{"id":8902,"date":"2020-04-22T09:55:58","date_gmt":"2020-04-22T09:55:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=8902"},"modified":"2021-10-11T12:44:41","modified_gmt":"2021-10-11T12:44:41","slug":"inside-mind-girl-broken-narcissist","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/inside-mind-girl-broken-narcissist\/","title":{"rendered":"Dentro de la mente de la chica rota por un narcisista"},"content":{"rendered":"

El problema de las ca\u00eddas enamorada de un narcisista<\/a> is that you never know he\u2019s a narcissist until it\u2019s too late. Until you\u2019re already broken.<\/p>\n

Another problem with falling in love is the fact that you can\u2019t stop yourself from it. Once that avalanche is launched, you can only sit tight until it stops on its own.<\/p>\n

Even if the girl who got broken by a narcissist wanted to stop herself\u2014she couldn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

Como los narcisistas son tan buenos disfraz\u00e1ndose, ella no ten\u00eda ni idea de d\u00f3nde se estaba metiendo.<\/p>\n

If she did, even though she wasn\u2019t able to stop herself from falling for him, she could at least have stopped herself from giving him a chance.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

She would\u2019ve stopped herself from giving him a chance and welcoming him into her life.<\/p>\n

But, unfortunately, she had no idea she was getting herself into the game with a player she couldn\u2019t outplay.<\/p>\n

Ella fue la v\u00edctima de este juego que inconscientemente empez\u00f3 a jugar con un narcisista. Y ahora, mucho despu\u00e9s de que termin\u00f3, ella todav\u00eda vive las consecuencias de \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Inside her mind is a mess. It\u2019s worse than in the haunted house because she never knows which horrible memory will come to the surface to haunt her.<\/p>\n

Ve a su verdugo por todas partes.<\/strong> She isn\u2019t paranoid, but this is the part you can\u2019t wrap your mind around if you have never been hurt by a narcissist.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Mire donde mire, hay algo que le recuerda a \u00e9l. Cada vez que alguien nuevo se acerca a ella, busca rasgos de su verdugo en esa persona.<\/p>\n

Y huye. No tiene fuerzas para quedarse y demostrar que se equivoca. She’d rather guard her heart.<\/a><\/p>\n

Tiene miedo de confiar en nadie.<\/strong> She\u2019d rather not give anyone the benefit of the doubt. That\u2019s something that almost killed her last time.<\/p>\n

If she had been careful to whom she gave her trust before, she wouldn\u2019t feel the way she feels now.<\/p>\n

She just can\u2019t make herself trust anyone.<\/p>\n

Porque cada vez que alguien se acerca demasiado, cada vez que alguien se pone a un solo paso de su coraz\u00f3n, \u00e9ste empieza a latir muy deprisa, sus manos empiezan a temblar ante la idea de acoger a alguien nuevo en su vida y se echa atr\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Tiene miedo de volver a amar.<\/strong> Quiz\u00e1 ve\u00eda el amor como algo hipnotizador y quiz\u00e1 en otro tiempo amar y ser amada era su objetivo \u00faltimo en la vida.<\/p>\n

Pero ya no. Porque ahora, el amor es un sentimiento asociado al dolor en su mente.<\/p>\n

When she loved the last time, she didn\u2019t get love in return, she only got insults, constant bringing downs and plenty of emotional beatings.<\/p>\n

She forgot how real love feels. The man whom she loved should\u2019ve shown her what love feels like, but he chose to turn into a narcissist and break her instead.<\/p>\n

She thinks she isn\u2019t good enough.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

When you don\u2019t get the love you deserve, when you don\u2019t get the time or appreciation of the one person you need it from the most, this idea that you aren\u2019t good enough gets seeded in your head pretty deep.<\/p>\n

Not only this, but she was constantly told how she isn\u2019t good enough, how it\u2019s all her fault and how everything bad that happened to her – she asked for it.<\/p>\n

She had it coming. So she simply can\u2019t shake this feeling she isn\u2019t good enough.<\/p>\n

Se siente vac\u00eda.<\/strong> No sabe qu\u00e9 hacer a continuaci\u00f3n. No tiene ni idea de lo que siente.<\/p>\n

The only feeling familiar to her is fear. She is scared of feeling anything so she chose to feel nothing instead. It\u2019s much easier and even though it might be lonely, it\u2019s much safer.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Ans\u00eda la soledad.<\/strong> She doesn\u2019t want to explain herself to others. <\/a>She doesn\u2019t want to retell or recall of all the bad things that happened to her because no one can wrap their mind around it anyway.<\/p>\n

They blame her for staying and not leaving. They can\u2019t understand why she feels the way she feels for this long and how she can\u2019t just snap out of it. So she isolates herself.<\/p>\n

But even though loneliness is the only escape she has from people, it’s also very scary.<\/p>\n

Because when she stays alone all the things that happened to her come at her in waves. And she can\u2019t decide which of these two evils is the lesser evil.\"mujer<\/p>\n

Cree que ha perdido su antiguo yo.<\/strong> Renunci\u00f3 a intentar ser como sol\u00eda ser, ya sabes, antes de acoger a un narcisista en su mundo.<\/p>\n

She thinks she\u2019ll never smile again, she\u2019ll never be able to truly be happy and that this, what happened to her, will be something that will follow her till the rest of her life.<\/p>\n

But nothing of this needs to stay like this. She doesn\u2019t need to think badly of herself.<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t need to say goodbye to her life or the way she used to be. She needs someone who\u2019ll remind her how living the fullest feels.<\/p>\n

She isn\u2019t a lost cause. None of us broken by narcissist are.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

She needs someone who\u2019ll show her that she didn\u2019t lose herself.<\/strong><\/p>\n

She needs someone who\u2019ll show her that her tormentor didn\u2019t get the best of her. That even though she might be broken, she isn\u2019t bent.<\/p>\n

Necesita a alguien que le demuestre que a\u00fan tiene un coraz\u00f3n y un alma en su interior.<\/strong> Que puede sentir. Ese amor sigue en ella.<\/a> That she isn\u2019t a lost cause.<\/p>\n

She needs someone who\u2019ll be good to her, who\u2019ll show her that even though she had a dark past, she can still have a bright future.<\/p>\n

She needs someone who\u2019ll be everything that her narcissist wasn\u2019t.<\/strong> She needs someone who\u2019ll treat her as a priority. Someone who won\u2019t make her feel like the crazy one.\"pareja<\/p>\n

She needs someone who\u2019ll understand her. Someone who\u2019ll be there when she needs him. She needs someone who’ll care for her and love her for a change.<\/p>\n

She needs someone who\u2019ll erase her past<\/strong>. Even if this seems impossible, she needs someone who\u2019ll try.<\/p>\n

Someone who\u2019ll love her as if she was never broken, who\u2019ll look at her as if she has no flaws, who\u2019ll choose to love her despite all her imperfections and whose love and support will be so strong that it will make her defy her fear of letting anyone get close to her again.<\/p>\n

So, chose to love her the right way. Don\u2019t be another downfall for her. Put your actions where your mouth are.<\/p>\n

Cada chica merece ser amada de la manera correcta. Especialmente la rota por un narcisista.<\/p>\n

\"Dentro<\/p>\n

\"Dentro<\/p>\n

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