{"id":89377,"date":"2020-08-14T07:16:44","date_gmt":"2020-08-14T07:16:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=89377"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:15:30","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:15:30","slug":"aprender-a-exponerse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/aprender-a-exponerse\/","title":{"rendered":"Aprenda a exponerse haciendo estas 10 cosas"},"content":{"rendered":"

So, you’ve either been in the dating game for a while or are just discovering it and you’ve started to realize things aren’t happening the way you expected them to.<\/span><\/p>\n

En un momento dado, te diste cuenta de que deb\u00edas aprender a <\/span>ponte en marcha<\/span><\/a>. Maybe you’ve been waiting for love to just come your way or maybe you’ve noticed that people don’t really pay much attention to you.<\/span><\/p>\n

The thing is, being an ‘out there’ kind of person and someone who gets noticed isn’t always something you’re born with but with a little bit of work, it\u2019s something anyone can be.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you’re sitting there thinking, “Well, how to put myself out there?!” continue reading this article because we’ll teach you 5 <\/i><\/b>pasos clave<\/i><\/b> to take while working on your inner self after we\u2019ve taught you 10 things you absolutely must try to do involving other people. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

C\u00f3mo exponerse con \u00e9xito<\/b><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Mu\u00e9strate abierto a que tus amigos te tiendan una trampa<\/h2>\n

\"tres<\/p>\n

Some people hate the idea of their friends setting them up but many couples who are now married will tell you that’s exactly how they met.<\/span><\/p>\n

It can be slightly awkward but it doesn’t have to be obvious. It’s not like they have to arrange a <\/span>cita a ciegas<\/span> para vosotros dos; todo el proceso puede ser m\u00e1s espont\u00e1neo y relajado.<\/span><\/p>\n

Hable con algunos de sus <\/span>amigos \u00edntimos<\/span>, ask them if there’s someone they could recommend for you and I’m sure they will be thrilled to do that for you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Es posible que la persona que conozca no sea la <\/span>persona adecuada<\/span> for you but it will be a fun experience that takes you in the direction of being more open and admitting that looking for a partner isn’t something shameful.<\/span><\/p>\n

Acudir a distintos tipos de lugares y eventos<\/h2>\n

\"tres<\/p>\n

Si preguntas a tus amigos o <\/span>familiares<\/span> para <\/span>consejos sobre citas<\/span>, the first thing they’d tell you would probably be to get out more. Even though it may seem too simple, it can really help.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you’re constantly going out to the same places, chances are you’ve seen all the people who go there and maybe even met most of them.<\/span><\/p>\n

It doesn’t have to be anything wild, you can just change the <\/span>cafeter\u00eda<\/span> you go to or when there’s something happening such as a party, push yourself to go there even though you might feel reluctant at first.<\/span><\/p>\n

Buscar nuevas aficiones y actividades<\/h2>\n

\"grupo<\/p>\n

Stop <\/span>deslizando<\/span> a trav\u00e9s de <\/span>redes sociales<\/span> fijarse en las cosas apasionantes que hacen los dem\u00e1s y atreverse a intentar hacer cosas nuevas uno mismo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Esto no s\u00f3lo te ayudar\u00e1 a explorar m\u00e1s a fondo tu personalidad, sino tambi\u00e9n a conocer gente nueva. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you’re doing the same things over and over again, there’s less chance that you’ll meet someone new.<\/span><\/p>\n

La emoci\u00f3n de hacer algo nuevo har\u00e1 aflorar algo en ti, un nuevo tipo de chispa que, con suerte, ser\u00e1 tu <\/span>primer paso<\/span> a ponerte realmente ah\u00ed fuera.<\/span><\/p>\n

Centrarse en <\/span>la vida real<\/span>. <\/span>Irl<\/span>En la actualidad, las personas se dedican a distintos tipos de actividades para ampliar su c\u00edrculo de amistades y motivarse para crecer.<\/span><\/p>\n

Intenta salir por tu cuenta<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Like most of us, you’re probably used to going out with a friend. You rarely or never go out to do something on your own but this is something that’s worth exploring.<\/span><\/p>\n

It will feel weird at first because you’re used to having someone by your side when you’re out and about but you’ll get used to the feeling.<\/span><\/p>\n

You’ll be surprised how beneficial this can be but also how comfortable it can feel. If you want to truly work on being ‘more out there’, this is <\/span>el camino correcto<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Even though you’ll be extremely self-conscious at first, it will grow on you and teach you how to accept who you are and be proud of your own personality.<\/span><\/p>\n

Elogiar a otras personas<\/h2>\n

\"dos<\/p>\n

There’s something charismatic about people who always have <\/span>un bonito cumplido <\/span><\/a>for a fellow human being, although I’m not saying you should give fake compliments to people about things you don’t actually like.<\/span><\/p>\n

Open up more to sharing your thoughts when you have something nice to say about someone, don’t keep it in. It doesn’t have to be flirty, nor does it have to be said to someone who’s your romantic interest. <\/span><\/p>\n

Aprende a piropear a m\u00e1s gente de vez en cuando. Puedes empezar con un <\/span>compa\u00f1ero de trabajo<\/span> o un vendedor que trabaja en un lugar donde usted compra.<\/span><\/p>\n

D\u00edgales algo agradable sobre su ropa o su pelo, sobre su comportamiento profesional o personal.<\/span><\/p>\n

Esto no s\u00f3lo te har\u00e1 sentir mejor al ver su reacci\u00f3n, sino que tambi\u00e9n les inspirar\u00e1 a hablar de ti, lo que te ayudar\u00e1 a reforzar tu autoestima.<\/span><\/p>\n

Abrirse a hacer nuevos amigos<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

A <\/span>mucha gente<\/span> think that they are open to meeting new people even though they actually haven’t really, truly met anyone new in years.<\/span><\/p>\n

Just because you found out a person’s name and had a little chit-chat with them, that doesn’t mean you’re open to making <\/span>nuevos amigos<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Cuando conozcas a alguien nuevo, alguien con quien intuyes que te gustar\u00eda o conectar\u00edas, inv\u00edtale a <\/span>reunirse<\/span> para tomar un caf\u00e9 o cualquier otra cosa que creas que os puede gustar a los dos.<\/span><\/p>\n

Make a conscious effort to invite someone new into your life. Be open about who you are though, don’t change yourself just so you can make friends with someone.<\/span><\/p>\n

You can always try and see what happens and if a relationship blossoms, that’s amazing. The thing is that even if it doesn’t, you still have the benefit of a new experience.<\/span><\/p>\n

I’m sure that your friends are amazing and you feel like they’re enough but constantly spending time with the same people keeps you in your own little world and stops you from learning how to put yourself out there.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00danete a una aplicaci\u00f3n de citas<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Hay muchos <\/span>sitios de citas en l\u00ednea<\/span> que puedes elegir. Explora tus opciones, elige una (o m\u00e1s) y pru\u00e9bala.<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que <\/span>citas en l\u00ednea<\/span> can be weird and it can feel like it’s all about <\/span>autopromoci\u00f3n<\/span> pero conocer a alguien as\u00ed puede ser muy interesante.<\/span><\/p>\n

I’m not saying that you’re going to meet the one (maybe you will though, you never know) but you’ll definitely learn to talk about yourself, which will help you in becoming more extroverted and open to new people.<\/span><\/p>\n

If the words, \u201cHow do I put myself out there?\u201d have ever crossed your mind but you don’t feel like going overboard, investigating the world of <\/span>aplicaciones de citas<\/span><\/a> puede ser una experiencia incre\u00edble para ti.<\/span><\/p>\n

Prueba las citas r\u00e1pidas<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

This is one of the things that most probably won’t help you meet your soulmate but it will most definitely help you get out there.<\/span><\/p>\n

You’re there to meet someone and everybody knows that because they are there for the very same reason, which is liberating.<\/span><\/p>\n

You don’t have to wonder if the person you’re talking to is up for meeting someone new, as you know they are. <\/span><\/p>\n

You also don’t have to worry too much about potentially embarrassing yourself because hey, after meeting so many people, no one will even remember you saying something stupid (they probably won’t even notice).<\/span><\/p>\n

If you’re shy, even though it may seem counterintuitive, speed dating could be an amazing choice for you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Coquetear abiertamente con alguien<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Find someone you like, it can be someone you’ve known from before or someone completely new, and flirt with them in an obvious way. Make it playful and fun and throw in a couple of <\/span>bromas coquetas<\/span><\/a> y esperar su reacci\u00f3n.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you’re not used to doing something like this and you probably aren’t if you’re wondering how to put yourself out there, you’ll probably start laughing or even run away but THAT’S OKAY.<\/span><\/p>\n

It’s absolutely unimportant that your flirting is successful. What matters is how you handle the situation. Don’t be scared, just relax and get it over with.<\/span><\/p>\n

Digo que lo hagas de una vez porque si es la primera vez que flirteas deliberada y abiertamente con alguien, ser\u00e1 estresante.<\/span><\/p>\n

Si te gusta, puedes practicar haci\u00e9ndolo con gente al azar hasta que encuentres a alguien con quien realmente quieras probarlo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Aseg\u00farate de parecer accesible<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

When you’re trying to put yourself out there, it’s important to look approachable and friendly. How to do this? Well, there are a few things you can try.<\/span><\/p>\n

– Laugh more. <\/span><\/p>\n

– Lean toward people you’re speaking to. <\/span><\/p>\n

– When someone talks to you, show them you’re happy to listen to what they have to say.<\/span><\/p>\n

– Keep your eyes wide open and smile. <\/span><\/p>\n

– Keep eye contact. <\/span><\/p>\n

– Learn how to have open body language.<\/span><\/p>\n

– Keep your head up even when you feel shy.<\/span><\/p>\n

One additional tip that’s very important would be to check your phone less and even keep it out of sight.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you feel like you’re ready to explore this further and change your exterior world, the above are some things you can do to put yourself out there and get in the game.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

You don’t have to do all of them, just pick something that suits you best and try it out.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

On the other hand, if you feel like you need to work on yourself first before you\u2019re ready to jump in the game, check out the following ways to do that.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

5 formas estimulantes de trabajar en ti mismo:<\/b><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Salga de su zona de confort<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Ser incapaz de salir ah\u00ed fuera suele tener mucho que ver con estar atrapado en un cierto tipo de rutina, ya sea interna, externa o ambas.<\/span><\/p>\n

El cambio tiene que empezar dentro de ti. Da un paso fuera de tu <\/span>zona de confort<\/span>Haz algo que te asuste o te haga sentir un poco ansioso o inc\u00f3modo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Quiz\u00e1 se sienta intimidado por <\/span>hablar en p\u00fablico<\/span> so try that. Maybe you’re afraid to talk to someone first, so try that.<\/span><\/p>\n

Whatever it is, try doing it. Start small. Don’t push yourself too far so you don’t end up feeling even more scared than you were at the beginning of this process.<\/span><\/p>\n

Si quiere poner fin a su <\/span>miedo a exponerse<\/span>Intenta acabar primero con tus otros miedos m\u00e1s peque\u00f1os. El \u00e9xito te dar\u00e1 la confianza necesaria para afrontar los problemas mayores.<\/span><\/p>\n

Di lo que piensas y defiende lo que crees<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

If you’re an <\/span>introvertido<\/span>, it doesn’t mean you should also become a pushover. Work on becoming the kind of person who’s never afraid to speak their mind.<\/span><\/p>\n

T\u00fa eres importante. Tus pensamientos, actitudes y opiniones importan. <\/span><\/p>\n

Maybe you’ve had some humiliating or embarrassing experiences that made you feel like it’s better if you don’t say a word and just do what everybody else does.<\/span><\/p>\n

Trabaja para dejar tus traumas en el pasado y empezar una nueva vida con un yo nuevo y mejorado.<\/span><\/p>\n

Cada persona tiene un cierto nivel de <\/span>duda de s\u00ed mismo<\/span>. Lo que marca la verdadera diferencia en la forma de llevar tu vida es c\u00f3mo decides afrontarla. Mereces ser consciente de que importas.<\/span><\/p>\n

Whatever it takes, work on your confidence. A person who’s able to state their opinion even when others disagree says they have a strong character and admirable integrity. Trust me, you want to be that person.<\/span><\/p>\n

Acepta tu vulnerabilidad y tus debilidades<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

We’ve talked about strength and power but we still haven’t said a word about vulnerability and things that can be considered our weaknesses and that’s extremely important, both in life but also in the <\/span>proceso de dataci\u00f3n<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

No one is unbreakable. Even Achilles had his heel. It’s crucial that you learn to accept and live with your weaknesses but also your vulnerability.<\/span><\/p>\n

No one expects you to do everything perfectly. You can make mistakes, that’s allowed. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you feel like you could be hurt if you decide to put yourself out there, well, you’re very right, you could. <\/span><\/p>\n

Maybe you weren’t born as the kind of person who’s a good judge of character and are now afraid that the people you choose to open up to would hurt you.<\/span><\/p>\n

That’s a valid concern but no one in this world could stop that from happening. <\/span><\/p>\n

The only thing you can do is accept that you’re vulnerable, remain aware that things can go wrong but also that what happens doesn’t determine your worth.<\/span><\/p>\n

Fijar objetivos<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

I don’t mean just for relationships but goals for life in general. Think about your dreams. What is it that you want to do in life? What are your dreams? Do you have plans to achieve them?<\/span><\/p>\n

Living in the moment is beautiful but what’s really amazing is being able to appreciate everyday little things while you’re on the path to becoming exactly who you want to be.<\/span><\/p>\n

Fijar objetivos te ayuda a reforzar tu autoestima y aprender a exponerte es mucho m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil si te sientes seguro de ti mismo y de tu vida.<\/span><\/p>\n

Qui\u00e9rete como una persona soltera<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Don’t go thinking that the relationship you’re aiming for will necessarily change your life or your attitudes about yourself completely. Not only that it won’t but it also shouldn’t. <\/span><\/p>\n

You are who you are. The person you choose to be your partner will be a beautiful addition to your life but you need to learn to love yourself when you’re single too.<\/span><\/p>\n

Piensa en las cosas de ti que son incre\u00edbles. El\u00f3giate. <\/span>Qui\u00e9rete incondicionalmente.<\/span><\/a> Aprende a aceptar tus defectos e intenta conocerte mejor.<\/span><\/p>\n

Do fun things and explore your inner temperament and personality. You could be surprised by how many things you still haven\u2019t yet discovered about yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n

Learn to love who you are on your own; that’s the person you’re bringing into the relationship and that’s the person you’ll still be, even once you find your soulmate.<\/span><\/p>\n

Always remember that the fear of failure can stop you from living your best life. I know you’re afraid but you have to tell yourself that your desire is bigger than your fear.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Da un paso valiente, todo lo dem\u00e1s vendr\u00e1 solo.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

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So, you’ve either been in the dating game for a while or are just discovering it and you’ve started to realize things aren’t happening the way you expected them to. At one point, you realized you should learn how to put yourself out there. Maybe you’ve been waiting for love to just come your way…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":89436,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-89377","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Learn-How-To-Put-Yourself-Out-There-By-Doing-These-10-Things.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/89377","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=89377"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/89377\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/89436"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=89377"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=89377"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=89377"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}