-de-una-relacion-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/tomarse-un-descanso-equivale-al-fin-de-una-relacion-2\/","title":{"rendered":"4 razones por las que tomarse un descanso equivale al fin de una relaci\u00f3n"},"content":{"rendered":"

Lately, taking a break from a relationship has become a common practice for couples. This way, technically you haven\u2019t ended your relationship but you\u2019re not a couple anymore either.<\/p>\n

But, is it really possible to just \u201ctake a break\u201d? Let\u2019s hear what the experts have to say about the subject.<\/p>\n

Ojos que no ven, coraz\u00f3n que no siente<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

I\u2019m sure you\u2019ve heard the saying \u201cout of sight, out of mind\u201d. Well, let me tell you that this kind of saying actually is more than just an empty phrase.<\/p>\n

Por supuesto, hay situaciones en las que la ausencia hace que el coraz\u00f3n se vuelva m\u00e1s cari\u00f1oso. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Sin embargo, hay una diferencia entre elegir estar separado de tu ser querido y estar obligado a vivir en esas circunstancias.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Basically, what I\u2019m trying to tell you is that there is a huge possibility that you and your partner will desenamorarse<\/a> entre s\u00ed durante este periodo.<\/p>\n

Raras son las parejas que aprovechan este tiempo para replantearse su relaci\u00f3n y reflexionar. De hecho, la mayor\u00eda acaban d\u00e1ndose cuenta de lo maravillosa que es su vida de solteros.<\/p>\n

Not only that: the time apart will give you both a chance to meet someone else. You don\u2019t have to actually start a new relationship but you will certainly act like you\u2019re single.<\/p>\n

If nothing else, you\u2019ll probably end up flirting with another person. Of course, this increases the risk of this person fascinating you and erasing your boyfriend from your mind.<\/p>\n

Problemas en el para\u00edso tras las vacaciones<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Aunque tu pareja y t\u00fa sobreviv\u00e1is a la ruptura y decid\u00e1is volver a intentarlo, ser\u00eda demasiado optimista esperar la perfecci\u00f3n en vuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

In fact, it is likely that you\u2019ll have to face numerous post-break troubles.<\/p>\n

Whether you like it or not, there will be some inevitable trust issues you won\u2019t be able to escape.<\/p>\n

What did you both do while you weren\u2019t together? How can you trust that you both remained faithful during this break?<\/strong><\/p>\n

On the other hand, if you agreed to act like you were single while you weren\u2019t together, don\u2019t think that you\u2019ll be able to ignore this fact once you reconcile.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll want to know who your partner dated. Did he sleep with other girls? Most importantly: did he start feeling something for them?<\/p>\n

If the answer is yes, you\u2019ll wonder whether the love he feels for you is even real. If you spent all of your time apart ech\u00e1ndole de menos<\/a>\u00bfc\u00f3mo pudo olvidarte con tanta facilidad?<\/p>\n

Running away from the problem doesn\u2019t get you anywhere<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s be honest here: when you\u2019re taking a break in your relationship, you\u2019re actually running away from each other.<\/p>\n

You and your boyfriend clearly don\u2019t have the capacity to resolve your problems otherwise you would stay together until you find a solution.<\/p>\n

Instead, you shut your eyes, bury your issues, and expect them to magically go away after some time. I\u2019m sorry \u2013 but how exactly do you expect this to work?<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que supones que el tiempo te aportar\u00e1 cierta claridad. Crees que te dar\u00e1 la oportunidad de cambiar de perspectiva.<\/p>\n

Lo ves como una oportunidad para que se enfr\u00eden las pasiones. Una oportunidad para reflexionar y tomar la decisi\u00f3n correcta sin que las emociones se interpongan.<\/p>\n

However, the bottom line is that these are all empty excuses. What you\u2019re actually doing is running away from the problem and hoping it won\u2019t chase you any further.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Well, I hate to be the one to break your heart but this approach won\u2019t get you anywhere. Your issues and dilemmas will still be there afterward and they can\u2019t be solved without healthy communication.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s an empty excuse<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Al fin y al cabo, las rupturas de pareja no suelen ser m\u00e1s que excusas. Normalmente, la persona que pide una ruptura lo tiene todo planeado.<\/p>\n

Si tu novio es el que inicia este cambio, en la mayor\u00eda de los casos, significa que simplemente tiene miedo de decirte la verdad.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Maybe he is afraid of how you\u2019ll react and is scared of crushing your heart, so he\u2019s masking his real intentions by asking for a break.<\/strong><\/p>\n

On the other hand, maybe he is the one who can\u2019t accept that the end is near. It is possible that it\u2019s easier for him to suggest taking a break than actually ruptura<\/a> contigo.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, todo esto es una cuesti\u00f3n de terminolog\u00eda y teor\u00eda. Hay algunas diferencias entre las interpretaciones, pero los significados son los mismos.<\/p>\n

\"Tomarse<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Lately, taking a break from a relationship has become a common practice for couples. This way, technically you haven\u2019t ended your relationship but you\u2019re not a couple anymore either. But, is it really possible to just \u201ctake a break\u201d? Let\u2019s hear what the experts have to say about the subject. Out of sight out of…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":98040,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-88874","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/Taking-A-Break-Equals-The-End-Of-A-Relationship.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/88874","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=88874"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/88874\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/98040"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=88874"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=88874"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=88874"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}