{"id":88884,"date":"2020-08-14T08:07:08","date_gmt":"2020-08-14T08:07:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=88884"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:41:15","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:41:15","slug":"establecer-una-relacion-con-alguien","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/establecer-una-relacion-con-alguien\/","title":{"rendered":"No puedes construir una relaci\u00f3n con alguien si t\u00fa haces todo el trabajo"},"content":{"rendered":"

I\u2019m sure you\u2019ve already heard someone tell you that toda relaci\u00f3n es una calle de doble sentido.<\/strong> Puedo asegurarle que es algo m\u00e1s que una frase vac\u00eda.<\/p>\n

Si quieres una relaci\u00f3n sana, no hay otro camino que compartirlo todo. Deb\u00e9is tener los mismos derechos, responsabilidades y deberes.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, lo m\u00e1s importante aqu\u00ed es que ambos tienen que invertir un igual cantidad de esfuerzo<\/a> si quieres que tu romance funcione<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t build anything if you\u2019re the only one trying and the only one pushing it forward.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, this is exactly what\u2019s going on in your relationship. You\u2019re doing all the hard work while your boyfriend lies back and expects to get everything served on a silver platter.<\/p>\n

At first glance, it seems that everything is working out just fine between you two. You have a seemingly average relationship without many unresolvable issues. But let\u2019s be real.<\/p>\n

Ask yourself whether all of this would be possible if you weren\u2019t the one taking on all the burdens? <\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00bfHabr\u00edais seguido juntos tanto tiempo si te hubieras esforzado tanto como \u00e9l?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

The painful truth is your boyfriend isn\u2019t ready to do anything for the sake of your relationship. He acts completely indifferent toward you and behaves like he doesn\u2019t give a damn about your future together.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re the one who initiates all contact, the one who makes all the compromises yourself and the one who makes all the adjustments.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re the one who tries hard to make the peace after every fight and the one who keeps your relationship from breaking apart.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, things shouldn\u2019t be like this. You two are a couple and should act as a team.<\/p>\n

Be honest and ask yourself why you\u2019re actually keeping this man by your side. Would he turn around if you let him go?<\/p>\n

Lo m\u00e1s importante: \u00bfHar\u00eda algo para retenerte si quisieras abandonarle? \u00bfSe dar\u00eda cuenta siquiera de que te has ido?<\/strong><\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t mind your presence but would he be in any way impacted by your absence?<\/strong> \u00bfO su vida seguir\u00eda igual con o sin ti?<\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 pasar\u00eda con tu relaci\u00f3n si te comportaras como tu novio? \u00bfQu\u00e9 pasar\u00eda si te rindieras? \u00bfCambiar\u00eda su comportamiento?<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

\u00bfEste hombre tiene miedo de perderte o te da por sentada?<\/p>\n

I\u2019ll give you the answers to all of these questions. He doesn\u2019t care for you enough and you\u2019re only convenient for him.<\/strong><\/p>\n

He likes the fact that you take care of him and of your relationship. He enjoys how you\u2019re carrying all the weight and as long as you\u2019re acting like this, he\u2019ll never change.<\/p>\n

The harsh truth is that you\u2019re in a relaci\u00f3n unilateral<\/a>lo quieras admitir o no.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You\u2019re the only one making sacrifices, the only one investing herself, the only one fighting, the only one trying to prevent things from going downhill and the only one doing the damage repair.<\/p>\n

Having all of this in mind, the brutal reality is that at the end of the day, you\u2019re the only one in this story who loves.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I know that this is a hard pill to swallow but deep down, you\u2019re also aware that you\u2019re not wanted here.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re aware that you\u2019re actually alone and that you don\u2019t have this man to stand by you when you need him.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

No est\u00e1 ah\u00ed para cogerte de la mano en los momentos dif\u00edciles, no est\u00e1 ah\u00ed para empujarte hacia adelante cuando necesitas \u00e1nimos y no est\u00e1 ah\u00ed para prestarte su atenci\u00f3n o apoyo.<\/p>\n

Basically, you\u2019re not fighting for your relationship. You\u2019re fighting against your boyfriend and that is in no way a recipe for success. <\/strong><\/p>\n

You\u2019re struggling against his indifference and falta de esfuerzo<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Well, what you seem to be forgetting is that someone\u2019s effort mirrors their interest in you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

The bottom line is that it\u2019s about time for you to see that you deserve and need more.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t deserve an immature boyfriend who acts like he doesn\u2019t know that healthy relationships require hard work and devotion.<\/p>\n

So please, stop wasting any more of your precious time. You\u2019re throwing away all of your energy on someone who will never give you anything in return.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You\u2019re giving your entire self for this man\u2019s half-hearted love. You\u2019re moving mountains for someone who isn\u2019t ready to lift a finger for your sake.<\/p>\n

\"No<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I\u2019m sure you\u2019ve already heard someone tell you that every relationship is a two-way street. Well, I can assure you that this is more than an empty phrase. If you want a healthy relationship, there is no other way but to share everything. You should have equal rights, responsibilities and duties. However, what is most…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-88884","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":false,"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/88884","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=88884"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/88884\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=88884"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=88884"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=88884"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}