{"id":88894,"date":"2020-09-08T07:28:49","date_gmt":"2020-09-08T07:28:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=88894"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:58:21","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:58:21","slug":"el-hombre-no-puede-decidir-entre-tu-y-otra-persona","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/el-hombre-no-puede-decidir-entre-tu-y-otra-persona\/","title":{"rendered":"Si un hombre no puede decidir entre usted y otra persona, deje que la elija a ella"},"content":{"rendered":"

Lamentablemente, en el mundo de las citas de hoy en d\u00eda, cuando empiezas a salir con alguien nuevo, no es raro que no sepas a qu\u00e9 atenerte.<\/p>\n

\u00bfOs est\u00e1is viendo? \u00bfTen\u00e9is una relaci\u00f3n? \u00bfSon exclusivos?<\/p>\n

\u00bfSe espera que sea fiel? \u00bfO tienes alg\u00fan tipo de relaci\u00f3n abierta?<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que suena bastante horrible, pero por desgracia, as\u00ed es como funcionan las cosas. En realidad, as\u00ed es como funcionan las cosas si est\u00e1s de acuerdo con estos t\u00e9rminos.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not a smart-ass who\u2019s come to tell you what you should do with your life. However, I will ask you to always keep your dignity.<\/p>\n

I am here to beg you never to allow yourself to be one of a man\u2019s choices. No, being his primera opci\u00f3n<\/a><\/span> isn\u2019t enough \u2013 you have to be his one and only choice.<\/strong><\/p>\n

No, I\u2019m not saying you two have to necessarily be in a committed, serious relationship right from the start. Nevertheless, him testing his chances with other girls besides you is not acceptable either.<\/p>\n

You know, guys often do this on purpose. He makes sure you know he\u2019s dating other women simultaneously, convinced that this makes him a big stud.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

He wants you to see that he\u2019s a catch and you have strong competition.<\/p>\n

Por consiguiente, debe lucha por su amor<\/a> y atenci\u00f3n, como si fuera una especie de trofeo o premio que hay que esforzarse por ganar.<\/p>\n

Por suerte para este tipo de hombres, muchas chicas participan en estos concursos. Se ven a s\u00ed mismos como perdedores si se rinden y dejan el objeto de su inter\u00e9s a alguna otra chica.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que se oponen. Ven a esta otra chica como su archienemiga y est\u00e1n dispuestas a hacer todo lo que est\u00e9 en su mano para derrotarla.<\/p>\n

Bueno, d\u00e9jame decirte una cosa. La \u00fanica forma de salir vencedor de esta situaci\u00f3n es abandonar el combate de inmediato.<\/strong><\/p>\n

No, giving up on him doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019ve lost. It means that you\u2019ve retreated gracefully.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t make you weak, scared he\u2019ll choose this other girl over you.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a sign that you\u2019re a mujer que sabe lo que vale<\/a>. A woman who isn\u2019t willing to fight for a man who\u2019s not sure about her and not mature enough to make up his mind.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

Letting your man pick another girl over you is a sign that you value your dignity over all else. It means that you haven\u2019t fallen into his trap and aren\u2019t prepared to feed his ego.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Besides, trust me when I tell you that you doing this will hurt him more than anything. He won\u2019t be able to stand that you\u2019re the one who gave up on him.<\/p>\n

Aunque \u00e9l piense que est\u00e1 en posici\u00f3n de elegir, t\u00fa tomaste la decisi\u00f3n por \u00e9l. Eres t\u00fa quien ha elegido en lugar de \u00e9l y quien ha optado por alejarse.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Take yourself out of the running in time and show him that you\u2019re above all possible competition. The role of his girlfriend is not the jackpot and it\u2019s about time he realizes that.<\/p>\n

Una cosa m\u00e1s: Please don\u2019t hate on this other girl<\/strong>. Don\u2019t look for her flaws or compete with her, even if the competition is going on inside of your head.<\/p>\n

She isn\u2019t here to take your man away from you. Even if you let him be hers, she actually did you a favor and saved you a lot of misery.<\/p>\n

After all, she is probably in the same situation as you are. Both of you are his victims \u2013 puppets in his hands.<\/p>\n

De hecho, \u00e9l es el \u00fanico culpable. Es \u00e9l quien intenta equilibraros y hacer malabarismos con vosotros dos.<\/strong><\/p>\n

He is the one hurting both of you and playing with your hearts and minds. And it\u2019s your job to not let him do that. At least, not on your watch!<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Si<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Sadly, in today\u2019s dating world, when you start dating someone new, it\u2019s not uncommon for you not to know where you stand. Are you two just seeing each other? Are you in a relationship? Are you exclusive? Is being faithful expected? Or are you in some kind of an open relationship? I know this sounds…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":98046,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-88894","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/If-A-Man-Cant-Decide-Between-You-And-Someone-Else-Let-Him-Pick-Her.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","parent":29643,"count":442,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29648,"category_count":442,"category_description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","cat_name":"dating tips","category_nicename":"dating-tips","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/88894","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=88894"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/88894\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":163624,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/88894\/revisions\/163624"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/98046"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=88894"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=88894"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=88894"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}