{"id":89317,"date":"2020-08-14T08:09:50","date_gmt":"2020-08-14T08:09:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=89317"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:40:01","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:40:01","slug":"tuve-suerte-de-que-salieras-de-mi-vida-a-tiempo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/tuve-suerte-de-que-salieras-de-mi-vida-a-tiempo\/","title":{"rendered":"No tuve suerte de tenerte, tuve suerte de que dejaras mi vida a tiempo"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfPor d\u00f3nde empiezo?<\/p>\n

A veces me siento tan tonto que Te dej\u00e9 entrar en mi vida<\/a> pero recuerdo que cre\u00eda que eras mejor persona.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Well, that wasn\u2019t the case.<\/p>\n

Todo lo que hac\u00edamos parec\u00eda una especie de competici\u00f3n en la que alguien ten\u00eda que demostrar algo. Nada era sencillo ni f\u00e1cil.<\/p>\n

Me intimidaste haci\u00e9ndome creer que era menos que nadie s\u00f3lo para darme despu\u00e9s una pobre excusa de amor.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Incluso esperabas que te estuviera agradecido cuando en realidad no me has dado nada. Lo \u00fanico que le has dado a alguien es una sensaci\u00f3n de falso dominio.<\/p>\n

I can\u2019t believe I ever fell for that. However, now I know better. Now I know exactly what I DON\u2019T want in life. Now I know what a man in my life should never ever do.<\/p>\n

He shouldn\u2019t ever talk down to me\u2014like you did.<\/strong> I\u2019m not a child, I\u2019m not stupid, I can fully comprehend and do things on my own.<\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want you to mansplain anything to me. There\u2019s a difference between respectful and gentle ways of explaining things and full-on disrespect.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m done with men who need to make me feel smaller so they can feel better about themselves. Go and feed your ego somewhere else.<\/p>\n

Another thing I won\u2019t let anyone do again is walk all over me.<\/strong> I won\u2019t be a doormat for a man\u2019s internalized frustration. I don\u2019t deserve that.<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t let him control my life or ruin my mood and forget about doing him favors and getting nothing in return! I\u2019m not here to satisfy his every whim.<\/p>\n

Una de las cosas m\u00e1s importantes que he aprendido es a escuchar mi intuici\u00f3n. Cuando sientas que algo no va bien, conf\u00eda en ti mismo.<\/strong> If he\u2019s acting sketchy, don\u2019t let him get away with it.<\/p>\n

Be very clear and ask for explanations, don\u2019t sweep anything under the rug.<\/p>\n

Ignor\u00e9 tantas cosas por amor a ti que al final me arruin\u00f3 y, al mismo tiempo, t\u00fa no te arrepientes de nada.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Not only that but you blamed me for the things I never did. Later, I figured that out of fear, I was doing the same thing you did to me. Crazy, isn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n

\"imagen<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s de todo eso, tu autocompasi\u00f3n era insoportable. Tu auto-obsesi\u00f3n se hizo tan obvia que era dif\u00edcil de ignorar.<\/p>\n

Todo lo que hiciste fue hacerme sentir mal por lo que sea que haya hecho, lo cual es un ejemplo cl\u00e1sico de manipulaci\u00f3n emocional.<\/p>\n

Todo giraba siempre en torno a c\u00f3mo te sent\u00edas.<\/p>\n

En realidad estaba intentando ayudarte, pero todo el tiempo me estabas utilizando.<\/p>\n

Al final, me di cuenta you\u2019ll never change<\/a>. Nunca quisiste cambiar.<\/strong><\/p>\n

That\u2019s how I learned that you can\u2019t change other people. Without their effort, nothing can be done.<\/p>\n

Other than that, I realized that by being with you, I disrespected myself. I didn\u2019t know my own worth and I agreed to play by your rules and ended up hurting myself but that\u2019s over with now.<\/p>\n

Recuerdo c\u00f3mo me dec\u00edas que ten\u00eda suerte de tenerte porque siempre eras, de alguna manera, mejor que yo. \u00bfAdivina qu\u00e9?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Now I know I\u2019m lucky you\u2019re gone. I\u2019m THANKFUL you\u2019re gone.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Lo mejor es que ahora, despu\u00e9s de tanto tiempo, me tengo a m\u00ed misma y me echaba mucho de menos.<\/p>\n

I will never let another man ruin my life like you did. There\u2019s no place for repeated mistakes. Instead, I promise myself I will stay true to myself, which means playing by nobody\u2019s rules.<\/p>\n

The next person who comes into my life will be someone who\u2019s worthy of my attention, time and love. Someone who will see me for who I am.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You taught me a valuable lesson. It had its price but now I understand why all of this had to happen. I needed to learn to love myself and that\u2019s what I did.<\/p>\n

After all, I forgive you but this time, I\u2019m not doing it for you but for myself.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Al perdonarte, me permito seguir adelante con mi vida.<\/p>\n

\"No<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Where do I start? Sometimes I feel so dumb that I let you into my life but then again, I remember I just believed you were a better person. Well, that wasn\u2019t the case. Everything we did always felt like some kind of competition where someone needed to prove something. Nothing was ever simple or…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-89317","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":false,"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/89317","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=89317"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/89317\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=89317"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=89317"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=89317"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}