{"id":8943,"date":"2017-11-23T09:17:28","date_gmt":"2017-11-23T09:17:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=8943"},"modified":"2021-08-31T08:38:37","modified_gmt":"2021-08-31T08:38:37","slug":"mujer-lee-mensaje-enviado-marido","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/mujer-lee-mensaje-enviado-marido\/","title":{"rendered":"A la mujer que ley\u00f3 el mensaje que envi\u00e9 a su marido"},"content":{"rendered":"

I\u2019m sorry that you had to see that.<\/strong> I\u2019m sorry that you had to find out undeniably the kind of man that you are married to. I\u2019m sorry that you are now questioning your entire relationship and what, if any, role I played in it. I wish I could be more helpful to you. I wish there was a way for me to tell you the things you want to hear, but I don\u2019t think I can. I can tell you for certain that I did not have an affair with your husband.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00c9rase una vez, en una tierra lejana, s\u00ed, estaba enamorada de \u00e9l.<\/strong> Le conoc\u00ed cuando estaba en segundo de bachillerato y era como un sue\u00f1o andante. He was handsome, charming and the captain of both the football AND the basketball teams\u2014everyone was in love with him.<\/strong> When you came along, it broke my poor little teenage heart. But I actually liked you, at first, and I totally got what he saw in you. You were strong, fearless and you didn\u2019t take any shit from anyone\u2026 least of all him. Plus, you managed to get something from him that I couldn\u2019t, so more power to you. I found my own someone and we all settled into our lives.<\/p>\n

La relaci\u00f3n que ten\u00eda con su marido durante ese tiempo se complic\u00f3 mucho ya que intentamos mantener nuestra amistad<\/a>. Ultimately, as the years went by\u2014yada, yada, yada\u2014he was really fucking shitty to me and I moved on.<\/strong> Bien encendido. Se cas\u00f3 contigo y llegu\u00e9 a un punto en que \u00e9l no era m\u00e1s que el recuerdo lejano de un tipo que me hizo mal hace mucho tiempo.<\/p>\n

\"A<\/p>\n

Avanc\u00e9 tanto, de hecho, que cuando se puso en contacto conmigo de sopet\u00f3n casi una d\u00e9cada despu\u00e9s para disculparse por la terrible forma en que me hab\u00eda tratado, yo estaba abierta y dispuesta a aceptarlo. Estaba preparada para escuchar c\u00f3mo hab\u00eda sido su vida, c\u00f3mo eran sus hijos y c\u00f3mo les iba a todos diez a\u00f1os despu\u00e9s.<\/p>\n

Estaba dispuesta a alegrarme por los dos de que las cosas salieran bien, y luego volver a vivir mi vida sin \u00e9l.<\/strong> But that\u2019s not what I heard. Instead, he told me some bullshit story that had me going through post-traumatic stress and bringing up all kinds of feelings that had been buried for a long time. It took three full days of ugly crying and two sick days spent in my bed reliving the nightmare that was the last time that I saw him hasta que por fin pude recomponerme<\/a> suficiente para llegar a una conclusi\u00f3n racional, la misma conclusi\u00f3n a la que llegu\u00e9 entonces.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to be with a person who is capable of doing to me what he\u2019s done to you. And furthermore, I don\u2019t want to be with a person who is capable of doing to me what he has done to me.<\/strong> Sure, I can forgive\u2014it was, after all, a long time ago, another lifetime almost. But I don\u2019t even want to be friends with a man capable of the kinds of things he is capable of. No amount of \u2018I\u2019m sorry\u2019s\u2019 can change that.<\/p>\n

Your husband hurt me in ways that I\u2019m sure, at this point, you can begin to imagine.<\/strong> I know you have questions, all kinds of questions. I\u2019m sure I would, too, in your position, but I can\u2019t help you. I can\u2019t drag myself back to that place and let someone I\u2019ve already moved on from hurt me again. So, you will have to ask him your questions. As I\u2019m sure you could tell from the tone and the content of the message you saw, I\u2019m done with that part of my life. What happens within your marriage is for you two to figure out and I wish you all the best in doing so. Please don\u2019t contact me again.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Atentamente,
\nLa mujer que no tuvo una aventura con su marido<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

by\u00a0Tia Grace<\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I\u2019m sorry that you had to see that. I\u2019m sorry that you had to find out undeniably the kind of man that you are married to. I\u2019m sorry that you are now questioning your entire relationship and what, if any, role I played in it. I wish I could be more helpful to you. I…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":8946,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29626],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8943","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-affair"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29626,"label":"affair"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/anatol-lem-186853.jpg",800,532,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29626,"name":"affair","slug":"affair","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29626,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","parent":29620,"count":132,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29626,"category_count":132,"category_description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","cat_name":"affair","category_nicename":"affair","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8943","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8943"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8943\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/8946"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8943"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8943"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8943"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}